"Izi zikuyenda bwino eti? Iye akuseka nthabwala zanga ndipo zomwe ndinanena za kukhala wosangalatsa sizinamupangitse kuti achoke. Kodi ndikumveka bwino?" Inu mukhoza kuganiza mu bafa, pamene tsiku lanu loyamba ndi munthu.
Zedi, zimene munthu akunena ndi chizindikiro chachikulu cha mmene amamvera (pokhapokha iwo ndale), koma ngati mukufuna kuonetsetsa inu mukudziwa mmene tsiku likupita, woyamba deti thupi chinenero zizindikiro zonse muyenera.
M'nkhaniyi, chibwenzi mphunzitsi Geetarsh Kaur, woyambitsa The Luso School amene amakhazikika kumanga maubwenzi amphamvu, amakamba za mmene mungagwire zizindikiro kuti tsiku loyamba linayenda bwino ndi kungoona chinenero chawo.
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Tisanalowemo, kumbukirani kuti zizindikiro za thupi zokopa sizimayikidwa mwala ndipo mwina sizikhala zakuda ndi zoyera monga momwe mukuganizira. Chilankhulo cha thupi cha munthu chimakhudzidwa ndi zinthu zambiri, ndipo chifukwa chakuti akuwoneka ovutitsa sizikutanthauza kuti sakugwirizana nanu.
Mwina ndi chizolowezi chongokhalira kunjenjemera, kapena mwina ndi m'modzi mwa anthu omwe amadana ndi kuyang'ana maso (kodi tonse sitikugwirizana nazo?). Ngakhale tsiku lanu thupi chinenero akhoza kukhala chizindikiro chachikulu cha mmene zinthu anapita, yabwino chizindikiro nthawi zambiri amaona.
Ndikunena izi, zingakhalenso zachiwembu kunyoza chinthu chonsecho. Tiyeni tiwone mbali zonse za thupi la munthu zomwe zingakuuzeni ngati padzakhala tsiku lachiwiri kapena ngati mudzakumana. Casper mzimu posachedwa kwambiri.
1. Manja otsegula ndi chizindikiro chabwino
Manja otseguka ndi zinthu zoyamba zomwe aliyense ayenera kuziwona akamayang'ana zilankhulo za thupi kuti akopeke. Tsegulani manja, manja otseguka, manja otseguka, makamaka, osagwedezeka ndi chilichonse komanso osasuntha miyendo yawo.
Bola munthu amene mwakhala kudutsa zikuoneka omasuka ndi kulamulidwa, nthawi zambiri chizindikiro chachikulu kwa tsiku lanu. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zodziwika bwino zomwe munthu amakukondani ndi pamene akulozera mapazi awo kwa inu mosadziwa. Ngati mapazi awo akuloza potuluka, tiyeni tingonena kuti muyenera kukwera pang'ono.
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2. Kuyang'ana m'maso ndi njira yanu
Kukumana ndi maso pa tsiku lanu ndikwabwino. Nkhani ina: madzi ndi onyowa. Zowona, tonse tikudziwa izi, koma yesetsani kuti musayang'ane tsiku lanu usiku wonse. Mutha kungobwera ngati munthu yemwe akufuna kuti atseke nthawi yomweyo.
Ngakhale zili choncho, kuyang'anana m'maso sikuli kwakuda ndi koyera monga momwe mumaganizira. Ngati palibe kukhudzana ndi maso, zitha kukhala pazifukwa zingapo. Zingakhale chifukwa chakuti munthuyo akukayikira, kapena ngati amakukondani koma ali wamanyazi, ndipo kuthekera kwachitatu kungakhale komwe kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kumeza: alibe chidwi.
Monga tanenera kale, pali zigawo zingapo zomwe zimachitika kumbuyo kwa thupi la munthu. Ngakhale pali diso kukhudzana wanu tsiku, inu mukhoza kupita mozama ndi kusanthula mtundu wa diso kukhudzana inu umboni. Kodi kunali kuyang'ana mwamphamvu? Kapena mumangoyang'anana? Kuyang'ana mwachidwi & kukopana ndi maso zitha kukhala zosavuta kuziwona.
3. Kungokhala chete kosautsa sikutanthauza kuwononga
Pamodzi ndi mawu osalankhula omwe munthu amapereka, kuwunika momwe amalankhulira ndikofunikira kwambiri. Kuwunika kwa thupi la munthu sikungodalira mbali imodzi yokha; muyenera kuyang'ana ngati gulu lonse.
Ngati, pamodzi ndi kungokhala chete kosautsa, mumakumana ndi maso ambiri komanso kuyankhula momasuka, kukhala chete sikutanthauza zambiri momwe mukuganizira. Mwina tsiku lanu akuganiza za mmene kubweretsa latsopano mutu wa kukambirana kapena ndi pang'ono zovuta poyamba.
4. Kutsamira mwina ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yokopa chidwi
Pamene muli ndi chidwi ndi chinachake, ndi mwachibadwa kuyankha kwaumunthu kufuna kutsamira patsogolo kwa icho. Monga momwe inu subconsciously kukathera kuloza mapazi anu kwa tsiku kapena munthu mukufuna, inunso kutsamira kwa iwo monga mwangozi njira kusonyeza chidwi.
Ndi imodzi mwamayankho osangalatsa omwe thupi lathu limapanga, zomwe zimawonetsa kuti munthu akakonda chinthu, amachiwonetsa kudzera muchilankhulo chawo. Ndi njira yoti “Ndiuzeni zambiri” kapena “Inde, ndikumverani.”
Ngati tsiku lanu amachepetsa mtunda pakati pa inu awiri ndi kuyesa kutsamira patsogolo, mwina bwino chizindikiro kunja uko. Simudzasowa kudandaula za momwe mungachitire werengani thupi la mnyamata pamene iye akutsamira mwa inu.
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5. Nkhope imakuuzani zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa
Nkhope ya munthu imakhala ndi chidziwitso chokwanira pa tsiku loyamba kuti ndikuuzeni chilichonse chomwe muyenera kudziwa. Ayi, kumwetulira kwabodza sikukutanthauza kuti amaganiza kuti ndiwe wotopetsa. Zingatanthauze kuti akungosonyeza ulemu.
Kuseka kosewera, kukweza nsidze, kamphindi koyang'ana maso, kumwetulira, kapena tsinya; zonse ndi zizindikiro ndipo zimayikidwa bwino pa zomwe munthu akuganiza. Samalani zomwe munthu amawonetsa komanso momwe mumakhalira chifukwa khalidwe lanu ndilomwe amachitira poyamba.
Ngati munthu sakukondani, zidzamveka bwino. Ganizirani zosiyana ndi zonse zomwe takambirana lero. Thupi lolimba, kaimidwe kolimba, osayang'ana m'maso, kukakamira milomo, kunjenjemera, phubbing, shebang yonse.
Kuwunika munthu woyamba deti thupi chinenero zonse za wonse amamva za izo. Lamulo la golide ndi: ngati izo akumva chabwino, mwina zinali. Kodi munasemphana maganizo koma zokambirana zinayenda mwachibadwa? Musaganize mopambanitsa, mwina linali tsiku labwino.
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