Mofanana ndi china chilichonse ku New York City, zomwe mukukumana nazo pa intaneti zitha kukhala zodetsa nkhawa. Ndi anthu pafupifupi 3 miliyoni osakwatiwa omwe ali pachibwenzi, mbiri yanu iyenera kuwunikira kuti muthe kukopa chidwi cha machesi omwe angakhale nawo, omwe ali ndi mizere ya swipes kuti mudutse. Mpikisano wovuta uwu […]
Ngati mukumva kutopa chifukwa chosambira mumzinda womwe sugona, simuli nokha. M'malo mwake, ena ambiri tsopano akuyang'ana njira zokumana ndi anthu osakwatiwa ku NYC, atatopa ndi pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi - chiwombankhanga, miyeso yachabechabe, mawonekedwe osatha a pakompyuta. Ndi chodabwitsa chodabwitsa: mumzinda wa
"Pali zipsinjo zambiri ... pa zomwe okwatirana ayenera kukhala nazo. Ayenera kukhala bwenzi lako lapamtima, akhale okondana nawe, akhale wachibale wako wapamtima, akhale bwenzi lako lantchito, ayenera kukhala kholo limodzi, bwenzi lako lothamanga. ...
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Timaganiza kuti kukopana ndi luso komanso sayansi, koma chisangalalo cha kukopana chimakhala pakudziwa momwe mungadzipangire nokha mwaumoyo, molimba mtima, osatuluka ngati chiwombankhanga.
Nawa maupangiri amomwe mungapangire mnyamata kukhala ndi chidwi.
Kodi mudalakalakapo chitseko kapena chitseko cha moyo wake kuti mudziwe momwe akumvera? Mumafufuza pa intaneti kuti muwone "zizindikiro zomwe amakukondani koma akusewera bwino" kapena mukudabwa ngati mwakhala mukuwerenga chipindacho molakwika.
Sizophweka nthawi zonse kudziwa ngati mnyamata ali wokondwa kukuwonani kapena ngati akukondani, koma yesani kuzindikira zinthu monga izi: pamene akuwoneka bwino pamaso panu kapena pamene mnyamata akuwona kuti mwasintha tsitsi lanu. Ngati muyang'ana mokwanira, mutha kuwona zizindikiro zomwe amakukondani.
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Kukondana ndi munthu amene simunamukonde n’kovutitsa maganizo. Onani malangizo othandiza amomwe mungalekerere kukonda munthu amene alibe chidwi ndi inu.
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Amawoneka kuti amakukondani, amatchera khutu, ndiwokongola kwambiri, komanso momwe amakuwonerani ... Mwakhala mukuyesera kudzifunsa nokha, "Kodi amandikonda kapena ndikungoganizira?" Izi ndi zoona makamaka ngati winayo sakubwera za momwe akumvera, ndikukusiyani kuti muganizire ndi kulingalira komwe mwayima nawo. Chifukwa chiyani zimakhala zovuta kudziwa ngati wina amakukondani, sichoncho? Ndiye, kodi pali zizindikiro zilizonse zomwe amakukondani kuposa momwe mukuganizira? Kwenikweni, alipo.
Ridhi akufotokoza kuti, “Ngati mukuchita zibwenzi mokangalika ndi kuloŵerera m’misonkhano yambiri ya usiku umodzi/kugonana mopambanitsa, ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoti mwatopa kukhala mbeta ndipo mukungofunikira zododometsa.” Mukugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri mapulogalamu azibwenzi, kotero kuti okondedwa anu akuda nkhawa ndi momwe mukusankhira kuti musasungulumwe.
Munayamba mwadzifunsapo ngati mungapangitse mtsikana kukuthamangitsani mwa "kunyalanyaza" iye? Tiyeni tiwulule zomwe tikutanthauza pomunyalanyaza ndi momwe zimagwirira ntchito.
