Emhlabeni jikelele, umphakathi we-LGBTQ ubulokhu ulwa impi ende nemithetho nemithetho yezomthetho ebilokhu iyizithiyo kubantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo abafuna ukuba ndawonye. Cishe amazwe angu-28 afana ne-USA, iJalimane, i-Australia, iFinland, iNingizimu Afrika njll. asekele umphakathi ngokugunyaza umshado wobulili obufanayo. ( Umthombo ). Imibhangqwana eminingi yobulili obufanayo edumile iphume obala kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Ngenxa yempilo yayo ehloniphekile, inenkululeko yokukhuluma obala ngocansi lwayo. Kodwa imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo edumile iyaqhubeka nokuba ugqozi kanye nezimpawu ezinamandla zemibhangqwana ye-LGBTQ emhlabeni wonke. Kodwa-ke, kusenendlela ende okufanele ihanjwe ngaphambi kokuba imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo neyobulili obufanayo yamukelwe umhlaba ngaphandle kwenzondo.
Isimo Sobulili Obufanayo (Izitabane) Izithandani ENdiya
Okuqukethwe
ENdiya, akukho simiso esithile somthethosisekelo noma umthetho osemthethweni oqaphela imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo. Ngemva kokususwa kweSigaba 377, isimo sishintshe kakhulu kubantu bobulili obufanayo. Kodwa-ke, abantu bobulili obufanayo abasakwazi ukushada eNdiya, akusadingeki bagcine ubudlelwano babo buyimfihlo njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Lokhu kunikeze umphakathi we-LGBTQ ithuba elisha lokuphila. Kunemibhangqwana eminingi edumile yobungqingili eNdiya eye yakhuluma ngokuthanda kwabo ucansi kanye nobudlelwano babo. Muva nje ngemva kokushona komklami waseGoan uWendell Rodricks, ubudlelwano bakhe beminyaka engama-30 noJerome Marrel baphinde bavela. Laba bobabili babenendaba yothando emangalisayo futhi babeyimandla nogqozi lomunye nomunye. Ezinsukwini zakhe zokugcina, uWendell wayesebenza kuphrojekthi enkulu - imyuziyamu yomlando wezingubo zaseGoan. Laba bobabili babethuthele endaweni encane ukuze baguqule ikhaya labo elinobukhazikhazi libe yimyuziyamu. Kwakuyiphrojekthi yamaphupho kaWendell njengoJerome. Bese kuba khona umenzi wefilimu uKaran Johar ongase angagqoki ubuwena bakhe bobulili kodwa naye akazami ukubufihla. Kunamahlebezi okuthi ifilimu ethi Ae Dil Hai Mushkil iyindaba yakhe yothando. Futhi-ke, kukhona umsubathi wokuqala waseNdiya ongungqingili uDutee Chand. Wabhekana nokugxekwa okukhulu lapho ephuma ngakho-ke akakhululekile ukwabelana ngobuwena bomlingani wakhe. Kodwa-ke, ubonise umphakathi we-LGBTQ eNdiya indlela eya phambili futhi waba uphawu olunamandla kithi sonke.
Izithandani ezingu-10 ezidumile zobulili obufanayo (Izitabane nezitabane)
Umphakathi we-LGBTQ ukwazile ukuthatha ukuma nokulwela amalungelo awo ngenxa yesibindi semibhangqwana eminingi eyaziwayo engongqingili. Le mibhangqwana engongqingili engongqingili iphume ekhabetheni futhi yembula ukuthambekela kwayo kobulili ngokuziqhenya. Bayisikhuthazo kwabaningi ngoba balinganisela imisebenzi yabo ephumelelayo kanye nobudlelwano nabalingani babo . Ngaphezu kwalokho, basezikhundleni zethonya futhi banezindlela zokuthumela umlayezo onamandla emphakathini. Naphezu kokubandlululwa kwemibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo, le mibhangqwana engongqingili engongqingili engongqingili ikhethe ukuvuleleka ngobulili bayo. Lokhu kubenze baqina futhi bathandwa kakhulu.
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Izithandani Ezingu-10 Zosaziwayo Ezifana Nobulili Obufanayo
Nalu uhlu lwezithandani ezidumile ezizuze izinhliziyo zabantu emhlabeni jikelele. Hhayi ngenxa yethalente labo kuphela kodwa nangenxa yesibindi sabo. Lezi zithandani ezingosaziwayo zikhombise umhlaba wonke ukuthi uthando alunamkhawulo.
1. U-Neil Patrick Harris no-David Burtka
Omunye ungumdlali odumile kuyilapho omunye engumpheki; ungakwazi ngisho ukusho i-duo engcono? KwakunguNeil owavuma uthando lwakhe ngoBurtka kuqala. Nokho, uBurtka wayengowokuqala ukuphakamisa. Ngemva kweminyaka engu-10 yobuhlobo obujabulisayo, ekugcineni bashada ngo-16th September 2014 e-Italy. U-Sir Elton John omkhulu ngokwakhe uhlobise lesi senzakalo ngokudlala kwakhe. UHarper noGidiyoni bangamawele alo mbhangqwana othinta inhliziyo. Bangomunye wabashadile bobulili obufanayo abakhuthaza kakhulu futhi abayizisusa kubo bonke.
2. U-Ellen DeGeneres no-Portia de Rossi
Uthathwa njengomunye wezithandani ezimbalwa zokuqala zosaziwayo abaziveze, u-Ellen nonkosikazi wakhe u-Portia bayakhonzwa futhi bahlonishwa kakhulu umphakathi kanye nemboni. U-Portia wamthatha iminyaka emithathu ukuveza imizwa yakhe ngo-Ellen! Wayesaba ukuthi ukudalulwa okunjalo kungase kuqede umsebenzi wakhe. Njengezithandani ezingosaziwayo, bebekhulumela amalungelo omphakathi we-LGBTQ kanye nokwamukelwa komhlaba wonke kuyo yonke imikhakha yempilo. Baqala ukuthandana ngo-2004 futhi bashada ngokushesha nje lapho ukuvinjelwa kokushada kobulili obufanayo kwachithwa ngo-2008. Laba ababili bathembisa ukuthi bazoba khona omunye nomunye baze bashone.
3. ULance Bass noMichael Turchin
Hlangana nombhangqwana ongqingili owenze umlando ngokushada kunethiwekhi yethelevishini. Umshado wabo wawuhlukile kakhulu. Babenephathi ye-bachelor, kungekho madoda azobakhapha, ama-supermodels njengamantombazane ezimbali kanye nezinjana njengabathwali bendandatho! Ungacabanga yini okunye okumnandi ngaphezu kwalokho? Hamba uyobukela ingxoxo kaLance Loves Michael ukuze wenze usuku lwakho lube luhle!
4. UJodie Foster no-Alexandra Hedison
UFoster, omunye wosaziwayo baseHollywood abazimele kakhulu, akakaze akhulume ngokuthanda kwakhe ucansi noma ngobuhlobo bakhe bangaphambilini esidlangalaleni. Yingakho eyingxenye yomunye wemibhangqwana edumile kakhulu eshadile yabantu bobulili obufanayo. Kodwa selokhu ashada nentombi yakhe yomthwebuli wezithombe u-Alexandra ngo-2014, akasabonakali enamahloni okuthatha izithombe. Uthole uthando lwakhe lweqiniso futhi akesabi ukujabulela yonke imizuzu naye.
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5. UJim Parsons no-Todd Spiewak
UJim Parsons- Inkanyezi ye-Big Bang Theory ngokuqinisekile yaphula izinhliziyo lapho iphuma ngonyaka ka-2010. Kodwa kwakumangalisa ukubona uthando lwakhe ngo-Todd Spiewak owabelana naye ngobuhlobo obuneminyaka engu-14 ubudala. Umshado wakhe noSpiewak ngoMeyi 2017 wawungumshado wonyaka.
6. UCynthia Nixon noChristine Marinoni
Ukuphuma ekhabetheni bese ujola nomuntu wobulili obufanayo okokuqala kungathusa. Inkanyezi ye-Sex neThe City ngokuqinisekile uChristine wayekhathazekile ekuqaleni kobudlelwane babo njengoba wayengenalo ulwazi lokuthandana nowesifazane ngaphambili. Kodwa uCynthia wakwazi ukuqinisa uChristine ngokwethula uChristine kunina. Ngaleyo ndlela ubuhlobo babo baqina futhi ekugcineni bashada ngo-2012. Manje lo mbhangqwana uhlala ndawonye ngokujabula namadodana abo amabili (uCharlie noMax) nendodakazi eyodwa (uSamantha). Bangomunye wezithandani ezithandwa kakhulu yizitabane emhlabeni, futhi ngesizathu esihle.
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7. Matt Bomer noSimon Halls
Nakuba bekunamahlebezi nemibuzo mayelana nokuziphatha kukaBomer kwezocansi, akazange akuvume esidlangalaleni. Kodwa-ke, ngonyaka ka-2014, wembula umshado wakhe noSimon Hall. Bashade kusukela ngo-2011 futhi bajoyina uphiko lwezithandani ezidumile emhlabeni jikelele. Lo mbhangqwana ungabazali bezingane ezintathu- uHenry, u-Walker noKit futhi unomndeni ojabulisayo.
8. U-Wanda Skyes no-Alex Skyes
Kusukela usomahlaya odumile u-Wanda Skyes enqume ukuphuma, ubengumsekeli okhuthele wamalungelo namalungelo omphakathi we-LGBTQ. Washada no-Alex ngo-2008 ngaphambi kokuphasiswa kweSiphakamiso 8. Lezi zithandani ezingosaziwayo zakhuluma kakhulu ngemibono yazo ephikisana nesiphakamiso futhi zathi akukho okunye abangakwenza ngaphandle kokusukuma bafune amalungelo omphakathi we-LGBTQ. Bangabameli beqiniso bamalungelo e-LGBTQ.
9. UMichael Kors noLance LePere
Indaba yothando yalezi zithandani ezisaziwayo zaqala ngesikhathi u-LePere engumfundi nje ofunda kulebula edumile ye-MK ngo-1990. Indaba yabo yothando yaqala e-Paris futhi yafinyelela umvuthwandaba ngomshado wangasese wasebhishi e-Southampton ngonyaka ka-2011.
10. U-Jillian Michaels no-Heidi Rhoades
Laba ababili abahlakaniphile bahlangana ndawonye ngo-2009. Bebekhulisa izingane ezimbili - u-Lukensia no-Phoenix, ndawonye futhi! UMichaels wenze isiphakamiso ku-Rhoades ohlelweni lwakhe oluthi 'Just Jillian' ngo-2016. Abayona into emfushane nemigomo yobudlelwane bangempela kithi sonke. Kuyamangaza ukubona izitabane ezingosaziwayo ziphuma futhi zamukela ubulili bazo bangempela. Lezi zithandani ziwumfuziselo wenkulumo ethi “uthando luthando”. Ukuphumela obala kwabo ngobulili babo kusiza ukwenza lukhulu ekwehliseni ukucwaswa okuzungeza umphakathi we-LGBTQ. Izithandani ezingosaziwayo ziya ngokuya zijwayeleka umqondo wobudlelwano be-LGBTQ. Lokhu kuwumthombo omkhulu wesikhuthazo kulabo abacashe ekamelweni futhi besaba ukudalula ubuqiniso babo. Ngakho uKudos kubo bonke!
Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa
1. Abantu bobulili obufanayo bangakha kanjani ubudlelwano obuqinile nobunempilo?
Izimiso ezifanayo ezisebenza kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo obuphumelelayo ziyasebenza kwabashadile bobulili obufanayo: ukukhulumisana ngokukhululekile, ukuhloniphana, izindinganiso zokwabelana, nokuzibophezela ekusebenzelaneni nezinselele ndawonye.
2. Abalingani bangabonisa kanjani ukusekela kwabo abathandana nabobulili obufanayo?
Abambisene nabo bangadlala indima ebalulekile ekukhuthazeni ukwamukelwa nokulingana. Lokhu kuhlanganisa ukuzifundisa ngezindaba ze-LGBTQ+, ukukhuluma ngokumelene nokucwaswa, nokweseka umthetho ovikela amalungelo abantu bobulili obufanayo.
3. Yimaphi amalungelo angokomthetho abantu abathandanayo bobulili obufanayo eNdiya?
Nakuba umshado wobulili obufanayo ungakaqashelwa ngokomthetho eNdiya, kube nentuthuko enkulu eminyakeni yamuva nje. Isinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme sango-2018 sasusa ubungqingili, sivula indlela yokwamukelwa okukhulu nokuqashelwa kobudlelwane bobulili obufanayo. Nokho, amalungelo amaningi angokomthetho, njengokutholwa kanye nefa, ahlala elinganiselwe kwabashadile bobulili obufanayo.
Imicabango Final
Uthando luwuthando, kungakhathaliseki ubulili noma ubulili. Imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo ifanelwe amalungelo, inhlonipho, nokuqashelwa njenganoma yimuphi omunye umbhangqwana. Nakuba izinselele zisekhona, inqubekelaphambili iyenziwa ekwamukelweni okukhulu nokulingana eNdiya. Ngokugubha ukuhlukahluka, ukukhuthaza ukuqonda, kanye nokumela izinguquko, singakha umphakathi lapho zonke izithandani zingathanda ngokukhululekile futhi zakhe ukuphila okwanelisayo ndawonye.
Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.
Futhi uCameron Esposito kanye noRhea Butcher.
Uphuthelwe abambalwa-u-Zachary Quinto, u-Ellen Page, u-Jesse Tyler Ferguson kanye nomyeni wakhe omuhle kakhulu.