Kodi ndingapemphe chiyani m'mapemphero anga kwa mwamuna wanga? Ngati funso limeneli lakhalapo m’maganizo mwanu posachedwapa, mwinamwake mukuyang’ana njira zopangira Mulungu kukhala mbali yofunika ya moyo wanu.
Aliyense woleredwa ndi chikhulupiriro amadziwa kuti ubale wathu ndi Mulungu - kapena mphamvu yaikulu yomwe imayendetsa chilengedwe - ndi wapamtima komanso wofunika kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Komabe, pamene moyo wathu umakhala wotanganidwa komanso mbale zathu zimadzaza ndi malonjezano ndi maudindo, ubalewu nthawi zambiri umakhala wotsalira.
Koma sikunachedwe kutsitsimutsa ubale umenewo. Mukamachita zimenezi, n’zachibadwa kuti mufune kusunga chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri padziko lapansi pano—mkazi wanu ndi banja lanu – m’mapemphero anu. Kuti tikutsogolereni mbali imeneyi, tikubweretserani mapemphero abwino kwambiri a mwamuna wanu omwe mungafunefune nawo kuti ubale wanu udalitsidwe kwamuyaya ndi Wamphamvuyonse.
21 Mapemphero Okongola Kwa Amuna Anu Achikondi Chamuyaya
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Mwamuna wanu ndi m'modzi mwa anthu ofunikira kwambiri pa moyo wanu. Munthu amene mumamukonda ndi mtima wanu wonse komanso amene mumagawana naye maloto anu, ziyembekezo zanu, ndi moyo wanu. Mukagwada pamaso pa Mulungu wanu, kufunafuna madalitso ake, mungafunenso kupempha mnzanu wa moyo wanu kuti akuthandizeni.
Mumadziwa mumtima mwanu zomwe mumafuna kwa mwamuna wanu. Kuti nthawi zonse azikhala wotetezeka, wokondwa, wathanzi, wokhutira, wochita bwino komanso ali panjira yoti adzipangire yekha. Komabe, kufotokoza malingaliro awa m'mawu sikophweka nthawi zonse. Kuti tithandizire kuwongolera zoyesayesa zanu m'njira yoyenera, tikubweretserani kutsika kwa mapemphero 21 a mwamuna wanu, kuti musasowe njira zopezera madalitso ndi chitsogozo choyenera kwa iye:
1. Pempherani kuti akutetezeni
Kodi ndimapemphera bwanji kuti mwamuna wanga anditeteze? Ngati mumadabwa ndi izi, nali pemphero loyambira:
"Wokondedwa Ambuye, sungani mwamuna wanga m'chitetezo chanu nthawi zonse. Mutetezeni ku zowawa, zovulaza, mayesero ndi matenda."
2. Pempherani kuti akutsogolereni
Pokambirana ndi Mulungu, funani malangizo ake kwa mwamuna wanu. Pemphero louziridwa ndi vesi la m’Baibulo lakuti: “Mayankhidwe ofatsa abweza mkwiyo; Pempherani kuti mwamuna wanu akhale wodekha kwanthawizonse komanso panjira yolungama, ndi pempheroli.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi chitsogozo choyenera m’chosankha chirichonse chimene angapange, mosasamala kanthu kuti chachikulu kapena chaching’ono chotani.
3. Pempherani kuti mukhale ndi mphamvu
Pofunafuna madalitso m'pemphero kwa mwamuna, musaiwale kufunafuna nyonga. Mphamvu ya khalidwe, thupi, ndi maganizo.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi mphamvu lero ndi nthaŵi zonse.
4. Pempherani chitetezo
Kodi mukupempherera mwamuna amene ali pankhondo? Pemphani Mulungu kuti ateteze ngwazi yanu ndikukhala kuwala kwake pa nthawi yovutayi.
"O, Yesu, tetezani mwamuna wanga nthawi zonse komanso kuti asavulazidwe." Khalani owunikira kuti mumuthandize kupanga zisankho zoyenera ngakhale atakumana ndi zovuta zambiri.
5. Pempherani kuti zinthu ziyende bwino
Kodi ndingapemphe chiyani popempherera mwamuna wanga kuntchito? Chabwino, ambiri aife sitifuna china koma kuchita bwino pamaulendo athu akatswiri. Kotero, ndicho chiyambi chabwino.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi chipambano m’zochita zake zonse zaukatswiri.
6. Pempherani kuti mukhale okhulupirika
Ponena za 'kupempherera mwamuna wanga kuntchito', kumbukirani kuti umphumphu ndi wofunikira monga kupambana, ngati sichoncho. Chifukwa chake, funsani kuti mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse azigwira ntchito yake modzipereka kwathunthu, moona mtima, komanso moona mtima.
"Wokondedwa Ambuye, mwamuna wanga nthawi zonse azigwira ntchito mwachilungamo m'zochita zake zonse zaukatswiri. Kudzipereka, kuwona mtima ndi kuwona mtima zikhale mfundo zake zomutsogolera. Choncho, muthandizeni Mulungu."
7. Pempherani mtendere
Kukhala pamtendere ndi iwe wekha ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zochepetsetsa kwambiri pamoyo. Khalidwe limene anthu ochepa amadalitsidwa nalo. Monga momwe vesi la m’Baibulo la Aefeso 4:2-3 limatikumbutsa kuti: “Ndi kudzichepetsa konse, ndi chifatso, ndi kuleza mtima, kulolerana wina ndi mnzake m’chikondi, ndi kufunitsitsa kusunga umodzi wa Mzimu mu chomangira cha mtendere.” Mukalankhula ndi Mulungu, onjezerani izi pa mndandanda wa 'mapemphero a mwamuna wanga'.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi mtendere, maganizo ake akhale okhutira ndi odekha ndi zimene ali nazo m’moyo.
8. Pempherani chikondi
Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo ngati ndiyenera kuwonjezera mapemphero kuti mwamuna wanga andikonde pa zokambirana zanga ndi Mulungu? Chabwino, bwanji osatero! Palibe vuto kufunafuna chitsogozo cha Ambuye kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wodzaza ndi chikondi. Ndipotu, chikondi ndiye mphamvu yomangirira muukwati. Gwirizanitsani pemphero lanu ndi vesi la m'Baibulo la Yohane 15:12: "Lamulo langa ndi ili: Kondanani wina ndi mnzake monga momwe ndakukonderani."
"Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi chikondi chochuluka mu mtima mwake kwa ine. Chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mzake chikhale chokwanira nthawi zonse kutithandiza kuthana ndi zovuta kwambiri."
9. Muzipempherera banja lanu
Zikafika pamapemphero a mwamuna wanu, limodzi la banja lanu silingasiyidwe. Koma kodi ndi dalitso lotani loyenera kufunafuna chomangira cha ukwati wanu? Nayi malingaliro anu:
"Ambuye Yesu, sungani ukwati wathu wodalitsika ndi kuyang'ana kwanu mwachikondi nthawi zonse. Tisatengeke mopepuka ndikupeza mphamvu nthawi zonse kuti tilemekeze malonjezo omwe tinalumbira pamaso panu oyera."
10. Pempherani bwenzi
Pemphero labwino la m'mawa ndi chiyani kwa mwamuna wanga, mukufunsa? Chabwino, bwanji osayamba tsiku lanu ndikukhumba kukhala ndi mnzanu nthawi zonse.
"Mulungu wanga, tidalitseni ndi ubale wautali. Tikhale ndi mwayi wokalamba limodzi , mpaka imfa ikatilekanitse."
11. Pempherani thanzi
Pemphero loteteza mwamuna wanga…kupempherera mwamuna yemwe ali kunkhondo…pemphero lamachiritso la mwamuna wanga wodwala… Ziribe kanthu zomwe mukupempherera, chikhumbo chokhala ndi thanzi labwino chimakwanira bwino.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi thanzi labwino, lero ndi kwanthawizonse.
12. Pempherani kuti mukhale okhutira
Mukuyang'ana pemphero lalifupi la mwamuna wanu? Ngati mupempha chikhutiro, simudzafunikanso kupempha china chilichonse. Monga mmene vesi la m’Baibulo limeneli limatikumbutsa kuti: “Akamvera ndi kum’tumikira, adzakhala ndi moyo wabwino masiku awo otsala, ndi zaka zawo m’kukhutira.” Chotero funani chikhutiro cha mwamuna wanu, kotero kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wodalitsidwa ndi mtendere.
“Yesu wokondedwa, thandizani mwamuna wanga panjira yopita ku chikhutiro.
13. Pemphererani banja
Ukagwada pamaso pa mbuye wako, sunga mumtima mwako osati mapemphero okha kwa mwamuna wako komanso banja lako lonse.
"Wokondedwa Mulungu, zikomo potidalitsa ndi banja lachikondi chotere. Tikupemphera kuti nthawi zonse mupitirize kutisunga m'chikondi chanu ndi chisamaliro chanu. Dalitsani aliyense m'mabanja athu ndi thanzi labwino ndi chisangalalo, nthawi zonse."
14. Pemphererani ana
Ngati mukukonzekera kuyambitsa banja, pempherani kuti mudalitsidwe ndi ana. Ngati ndinu makolo, funani madalitso kuti mwamuna wanu akhale tate wabwino.
"Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani ukwati wathu ndi mphatso ya ana ngati zili mu dongosolo lanu kwa ife."
Or
"Okondedwa Mulungu, zikomo chifukwa cha mwamuna yemwenso ndi tate wodabwitsa kwa ana athu. Mupitilize kumutsogolera kuti akhale chitsanzo kwa miyoyo yoyera iyi yomwe mwatipatsa."
15. Pempherani chifundo
Vesi la m'Baibulo la Aefeso 4:32 limati, “ Khalani okoma mtima wina ndi mnzake, a mtima wachifundo, okhululukirana wina ndi mnzake, monganso Mulungu mwa Khristu anakhululukira inu.” Potengera ulosi wa Ambuye, pemphani madalitso kwa mwamuna wanu kupempha chifundo muukwati wanu. Pakuti palibe khalidwe labwino kuposa kumvera chisoni anthu osauka kuposa inu.
“Atate wathu wakumwamba, ndikupemphani kuti mudalitse ine ndi mwamuna wanga ndi mitima yodzala ndi chifundo, kotero kuti pamodzi tichite chilichonse chimene tingathe kufalitsa chikondi pakati pa anthu otizungulira.
16. Pempherani tsiku lokongola
'Kodi ndifunse chiyani m'pemphero langa la m'mawa kaamba ka mwamuna wanga lerolino?' Kodi mumadzifunsa nokha za izi nthawi zambiri? Pemphani kuti adalitsidwe ndi tsiku lokongola.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, dalitsani mwamuna wanga ndi tsiku labwino lero.
17. Pempherani kuti athetse mavuto ake
Moyo wopanda zolimbana ndi loto la Utopian lomwe silingachitike. Zovuta ndi zovuta ndizo bwenzi lathu lokhazikika kwa nthawi yonse yomwe tikukhala ndi kupuma. Choncho, m'malo mopempha ufulu ku mavuto mu ubale kapena moyo, pemphani mwamuna wanu kuti adalitsidwe ndi mphamvu mafunde pa chilichonse curveballs moyo amataya njira yake.
"O Ambuye, imvani pemphero langa kwa mwamuna wanga ndikumudalitsa ndi mphamvu kuti athe kulimbana ndi zovuta zonse zomwe moyo umamulepheretsa, ndikuwonekeranso mbali ina yamphamvu"
18. Pempherani kuti agwire dzanja lanu
Ukwati ndi ulendo wautali kuchokera ku kanjira kupita kumanda. Kumeneko padzakhala kukwera ndi kutsika, chipwirikiti, ndi nthaŵi za namondwe m’njira. Pemphani mdalitso wa ambuye kuti mupatse amuna anu mphamvu kuti akhale nanu muzonsezo. Ndipo inu, iye.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, imvani mapemphero anga opempha mwamuna wanga kuti azindikonda. Mulole iye nthaŵi zonse apeze nyonga ndi chikondi mu mtima mwake kuti agwire dzanja langa m’nthaŵi zovuta kwambiri m’banja lathu.
19. Pempherani nzeru
Pamene mukukula m’banja, funani madalitso kuti mwamuna wanu akhale wanzeru ndi wanzeru.
“Okondedwa Mulungu muthandizeni mwamuna wanga mwanzeru kuti asankhe bwino pa zosankha zimene angasankhe masiku ano komanso nthawi zonse, muthandizeni kuti atembenukire kwa inu kuti apeze chitsogozo ngati akupeza kuti akuvutika m’moyo, pakuti nzeru yeniyeni imachokera kwa inu mbuyanga.”
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20. Pempherani kuti mukhale omasuka ku chizolowezi
'Kodi pemphero loyenera loti mwamuna wanga atetezedwe ndi lotani?' Ngati mukufuna yankho la funsoli, pemphani kuti nthawi zonse akhale omasuka ku vuto la chizolowezi choledzera.
“Wokondedwa Mulungu, ndimabwera kwa inu m’pemphero kuti mwamuna wanga anditetezere.
21. Pempherani chikhulupiriro chake
'Kodi limodzi mwa mapemphero ofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna wanga ndi liti?' Funso limeneli liyenera kukumbukiridwa pamene unansi wanu ndi Mulungu uli wosonkhezera moyo wanu. Bwanji osapemphera kuti adalitsidwe ndi chikhulupiriro chofananacho.
“Ambuye Wamphamvuyonse, ndikupemphera kuti mwamuna wanga adalitsidwe pokhala ndi kugwirizana kolimba ndi inu. Gwirani dzanja lake, kuti chikhulupiriro chake chisagwedezeke.
Ndi mapemphero awa a mwamuna wanu pamilomo yanu ndi chikondi chochuluka mu mtima mwanu, mutha kuyesetsa kumanga banja lolimba lomwe lingapirire mikuntho yoopsa kwambiri.
Ibibazo
Mkazi angapempherere mwamuna wake mwa kumuphatikiza m’kukambitsirana kwake ndi Mulungu.
Mkazi ayenera kupempherera mwamuna wake chifukwa ukwati ndi umodzi mwa maunansi ofunika kwambiri amene timamanga m’nthaŵi yathu ya padziko lapansi. Mwamuna ndi mkazi amakhala ogwirizana moyo wonse. Zimene zimachitikira mmodzi zimakhudzanso mnzake.
Inde, kubweretsa ukwati wanu m’chisamaliro cha ambuye kungakupatseni chikhulupiriro ndi nyonga yokhalira limodzi m’nthaŵi zovuta kwambiri.
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