Umlingisi weMarathi u-Subodh Bhave: Ngathandana Nentombazane Ebuyile Esikoleni Ngayishada

I-Subodh Bhave akuyona nje inhliziyo yemboni yefilimu yesi-Marathi. Umlingisi onesiphiwo ubhale izinhlobonhlobo zabalingisi abamangalisayo - kusukela e-Balgandharva, okungakaze kutshelwe, idrama yomculo wenganekwane yasetiyetha yase-India uNarayan Rajhans kuya ku-Sadashiv, umlingisi ongaphelelwa yisikhathi owasiyisa enkathini yegolide yomculo wakudala, nokunye okuningi. Engxoxweni ekhethekile, u-Bhave uvula isifuba ngamamuvi akhe akamuva, umshado wakhe nezinselele zawo eziningi.

U-Subodh Bhave wathandana noManjiri Oak esafunda ikilasi lesi-8 futhi efunda ikilasi le-10. Manje uManjiri Bhave uneminyaka engu-41 futhi uneminyaka engu-43 futhi bangabazali abaziqhenyayo bamadodana amabili. Okuthunyelwe kwabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kanye nezithombe zomndeni ojabulayo kuyinto okufanele sikulangazelele.

I-Hrudayantar imayelana nenkinga yomshado yabashadikazi futhi Imibandela Yokusebenzisa Le ithwebula izinxushunxushu zobudlelwane bendlela yokuphila yentsha yanamuhla. Uke waphila lezi ziqephu empilweni yangempela?

Nakuba okokuqala kumayelana nezingxabano zangemva komshado, lokhu kuhilela ubudlelwano obuhlala phakathi.

Nakuba ngingakaze ngizihlalele, sengineminyaka engu-16 ngishadile. Ngathandana nentombazane ngisesikoleni ngashada nayo. Njengabo bonke ubudlelwano, sibe nesabelo sethu sokwehla nokwenyuka, kodwa siphumelele ikhono lokuhamba ngomkhumbi sidlule kubo.

Bekuyini ngomkakho uManjiri ukuthi wazi ukuthi nguye?

UManjiri uyintombazane emangalisayo. Unekhono lokugcina abantu bendawonye. Njengomuntu ozalelwe ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi , uphatha imisebenzi ehlukahlukene kalula; into engingeke ngikwazi ukuyenza. UManjiri akagcini nje ngokubazisa abantu, kodwa futhi ubanikeza umusa nobubele abafanelwe yibo. Ngicabanga ukuthi uphelele kimi. Ungigcina ngiqinile.

Emshadweni, kunemfanelo okungenani eyodwa engashintshi. Iyiphi leyo mfanelo ngawe unkosikazi wakho angayithandi kodwa esefunde ukumelana nayo...

Isithukuthezi yinto eyodwa empilweni yami okungekho muntu okwazile ukuyishintsha - hhayi mina, hhayi umama wami, hhayi umkami. Futhi kuyamangaza ukuthi ngikwazi kanjani ukukhipha izinto eziningi naphezu kokuhlukumezeka. Nginamamuvi, ama-serial, imidlalo kanye nenqwaba yemicimbi epuleti lami, kodwa ngiyaqhubeka nokumba ukuze ngithole kalula. Angazi kanjani.

UManjiri uhlale ekhala ngokuthi angikaze ngimsize ukuhlanza indlu, nakuba ngizama ngakho konke okusemandleni ami. Ngiqoqa wonke amandla ami ukuze ngihlanze kodwa ngihluleke kabuhlungu. Ngithanda ukwenza izinto ngejubane lami elimnandi. Futhi ngicabanga ukuthi le mvelo yokunganaki yinto angakaze akwazi ukuyishintsha.

Ukhule kanjani umshado wakho eminyakeni edlule?

Nakuba mina noManjiri sesineminyaka engaphezu kwengu-16 sishadile, sesineminyaka engu-25 sindawonye. Sesihambe ibanga elide njengezithandani. Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, ukushona kuye kwajula futhi amagagasi engqondo abukhali, aguquguqukayo aye ehla. Ngangingumlingisi ngisho nangaphambi komshado, kodwa babengebaningi abantu ababengazi ngaleso sikhathi. Namuhla, ngidumile futhi njengeciko elidumile, ngiphoqelekile ukuthi ngihlale ngilinganisela phakathi kwempilo yami yomuntu siqu neyomphakathi.

Kuningi okushintshile kusukela emshadweni, kodwa kusekuningi okumele sikuhlole.

Isiphi isikhathi esasiyinselele kakhulu emshadweni wakho? Nabhekana kanjani nobabili?

Umshado ngokwawo uyinselele (uhleka)! Kithina, inselele enkulu kwakuwukufuduka endlini yabazali bami ePune ukuze siqale phansi futhi sakhe ikhaya eMumbai. Kwakukhona izinsuku futhi kwakukhona nezinsuku. Kodwa ngenhlanhla, sikwazile ukusinda futhi siqhubekela phambili njalo.

Mina nomkami sindawonye ngoba siyathandana futhi siyezwana. Sengikushilo lokho, imibhangqwana ehlukene inezinkinga ezihlukene. Uma ningathandi ukuhlala ninobabili, kusho ukuthini ukubhidliza impilo yenu yonke ngokubambelela ebudlelwaneni kuze kube phakade?

Njengomlingisi, uhlezi uhamba, uthandana nabesifazane abahle kushuthi. Uhlala kanjani uManjiri evikelekile uma ungekho?

Noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane esikhundleni sikaManjiri ubengavikelekile. Lapho umkami engibona esikrinini ngithandana neqhawekazi, uthi ubona uthando oluthile emehlweni ami olumcindezelayo. Nakuba ezinye izinto zingekho ngaphansi kolawulo lwami, ezinye izinto zinjalo - ngenqaba ukwenza izigcawu zothando ezingaphezu kwemingcele yami. Kodwa ekugcineni, ukuthi nithembana kangakanani okubalulekile. Angicabangi ukuthi ngingathanda omunye umuntu ngaphandle kukaManjiri futhi uyohlale engowami noma ngabe ngizungezwe abesifazane abangaki abahle.

Ingabe ucabanga ukuthi isikhungo somshado sibe nokuzamazama okuningi ngenxa yezindaba ezingokoqobo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, imiqondo ezimele kanye nokuwohloka kwezindinganiso zendabuko? Uyacabanga I-Hrudayyantar kwenzekani phakathi kwemibhangqwana emhlabeni wonke?

Ngaphambili, okuwukuphela kwesizathu esenza abantu bashade kwakuwukuzala. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abantu baye bazama ukuhlola izindlela ezihlukahlukene zomshado kodwa azikho eziye zamelana novivinyo lwesikhathi. Umshado empeleni uwukuhlangana kwabantu ababili noma imindeni emibili enezimo zengqondo, amasiko kanye nezindlela ezehlukene, futhi leyo ngxenye eyinselele kakhulu.

Ngicabanga ukuthi i-Hrudayyantar yenzeka phakathi kwayo yonke imibhangqwana eshadile ngesikhathi esithile ekuphileni kwayo futhi njengoba ingekho imibhangqwana emibili efanayo, imithetho ngayinye ihluke kakhulu. Wonke umuntu kufanele azitholele indlela yakhe.

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