Mwa zonse Kusaka kwa Google zomwe zimayamba ndi mawu achidwi oti 'Momwe angachitire', omwe akufuna kudziwa momwe angakokere mkazi wamaloto awo ali ponseponse. Ngati munakopeka ndi munthu, mukudziwa kuti zimabweretsa dziko lachisokonezo. Mwinamwake mukufuna kuwafunsa, koma chifukwa cha zizindikiro zosakanizika, simungakhale otsimikiza kuti sizingatero. kutha pa tsoka. Ndipo ngakhale zizindikiro zosakanizika zotere zizikhala ndi inu m'moyo wanu wonse, zomwe tikukamba lero zikusewera molimbika kuti mupeze komanso momwe akazi amachitira. Atha kumakutumiziranibe mameseji koma osacheza ndikusiyani mukusokonezeka.
Tsopano, tsopano, musamayende mozungulira ndikulozera zala, munthu wanga. N’zosakayikitsa kuti ambiri aife ndife olakwa. Koma apa pakubwera chinthu chovuta kwambiri. Ambiri a ife, akazi, makamaka, timaganiza kuti timasewera molimbika kuti tipeze pamene sizili choncho. Ndipo musanamunene mlandu m’mutu mwanu, dziwani kuti mwina mwalakwitsa. Izi zati, zikafika pakusewera molimbika kuti apeze, akazi ali ndi zidule zingapo m'manja mwawo ndipo moona mtima, amatha kupeza diso la ng'ombe nthawi zonse. Ndipo ngakhale sitikufuna kuti mulowe nawo m'gulu la zokwawa ndi chikhulupiliro cha 'O-iye-akufuna-koma-sadzafunsa, apa pali njira zisanu zomwe akazi amakonda kusewera mwakhama kuti apeze ndipo, zindikirani, amadziwa momwe angachitire.
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Njira 5 Zomwe Amayi Amasewerera Kuti Apeze
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Tikuwuzani zizindikiro zapamwamba zomwe amakukondani koma akusewera kwambiri kuti apeze. Mudzadziwa ngati akutaya chidwi kapena akusewera molimbika kuti apeze. Pali njira zodziwira kuchokera ku khalidwe lake ngati ali mwa inu ndipo mukhoza kutenga zizindikiro zoyenera ndikuyenda bwino. Kodi akusewera movutikira kuti asatumizenso mameseji? Kenako muyenera kuwerenga mfundo zisanu izi kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake akusewera movutikira kuti apeze.
1. Amadikirira kuti mufunse nambala yake
Pokhapokha mutakhala pansi pa thanthwe, mwina mukudziwa kuti zambiri chikondi chasanduka digito. Ndipo ngakhale tingakonde kukhulupirira mwanjira ina, kukopana pa digito kwatsala pang'ono kutha. Ngati mwakhala mukuchita zibwenzi pang'ono, mukudziwa kuti kugulitsa manambala 10 kungapangitse kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yosavuta, koma ndiyosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita. Chifukwa chake, mwina mukuganiza kuti mwayamba bwino, koma mulibe chidaliro chokwanira kufunsa ziwerengerozo. Tikhulupirireni, ngati akusewera mwakhama kuti apeze, mukhala nthawi yayitali musanapeze nambala yake. Sangafune kuwoneka ngati 'wachidwi' kwambiri, ndipo pokhapokha mutamanga ndi kufunsa nambala yake nokha, zokambirana zanu zimakhala ndi mawu otsutsa nthawi zonse mukalephera.
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2. Nthawi zonse ndiwe amene umatumizira mameseji poyamba
Ah! Kusuntha kwakanthawi kolola munthu wina kutenga sitepe yoyamba. Chifukwa chake, mwagulitsa manambala - zikomo! Tikudziwa kuti mwakhala mukufunitsitsa kulankhula naye. Ingoganizani? Iye akudziwa, nayenso.

Ndiko kulondola, ngati akusewera molimbika kuti apeze, mwina ndi amene angayankhe m'malo motumiza 'Hi' yoyamba yovuta. Ndipo ngakhale ziri zoona kuti amuna ambiri amayesa kukhala otsimikiza ndi kutembenuza matebulo, zikafika zosapiririka, anyamata osauka amalolera kusiya mphamvu kuti akambirane. Koma mzerewu umakhala wochepa kwambiri nthawi zina, choncho onetsetsani kuti musavutitse mkazi amene sakufuna kuvutitsidwa. Tikhulupirireni, kuli bwino kukhala wolephera m'chikondi kusiyana ndi 'munthu wina wonyansa.' Iye akusewera mwakhama kuti apeze mwa kusatumizanso mameseji. Chifukwa chake chomwe mungafune ndi mawu akulu okhala ndi 'P' - Patience.
3. Ankhondo akale ali pantchito
Kuchita ndi mkazi m'modzi yemwe amasewera movutikira kungakupangitseni kupuma, koma simunawone theka lake mpaka atakuitanani kuti akulimbikitseni. Khulupirirani kapena ayi, akazi amatha kukuwonani nthawi zina. Mkazi wanu wamaloto amadziwa kuti 'wopanda chiyembekezo, wovuta komanso wofunitsitsa chikondi' Chandler Bing mwa inu amalira pakona nthawi iliyonse akuyenda ndi anzake. Kumeneko, kumeneko, tikudziwa kuti n’kovuta kuyandikira mkazi akakhala ndi anthu ena. Koma mukuganiza chiyani?
Amadziwa kuti akakuwoloka, udzatembenukira ku Poo wako! Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham njira yonse, abale.
4. Ndi wotanganidwa
Kusewera molimbika kuti mukhale otanganidwa nthawi zonse kumayendera limodzi. Tonsefe timatopa ndi chikondi cha digito panthawi ina. Koma chimachitika ndi chiyani mukakhala ndi vuto mukamufunse pa chibwenzi? Zala chala pansi, mzanga. Musatichititse cholakwika. Ndithudi, sitikutanthauza kuti iye sakhala wotanganidwa. Ngati iye akukana wanu tsiku mapulani kumanzere, kumanja ndi pakati, mwina iye kwenikweni alibe chidwi kapena iye akusewera mwakhama kupeza. Mwamwayi, tili ndi mayeso ofulumira kukuthandizani kupha chisokonezo. Ngati iye rescheduling wanu madeti m'malo kukana iwo, iye akhoza kukhala mwa inu. Koma ngati 'Ayi ndizo zonse zomwe mumapeza, ingakhale nthawi yopitilira!

5. K, ndiye
Ndiye, simukudziwa ngati mukuchita ndi mkazi wotero? musawope. Lolani moyo wanu wamameseji ukulankhulireni. Ngati ndime zanu zazitali pa whatsapp zimawoneka zosankhidwa kwazaka zambiri musanayankhidwe ndi mayankho a monosyllabic kapena 'K' yowopsa, musawonongebe. Ngakhale kuti zinthu zochepa ndi zamwano kuposa 'K', angakhale akusangalala nanu pang'ono. Ndipo pamene ife tikuganiza kuti akazi ambiri chidwi sakanati pachiswe lingathe ubale mwa kukhala mwano, inu simudziwa. Mukayamba chibwenzi simudziwa kuti mutha kukhala ndi nkhani yoti munene momwe mtsikana wanu adasewera movutikira kuti apezeke ndipo simutaya mtima.
Kuyika zinthu moyenera, akazi amatsimikiza kusewera molimbika kuti apeze. Koma mutanena izi, musalole kuti mafilimu a Bollywood akuuzeni kuti kuthamangitsa mkazi mosasamala kanthu kuti akumva bwino. Ndi chokuchitikirani pang'ono, mumvetsetsa.
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