Anali Wolinganizidwa Bwino Kwambiri Mpaka Ndidayesa Kumupsopsona…

Ndinali ndi zaka zapakati pa makumi awiri, katswiri wachinyamata; wosakwatiwa, wodziyimira pawokha, wokonda ziweto, wolemba, blogger komanso woyenda. Mofanana ndi makolo onse osamala, makolo anganso anaganiza zondipeza woti azindikwanira. Ndipo ndinalinso wololera kugwidwa ndi mwamuna wanga wangwiro ndipo ndinali kuyembekezera ukwati wamtundu wake womwe ndidayamba kukonzekera ndili wachinyamata.

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Makolo anga anandidziŵitsa kwa anyamata oyenerera amene anawapeza kudzera m’mabanja. Ndinayamba kudzimva kuti ndili pachibwenzi ndi mnyamata wina osati chifukwa chakuti ankawoneka bwino komanso wophunzira kwambiri, komanso chifukwa amayi ake, apongozi anga amtsogolo anali ochezeka kwa ine. Ndinadziwa kuti ndikhala womasuka kwambiri m’banja lake.

Iye ankafuna kusamuka

Tinkacheza pa foni n’kumatumizirana mameseji pafupipafupi. Anandiuza za chikhumbo chake cha "chinsinsi" chosamukira kudziko lina ndikuchita maphunziro a sayansi ya zamadzi. Ndidakonda lingalirolo ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndidayamba kufunafuna mwayi wogwira ntchito kapena maphunziro apamwamba kumeneko.

Koma tsiku lina anandiuza kuti, “Sindikuganiza kuti ungapikisane kuti ukalowe kudziko lina kapena kukapeza ntchito.”

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Banja lake silinadziwe za mapulani ake

Anzanga ena ankaganiza kuti akungodziona ngati wonyozeka, koma ndinakwanitsa kumutsimikizira kuti ndikhoza kupirira. Kenako ndinakambirana zolinga zake zosamukira kudziko lina ndi apongozi anga am’tsogolo, makolo ake. Iwo anadabwa pang’ono atadziŵa zimenezo koma anandilimbikitsa kupitiriza kufunafuna mipata. Ndinayesa chinenero ndi luso ndipo ndinapitiriza kufunafuna ntchito.

Apongozi anga amtsogolo tsiku lina adanena kuti akufuna kudabwitsa mwana wawo. "Timuuza kuti ndi chinkhoswe, koma mukasinthana mphete, tidzakhala ndi aphera omwe muli awiri. kukwatiwa posachedwa,” linali lingaliro lake.

Ndinalipeza kukhala lingaliro losangalatsa; ngati nthano kapena kanema wa rom-com!

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Makolo anga ankafuna kuti ndizicheza ndi bwenzi langa

Koma makolo anga sanavomereze ndipo anandiuza kuti ndisamukire mumzinda umene ankakhala titachita chibwenzi kuti tikacheze. Choncho, tinachita mwambo wotopetsa kwambiri ndipo ndinasamukira ku mzinda wake ndi ntchito yatsopano kumeneko.

Tinapanga chinkhoswe mu Januwale ndipo monga banja tinali ndi tsiku lathu loyamba la Tsiku la Valentine posachedwa. Chimene chimayenera kukhala kukumana kwanga koyamba ndi bwenzi langa chinandiulula zowopsa.

Anandikankha mwamphamvu kwambiri

Tinapita kuphwando ndipo ndinaganiza kuti pambuyo pake tikhala limodzi usiku womwewo. Tinabwerera kwathu ndipo titalowa mnyumba, ndinaganiza zomusuntha. Pamene ndinayandikira ndikutsamira kumpsompsona, anandikankhira kutali mpaka ndinagwa pansi.

Ndili ndi mantha, kukayikira kwanga koyamba kunali kuti anali gay. Ndiyeno ndinakumbutsidwa mmene titakumana koyamba, ndinamukonda. Koma anali atandiuza kuti, “Sindikuona kuti ndiwe wokongola.”

Ndinali wonenepa pang’ono, ndipo ndinamuuza kuti ndikuyesera kuchepetsa ma kilos owonjezerawo. Kenako ndinakumbukiranso mawu ake ondinyoza onena za kuthekera kwanga kokachita maphunziro akunja. Apa m’pamene bambo anga anandipempha kuti ‘ndichite zinthu mosaganizira ena’ n’kumulola kuti andithamangire. Zinthu zinaoneka kuti zikuyenda bwino atavomera za chinkhoswecho.

Ndinafika podziwa choonadi

Pamene maganizo amenewa ankadutsa m’maganizo mwanga atangomukankha n’kuchoka kunyumba kwanga, ndinaitana makolo anga kenako ake. Mayi ake adanena kuti adadabwa ndi khalidwe lotereli kuchokera kwa mwana wawo. Koma posakhalitsa mkulu wake anaulula nkhani yeniyeni. Mkwatibwi wanga ankakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndipo anali ndi maubwenzi ambiri, mwinanso osatetezeka, ndi akazi ena. Mchimwene wake ndi mlamu wake atadziwa zimenezi, anamupempha kuti asamuke m’nyumba yawo.

Anayamba kukhala ndi anzake. Banja lake linali kumukakamiza kuti akwatire. Ndipo ine ndinali wopezeka mosavuta! Kukoma mtima konse kwa amayi ake kwa ine, mpongozi wam'tsogolo kunali kubwezera mwana wawo panjira. Ndipo mapulani ake onse obisika oti apite kutsidya la nyanja komanso kudzichepetsa kwake kunali kundipangitsa kuti ndikane ukwatiwo. Amayi ake anayesa kubisa powauza kuti sakudziwa za khalidwe la mwana wawo.

Chinthu chomaliza chimene anandiuza chinali chakuti, “Ndimuyesa kachirombo ka HIV ndisanamukwatire tsopano!”

Ndine wokondwa kuti zonse zidawululidwa kwa ine pa nthawi yake. Makolo anga ndi anzanga ankandithandiza kwambiri ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndikufuna kuchenjeza ena kuti asamakhulupirire mwamuna wopanda ulemu. Komabe, ndidapitilira ndikupeza mnzanga wapamtima posachedwa. Chaka chomwecho chisanathe, ndinali ndi maloto anga ukwati!

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