Momwe Mungapezere Chibwenzi ndi Mtsikana Wakunja Kwa League Yanu

Mu njuga yachikondi ya pachibwenzi, kuyambira kalekale, muyenera kuti munakumana ndi mawu ophiphiritsa - 'way out of your league'. M'mawu osavuta a chibwenzi, zikutanthauza kuti mtsikana yemwe mumamufuna moyipa kapena adamenya uta wa Cupid kuti apange bwenzi lanu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi luso, munthu wamphamvu, wokondedwa komanso wokondedwa ndi anthu kuposa momwe muliri. 

Yankho ndilakuti, inde, ndizotheka kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana yemwe ali mu ligi yanu ndikupambana mtima wake - malinga ngati mukufuna.

Koma osadandaula, nanunso mungandikhulupirire kuti ndikuuzeni momwe mungapezere mtsikana aliyense amene mukufuna. Kodi chiyembekezo chanu chopeza chibwenzi ndi mtsikana wochokera ku ligi yanu ndichabechabe? Kodi mutha kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana wa ligi yanu?

Koma musanayambe kukayikira nokha, tiyeni tikuloleni mwachinsinsi - akazi opambana kwambiri komanso okongola nthawi zambiri amagwera amuna omwe amawakonda pazifukwa zonse zoyenera. Kupatula apo, kodi tonsefe sitikufuna munthu yemwe amayang'ana kupitilira apo ndipo ndiye mtsogoleri wathu wamkulu?

Tsopano, ngati mukufunadi chibwenzi ndi mtsikana amene simukumukonda, tili pano kuti tikuthandizeni. Ngati mukusowa tulo chifukwa cha momwe mungapezere mtsikana amene mumakonda, tili ndi nkhani yabwino. Jambulani bedi labwino ndikukonzekera kugona bwino usiku, chifukwa tili ndi mayankho onse pano!

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Ndi munthu amene mwamuna aliyense waikapo mtima wake. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani iwo sanatero? Mukudziwa kuti iye ndiye chitsanzo cha zonse zabwino padziko lapansi ndipo ena amaziwonanso. Aliyense angapite patali kuti amunyengerere ndi kumusangalatsa. 

Koma chimenecho si chifukwa chotaya mtima!

Musanatsatire mtsikana wa maloto anu, mungafune kusankha ngati alidi kunja kwa mgwirizano wanu kapena kungonamizira kukhala. Kodi iye ndi wongofuna chidwi yemwe amaseweretsa ndi mitima yambiri nthawi imodzi?

Kudziwa ngati mtsikana alidi kunja kwa mgwirizano wanu kumasiyana pakati pa munthu ndi munthu, kutengera mbali zonse za moyo wake ndi umunthu wake amakuposani inu, pakati pa ena.

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Kodi munayamba mwachitapo mantha ndi mtsikana moti kungoganiza zokhala chibwenzi chake kumawoneka ngati maloto osatheka? Ndikutsimikiza kuti munayamba mwachitapo. Koma kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo kuti n’chiyani chimamupangitsa kukhala wangwiro komanso wosasangalatsa kwa inu ? Umu ndi momwe mungapangire mtsikana aliyense amene mumakonda

1. Amawoneka ngati wangotuluka m'nthano chabe : Ngakhale kuti dziko la chibwenzi ndi lovuta bwanji, vuto limodzi ndilakuti nthawi zambiri, maonekedwe ake ndi omwe amachititsa chidwi choyamba.

Choncho, ngati mwadzidetsa kwa zaka zambiri pa momwe mumaonekera ndipo simukukonda zomwe mukuwona pagalasi, kufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu wowoneka bwino kungawoneke ngati maloto akutali!

2. Ndi munthu amene amadya, amapuma komanso amakhala ndi moyo wa makampani : Kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe ndi zachuma nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa munthu kukhulupirira kuti mtsikana wa maloto ake ndi wosafikirika. Chifukwa chake, ngati ndinu mwamuna wamba ndipo mumaona mtsikana wanu tsiku lililonse atavala zovala ndi zinthu zopangidwa ndi akatswiri, yendani m'magalimoto apamwamba omwe nthawi zambiri amakulepheretsani kudzidalira.

3. Iye wakhala akulamulira nthawi zonse : Maphunziro amamasula aliyense, makamaka akazi. Popeza ndi anthu omwe sankaloledwa kupita kukaphunzira ndipo mpaka pano amaletsedwa sukulu, kupeza madigiri kumatanthauza zambiri kwa akazi.

Chifukwa chake, ngati mkazi ali wophunzira kwambiri komanso wofuna kutchuka, ndiye kuti sangakhazikike kwa munthu yemwe sayesetsa kukhala wamkulu.

4. Yesetsani kudziwa zomwe amakonda pa moyo wake : Kuti mugwirizane, muyenera kudziwa ngati muli ndi moyo womwewo komanso momwe mumaonera zinthu. Ngati iye ndi munthu wokonda masewera olimbitsa thupi ndipo inu simuli, ngati iye ndi wokonda chipembedzo ndipo inu simuli, ngati amakhulupirira ubwino wa anthu ndipo inu simuli, mwayi ndi wochepa woti angasankhe kukukondani.

5. Banja lake ndi lapamwamba komanso lochita bwino ngati iye : Anavomera kukhala chibwenzi chanu, koma mwanjira ina wakwanitsa kupewa mwayi woti akudziwitseni kwa aliyense amene ali m'gulu lake.

Ndilo lingaliro lanu kuti mudziwe kuti mwina amakonda chibwenzi nanu, koma osati zokwanira kuti adziwitse abwenzi ndi abale ake. Mwayi ndi woti amadziona kuti alibe mgwirizano wanu ndipo muli ndi mtsikana yemwe samakupezani wamkulu

6. Waona zambiri kuposa inu : Sikuti simukudziwa, koma chilengedwe sichisiya kukukumbutsani. Nthawi iliyonse mukatuluka, iye ndiye amene amalumikizana mosavuta ndi gulu la anthu kapena kuyambitsa kukambirana ndi anthu osawadziwa. Amamwetulira nthawi zonse ndipo nthawi zambiri amayamikiridwa kwambiri.

Ali ndi gulu lalikulu la abwenzi. Nthawi zonse, iye ndi amene amakuphimbani ndipo mumangokhala malo osawoneka bwino kumbuyo

7. Mumamva mantha mukakhala naye : Nthawi iliyonse mukamuwona, mukamayenda naye ndikumulankhula, mumamva nkhope ya dziko lonse ikukuyang'anani. Zili ngati mukumva akukuyang'anani monyoza komanso mopanda chikhulupiriro zomwe zimalembedwa momveka bwino kuti - "Angatani kuti achite chibwenzi ndi munthu amene ali kutali ndi iye?"

Chifukwa chake, mumatha kukhala ndi malingaliro osakhazikika m'mimba mwako - 'ndiwabwino kwambiri kwa ine' kapena 'Sindimukwanira'. Ndipo pamapeto pake mumadabwa momwe mungapezere mtsikana aliyense amene mumamukonda. Muli otsimikiza kuti chidwi chanu chachikondi chatuluka mu ligi yanu ndipo palibe chomwe chingagwire ntchito pakati pa inu nonse

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Umu ndi momwe mumadziwira pang'onopang'ono kuti mwina wachoka pagulu lanu. Zachidziwikire, sizikutanthauza kuti simunafufuze mokwanira. Komabe, chidwi chanu chimapitirira ndipo gawo lina la inu likufuna kuti mtsikanayu akukondeninso, mumudziwe bwino komanso kumukonda , ngakhale anzanu akukuuzani zosiyana.

Ndiye, chotani chotsatira? Kodi mumangomusiya, kapena mumapambana mu ligi yake? Tsekani maso anu, mverani mtima wanu, ndipo ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungapezere mtsikana yemwe samakupezani wamkulu, tili pano kuti tikuthandizeni kudziwa momwe mungapezere mtsikana aliyense yemwe mukufuna. 

Nawa malangizo 8 oti musangalatse mtsikana yemwe watuluka mu ligi yanu.

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Chifukwa cha kukongola kopanda nzeru kokhazikitsidwa ndi anthu, tikamawona banja lomwe mnyamatayo sakuwoneka bwino, funso limodzi limakhala lotikumbutsa - "Kodi adakwanitsa bwanji kuchotsa wina mu ligi yake?"

Koma ngati zimenezi zikukukhumudwitsani, tili ndi uthenga wabwino. Ma celebs ambiri omwe mumawakonda adadutsanso.

John Krasinsky, Jim wokongola wochokera ku The Office, akuvomereza kuti anakwatira pamene anakwatira Emily Blunt. Pamafunso ambiri pazaka zambiri, adavomereza kuti adakopeka ndi mkazi wake pomwe adakumana koyamba. Ndipo taonani kumene iwo ali tsopano!

Mwachidziwitso, chikondi chimaposa kukongola kwakuthupi - ndipo ngati mumakonda munthu kwambiri, mwayi udzakhalanso kuyang'ana maonekedwe ndi maonekedwe anu. Chifukwa chake, umu ndi momwe mumapindulira chikondi cha moyo wanu, ngakhale zitakhala zosatheka poyambira. 

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1. Pewani maonekedwe ake

Anyamata ambiri amafuna kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wowoneka bwino chifukwa chongosangalala nazo - ndi wokongola komanso akhoza kukhala maswiti am'manja. Ngati mumamukonda, dzifunseni kuti n’chifukwa chiyani mungafune kukhala naye pachibwenzi? Kodi ndi chifukwa chotentha kapena mumakonda momwe alili? Kapena ndikungofuna kukulitsa chikhalidwe chanu, kupambana kubetcha kapena kupanga nsanje wakale? 

Ngati mupeza kuti izi ndizovuta komanso zabodza pazomwe muli, ndiye kuti! Muli nalo kale yankho lanu. 

2. Perekani mpata chikondi

Osamangokhalira kukhulupirira kuti atsikana amakhala olemera komanso owoneka bwino okha. Monga momwe ananenera m’filimu yotchedwa Before Sunrise, “Kodi chilichonse chimene timachita m’moyo sichiri njira yoti tizikondedwa kwambiri?

Pachimake pa zonsezi, tonse tikungoyang'ana chikondi chamuyaya chomwe chimapangitsa moyo kukhala wosavuta. Choncho, kusiya zoipa chibwenzi zikhulupiliro ndi kupereka chikondi mwayi, ngakhale mukuona kuti mnzanuyo ndi wotentha kwambiri kuposa inu. 

3. Kukanidwa, ndi chiyani chimenecho?

Zikhulupiriro zoipa za chibwenzi pamodzi ndi mantha omva 'ayi' akukankhira anyamata ambiri kuchoka ku masewera achikondi. Ponyani mantha amenewo ndikunamizira kuti 'sachoka' mu ligi yanu. 

Ndipo mukadachita kafukufuku wanu musanapange malingaliro anu kuti mumunyengerere. Yandikirani kwa iye ndi kulimba mtima kodzipangitsa kukhulupirira ndipo mudzadabwa kumva mawu okoma akuti 'inde'.

Kuyamba kukambirana ndipo pamapeto pake, ubwenzi, umapita kutali. Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kudziwa ngati nonse mukuyang'ana chinthu chomwecho pa nthawi ina ya moyo wanu. Komanso, zokambirana zimachepetsa kukangana ndi mantha okana kukanidwa, ndipo voila!

Kodi si zimene mumayembekezera?

4. Sangalalani m'gawo la anzanu

Kugawana ubwenzi wabwino ndi akazi kungakuthandizeni kudziwa bwino zomwe akazi amafunadi. Anzanu (omwe ndi atsikana) angakuthandizeni kusiya kudziletsa kwanu pozungulira akazi ndipo mwanjira imeneyi mudzakhala pafupi ndi gulu lawo.

 Mudzadabwa mutadziwa kuti akuyang'ana zinthu zosavuta pamoyo wawo- osati magalimoto okwera mtengo komanso mphatso zamtengo wapatali. Nthawi.

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5. Muwonetseni kuti ndi wapadera

Njira yachangu yopambana mtsikana ndikuwonetsetsa kuti amayamikiridwa ndikutengedwa ngati mfumukazi. Osangomuyamikira. Yesetsani kudziwa zinthu zazing'ono za iye. Kodi amakonda kuchita chiyani akakhala yekha? Kodi amamwa bwanji khofi wake? Kodi amaopa kwambiri chiyani? 

Mukayesa kufikira iye weniweni ndikumupangitsa kuwona momwe alili wokongola komanso wapadera, palibe njira yomwe angawonekere ngati 'watuluka mu ligi yanu'. Adzawoneka ngati wina aliyense.

6. Yatsani chithumwa chanu

Musayese kudzigulira nokha mu mtima mwake mwa kutsanulira mphatso, kupanga malonjezo opambanitsa ndi kupanga nkhani za moyo wanu kuti zimusangalatse. M'malo mwake, fotokozani moona mtima mmene mukumvera.

Lankhulani za zochitika zenizeni za moyo wanu, mufunseni za moyo wake. Gawani china chake chenicheni. Gwiritsani ntchito nthabwala zanu - zomwe zizikhalabe ndi inu ngakhale zithumwa zina zitazimiririka. Izi zidzamupangitsa kukusiyani ligi yake pakapita nthawi.

7. Limbitsani kudzidalira kwanu

Kaya mumapanga ndalama, musinthe maonekedwe anu, mumang'ambika, palibe chomwe chidzakupangitseni mtsikana wanu mpaka mutayesetsa kudzidalira. Pitani ku mizu ya kusatetezeka kwanu ndikuzichotsa. 

M’malo moganizira kwambiri zimene mulibe, muziganizira kwambiri za luso lanulo. Mwina akuwoneka bwino, koma ndiwe woyimba gitala bwino. Ndiye bwanji osayesa kukulitsa luso lanu la gitala kuti musangalatse iye? Atha kukhala kuti watuluka mu ligi yanu, koma mukangoganiza zoyendetsa mtunda wowonjezera ndikudzipangira nokha, mudzakhala mu ligi yake.

8. Muwonetseni kuti ndinu abwino mokwanira

Anyamata ambiri amachita khama kwambiri kuti mtsikanayo aziwasamalira popanda kukhala ndi zolinga zowasamalira. Mukakhala ndi chidwi cha mtsikanayo, onetsetsani kuti akuwona kuti ndinu ndani. 

Nthawi zonse khalani njonda, kuchitira aliyense ulemu ndi ulemu. Osadziwonetsera konse ndipo musakhale wopusa yemwe sakufuna kumuwona. Tengani nthawi yanu pomudziwa ndipo nthawi zonse muzikhala achifundo komanso ofunda kwa iye. 

Osachita mwachidwi kuti akuthandizeni. Osamuzembera kapena kumupangitsa kumva kuti ndi wosatetezeka - ingokhalani naye pamene ali m'mavuto. Khalani munthu amene angadalire; osati munthu amene amachita nthabwala zotsika mtengo mowonongera ena. Adzayamba kukuwonani ngati muyesa moona mtima kuti amumvetsere.

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Kumbukirani malangizo omwe ali pamwambawa ndikugwirani ntchito ngati muli ndi chidwi chofuna chibwenzi. Ndani akudziwa, nthawi ina mukadzayenda mumsewu ndi bwenzi lanu, aliyense amakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kuyankha - "Kodi adapeza bwanji wina wotuluka mu ligi yake?" Koma mukutsimikiza kuti mumadziwa ma nuances okopa ndi chibwenzi ndi mkazi.

Ndipo, mumangomwetulira njira yanu.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.