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Lingaliro Lakuyenda Payekha Kuti Akazi Adziwe Ufulu

Mabanja Atsopano | June 5, 2017 | Sinjini Sengupta , Kufotokozera Nkhani Zamalonda & Wolemba
Kusinthidwa pa: October 6, 2023

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Pomaliza ndinali kukonzekera tchuthi ndekhandekha. Inde, mwamva bwino. tchuthi chayekha! Sikuti ndinkafunika kupuma pantchito kapena kuti mwamuna wanga ankanyansidwa nazo. Chifukwa changa chokha chothawirako chinali chifukwa chakuti ndine ngwazi yaikulu ya lingaliro la kuyenda ndekha kwa amayi ndipo ndikufunikira kwambiri kuti ndiyambe ndekha.

Posachedwapa, mkokomo wokhudza kuyenda paokha kwa azimayi wakhala ukufalikira m'magulu aakazi. Azimayi amene anapita, kupita kapena kukonzekera wina amatcha nkhani ya kudzikonda, mosiyana ndi, iwo amati, maunyolo a ntchito kwa banja ndi ana. Iwo amati, umaimira ufulu wodzilamulira. Amamvera chisoni anthu amene sangaganize zokwera pandege okha. Amanyoza anthu amene saganiza mofanana.

Kuti mumve zambiri zamakanema akatswiri chonde lembani ku athu Youtube Channel.

Chabwino, andipeza!

Pomaliza Ndine Mkazi Woyenda Solo

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Ndinanyamula chikwama changa ndikuwafotokozera athandizi apakhomo, nanny ndi alonda za zomwe ziyenera kusamaliridwa ine kulibe. Ndinaitanitsa zodzoladzola zanga zatsopano zanga chizolowezi chosamalira khungu ndi matawulo atsopano akunyanja.

Inde, mwaganiza! Ndinkapita kunyanja! Ndinaitanitsanso mabuku a ana atsopano, zoseŵeretsa ndi zounikira usiku, kuti mwana wanga wamkazi asandisowe kwambiri. Ngakhale ndinkadziwa kuti zinthu zimenezo sizingathandize ngakhale pang’ono.

Kwa mwamuna wanga, ndimasunga mabuku omwe ndimaganiza kuti angakonde kuwerenga nditachoka. Mafilimu amene ankatha kuonera yekha komanso mafilimu amene iye ndi mwana wathu wamkazi ankatha kuonera limodzi.

Ndiyeno, tsiku linafika pamene monga mkazi wokhwima payekha, inali nthawi yoti ndipite.

Tsiku linafika

Cab idafika ndikuyima pakhomo panga. Ndinali kung'ung'uza kale - mmwamba, mmwamba ndi kutali! Mwana wanga wamkazi anali kugona panthawiyo. Mwamuna wanga anali pakhomo, akundikumbatira motsazikana. “Ndigwire ngati sungandilole kupita!” ndinanong’ona motero.

“Errr, nditi…ine…?” ndikufunsa.

“Inde?” Akufunsa.

“Nena…umm, kodi zolipiritsa zolepheretsera zingakhale zotani, ngati…” ndinafufuma. Sindinadziwe zomwe ndikunena.

"Aa." Anamwetulira.

"Ndikungodabwa, mukudziwa!"

Zilibe kanthu! Anali kuseka tsopano. Ndikukokera sutikesi yanga mchipinda cham'chipinda cholowera m'chipinda cha elevator.

"Dikirani!"

"Chabwino."

mkazi woyenda yekha — Ndinasiya kutsimikiza kuti ndikufuna kupita

"Sindingathebe kupanga malingaliro anga, ukudziwa!"

"Ndikudziwa!"

Dalaivala wa cab adayimbanso. Ndinanyamula, pafupifupi ngati akundithamangitsa. “Pepani, Steve, ndiyenera kusiya,” ndikumuuza.

Munthu amene adabwerera m'chipinda chogona kuchokera kumalo olandirira alendo, ndinazindikira kuti sanali munthu yemweyo yemwe amachoka mphindi zingapo zapitazo. Ayi, kwenikweni, sanali woyenera kukhala nawo pagulu la azimayi oyenda okha koma modabwitsa, anali bwino ndi izi. Munthu amene amalowa pano ndi wamkulu komanso wanzeru. Wodekha. Kudziwa zambiri za iye. Zambiri zomwe mukudziwa kale!

Kuyenda payekha kwa akazi sizinthu zonse

Ndipo izi ndi zomwe akudabwa… Kodi timaganizadi kuti kuthawa kuchoka kudziko lathu latsiku ndi tsiku kumatipulumutsa? Kuyenda m’mapiri n’kosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo sifunika kukangana kapena kudziteteza kuti tidzilungamitse. Koma tsopano pambuyo pa chochitika chaching'ono chodziwonetsera ndekha, ndikudzidziwa ndekha bwinoko kuposa kale.

Kotero tsopano, pamene ine ndikuchiwona icho ngati chisonyezero cha kuyenera kwathu ndi mbendera kukweza chikondwerero chaumwini, ndikuwona mmenemo kukana. Ngati sindikanakonda kukhala mayi, kodi masiku 7 otalikirana ndi atsikana kumapiri akuyenda, kukhala yankho ku funso lililonse lomwe ndingakhale ndikuyesera kuliyankha?

Kodi masiku angapo akuyang'ana kutuluka kokongola kwa dzuwa, kusokoneza ululu wosowa mwana wanga, ndikulingalira manja ake otambasulidwa akundifunafuna pabedi lopanda kanthu pabedi lake? Kodi kuyenda pandekha sikungandipangitse kukhala wosasinthika, wocheperako, wocheperako? Kodi kufuna kwanga kugawana chisangalalo cha dzuŵa loloŵa m’mphepete mwa mafunde a nyanja ndi banja langa kudzandipangitsa kukhala wopanda mkazi wamphamvu? Kodi maunyolo, zotsekera ndi ntchito ndizosavuta kutanthauzira? Kodi chikondi ndichosavuta kuchikana, mosasamala kanthu kuti mumakonda bwanji komanso momwe mumakhalira moyo wanu?

sindikuweruza. Chonde osandilakwitsa. Chiweruzo ndiye vuto lalikulu lomwe ndingakuchitireni. Koma ndikukupemphani kuti muyime ndi kusinkhasinkha kwa kamphindi. Kuyenda kwa solo kwa akazi ndikwabwino, koma musasinthe kukhala mtundu wina wazomwe mukufuna.

Kodi mukuganiza kuti ufulu wanu wagona pakuthaŵa chizoloŵezi, kutali ndi anthu ena? Mwina ndi nthawi yoti muyang'ane mozama ndi mozama. Ulendo wapanyanja kapena tsiku lokhala ndi spa, kujambula kapena kucheza khofi, ulendo wokagula ... aliyense ali ndi malo akeake m'moyo, wosiyana kwambiri ndi mapulojekiti obadwanso mwatsopano, ndipo ngati simuwapeza, akupezani.

Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, tchuthi chosangalatsa!

Koma ine kulibwino ndikhale kunyumba! Kuyenda pandekha kwa akazi sikungakhale kwa ine.

Ibibazo

1. Kodi kuyenda nokha ndi kudzikonda?

Osati kwenikweni, ayi. Kuyenda nokha kungakhale chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri. Kuwona misewu yatsopano, kuyesa zakudya zatsopano, kukhala mkazi wopanda pake ndipo kudziyika nokha kunja kungakhale kovuta kuti muchite nokha. Komabe pali chikhalidwe chomwe chikubwera chakuyenda payekha kwa amayi kuti awathandize kuti azilumikizana nawo.

2. Kodi maulendo aumwini ndi abwino?

Inde, angakhaledi. Mwamuna kapena mkazi akuyenda yekhayekha amatha kuphunzira zambiri za malo atsopano komanso iwowo pakuchita izi. Ngati muli ndi nthawi komanso kulimba mtima, muyenera kuyesa.

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About The Author

Sinjini Sengupta

Wophunzira ku Indian Statistical Institute yodziwika bwino, ndi katswiri wodziwa ntchito komanso mwachidwi, wolemba, wolemba nkhani, wolemba pazithunzi, ndakatulo, komanso wojambula mu utoto wa acrylic ndi makala. Sinjini posachedwa adawonetsedwa ndi ICICI Bank mu Fund Your Own Worth Initiative monga m'modzi mwa azimayi olimbikitsa kwambiri ku India. Monga wolemba ndakatulo, adapambana mpikisano wa Ndakatulo wa Chingerezi â€“ Rhyme India â€“ womwe unachitikira ndi Times of India mu 2016 ndipo ndakatulo zake zisanu zidatengedwa kuti zisindikizidwe mu ndakatulo ya Feminist Poetry â€œShe The Shaktiâ€ . Monga wolemba ndakatulo, adapambana mpikisano wa Ndakatulo wa Chingerezi â€“ Rhyme India â€“ womwe unachitikira ndi Times of India mu 2016 ndipo ndakatulo zake zisanu zidatengedwa kuti zisindikizidwe mu ndakatulo ya Feminist Poetry â€œShe The Shaktiâ€ . M'zopeka, adapambana mphotho ya South Asia FON mu 2017 kuti ifalitsidwe mu anthology. Imodzi mwa nkhani zake posachedwapa yomwe yapangidwa kukhala filimu yayifupi idasankhidwa pa 69th Cannes Film Festival, 22nd Kolkata International Film Festival pakati pa ena ambiri, ndipo adapambana mphoto yamafilimu abwino kwambiri ku Caleidoscope (Boston), Best Director ku Kolkata International festival. M'zopeka, adapambana mphotho ya South Asia FON mu 2017 kuti ifalitsidwe ngati anthology. Imodzi mwa nkhani zake posachedwapa yomwe yapangidwa kukhala filimu yayifupi idasankhidwa pa 69th Cannes Film Festival, 22nd Kolkata International Film Festival pakati pa ena ambiri, ndipo adapambana mphoto yamafilimu abwino kwambiri ku Caleidoscope (Boston), Best Director ku Kolkata International festival. Monga wolemba zisudzo, Sinjini analandira mphoto ya Screenplay yabwino kwambiri pa International Film Festival yokonzedwa ndi a Pickurfilms, kuchokera pakati pa mafilimu 550 ochokera padziko lonse lapansi. Adalandira mphotho ya â€œIconic Womanâ€ pa Women Economic Forum mu 2017. Monga wolemba nkhani, adalembedwa m'gulu la olemba mabulogu Opambana Achikazi Khumi ku India. Sinjini anapatsidwanso mphoto yolemekezeka ya Orange Flowers Awards 2016 chifukwa cha magulu ake ochezera. Sinjini amalemba (ndipo amalankhula) makamaka pankhani za jenda, kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso kulera ana mu Huffington Post, Talk Tree, Youth Ki Awaaz, Anandabazaar Patrika, Readomania, Our Front Cover, Baby Destination, World of Moms, Feministaa ndi magazini ambiri otchuka. Monga wokamba nkhani pagulu, Sinjini adayimira Dist 41 (India, Bangladesh, Nepal ndi Bhutan) mu mpikisano wa Quarterfinals of the World Public Speaking mu May 2017. Adakamba nkhani yake yoyamba ya TEDx mu Novembala 2017 momwe adafotokozera zakukhudzika ndi kachitidwe ka mphotho kwa Gender Neutral Parenting, ndi momwe kudzera mukusintha pang'ono pamachitidwe ndi malingaliro titha kuyesetsa kukhala ndi dziko labwino. Novel yoyamba ya Sinjini ELIXIR idasindikizidwa posachedwa. Sinjini adasainidwa nthawi yomweyo atawonetsetsa Elixir filimuyo, ndipo anali wokondwa kusaina kontrakiti yake yoyamba yamabuku asanayambe kulemba zolemba zake. Â ElixirÂ is a story of every woman which Sinjini portrays through the set up of dual lives of reality and dreams, and how someone transcends through her vulnerabilities into a regular vulnerabilities into a self and achievement. Novembala.