Amaqhinga ali-13 alula okwenza uMfazi akuleqe

Ngaba udiniwe kukuba 'ngumfana olungileyo' kwaye ulahlekelwe ngamantombazana owathandayo? Ngaba ukwala kube luseto lwakho olungagqibekanga kwaye ubonakala uhlala ukwindawo yomhlobo? Bendikwindawo yakho ndizakuphendula umbuzo wesigidi seerandi wokuba uyeke njani ukumleqa umenze akuleqe.

Kuyadinisa usoloko ungumntu owenzela i-crush qha uzive ngathi wenze isidenge. Uyakwazi ukuthetha namantombazana kwaye ufumane incoko, kodwa ukufumana intombazana ukuba ikuthande libali elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.

Lifikile ixesha lokuba uphulukane namaxhala akho. Eli nqaku linezifundo endizifundileyo kumava obuqu, intetho yabafana, kunye namabali asezidolophini, kodwa akuphelelanga apho, ndikhankanye iimfihlo zesayensi ezenza ukuba amantombazana akusukele. Olu lwazi luya kukunceda ukuba ufunde ubugcisa bokwenza umfazi akubuze kwaye enze izinto ezikuthandayo kunye nowasetyhini onamehlo akho kuye, aze akuleqe.

Ungayisebenzisa njani iReverse Psychology ukwenza umfazi akusukele?

Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, makhe siqonde i-psychology yowesifazane kuqala. Ukuze senze abafazi basisukele, makhe sicinge malunga nokuba zeziphi iindlela zokuziphatha zethu ezibagxothayo kwaye ngokulula benze ngokuchaseneyo. Izinto ezimbalwa ezigxotha abantu basetyhini zezi:

• Ukuzilahlela: Uninzi lwabafana luphelelwa lithemba. Ngendlela abathetha ngayo, bathumela imiyalezo, okanye batyibilika kwiiDM. Ukuqala unxibelelwano rhoqo, kusoloko kufumaneka, ukwenza random, izijekulo zothando ezingacetywanga, njl. zizinto ezininzi abafana abazenzayo kwaye ngaloo ndlela bagqiba ukugxotha abafazi
• Ukuzithemba okuphantsi: Ukungakwazi ukubamba iincoko yeyona nto imbi. Uninzi lwabafana luswele izakhono zonxibelelwano ezisisiseko ukugcina ibhinqa linomdla wokuthetha nabo. Ukuba awuzithembanga ngento oyithethayo, uzakwenza njani ukuba intombi ikuthembe?
• Konke kudlala ngothando, akukho nyani: Abafana bahlamba abafazi ngemigca ye-cheesy pickup, izincomo ze-corny, kunye nantoni na, becinga ukuba kuya kubachukumisa. Yintoni abafana abaninzi abasilela ukuqonda kukuba abafazi khangela yintoni na isiseko yonke le topping samasi. Bajonge uburharha, ukuzithemba nokunyaniseka
• Ukunqongophala kwe-EQ: Kuyo nayiphi na indlela yobomi, kodwa ngakumbi ekusukeleni ukuba umfazi akusukele, i-quotient yeemvakalelo sesona sixhobo sakho singcono. Uninzi lwabafana luzama ukubonakala luhlakaniphile kwaye lukhulile, kodwa luzama kakhulu kwaye lubonisa nje ukuba iphakheji ayinanto. Ke ukuba une-EQ elungileyo, uyaphuma ngokuzenzekelayo. Wonke umntu uthanda amadoda ahlakaniphile naqolileyo

Ngoku siqokelele ulwazi malunga nokuba yintoni egxotha abantu basetyhini, ekufuneka sikwenzile kukwenza ngokuchaseneyo. Simple reverse psychology hack 101. Boom! Kungcono unxibe izihlangu zakho zokubaleka kuba ukuleqa kuqala ngoku.

Iingcebiso ezili-13 zokuyeka ukumsukela kwaye amenze akusukele

Inokuba nzima, isukela abasetyhini ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye isoloko izama ukubachukumisa. Bekungazuba mnandi xa uleqwa ngumfazi ufuna utshintsho? Ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiyayazi impendulo yalo mbuzo kwaye ke ndifuna ukukuqinisekisa ukuba ndilapha ukuze ndikuncede. Ungayenza intombi ikuleqe ngathi uyaphambana ulibale nangabanye abafana. Siza kwabelana nawe ngezinye zezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokumenza akuleqe.

Nje ukuba uphumelele isakhono sokwenza abafazi bacinge ngawe, unokwenza ukuba umfazi weScorpio akuleqe. Kwaye KUNZIMA ukuqhatha. Ngale njongo yokwaphula iindima zesini ezibekwe eluntwini, ndivumele ndikubonise indlela yokuyeka ukuleqa kwaye umenze akuleqe endaweni yoko.

Ingcebiso phambi kokuba ufunde - kungcono ukuba usebenzise la macebiso kuphela nomntu onomdla onyanisekileyo kuye. Ukusebenzisa oku kubafazi abaninzi akuyi kukuyisa naphi na. Ngokutsho kukaRoss Geller, “Abafazi bayathetha!”

Ndiyazi ukuba uyavuya ngokwenene ukufumana umfazi enze iinzame zokukucenga. Kodwa masiqale ngokugcina uzolile kwaye umgcine enomdla ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngumdlalo olula apho udlala nzima ukufumana. Eli lelinye lawona maqhinga axhaphakileyo asetyenziswa ngabantu abaninzi xa kufikwa ekuthandaneni.

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1. Yeka ukuzama ngamandla

Into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile kukuyeka ukuzama nzima ukuze ndiqatshelwe. Ndiyazi ukuba ufuna ukwenza umbono, kodwa ngokucacileyo, indlela obuzama ukuyenza ngokucacileyo ayisebenzi kuwe.

Siqala ngokwenza ulawulo lomonakalo, emva koko siqhubela phambili kwiimbono ezinzima ngakumbi malunga nendlela yokuguqula iitafile kwaye umenze akusukele. Eyona nto ilula onokuyenza ukwenza le nkqubo ibe lula kukuyeka ukuzama KAKA KAKHULU ukuba ufuna ukusondela ekubeni ngulowo uleqwayo. Amantombazana ayathanda ukudlala nzima ukufumana kwaye uwela kanye emgibeni njengoko uqhubeka uzama ngakumbi.

Ukuzilahlela ku ukucinywa kwabasetyhini. Ibindim lo ukhalayo ngokuzilahlela, ndisoloko ndingumntu oqalisa iminxeba, iitekisi, nokudibana, kwaye inkwenkwe, yayiyimpazamo! Ndiyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukuba lapho ngenxa yakhe. Kodwa ukuba uya kuhlala ukho, oko akumshiyi naliphi na ithuba lokuza kukudibana nawe phakathi. I-Friendzone yakhe ukuze imenze akusukele, inokuba sisicwangciso esisebenzayo kakhulu njengoko abafazi bengaqhelanga ukuba kuloo ndawo.

2. Mnike ithuba lokuqaphela ukungabikho kwakho

Uza kuqala njani ukuleqa, ngaphandle kokuba uyeke ukuyenza kuqala? Eli linqaku elisebenzayo onokuthi ucinge ngalo ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungayeka njani ukumsukela kwaye umenze akusukele endaweni yoko. Ukuba uhlala unaye, akukho mathandabuzo ngokungabikho kwakho.

Ukungabikho kwakho kuya kumenza azibuze ukuba ubuphi. Uphezu kwantoni kwezi ntsuku? Nangona kunjalo, ukuba akaqali ukuzibuza, oko kubonisa ukuba akanamdla kuwe ngolo hlobo. Ukuba ubambekile kumzila wokusukela owasetyhini, amathuba okuba awusikhathaleli indawo efunekayo ukuze acinge ngawe njengomntu oxatyisiweyo ofanele ukuhoywa. 

Uwafumana njani amantombazana akuleqe ungazamanga? Yalathisa ingqalelo yakho kwenye indawo xa ukwiqela labahlobo kwaye uhambe xa kufuneka. Musa ukuba ngumfana osoloko enamathela emva kwepati kwaye rhoqo imibhalo emibini. Oku kushiya umbono wokuba akukho nto ibhetele onokuyenza. Ngoko ke mnike indawo yokuqaphela ukuba awukho. Mnike ithuba akukhumbule.

3. Ufuna ukwenza umfazi ukuleqa phezu iitekisi? Yazi le mithetho yokuthumela imiyalezo

Ngaba ukhe waphendula iitekisi zakhe kwangoko uzifumana kwaye ujonge kwifowuni yakho ulindele ukuba aphendule? Yimpazamo leyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha uphendula imiyalezo yakhe kwangoko, isuka iphelelwe lithemba. Awufuni ukuba acinge ukuba umlindile imini yonke. Ufuna uku yenza ukuba akuthande ngetekisi.

Nantsi indlela yokuyeka ukumleqa. Ukwenza intombazana ilinde impendulo yenye yeemfihlo zenzululwazi ezinqabileyo ezenza ukuba amantombazana akusukele. Yandisa umtsalane wakho. Menze azibuze ukuba yintoni le uxakeke yiyo. Oku kuya kuvusa umdla wakhe kwishedyuli yakho yemihla ngemihla kwaye uya kuzama ukukhulula ishedyuli yakhe xa ufumaneka. Ndiqinisekile ukuba oku kuphendula umbuzo wakho othi "Uwafumana njani amantombazana ukuba akusukele ngaphandle kokuzama?"

Phambi kokuba ndidlulele kwinqaku elilandelayo, andifuni wenze impazamo yokukhukhumala ungamphenduli iintsuku zilandelelana. Oku kuya kumenza aphelelwe ngumdla. Awuzami ukumvuthela, ngoko ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuphendula kuye imibhalo yokumgcina enomdla. Ndikholelwe, kuphela komdlalo wobuchule wamagama ukwenza intombazana ikuleqe ngemiyalezo.

4. Uwafumana njani amantombazana akuleqe ungazamanga? Ukuzithemba

Ukuba awuyazi le nto, ke oku kuya kuza njengeendaba kuwe. Abasetyhini bane-'BS detector' eyakhelwe ngaphakathi kwaye baya kuziva indoda enovalo nje ukuba bayibone. Amadoda azithembileyo akufuneki azame ngamandla kwaye abafazi bayayazi le nto. Inketho enesibindi kukumenza umhlobo ukuze amenze akusukele.

Ngoku ulapha uxakiwe ukuba uzijika njani iitafile akuleqe, luxanduva lwam ukuba ndikuxelele ukuba umntu obhinqileyo akhonto inomtsalane ukogqitha indoda ekhupha ukuzithemba. Indoda eyaziyo into eyifunayo kwaye ikhululekile ukuba ngulo mntu inguye, zezi iimpawu zendoda ezithembileyo.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, abafazi bathanda 'abafana abalungileyo' kubuhlobo, kodwa ukuba unqwenela ukukhuliswa ngumfazi, kuya kufuneka wenze utshintsho oluthile. Kufuneka uziveze ngendlela yokuzithemba, apho kunganyanzelekanga ukuba ubonakalise nto nakubani na. Musa ukuzijongela phantsi, unomtsalane ngakumbi kunokuba ucinga.

5. Ungayeka njani ukuleqa kwaye umenze akuleqe? Lahla izincomo zokwenyani

Abasetyhini bathanda ukunconywa, basabela kwizincomo ngendlela emangalisayo. Andikuniki ilayisenisi yokumhlamba ngalo lonke uluhlu lwezincomo ngoko nangoko. Kukho indlela echuliweyo yokuncoma umfazi ngelixa ukuyo ukuthetha naye ngendlela emchukumisayo ngoko nangoko, kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nenkangeleko yakhe.

Umfazi wakho uyanconywa kwinkangeleko yakhe yonke imihla ngoko ukuthetha ngenkangeleko yakhe akufane kwenzeke. Kunoko, mncome ngokuzimisela kwakhe, uburharha bakhe namandla akhe. Olu luhlobo lokuncoma abafazi okunene bafuna ukuva.

Kuwo onke amadoda afuna amagama amsulwa enza ukuba intombazana ikusukele, nantsi imizekelo embalwa: "Ndicinga ukuba iyamangalisa indlela ozimisele ngayo ukufikelela kwiinjongo zakho, kuyakhuthaza kakhulu", "Ndiyayincoma indlela ozingisa ngayo!", "Uhlala uyazi ukuba undenza ndihleke". Zidibanise ezi kwincoko yakho ngamaxesha afanelekileyo kunye nexhala lakho malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukumsukela kwaye umenze akuleqe uya kuphelelwa.

6. Yiba ngumntu oqolileyo ngokweemvakalelo

Abasetyhini basoloko betsalwa ngamadoda abanokuwathemba kwaye baxhomekeke kuwo. Ukuba ubonisa ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo, awudingi nokuba ufunde ezinye zezi ngcebiso malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukumsukela kwaye umenze akusukele.

Ukuba ufuna umfazi wakho akuleqe, mbonise ukuba ungumntu anokuthembela kuye kwaye athembe intliziyo yakhe. Nje ukuba ibhinqa libone ukuba uyaziqonda iimvakalelo zalo kwaye ubeke isisombululo kwingxabano, uba ngumtsalane ngokungenakunqandwa kuye kwaye kuya kuqala ukuleqa! Zobulumko yinto abasetyhini abasoloko bejonga ngayo kubudlelwane.

Ukuba uye waba ngumfazi iinyanga ezimbalwa kwaye usazama ukufumanisa indlela ukuguqula iitafile kwaye umenze akusukele, ngoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba akazange abone novelwano novelwano icala kuwe okwangoku. Ndifuna ukuba umazise ngendlela echuliweyo aze emva koko ahoye okunye.

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7. Phulaphula ngenyameko

Ngelixa ewe kunyanisiwe ukuba into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuyeka ukumleqa aphinde abuyele kuwe, ayisebenzi into yoba umfazi akakho kuwe. Ke kubo bonke abafana abanamehlo abo kumfazi, kufuneka ukwazi oku. Unokufumana ingqalelo yakhe kuphela ngokumnika ingqalelo. Makhe ndikucacisele.

Kufuneka umamele le nto athetha ngayo kwaye uqaphele ukuba ibaluleke kangakanani na kuye. Xa uthetha naye ngokobuqu, musa ukuphazanyiswa ziingcinga zakho xa ethetha. Ufuna ukuba khona kunye naye kwaye ukhuthele mamela ukuphucula ubudlelwane bakho.

Ngokubakho kunye naye, uye wazi ngakumbi ngaye. Unokuba nebhinqa swooning phezu kwakho kwintlanganiso yokuqala ngokwayo ukuba udlala amakhadi akho ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba nencoko enentsingiselo naye lelinye lamanyathelo okumenza akuleqe kubudlelwane.

8. Indlela yokwenza intombazana ikuleqe uthanda uhlanya kwaye ulibale ngabanye abafana? Ukumenza umona kuya kunceda

Umona. Yimvakalelo enamandla. Enye yeemfihlo zenzululwazi ezinqabileyo ezenza ukuba amantombazana akusukele kukusebenzisa imvakalelo yomona ukuze uzuze. Ngoku nje ukuba ufunde igama elithi 'ikhwele', mhlawumbi ukhunjuzwa ngobudlelwane obuyityhefu obungakhange buphele kakuhle. Ayingomona lo siya kuwo, umona ophilileyo iqhelekile phakathi kwamaqabane kwaye ixhaphakile kwakhona xa uzama ukutsala umntu. Izixa ezincinci zekhwele zibonisa ukuba umntu uyamkhathalela omnye.

Zive ukhululekile ukuba hang out nabafana bakho kwiklabhu kwaye ulayishe imifanekiso kwi Instagram yakho. Unako kwakhona ukudlala ngothando kwaye uthethe namanye amantombazana xa ekufutshane okanye ushiye izimvo kwi photo intombazana ethile. Kodwa yinyathele kancinci, awufuni ukuyigqithisa, kuba oko kuya kwenza umonakalo omkhulu kunokulunga. Uyakuthatha oku njengophawu lokungabi namdla kwakho.

9. Ngena uze umbuze ukuba ubephila njani

Impazamo enye eqhelekileyo ukuba abafana benza nanini na xa bezama ukufumana umfazi ukuba abasukele kukuba ukubhidanisa umgama ukukhanyela. Ndibone umhlobo wam osenyongweni esenza impazamo ebuhlungu yokungamhoyi tuu umfazi ebekuye ngokungamazi.

Andifuni wenze kwaloo mpazamo ulahlekelwe ngumfazi okuwe. Ngelixa olu luhlu lukunika iingcebiso eziya kumenza abe ngumqalisi, kwangaxeshanye, alikuniki mvume yokungamhoyi ngokupheleleyo. Uya kubuyiselwa oko ukunike kona.

Ngalo lonke ixesha, jonga kuye kwaye umbonise ukuba uyayikhathalela impilo yakhe. Ngokwenza oku, uyamazisa ukuba ayisondlela enye. Uvelwano kuku inkxaso esisiseko kubudlelwane. Awufuni ukuthatha ingqalelo oyifumanayo ngokulula, kuba oko kunikwayo kunokuhlala kuthatyathwa.

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10. Thumela iitekisi zothando ukumkhumbuza ukuba ukhokelo luvulekile

Nantsi into endiyithandayo kolu luhlu 'yendlela yokuyeka ukumsukela kwaye umenze akuleqe'. Nokuba oku kunokubonakala kumnandi kangakanani na, ukuba akudlalwanga ngononophelo, oku kunokungqineka kungenamveliso. Kukho izigaba kunye imithetho engabhalwanga xa kuthethwa ngokuthandana.

Ekuthandaneni, uya kuzifumana usuka kwelinye inqanaba ukuya kwelinye. Ungathumela kuphela iitekisi zothando kumntu onokuthi abekho kuwe. Ukuncwasa kukumkhumbuza ukuba uselapho kwaye usenomdla. Oku kusenokude kumkhuthaze ukuba akucele ngaphandle kuba esazi ukuba akuyi kuba lilize.

Kwanombhalo olula ofana nothi “Bendifuna wazi ukuba ndicinga ngawe!” uyawenza umsebenzi kodwa ukuba ujonge ngaphezulu, nazi ezinye abaqalisi bencoko oko kuya kukunceda phezulu umdlalo wakho wombhalo flirty.

11. Sebenzisa amandla okuchukumisa

Yaphula umqobo wokuchukumisa, ngokucothayo. Oku kufuneka kwenzeke ngemvume yakhe kakade, nto leyo ethetha ukuba kufuneka ujonge xa ​​ezitsalela umva. Musa ukumenza angakhululeki. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, akakuchasanga ukubamba nje okuncinci, ke ndikholelwe, yindlela esebenzayo yokumenza akusukele kubudlelwane.

Kukho ezininzi iintlobo zothando iilwimi kunye nokuchukumisa umzimba yinto ebalulekileyo. Ukutyhala ngobuhlobo, ukuma kufutshane naye, okanye nayiphi na enye into yokudlala kunye ne-flirty kuya kukunceda ufumane ingqalelo yakhe. Ulwimi lokuchukumisa luya kuzisa ukuqhelana kwaye lonyuse intuthuzelo kunye nokukhululeka phakathi kwenu nobabini. Ufuna ukuba akhumbule ukubamba kwakho kwaye aqhelane nayo. Iintlungu zokulangazelela ukuba ngakuwe ziya kumphambanisa kwaye zimenze afune ukuba nawe.

12. Mjonge kwaye umqonde

Ezona zixhobo zinqabileyo onokuthi ube nazo kubudlelwane bakho arsenal kukukwazi ukuqonda ngokwenyani owasetyhini. Uvelwano kunye nokuphulaphula ngundoqo kule nto kodwa kukho okungakumbi. Okubonayo, ukuvayo, kunye nokuziva ngamagalelo, kodwa wenza ntoni ngolu lwazi? Uyayicinga kwaye uyihlalutye. Ngoku, andikucebisi ukuba uye kuyo yonke isayensi yokuxhuzulwa kwintombazana yakho kodwa ukucamngca ngebali langaphakathi lebali lakhe kuya kukunika umda ekungekho enye indoda enayo.

Ayiphelelanga apha, inxalenye yokugqibela yesenzo yintetho. Eyona nto iphambili apha asikokuzingca ngezigqibo osandula ukuzifumana kunye nokuqonda, kodwa kukuslayida ngobuchule kwiincoko. Ubuqili bakho abuyi kumbonisa kuphela ukuba uyamfumana ngokwenene kodwa buya kukusindisa xa usenza kakubi. Qhubeka, umenze akuthande!

13. Gqitha ubugcisa bokubhuda

Le yeyona ndlela inzima kwidabi lokuthandana kunye nobudlelwane. Ukuba usoloko ufumaneka ngokweemvakalelo, uzibeka emngciphekweni wokufumana umhlobo, ngoxa ukungazi kunokumnika imvakalelo yokuba awunamdla. Ukuchasa eli krele lintlangothi-mbini, ndinikezela kuwe, i-banter edlalayo.

Xa uzibandakanya kwi-banter edlalayo, ufezekisa ukufumaneka, ukuba ngumntu athanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye, kwaye udlulisele ukuba usenomdla kakhulu ngaphandle kokunika iimvakalelo zakho ze-mushy. Dlala ngesibhambathiso sakho sezesondo, menze ahleke, umteketise kodwa uhlale usazi ixesha lokuyeka.

Kwaye yiloo nto kuphela ekufuneka uyazi malunga nendlela yokuyeka ukumsukela kwaye umenze akuleqe, okanye umenze athandane nawe. Ezi ngcebiso ziya kwenza ukuba ibhola iqengqeleke kwicala lakho, kodwa ungakuthinteli ukuphindaphindana. Kuya kufuneka ubuyisele ngendlela efanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Ukuba umhlobo wakho ube sisidenge kwaye wenza wonke umsebenzi onzima kunye nomfazi, qiniseka ukuba uthumele le ngqungquthela ngendlela yakhe. Nqwenelela impumelelo!

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