Malingaliro Amene Munali nawo Pa Tsiku Lanu Lofunika Kwambiri la Valentine

Mukukumbukira Tsiku lanu loyamba la Valentine? Kodi munayenda movutikira mozungulira masiku onse a duwa ndi masiku a teddy, osadziwa ngati mukufunikira kusangalatsa kapena ayi? Ngakhale mungakhale ndi kaimidwe kolimba pa zomwe mudzachita pafupi ndi Tsiku la Valentine pofika pano, ochepa anu oyambirira mwina sangakhale osalala.

Tiyeni tione zinthu zimene zimatiyendera m’maganizo mwathu tikamawerenga madola athu kuti tione zimene tingakwanitse kapena zimene sitingakwanitse pa Tsiku la Valentine, pamene mwina mungadzifunse kuti, “Kodi ndikufunikanso kuchita zimenezi?” 

Mumaganiza Kuti Muli Nayo Pa Tsiku Lanu Loyamba la Valentine 

Ngati mumaganiza kuti ndi inu nokha amene mumavutika ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi zomwe musachite pa Tsiku la Valentine ngati wachinyamata, ganiziraninso. A Reddit wosuta anatiuza kuti: “Ndili ndi zaka 17, ndinapita kokacheza ndi chibwenzi changa cha Valentine. Ndimadana nawo kwambiri, ndipo ndimaona kuti ndi opusa.” Amanditengera ku thunthu lake ndikutulutsa maluwa pambuyo pa milungu iwiri.

Ndipo kwa inu omwe mudamva kuti mwaperekedwa, wogwiritsa ntchito Reddit Froyofanatic amadziwa momwe mukumvera. "Ndinali m'giredi lachitatu, mnyamata wina adandipempha kuti ndikhale Valentine wanga ndipo zinali zotsekemera kwambiri. Anali wokoma mtima komanso wosiyana ndi anyamata ambiri osakhwima pausinkhu umenewo. Anandipatsa chimbalangondo chokhala ndi chokoleti ndipo zinandipangitsa kukhala wapadera kwambiri, mwanjira ya "Ndili m'giredi lachitatu".

Kwa ambiri aife, ma Valentine ochepa oyambawa adachitika kusukulu yasekondale. Pamene inu simunali wotsimikiza kwenikweni chiyani Mphatso za Valentine ngakhale kutanthawuza, ndipo simunali wotsimikiza ngakhale kuti inu ndi mtsikanayo munali pachibwenzi mwalamulo kapena osati chifukwa chakuti amakudikirirani pamene mumamanga nsapato zanu.

Tiyeni tione maganizo amene amabwera m’maganizo mwanu pamene mukuyesera kudziwa ngati mukuyenera kupereka mphatso kwa “mnzanu”.

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1. Tsiku la Valentine? Chani? Kodi izo si za anthu okalamba?

Mukakhala kusukulu ya sekondale ndipo bwenzi lanu likukuuzani mokoma kuti Tsiku la Valentine likubwera, mwinamwake mukudabwa ngati ndi chinthu chomwe muyenera kuvutitsidwa nacho. Kodi zimenezi si za anthu amene amasungitsa malo m’malesitilanti apamwamba kwa mwezi umodzi pasadakhale, kapena akanema oseketsa kumene amaiwala kuchita zimenezo? 

Chikakamizo cha masiku ano chikangokulirakulira mumazindikira kuti muyenera kuchitapo kanthu. Koma dikirani, kodi muyenera kuchitapo kanthu kapena "mnzanu" akukonzekera zinazake? 

2. Kodi tsiku la chokoleti ndi chiyani? Kodi tsiku la teddy linachokera kuti?!

Osati kokha tsopano muyenera kuyesa ndi kulingalira wangwiro Mphatso ya Valentine ndi bajeti yanu ya ma nickel 3 ndi mabatani 4, koma mwaphunziranso kuti zinthu monga "tsiku la chokoleti" ndi "rose day" ziliponso. 

Sindikudziwa za inu, koma ndipamene kudana kwanga ndi capitalist consumerism kudayamba. Sindimadziwa momwe ndingatchulire m'giredi 8, pomwe zabwino zomwe ndimatha kuzipeza zinali, "Ndine wosweka, ndipo izi ndizoyipa." 

3. Wokalamba kwambiri kuti asankhe mandimu, wamng'ono kwambiri kwa kolala ya buluu

Sabata yachiwiri ya February yafika, ndipo kufunsa makolo anu ndalama mwina kudzachititsa kuti akufunseni mafunso miliyoni. “Pamene ndinali usinkhu wanu, zonse zimene tinkachita pa Tsiku la Valentine zinali kungoyenda basi kugula mphatso kwa chibwenzi chako.” Pepani abambo, kuyenda ndikwacheperako zaka za m'ma 1970. 

Komabe, vuto lomwe mukukumana nalo likukupangitsani kuti mutemberere nthawi yomwe mudagula zovala zonse zomwe simukuzifuna. Mukadakhala ndi ndalama pang'ono kuti musunge! 

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4. Chikwama cha Chanel kapena chilumba chapadera?

Tsopano popeza mwapeza ndalama zonse zomwe mungapeze, muyenera kudziwa mphatso yomwe mugule. Kuyenda m'misika ndi maso achiyembekezo, mumadziwa kale kuti mwina sizingakhale zophweka kuyesa kupeza mphatso. 

Mukakhazikika pa chimbalangondo chokongola kwambiri (werengani: chotsika mtengo), mumakhulupirira kuti chikhala chinthu chodula kwambiri padziko lapansi. 

5. Tsiku la V-Day likafika pomaliza 

Masiku onse a chokoleti ndi masiku a rozi afika, ndipo tsopano ndi nthawi ya tsiku lalikulu. Tsiku lalikulu, kwa inu, limatanthauza kusinthanitsa mphatso movutitsa ndi maola owonjezera omwe mumakhala limodzi, ngakhale nonse mukuyenda limodzi (mwina bambo anali nazo nthawi yonseyi?). 

Makhalidwe a chibwenzi chaching'ono ndi zokumbukira zomwe timazikonda tikamakula. Kumbali ina, pamene mukukula, mumazindikira chisangalalo cha zibwenzi zosavuta zomwe munali nazo mudakali wachinyamata mwina sizikubwereranso. Komabe, izo sizikutanthauza zochepa zotsatirazi Masiku a Valentine simungakhale anu abwino panobe. Nthawi ino, mutha kugulira thumba la Chanel la mnzanu. 

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