Izinkondlo Ezinhle Zothando Ezingu-25 Zakhe Ezikude

Kulabo ababazi ubuhlungu bokuhlukana futhi bezwa isibopho sothando esingapheli, akukho okudlula izinkondlo ukuveza imizwa yakho. Wonke umlando wesintu unobufakazi bendima enkulu edlalwa izinkondlo ebudlelwaneni, ikakhulukazi labo lapho abalingani behlala ngokuhlukana. Ingabe nawe nomlingani wakho nithanda izinkondlo? Ungase ulangazelele ukumthumelela izinkondlo zothando, kodwa uyazibuza ukuthi yini ezobamba imizwa yakho ngempumelelo. Kuningi ongakhetha kukho: Kusukela ekubhaleni amavesi amade ngezinhlamvu kuya ekuthumeleni imiyalezo esuka enhliziyweni, izinkondlo zothando zamabanga amade sezihambe ibanga elide.

Izinkondlo zothando ezinikeza amagama ukulangazelela kwakho kube yindlela yokuthi abantu bazizwe bexhumene nezithandwa zabo zamabanga amade amakhulu eminyaka. Abanye abantu bayathanda ukuwabhala, abanye bathanda ukufunda nokwengeza emaqoqweni abo, kanti abanye bawabelana nezithandwa zabo. Ngeqoqo lethu lezinkondlo zothando zamabanga amade, uzokwazi ukuthwebula ingqikithi yokulangazelela, ithemba, namandla ahlala njalo othando. Ivesi ngalinye elilukwe ngokucophelela liwubufakazi bamandla nokuqina kobudlelwane obude obubekezelela izilingo zokuhlukana.

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A cwaningo eshicilelwe yi-Pew Research Center ithole ukuthi izithandani ezingu-1/4 zebanga elide basasebenzisa i-imeyili ukwabelana ngezinto ezinhle njengamavidiyo enziwe ekhaya, izingoma, izindaba, kanye nezinkondlo. Uma ubuthungatha izinkondlo zothando ezijulile, ezinenjongo zakhe ibanga elide, sihlanganise iqoqo elihle elizofanelana nezintandokazi zakho futhi ilethe ukumamatheka okuthambile ebusweni besithandwa sakho.

Yamukela ubungozi yebanga futhi uvumele la mavesi ukuthi aphulukise, akhuthaze, futhi okhele ilangabi lothando lwakho. Lokhu kuhlanganiswa makube isibani sethemba, esikuqondisa ezinsukwini ezinzima kakhulu. Uthando alunamingcele, futhi sithemba ukuthi lezi zinkondlo mayelana nokuhlukana nesithandwa ziyisikhumbuzo esimnene esifanayo.

1. Ukube Ubufika Ekwindla

Ayikho indlela engcono yokuqala ukwedlula intandokazi yomhlaba wonke kanye nembongi yakudala, u-Emily Dickinson. Le nkondlo ikhuluma ngothando, isikhathi, nokwehlukana. Ibhalelwe futhi ngomuntu ongekho. Umuntu afisa sengathi angaphinde ahlangane naye, futhi maduzane.

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Ukube Ubufika Ekwindla
By U-Emily Dickinson

Ukube ubufika ekwindla,
Ngangixubha ihlobo
Ngokumamatheka okuyingxenye kanye nokudelela,
Njengoba omama bemizi benza impukane.
Uma ngingakubona ngonyaka,
Bengizovala izinyanga emabholeni,
Futhi uwabeke emakhabetheni ahlukene,
Kuze kufike isikhathi sabo.
Uma kubambezeleka amakhulu eminyaka kuphela,
Bengizibala esandleni sami,
Ngikhipha kuze kuqathake iminwe
Ezweni likaVan Diemen.
Uma kuqinisekile, ngenkathi le mpilo isiphumile,
Ukuthi okwakho neyami kufanele kube,
Ngiyoyijikijela laphaya njengoqweqwe,
Futhi ukunambitha ingunaphakade.
Kodwa manje, bonke abazi ngobude
Uphiko lwesikhathi olungaqinisekile,
Iyangicindezela, njengenyosi ye-goblin,
Lokho ngeke kuchaze udosi lwayo.

2. Enye yezinkondlo ezinhle kakhulu 'zokuhlukana kwamamayela'

Akudingeki ube imbongi edumile ukuze ubhale izinkondlo mayelana nokuhlukana nesithandwa. I-inthanethi isiphenduke indawo enhle yokuthi abantu babelane ngobuciko babo nomhlaba wonke. Enye yalezi zinkondlo eyezinkondlo zamabanga amade, njengaleli gugu elihlanganyelwa ngu-a Umsebenzisi we-Reddit:

Amamayela ahlukene, nokho othandweni
Ngilinda ngesineke futhi ngithandaze phezulu
Koze kube nini ngibone ubuso bakho
Angisakwazi ukulinda ukuthi sibe sendaweni eyodwa
Ngibheka ukubala phansi engimaka usuku nosuku
Inhliziyo yami igxumagxuma njengoba u-zero esiza kithi
Ngendiza, ngebhasi, ngezinyawo, ngemoto
Akwenzi mehluko ngempela ukuthi kude kangakanani
Bengizohamba leli banga nsuku zonke ngize kuwe
Kodwa uma ungalinda nami ngingakwazi
Nge-Skype senza izinsuku zethu ndawonye
Ngiyazi ukuthi leli banga ngeke libe phakade
Dearest yazi, ngethembisa ukuba yiqiniso
Ngiyohlala ngikuthanda njalo.

3. Inkondlo KaHaruko

Indlela ende ubudlelwano bunzima kodwa bufanele. Kunesisho sakudala esithi “ukungabikho kwenza inhliziyo ithandeke.” Le nkondlo edumile emayelana nothando lwamabanga amade ihlanganisa ingqikithi yaleso sicaphuno.

Inkondlo KaHaruko
By Juni Jordan

Angikaze ngicabange ukuthi ngizogcina irekhodi lobuhlungu bami
noma injabulo
njengamakhandlela akhanyisa yonke ileyisi ethambile
komoya
ubude obuphelele bezinwele zakho/ishawa
ihlelwe nguNkulunkulu
insundu kanye ne-auburn
ama-undulations akhanyayo njengezinhlayiya
kwelangabi

Kodwa manje ngiyakwenza
thola intambama yamabhilikosi
namanzi ahlanganiswe nogwayi
kanye nesihlabathi namatshe
sawela:
Ububambe kalula kanjani
isandla sami
ngaphandle kwe-low tide
wezwe

Manje ngiyakwenza
khumbula ubusuku bokuhoxa
ibhuloho engalishiya ngemuva
lapho konke ukushisa okuqinile
lokukhanukela kanye lokuthuthumela
walala unonya futhi unomusa
njengoba uthando luzungeza okungapheli
tergiversations phakathi okubabayo
kanye nobumnandi

Ngedwa futhi ngilangazelela wena
manje ngiyakwenza

4. Usho Ukuthini UKhisimusi Kimi

Ukuba sebudlelwaneni bebanga elide kunzima njengoba kunjalo, kodwa ukugubha imikhosi lapho ungabalingani bomphefumulo uhlukaniswe ibanga kungaba nzima. Ingabe ucabanga ngesithandwa sakho futhi uzizwa uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka? Nansi enye yezinkondlo zothando ezijulile, ezizwakalayo kuye ibanga elide ezingakulethela induduzo nobabili.

Usho Ukuthini UKhisimusi Kimi
By Shelagh Bullman

Uyilokho okushiwo uKhisimusi kimi
Niyizibani ezikhanyayo ezicwebezelayo,
Esihlahleni sami sikaKhisimusi,
Ningamakhekheba eqhwa athambile
entanta emoyeni,
Kungilethela injabulo,
ngezingoma zenjabulo.
Ungamagama anothando ekhadini lami likaKhisimusi,
Ungumoya wami kaKhisimusi
uma ukuphuthelwa kuba nzima.
Uyinjabulo yami kaKhisimusi, nezizathu zokuthi ngijabule,
Kodwa baby Christmas ngaphandle kwakho kuyadabukisa kancane
Uwumuzwa wokupha nokwamukela,
Futhi mntanami kungani uKhisimusi usafanele ukukholelwa
Uyisipho sami sikaKhisimusi esikhethekile engisongelwe mina,
Ngigcwele uthando kuphela ngiyabona
Uyinjabulo yami yenjabulo yeholide
Kodwa ngikukhumbulile kakhulu futhi ngifisa sengathi ngabe ngikhona,
Ngeke ngidinge zipho kuwena kuphela emehlweni ami,
Ngigonwe ngifudumele ngobusuku basebusika obubandayo.
Kodwa okwamanje ngicabanga ukuthi ngikukhumbule futhi ngikuthanda kakhulu,
Ngikufisela injabulo nokujabula okuningi.
Jabulela Ukhisimusi

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5. Izinkondlo zothando mayelana nokulahlekelwa umuntu

Ikhasi le-Reddit r/LongDistance linomphakathi omkhulu wabantu abasebudlelwaneni obukude, babelana ngezibuyekezo ezimayelana nempilo yabo nezinto abazithandayo. Futhi kuyithuba elihle lokuthi abantu babelane ngobuciko obunikezelwe izithandwa zabo, njengale nkondlo yesoka ibanga elide eyabiwe yilo Umsebenzisi we-Reddit:

Ngike ngakhumbula abantu ngaphambilini.
Ngikhumbule abangani abahlala izinkathi zonyaka kuphela,
Ngikhumbule umndeni ngenkathi ngikude,
Sengike ngakukhumbula naphambilini.
Kodwa angikaze ngiphuthelwe ingxenye yami.
Angikaze ngiphuthe kakhulu kangangokuthi umzimba wami ubuhlungu.
Angikaze ngiphuthe kuze kube yilapho ingqondo yami iqamba amanga.
Angikaze ngiphuthe kanje.
Ukukukhumbula kuyangigulisa.
Kungenza ngenze izinto eziwubulima ukuze nje ngizwe okuthile futhi.
Kungikhumbuza indlela esasinenhlanhla ngayo ngesikhathi ulapha.
Futhi kungenza ngibe novalo lokuthi ikusasa lethu lizoshabalala ungasekho.
Ngakho ngiyakujwayela ubuhlungu besifuba sami.
Umngane obekezelelekayo.
Akudingekile ngempela kodwa ngandlela thize.
Ngoba ngincamela ukuthwala isisindo kunokuba ngiyeke ukukhohlwa.
ngeke ngikuvumele uphele.
Ngoba ukukukhumbula yikhona okungiphilisayo.
Futhi wonke amazwi avela kuwe anjengokuphefumula komoya omusha,
Wangikhipha emaphashini uqeda nje ukuvala ucingo.
Ukukukhumbula kungiphoqa ukuthi ngikwethembe.
Ukuzwa uthando lwakho ngezindlela ezintsha nsuku zonke.
Ukuze ngikhule inhliziyo enamandla kunalokho engangingazi ukuthi ngiyayidinga.
Ukukukhumbula kuwufanele izinsuku engingasoze ngadingeka.

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6. Happy Birthday Sthandwa

Ukungakwazi ukuvakashela nokugubha usuku lokuzalwa lomlingani wakho ebudlelwaneni obukude kungaletha ubuhlungu obunjalo. Nansi inkondlo yokuhlukana nesithandwa ngezikhathi ezikhethekile. Ithumele kumlingani wakho ukuze umenze azizwe ethandwa:

Happy Birthday Sthandwa
By ULyndee A Champion-Ivey

Yilolo suku olulodwa olukhethekile oludalwe nawe,
Lapho izifiso ziyana ngonyaka ozayo omusha.

Uzoqoqa kulo nyaka ohambe ngokushesha kakhulu,
Susa ukuzisola kwesikhathi esivunwe kudala.

Vuna izinsuku uNkulunkulu azitshala ngezibusiso,
Impilo yakho, umndeni wakho, nezifundo ezibalulekile zempilo.

Nakuba sihlukene ngosuku lwakho lonyaka,
Ngokholo nangothando lukaNkulunkulu izinhliziyo zethu ziyaqhakaza ngaphandle kokwesaba.

Lesi sifiso ngisikhethele uthando lwenhliziyo yami kuphela;
Ingadi yenjabulo nokunakekela okuvela phezulu.

7. Uthando ku-inthanethi

Esikhathini sobuchwepheshe, abantu bathole abaningi ubudlelwano obuphumelelayo bebanga elide ku-inthanethi. Kodwa okubi okujwayelekile wukuhlala ibanga elide isikhashana, kungabonakali usuku lokugcina. Nansi enye yezinkondlo mayelana nokuthembana ebudlelwaneni obusungulwe ku-inthanethi:

Uthando ku-inthanethi
By Jeremy

Kwenzeke kanjani lokhu, ngisaqhubeka nokubuza?
Njengoba ngingena ku-inthanethi ngilinde ukuthi kudlule isikhathi
Manje ulele zwi ukude isigamu somhlaba
Leli banga alilutho, ngiyabubula
Angikaze ngithande omunye owayemnandi kakhulu
Ngibheke ngabomvu ukukuhlikihla izinyawo
Iphunga lesikhumba sakho, ukufudumala kokuthinta kwakho
Ingabe konke engikufunayo futhi kakhulu
Njengoba ngicela imvume yokubuka ikhamera yakho
Inhliziyo yami ishaya ngamandla; kukhona umjuluko esandleni sami
Ukuba nawe kuwukuphela kwephupho lami
Njengoba isikhathi sihamba angikwazi ukuzibamba ngimemeze
Ngidonsa izinwele zami nginyathele phansi
Ngicela uvule ikhamera yakho ukuze ubone ukuhwaqabala kwami
Ukuhwaqabala kwami ​​kuphenduka njengoba ngikubona uyamamatheka
Yebo, ngiyazi mntanami, uzohamba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi
Uthando olude kunzima ukukubamba
Kodwa uthando lwethu ngomunye nomunye luyohlala lukhona!

9. Uthando ngaphandle

Izinkondlo ezithinta imizwa ngothando zingabuyisa izinkumbulo eziningi kubantu abasebudlelwaneni obukude. Kungaba induduzo enjalo ukukhumbula izikhathi ezinhle lapho ufunda izinkondlo zothando zokuhlukana ezikukhumbuza umlingani wakho.

Uthando ngaphandle
Ibhalwe nguRhonda L. Luther

Noma sihlukene ngamamayela,
Awukude nenhliziyo yami.
Ngangikuthanda ngaleso sikhathi,
Ngiyakuthanda manje.
Kuhlala kunini
Futhi ungalokothi.
Ngibuyisele izolo,
Zonke izinto ezinhle obuzisho.
Ngangikuthanda ngaleso sikhathi,
Ngiyakuthanda manje.
Kuhlala kunini
Futhi ungalokothi.
Ngibona amehlo akho,
Ngikuzwa useduze,
Nakuba ungenjalo
Ngempela lapha.

8. Morning

Enye ephuma eqoqweni lethu lezinkondlo zothando ezimbhalela ibanga elide, lena ngeyembongi edumile, uFrank O'Hara. Kumayelana nokuthi ibanga elingokomzimba lingaba yingozi kangakanani ku-LDR kwesinye isikhathi:

Morning
By UFrank O'Hara

Ngifanele ngikutshele
Kanjani Ngiyakuthanda njalo
Ngicabanga ngakho kumpunga
ekuseni ngokufa
emlonyeni wami itiye
ayishisi ngokwanele
bese kuthi ugwayi
ome ingubo e-maroon
uyangipholisa ngiyakudinga
futhi abuke ngefasitela
eqhweni elingenamsindo
Ebusuku esitokisini
amabhasi akhanya njenge
clouds futhi nginesizungu
ecabanga imitshingo
Ngiyakukhumbula njalo
uma ngiya olwandle
isihlabathi simanzi
izinyembezi engathi ezami
nakuba ngingakhali
futhi ngikubambe kweyami
inhliziyo eneqiniso kakhulu
ihlaya ongaziqhenya ngalo
indawo yokupaka
ngiminyene ngime
edlalisa izikhiye zami imoto
ayinalutho njengebhayisikili
wenzani manje
udlephi okwakho
isidlo sasemini futhi babelapho
ama-anchovies amaningi
kunzima ukucabanga
ngawe ngaphandle kwami
umusho owucindezelayo
mina uma uwedwa
Izolo ebusuku izinkanyezi
beziningi nanamuhla
iqhwa ubizo lwabo
ikhadi ngeke ngibe nobubele
akukho lutho lokho
uyangiphazamisa umculo
iphazili yamagama kuphela
uyazi ukuthi kunjani
lapho uwena wedwa
umgibeli uma kukhona a
beka kude nami
ngiyakuncenga ungahambi

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10. Something

Ezinye izinkondlo zothando zobudlelwano bebanga elide zikhuluma ngokuthi kuzwakala kanjani ukulangazelela ngisho isikhathi esincane ndawonye. Ukukhumbula izikhathi ezinhle akwanele; udinga ukuba eduze nomlingani wakho ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye emhlabeni. Lena enye yezinkondlo zothando kuye ibanga elide ethwebula lokho eluhlaza isidingo esingokomzwelo.

Something
Ibhalwe nguConstantine

Ngifisa sengathi ngingawuthwebula lo mzuzu unomphela
hhayi ngekhamera kodwa okuthile okungcono kakhulu

into ezongenza ngikhumbule ukuthi unambitha kanjani
ngaphandle kokuba izindebe zami zisondele ebusweni bakho

into engenza ngibuke emehlweni akho
noma ngabe besingaphansi kwesibhakabhaka esihlukene

into eyangikhumbuza ubuhle bephunga lakho
noma ngabe bekuyindawo esingakaze siye kuyo

into engenza leliphupho libe yiqiniso
into eyangihlanganisa nami kuwe

11. Umlilo Wothando Lwethu

Inkondlo edumile ka-Amy Finley emayelana nothando lwamabanga amade ikutshela ukuthi uthando luyizinto eziningi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ibanga eliphakathi kwezithandani ezimbili. Lena inkondlo ethi 'Ngiyakuthanda' yesoka ngalezo zikhathi lapho nifuna ukufinyelelana khona ngokomzimba.

Umlilo Wothando Lwethu
Ibhalwe ngu-Amy Finley

Ukuxhumana phakathi kwethu
Yakhiwe ngokuphelele
futhi inamandla kakhulu
Ngizizwa njalo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi siqhelelene kangakanani.
Inhlansi ejulile yothando lwethu
Ikhanya kakhulu kunangaphambili
Futhi yonke imicabango enginayo ngawe
Kubonakala sengathi lenza ibanga
Kubonakala kuncane
Futhi ezincane.
Kuze -
Ngolunye usuku maduze
Lelo banga lizoshabalala
Ngokuphelele
Futhi sizokhululeka ukuvumela uthando lwethu lube yinhlansi ekhanyayo
Ushiswe emlilweni wequbula.

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12. Sthandwa Sami Noma Sihlukene

Izinkondlo zothando zikaRoper zebanga elide zichaza ukuthi kunjani ukuzwa uthando lweqiniso emigqeni emine nje. Futhi inkondlo emnandi ongayithumelela isithandwa sakho uma sisanda kungena ezinkondlo.

Sthandwa Sami Noma Sihlukene
Ibhalwe nguKelly Roper

Sthandwa sami nakuba sihlukene,
Inhliziyo yami ihlezi kuwe,
Njengoba kwaba ngeyakho mhla sibonana
Futhi ngesigqi ngasinye, uthando lwayo luyavuselelwa.

14. Thanda Njengomunye

Lena inkondlo emnandi yesoka lakho elihlala kude. Mtshele ukuthi singakanani isikhathi senu ndawonye.

Thanda Njengomunye
Ibhalwe ngu-Angela Fernando

Ukulala ezandleni zakho
Uzizwa uphephile ekulimaleni
Ngokuphelelwa isineke ngilinda usuku
Ukuthi akumele ngikubone uhamba
Iminyaka ifika yedlula
Nokho uthando lwethu lubambelele ngokuqinile
Isikhathi sesifikile
Ukuze ekugcineni sibe munye
Uyisithandwa sami seqiniso nomngane wami omkhulu,
My umphefumulo womlingani kanye nomngane kuze kube sekupheleni
Ngethemba ukuthi ngizokugcina ujabule
Ungalokothi ube serious kakhulu noma u-sappy
Amehlo akho acwebezelayo futhi acwebezelayo,
Lokho kuyangijabulisa ukwazi ukuthi uthando lwakho ngolwami
Sobabili silimele futhi sakhala
Uthando lomunye lomunye aluzange lufe
Ngiyathembisa ngenhliziyo yami ukuba yiqiniso
Ukugcina uthando lwami, ngikunika lona kuphela
Kusukela namuhla kuya phambili, ngithembisa lokhu...
Izifungo zethu, ukuphila kwethu njengento eyodwa, kuyoba
Kuze kube phakade ivalwe ngokuqabuza.

15. Happy Birthday My Soul Mate

Ukugubha ama-milestone, njengosuku lokuzalwa lukazakwethu, uma uku-LDR kungaba yisigaba esinzima ukuthi udlule kuso. Le nkondlo ithwebula kahle isiqinisekiso nothando abantu ababelana ngalo ngezikhathi ezinjalo. Yabelana ngakho nothandiweyo wakho futhi ulethe ukumamatheka okuhle ebusweni bakhe.

Happy Birthday My Soul Mate
By Manisha Shejwal

Nakuba okwamanje
sihlukene ngezigxobo
emicabangweni yami, ezenzweni zami
usenhliziyweni yami...

Umzuzu ngamunye ngicabanga ngawe
nakuba ungekho eduze
Nazi izifiso zami
ukukuthandazela, sithandwa sami...

Empilweni yakho phambili
sengathi wonke amaphupho akho angafezeka
Futhi ufunda okuthile
okukhethekile nokusha...

Kwangathi izinkathazo zakho
konke kuyanyamalala
Futhi yonke injabulo
siyakuthokozela usuku nosuku...

Kwangathi ungathola njalo
uthando nokuthula kwengqondo
kanye nokubambisana
owakho...

Kwangathi usuku ngalunye lungaphambili
gcina ngentokozo
Futhi yini enye,
nge ulale kahle qabula...

Omunye unyaka,
manje isidlulile
Ekunika ukuhlakanipha
kuncane futhi kukhulu…

Iminyaka engamashumi amane nantathu
balele emuva
Okulandelayo okuningi nokuningi
zilandelana ziqondaniswe...

Ngikufisela Kakhulu
Happy Birthday my soul mate,
Ukubala iminyaka ezayo
Sengathi uNkulunkulu angakhohlwa!

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16. Secret Garden

Kwesinye isikhathi uthando luyakhula kuwena uma ukude nesithandwa sakho. Uma unesikhathi esanele sokuzindla nokuzindla ngemizwa yakho, ungabona ukuthi uthando lwakho ngabo selujule kakhulu kunalokho obukucabanga.

Secret Garden
Ibhalwe ngu-JTH

Utshale imbewu ensimini eyimfihlo yomphefumulo wami;
ukuthi ngizonisela nsuku zonke futhi nginikeze uthando ukuze lukhule.

Ngizoyinakekela futhi nginakekele ukuyinikeza konke ekudingayo,
futhi ukhule a uphawu lothando lwethu kusukela kule nzalo engcwele.

Njengoba ngiyibuka iqhakaza ngicabanga ngawe lapha nami,
futhi uphuphe usuku olubusisekile lapho siyoba ndawonye.

Uma unesizungu noma udabukile futhi uluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka,
ngena engadini yethu eyimfihlo lapho ngikulindele khona.

Woza uhlanganyele ebuhleni uthando lwethu olukhulile,
futhi ezingalweni zami ngalo rose makwazeke imfihlo yethu.

13. Ukuthunjwa

Ukuhlala kude nesithandwa sakho kungaba isikhathi esinzima kakhulu empilweni yomuntu. Sethula enye inkondlo yothando edumile ngokulahlekelwa umuntu; kuzwakala kusondelene futhi kudabukisa ngesikhathi esifanayo.

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Ukuthunjwa
Ibhalwe nguHarold Hart Crane

Izandla zami azizange zithintwe intokozo kusukela ezandleni zakho.
Cha, nezindebe zami azikukhululanga ukuhleka kusukela 'ngivalelisa',
Futhi ngosuku, ibanga liyakhula futhi
Kungenazwi phakathi kwethu, njengegobolondo elingamboziwe.
Nokho, uthando luyakhuthazela, nakuba lulambile futhi lulodwa.
Amaphiko ejuba ayenamathela enhliziyweni yami ubusuku ngabunye
Ngobumnene obukhuphukayo, netshe eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka
Isethi ku-tryst-ring igqoke ngokugqama kakhulu.

17. Uthando Lwebanga Elide

Okokugcina kwethu Reddit amagugu, imbongi engaziwa ithumele lesi siqeshana esichaza ukulangazelela, ithemba, isifiso, kanye nokubambelela othandweni abantu abakwenzayo e-LDR.

Uthando Lwebanga Elide

Lapho kubuhlungu kakhulu,
Kungani kuzwakala kumnandi kangaka?
Ngifisa sengathi konke lokhu kunengqondo,
Ngifisa ngabe ngaqonda.
Ukungabi nawe lapha kimi kungidwengula ngaphakathi,
kodwa angikwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngawe noma ngizama kangakanani.
Uyazi ukuthi ngizizwa kanjani ngawe, futhi ngiyazi ukuthi ngifuna ukuchitha impilo yami yonke nawe,
kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukukwenza lapho ngingakwazi ngisho ukuba eduze kwakho.
Kungani kufanele kube inkimbinkimbi?
Ukukuthanda uzizwa ulungile,
kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo,
ukwazi ukuthi angikwazi ukungigcina ngingalali ebusuku.
Ngifuna lokhu kubelula,
Ngifuna wena lapha nje nami,
ukubheka emehlweni akho,
ubanjwe ezingalweni zakho ... khona-ke ngizojabula ngempela.
Njengamanje leli banga eliphakathi kwethu lingaphezu kwamandla ethu,
kodwa ngisathemba ngelinye ilanga maduze
Ngizokuthola engikufisayo.

18. Kude Mthandi

Le nkondlo ichaza indlela ezizwa ngayo uma noma kunebanga elide phakathi kwakho nesithandwa sakho, akekho omunye oseduze nawe kunabo.

Kude Mthandi
By Janna Rutty

Ngalala embhedeni wami futhi ngicabanga ngawe.
Ngikuthanda kakhulu, angazi ngenzenjani.
Ngizwa ukufudumala kwakho eceleni kwami.
Ubuhlungu obusenhlizweni yami busuka bubheke emehlweni ami.
Kude kakhulu, nokho kuseduze njalo.
Uyisizathu sokuthi ngisekhona.

Ngilindele izikhathi lapho sizokhuluma khona
Ngilindele izikhathi lapho ekugcineni sibambene ngezandla sihambe.
Ukukuzwa ngempela ... usondele kakhulu kimi.
Umuntu ojabule kunabo bonke emhlabeni yilokho obungenza mina.

Amehlo akho akhanya njengamalanga ayisigidi.
Ukhanya kakhulu kunanoma ubani.
Ukumamatheka kwakho kumnandi angeke kungenze ngimamatheke.
Imisa umhlaba wami, noma isikhashana nje.
Ngilindele isikhathi lapho isandla sami sisesakho,
Ukukuzwa usho lawo magama amancane ama-3.

Awekho namanje amagama engingawachaza.
Inhliziyo yami ibuhlungu; namehlo ami ayakhala.
Kodwa lapho sikhuluma, inhliziyo yami iyandiza.
Ungesula njalo izinyembezi ngiyakhala.

Noma ungekho,
Futhi ngikukhumbule kakhulu, sithandwa sami,
Ngizokuthanda kuze kube phakade naphakade.
Ngiyohlala ngikuthanda sthandwa sami esikude.

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19. Othile

Nansi enye yezinkondlo zothando ubudlelwano bebanga elide ekhombisa amandla esibopho esihlanganyelwe ngabalingani ababili. Kubuye kube inkondlo enhle ye-LDR yokuvuma imizwa yakho ngothile uma uzibuza ukutshela umuntu kanjani.

Othile
By Owain L. Derbyshire

Amagama angeke awachaze
Imizwa yami ngawe,
Ngoba imizwa yami miningi,
Kodwa amazwi, mancane kakhulu.

Isikhuthazo onginika sona
Futhi ukuxhumana okuyiqiniso.
Ngiyajabula ngenkathi ngifinyelela
Ngithole onjengawe.

Unika uthando lwakho kamnandi.
Ngilahlekile uma ungekho.
Unami ngokuphelele.
Ngiyakwazisa ubusuku nemini.

Uyangihlekisa
Lapho ngifuna ukukhala.
Uyangijabulisa
Lapho ungazami nokuzama.

Ukuhleka kwakho kungenza ngimamatheke.
Wenza impilo yami ibe ngcono.
Ngithanda yonke into ngawe.
Ungumuntu engingeke ngikwazi ukumbuyisela esikhundleni.

Nguwe ongihlalisa ubusuku bonke,
Owenza usuku lwami,
Futhi ngakho kubonakala kimi ukuthi lapho
Yinye kuphela into osele ukuyisho.

Angazi ukuthi ngingakusho kanjani
Ukuze kuzwakale kuyiqiniso,
Ngakho-ke ngizokusho ngendlela engizizwa ngayo.
Ngiyakuthanda.

Alikho ibanga elingasehlukanisa.
Ungumuntu engingeke ngakukhohlwa.
Uyohlala usenhliziyweni yami.
Ngiyazi ngisazoba nawe.

Ngizokutshela ngokusuka enhliziyweni
Asisoze sahlukana.
Ungenza ngingabi luhlaza,
Futhi ngiyakuthanda ngokuba wena...

20. Ukucabanga Ngawe

Lapho ongakwenza nje ukucabanga ngesithandwa sakho sebanga elide njalo lapho uvuka, usuku luya luba lude futhi lube lude. Nansi enye yezinkondlo ezihlukene ebeka imibono efiselekayo ngamagama.

Ukucabanga Ngawe
By UGary R. Hess

Lapho ngidle namhlanje emini
Engangikucabanga nje nguwe
Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ulapha ukuze wenze lokhu okwenzayo
Ngifisa sengathi ngingakuphakela ngesipuni sami
Ngethemba ukuthi ngolunye usuku ngizophinde ngibone ukumamatheka kwakho
Angazi noma ngingabuthwala yini bonke lobu buhlungu
Ukwazi ukuthi ngikhona nawe ukhona
Ukucabanga ngezikhathi esasinazo nesingeke sibe nazo
Ungcono kakhulu owake waba khona futhi ozoba khona
Akukho engingakuchazela kona kodwa kuyathandeka
Ngisho nalapho ngidabukile, wangijabulisa
angazi ukuthi ngenze njani
Ngingethemba ukuthi ngelinye ilanga ngizokubona!

21. Njalo ngomzuzu

Ezinkondlweni eziningi zothando ezimenzela ibanga elide, lena iveza ngobuchule ukuthi ngisho nezikhathi ezincane zichithwa kanjani ucabanga ngophathina wakho webanga elide. Ikhuluma ngendlela inhliziyo yakho ebuhlungu ngayo isikhashana nindawonye.

Njalo ngomzuzu
Ibhalwe ngu-Amy Finley

Njengoba inkanyezi ngayinye iphuma ukuze ikhanye
Njengoba umoya uvunguza ezweni lonke
Njengoba ukukhanya kwenyanga kushanela ekamelweni
Nginguye ngicabanga ngawe.

Lapho ilanga lishisa ukubingelela kwalo ekuseni
Lapho izinyoni zitshiyoza futhi zintweza esibhakabhakeni
Lapho amaqabunga ezihlahla adansa emoyeni
Ngicabanga ngawe.

Ngesikhathi sobumnyama belanga lantambama
Ngesikhathi sokushwibeka nokugeleza kwamafu esibhakabhakeni
Phakathi nokuphela kosuku oluphithizelayo
Ngicabanga ngawe.

Ngenkathi amathunzi okuhwalala eqala ukuwa
Ngenkathi umoya wakusihlwa uqala ukubanda
Ngenkathi amakhilikithi eqala ingoma yawo yakusihlwa emnandi
Ngicabanga ngawe.

Njengoba nje ihora elimnyama kakhulu ebusuku liwela
Njengoba nje umhlaba uthule futhi uthule
Njengoba nje i-dreamland ikhala,
Ngicabanga wena

Nsuku zonke
Njalo ngehora
Njalo umzuzu
Ngicabanga ngawe phakathi kwamamayela
futhi ngikuthanda.

22. Isosha Lami Elihle, Elihle

Kwesinye isikhathi, abantu kufanele babuke ubudlelwano babo buguquka bube ubudlelwano obukude. Umlingani/umlingani ojoyina amasosha kungaba esinye sezizathu. Ngezansi kunenkondlo eqinisekisayo ekhombisa amandla nokuba sengozini kwembongi kumlingani wayo ebuthweni.

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Isosha Lami Elihle, Elihle
Ibhalwe nguBeki Coxon

Namuhla inhliziyo yami ibuhlungu
Endodeni ekude.
Bengingamnika noma yini ukumbamba,
Futhi noma yisiphi isihlengo ngangiyosikhokha.
Ngithola umqondo wami uzulazula nje
Esihogweni esinesihlabathi esingenalutho
Futhi thandazela ukuthi imicabango yami yothando
Thola isosha lami liphephile futhi liphilile.
Ubusuku ngabunye ngaphambi kokuba ngiyolala
Ngibheka phezulu esibhakabhakeni,
Nenyanga iyangiduduza
Lapho izinyembezi zami zigcwala amehlo.
Naphezu kwamamayela phakathi kwethu,
Sisabelana ngezinkanyezi nelanga,
Ngakho ngibabuka njalo.
Kuyangisiza ukwazi ukuthi sisemunye,
Ngakho njengoba ngilala phezu komcamelo wami,
Ngivala amehlo ngicabange ngawe.
Hhayi nje ezikhathini zami zokuvuka,
Kodwa nawe ukuwo wonke amaphupho ami.
Isosha lami elihle, elihle,
Ngikuthanda ngenhliziyo yami yonke,
Futhi into enzima kunazo zonke engake ngayenza
Kufanele samukele ukuthi bekufanele sihlukane.
Kodwa uthando lwethu luqine kakhulu
Kunanoma yimaphi amandla engake ngiwazi.
Ngesikhashana nje sindawonye,
Kuyamangaza ukuthi ikhule kangakanani,
Ngakho-ke size sihlangane,
Sicela uhlale uphephile futhi uqinile.
Inhliziyo yami ingeyakho kuze kube phakade.
Nawe yilapho okufanele.
Cabanga ngami kaningi,
Indoda yami enhle, ebukekayo.
Ukukulinda kuze kube phakade
Uhlelo lwami lwempi.

23. Uthando Lwebanga Elide!

Ngemva kwesikhathi eside ufuna ukubona umbono oyigugu womuntu omthandayo eza ngakuwe, ukulinda kuba nokungaphumuli. Izinkondlo zobudlelwane obunjalo zibonisa imizwa eluhlaza lapho izithandani zifuna ukuthi ibanga eliphakathi kwabo liphele ngokushesha, okuwuphawu lokuthi uthando lwaphakade.

Uthando Lwebanga Elide!
By UJessica Andress

Inkulungwane yokuqabula ayisoze yaba khona,
Kwanele ukwanelisa ukunxusa kwenhliziyo yami elangazelayo,
Kusasa kuzoba usuku engikuthanda ngalo kakhulu,
Kunanamuhla noma izolo noma ngaphambili,
Amagama nemishwana akusoze kwenza,
Lokho inhliziyo yami ekuzwa ngokujulile ngawe,
Lapho imizwa yami ijula ​​futhi ijula,
Ikhanda lami liyazulazula,
Ngikufuna lapha kuze kube phakade nangaphezulu,
Ukuze izinhliziyo zethu zihlanganyele futhi zihlole,
Izinhliziyo zethu zishaya futhi zishaya njengento eyodwa,
Izwa lokhu engikuzwayo, njengoba sekuqala nje,
Nokho, kancane kancane isifiso sami siphenduka ukufutheka,
Inhliziyo yami izwa sengathi ingaphakathi kwekheji,
Useduze kakhulu, nokho kuze kube manje,
Ngezikhathi ezinjengalezi, ngifisa inkanyezi,
Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ulapha hhayi laphaya,
Nokho impilo inzima futhi ayinabo ubulungiswa,
Engingakwenza ukufisa nokulinda,
Kuze kube yilapho sibonana futhi, njengoba lokho kuyisiphetho sethu,
Ngikuthanda ukwedlula amazwi ami angakusho,
Futhi kuze kube phakade, uthando lwami luzokhula usuku ngalunye oludlulayo,
Kuze kube usuku engibamba ngalo ngobumnene ubuso bakho,
Qamba izindebe zakho endaweni ekhanyiswe ikhandlela,
Ngikubambe eduze ngikuzwe useduze,
Qamba isihlathi bese uhlebela endlebeni yakho,
Izwa isikhumba sakho esithambile ngaphansi kwesandla sami,
Izwa amandla akho ngaphakathi enwebeka,
Ngizofisa leso sikhathi njengoba ngenza njalo,
Futhi ngiye ngafisa phezu kwenkanyezi, ngakho isifiso sami sizofezeka.

24. Angikwazi Ukuyeka Ukucabanga Ngawe!

Iqiniso. Umuntu osothandweni akakwazi ukucabanga nganoma yini noma omunye umuntu ngaphandle kwesithandwa sakhe. Lezi zinkondlo zothando kuye ibanga elide ziveza kahle ukuthi kunjani ukuhlala ngokwehlukana naye, futhi ungakwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngaye.

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Angikwazi Ukuyeka Ukucabanga Ngawe!
By Jennifer

Ngibheka iwashi,
Ithi 1:41,
Ngiyazi ngicabanga ngawe, angisoze ngaphela.
Ugijima emqondweni wami,
futhi ngisebenzise sonke isikhathi sami,
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi kungani uhambile futhi kungani ungeyena owami,
Ngihlala ngicabanga ngawe,
Ngesizathu esithile, angikwazi ukuyeka,
Ukwazi lokho njalo,
Uzoba nenhliziyo yami kuze kube phakade,
Izinsuku zami zihamba kancane ngoba ugijima ekhanda lami.
Ngithe ngikuthanda kuze kube phakade,
Akwanele yini lokho ukusho,
Nawe uyahlupha amaphupho ami, uma wazi ukuthi ngiqonde ukuthini,
Ngivuka njalo namaswidi namakhilimu.
Kungani ngilala ngedwa?
Ngingedwa embhedeni wami,
Ngiyazi ukuthi ngizocabanga ngawe,
Kuze kube usuku engifa ngalo,
Manje, namanje wonke lo mcabango,
Vele ugijime engqondweni yami,
Angikwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga ngawe.
Ngicabanga ukuthi ngizosangana!

25. Ubuhlungu Bokulangazelela

Siphetha lokhu kuhlanganiswa ngenothi elimnandi. Nali ithokheni elimnandi lokwazisa izinkondlo mayelana nebanga phakathi kwezithandani.

Ubuhlungu Bokulangazelela
By UJohn Mark Green

Lezi zikhathi ngokwehlukana
Ungalunciphisi uthando lwethu.
Ubuhlungu bokulangazelela
Yenza ukuhlangana ngakunye okujabulisayo
Isambulo esisha sothando.
Siwela ezingalweni zomunye nomunye,
Futhi ngiwela ngawe futhi.

Siyathemba bafundi abathandekayo ukuthi inhliziyo yenu ithathwe yilezi zinkondlo zobudlelwane. Ngokuhlangene, masibungaze ubuhlobo obuqhakaza naphezu kwamamayela, ukholo oluhleba emoyeni, nothando olumnandi kakhulu olukhanya kakhulu kunanoma yimuphi umlaza esibhakabhakeni. Sithemba ukuthi iqoqo lethu lamavesi lidlulisa umoya ongenakuvinjelwa wobudlelwane bebanga elide.

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