Izindlela Ezi-5 Zokwenza Uma Ukhohlwa Usuku Olubalulekile Lomlingani Wakho

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Ukhohlwe lolo suku olukhethekile? Nansi indlela yokukulungisa. Asidlali uma sithi 'izinsuku' ziyizinto ezincane ezikhohlisayo ezingakha noma ziphule ubuhlobo bakho. Futhi cha, asisho izinsuku oqhubeka ngazo uma ungashadile. Namuhla, sikhuluma ngezinombolo. Zimbalwa izinto ezibangela amahloni ukudlula ukukhohlwa usuku olubalulekile lomlingani wakho. A okuningi labantu bake baba kule nkinga. Umyeni ukhohlwe usuku lwakho lomshado? Awu! Akuwena wedwa. Nakuba abesifazane beyi-super duper enhle ngezinsuku amadoda avame ukukhohlwa kakhulu. Ngakho umyeni ompofu ngokuvamile unecala. Kodwa uma ubheka ujule wawubona nokuthi uyalukhohlwa olwakhe usuku lokuzalwa. Ngakho lapho uya khona. Yiba mnene kancane kule ndoda enakekelayo.

Akunakuphikwa ukuthi kunezinsuku okungafanele uzikhohlwe ebudlelwaneni futhi kunezinsuku ezibalulekile ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi izinsuku zokuzalwa kanye nemigubho, lapho abantu kufanele bazizwe bekhethekile futhi udinga ukufaka lowo mzamo owengeziwe ukuze wenze lowo muntu azizwe ekhethekile. Esimeni semigubho, uma ungashadile khona-ke kungase kube khona usuku lokukhumbula usuku lomhlangano noma ukuphakamisa usuku olugujwa minyaka yonke okudingeka uhlale unolwazi ngalo. Lezi yizinsuku ezikhethekile ebudlelwaneni futhi uma ukhohlwa ukuthi isithandwa sakho sinephutha ngokuthukuthela. Ongakwenza wukuxolisa futhi ulungise.

Izindlela Ezi-5 Zokwenza Uma Ukhohlwa Usuku Olubalulekile Lomlingani Wakho

Okuqukethwe

Nakuba abanye bethu benenkumbulo embi, abanye bangase bagcwale umsebenzi. Kodwa ngaphambi kokuthi uqhathanise isimo sakho nesika-Hrithik Roshan Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara, ake sikutshele ukuthi akusona isizathu sokungafiki ekhonsathini yozakwenu noma ukhohlwe usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa – cha, ngisho noma ungumthengisi wamasheya osebenza kanzima ozinze eLondon. Kodwa, konke okushiwo futhi kwenziwa, sonke singabantu futhi sinamaphutha ethu. Futhi ngenkathi kukhona cishe akukho kulula indlela yokulungisa iphutha elinjalo, kunezinto ezimbalwa ongazenza ukukulungisa! Nazi izindlela ezi-5 zokuzikhipha ehlathini!

Ukufunda okuhlobene: Izinto ongazenza ukuze ulungise ukukhohlwa usuku lwakho lokuzalwa

1. Yeqa izaba

Kunezinsuku okungafanele uzikhohlwe ebudlelwaneni. Maphakathi nosuku lwakho emsebenzini, uyabona ukuthi usuku lokuzalwa lukazakwenu. Esikhundleni sokubafisela ngo-12 AM futhi wenze zonke lezo zinto obuhlele ukuzenza, uhone phakathi namahora. Awuthathanga ngisho usuku lokuphumula. Nasi iseluleko esihle kakhulu: yeqa izaba! Umlingani wakho akasona isiphukuphuku esanele sokuthenga ukuthi ube 'nomsebenzi omningi'. Noma ngabe ukwenzile kodwa ukuzithethelela ngokuthi umsebenzi ufika ngaphambi kokuthi isithandwa sakho sengeze inhlamba mngani wami. Unezindlela ezimbili zokuhamba. Okwamanje, khumbula ukuthi ukungabi nabanikazi kuzokwenza izinto zibe zimbi nakakhulu. Qhubeka nathi futhi sizokutshela ngendlela yesibili kancane.

2. Ungesabi ukuxolisa

Kungase kulingeke kakhulu ukuvala indlela yakho ekuxoliseni futhi uzame ukuthola indlela ebuhlungu kancane. Qagela? I-ego yakho inethonya elibi uma kuziwa ezindabeni ezifana nalezi. Imibiko isikisela ukuthi imibhangqwana abangenzi thambo ngokuxolisa komunye nomunye maningi amathuba okuba nobudlelwano obunempilo. Futhi lokho kunengqondo! Kodwa-ke, senze okuthile kithi hhayi hamba ne-curt "Ngiyaxolisa". Indlela okufanele uhambe ngayo ukuhlala phansi wenze leyo nkulumo - noma ngabe ibukeka imangalisa kangakanani. Sithembe uma sithi kuyasebenza. Futhi uma ungenalo ulwazi mayelana nokuthi izinkulumo zokuxolisa zisebenza kanjani, bheka inguqulo yayo ye-Kanan Gill Igcine kuyiyona.

Kunezinsuku ezibalulekile ebudlelwaneni njengezinsuku zokuzalwa, izikhumbuzo, izinsuku zesiphakamiso kanye nokukhohlwa lezi zinsuku kuwukuhlambalaza ngempela. Woza nokuxolisa okuqotho. Ingasindisa ngempela usuku.

Ukufunda okuhlobene: Indlela yokuxolisa kumuntu omthandayo - ukuze azi ukuthi usho ngobuqotho

3. Yenza leyo nto obuyihlela

Nakuba uzokwenza izinto zibe lula kuwe ngokuxolisa, qiniseka ukuthi uyakwenza banikeze indawo. Sawubona! Uma ukwazile ukubacasula, akulona iphutha labo ukuthi badinga isikhathi esabo ukuze banqume isiphetho sakho. Thatha lesi sikhathi ukuze udlule 'uhlu' lobudlelwano bakho. Cha, ubuwula, akulona uhlu lwangempela - yinani lezinto izithandani ezicabanga ukuzenza kodwa zingaze zenziwe. Kungase kuthathe usuku lokuphumula ekugcineni hamba kulowo mbhangqwana wobhucunga umzimba noma ulethe ekhaya itiyetha yasekhaya efiseleka kakhulu. Noma yini edingekayo, do leyo nto obuyihlela isikhathi eside futhi awukaze uyilawule. Kungasindisa usuku ngempela.

4. Bahleke

Lokhu kungase kube nzima. Kodwa uma ungenza umlingani wakho ahleke, lokho kuyingxenye yomsebenzi wakho owenziwe. Abantu bakuthola kunzima ukubamba amagqubu uma behlekwa. Kodwa ungacasuki. Sibheke wena, Mr(aba) Tickler. Uma ungazi ukuthi yini ebenza bagigitheke amaphaphu abo futhi bahefuzele, wena kufanele. Ukwenza umlingani wakho ahleke kuyikhono elisindisa impilo oyolisebenzisa ngokuphindaphindiwe. Manje kungase kube isikhathi esihle sokufaka ikepisi yakho yamahlaya. Qhubeka-ke. Cabanga ngokuhlekisa, cabanga ngendlela exakile, futhi wenze noma yini ukuze wenze isithandwa sakho sishaye ubuso obudangele. Ukukhohlwa usuku olukhethekile ebudlelwaneni akwenziwanga ngakho-ke kungcono ubenze bahleke futhi babuyisele okwenzile.

5. Yenza kube isimanga

Uma ubulindele 'indlela yesibili' esiyithembise isikhathi eside, nansi. Lokhu kungase kube nzima ukukususa, kodwa ngalokhu, 'ukuphathwa buthule' okubandayo kuzohlala kuze kube yilapho kuvela okukhulu. Uqagele kahle. Uma uqaphela ukuthi usuku olukhulu lozakwenu sekwephuzile, yenza izinto ngendlela epholile futhi engenandaba, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi uyavela. Uma kuwusuku lwabo lokuzalwa, mhlawumbe thatha usuku ukuhlobisa indlu futhi bamangale ngemva komsebenzi. Nokho, ungakushintshi umkhuba. Umlingani wakho ufanelwe okungcono. Kunezinsuku okungafanele uzikhohlwe ebudlelwaneni kodwa uma uzikhohlwa, sicela ukukumangaze kakhulu.

Indaba ende kafushane, uma ukhohlwa usuku olubalulekile lomlingani wakho, kungaba okwakho, xolisa, wenze isikhathi sakho, noma wenze konke ungakwazi ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi uchitha usuku njengoba ubuhlosiwe.

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