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Uyazi ukuthi yini ethokozisayo… Sifeze izinto ezimangalisayo – ukwakha amabhizinisi, ukunqoba izintaba, ngisho nokuhlola amanye amaplanethi. Kodwa uma kubhekwa ukuthi sithandana nomuntu ofanele yini, kufana nokuthi zonke izikhondlakhondla zethu ziyashabalala. Uma uzithola ubhekene nombuzo othi, “Ingabe uyena?”, uzokwazi kahle ukuthi sikhuluma ngani.

Ucwaningo ku I-Archives yokuziphatha ngokocansi iphakamisa ukuthi izinkulungwane zeminyaka, ngokwesilinganiso, zidlula kubalingani abayisishiyagalombili ngaphambi kokuba bathole “oyedwa” futhi bazinze. Ngiqonde ukuthi, masibhekane nakho, ukuthola umlingani wakho wempilo yonke manje cishe kuyivelakancane njengokuthola i-unicorn egcekeni lakho. Futhi uyazi, akuwona wonke umuntu oshada nesithandwa sakhe sasesikoleni esiphakeme.

Ngakho-ke, yisikhathi sokuqaphela ukuthi awuwedwa ekuzibuzeni lowo mbuzo waphakade. Njengoba ukuphola kudinga ukuba uthole amakhono athile angokomzwelo, kungase kuthathe imizamo embalwa, ukusonta nokujika ukuze uthole ukuthi nguyena yini. Ngakho-ke, masizulazule ndawonye ndawonye, futhi ngubani owaziyo, singase sithole impendulo efanele obulokhu uyifuna sonke lesi sikhathi.

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Okuqukethwe

Ukukhetha uzakwethu olungile kufana nokuthola ucezu lokugcina lwephazili - okubaluleke kakhulu kanye noshintsho oluphelele. Futhi ukukhetha okungalungile (funda: okungahambisani) kungaba nomthelela omubi kwezinye izindawo zempilo yakho. Ngokusho kuka-a cwaningo, imishado engajabulisi ibangela amazinga aphansi okwaneliseka empilweni kanye nenhlalakahle yawo wonke, nokwanda kokucindezeleka.

Manje, sedlule kokwehlukile izigaba zobudlelwano - ukukhuphuka nokwehla kwakho konke. Nalezo zinhliziyo ezibuhlungu. Zingashiya isilonda esijulile, zisenze silahlekelwe ukholo othandweni lweqiniso. Kodwa ungabe usazikhathaza ngoba silapha ukuzonquma izimpawu zokuthi uyena oqondene nawe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usesigabeni esijabulisayo sokuqomisana, usanda kuqomisana, noma wathatheka ngentombazane, lesi sihloko sizophendula umbuzo wakho - ingabe iyona eqondene nami?

1. Wenza umzamo ofanayo

Manje, nansi isivumelwano: wonke umuntu unenguqulo yakhe yokuthi umzamo olinganayo ebudlelwaneni ubukeka kanjani. Kodwa uma ufuna izimpawu ukuthi nguye ozoshada, kunezinto ezibalulekile okufanele uzicabangele. Echaza kabanzi ngalokho abayikho, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo UDkt. Aman Bhonsle ngaphambilini utshele iBonobology, "Ebudlelwaneni obunenjongo, umzamo uhlanganisa ukunaka izidingo zomlingani wakho. Ukuba khona ekuxhumaneni nokwenza umzamo wokukugcina kubalulekile. Ukwenza umzamo ebuhlotsheni kudlulela ngalé kwenhlalakahle yezinto ezibonakalayo." Ngakho-ke, ukuze wazi ukuthi hlobo luni lwentombazane olufanele, zindla ngokuthi imizamo yakho ibuyiselwe kangakanani.

2. Uveza okuhle kakhulu kuwe

Uma ukhona ukuqala ubudlelwano noma ukuthandana nomuntu omusha, kulula ukulungiseka ohlwini lwakho lwezinto ozilindele. Kodwa mhlawumbe kufanele ugxile emthelela ubudlelwano obunawo kuwe. Isibonelo, uma umlingani eveza okubi kakhulu kuwe (ukushaya insimbi?), kungesinye sezimpawu zokuthi akayena owakho.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuthola umaqondana okusekelayo futhi okubungazayo kuyigugu ngempela. Bheka lezo zikhathi lapho egxile empumelelweni yakho futhi eyikhathalela ngobuqotho inhlalakahle yakho. Ukwazisa kwakhe kubonisa indlela akuthanda ngokujulile ngayo. Ngakho-ke, uma uke wazibonela ukukhula empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu futhi umlingani wakho eveza okuhle kakhulu kuwe, lezi izimpawu zokuqala ukuthi ungowakho.

3. Uyavela kuwe ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka kwakho

Ingabe uyena obukade umlindile? Uyazibuza ukuthi wazi kanjani ukuthi uyena? Bheka i- okuyisisekelo sokusekela ebudlelwaneni bakho. Iqiniso liwukuthi, ukuthola umlingani okusekelayo okubonisayo phakathi nokucindezeleka kwakho kufana nokuthola ingcebo. Uma impilo iba nzima, ukuba nomuntu onomhlane kungenza umehluko emhlabeni.

Umeluleki wezempilo Deepak Kashyap uyachaza, “Uma kuziwa ekusizeni umlingani wakho ngesikhathi esinzima, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ubucayi besimo abhekene naso.” Lapho umlingani wakho ekwazi ukubona izinkinga zakho, kubonisa ukuthi unozwela futhi uyikhathalela ngokujulile inhlalakahle yakho.

4. Uyazihlonipha izifiso zakho

Ukubaluleka kothando lweqiniso nezenzo zozwelo ebudlelwaneni kwakhiwe kahle. Kodwa yilokhu okudingekayo - bobabili abalingani bazibophezele ekubekeni phambili omunye nomunye. Uma ezihlonipha izifiso zakho njengoba nawe uhlonipha ezakhe, zibone unenhlanhla. Kungesinye sezibonakaliso zokuqala ukuthi nguyena. Ungakwazi futhi ukukuthola ngokusebenzisa izinto ezincane ebuhlotsheni. Ngokwesibonelo, uma evuma ukubukela ibhayisikobho oyikhonzile nawe, kungase kubonise ukuthi ukuthanda ngempela.

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5. Uyakulalela lokho okushoyo

Ake sikhulume ngokulalela ngenkuthalo. Akukhona nje ngokuzwa amazwi, kodwa mayelana nokuhlanganyela ngempela engxoxweni. Zibuze imibuzo elandelayo:

Ingabe uyakulalela ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka okungadingekile?
Ingabe ubonisa isithakazelo sangempela kulokho okushoyo?
Ingabe uthola ukunakwa okungahlukanisiwe ebudlelwaneni obukufanele, ikakhulukazi phakathi nezingxoxo ezinzima?
Ingabe uphumela obala kuwe uma enombono ohlukile?

Uma kunjalo, kusho ukuthi uwuhlobo lwentombazane ngempela ongaba nenhlanhla ukwabelana nayo ngempilo yakho.

6. Ukwenza uzizwe uphila

The yin kanye ne-yang energy zenza ngendlela ehlukile komunye nomunye wethu. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi kukhona yini ukulingana kwamandla wesifazane kanye nesilisa ebuhlotsheni bakho. Futhi cha, akuphathelene nobulili. Kumayelana nendlela eniphelelisana ngayo. Amandla esifazane amayelana nokuphila ukuphila ngokugcwele - awuketshezi, ubuciko, nokupha. Amandla owesilisa amayelana nokucaca, amandla, isifiso sokuvelela, kanye nokuvikela. Nasi-ke isilingo: cabanga emuva ngendlela owazizwa ngayo ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi nothando lwakho.

Uzikhohliwe izinkathazo zakho?
Ingabe umzimba wakho uzizwe ucindezelekile kancane?
Ingabe uzizwe ushajwe kabusha?
Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi ungunozinti?

Uma kunjalo, lokho kuwumlingo wamandla akhe obufazi/abesilisa avumelana newakho. Lezi yizibonakaliso zikamoya ukuthi nguye.

7. Uyakuphusha ukuthi wenze kangcono empilweni yakho

Phakathi ku ubudlelwano obuvuthiwe, bobabili ozakwethu bagxila ekuwineni ndawonye njengeqembu. Uma usebudlelwaneni obuzibophezele besikhathi eside, impumelelo yomuntu ngamunye yomlingani ngamunye idlala indima ebalulekile ohlangothini lobudlelwano. Ngakho-ke, kuwumqondo omuhle ukuzindla ngalokho ozokuletha etafuleni ngezikhathi ezithile.

Isazi sengqondo Devaleena Ghosh uyachaza, “Ukuze ubuhlobo buhlale isikhathi eside, kubalulekile ukuthi ube nomlingani okukhuthaza ukuba wenze kangcono futhi ukhule njengomuntu ngamunye.” Ngakho-ke uma ekuphusha ukuthi wenze kangcono futhi esekela ukuzithuthukisa kwakho, kuphakathi kwezimpawu zokuthi ungunozinti.

8. Uyakufaka ezinhlelweni zakhe zesikhathi esizayo

Ukuhlela ikusasa ndawonye kuyindlela elula yokuthwala umthwalo ebudlelwaneni. Njengoba ulapha ubuza ukuthi, “Ingabe uyena?”, kuphephile ukucabanga ukuthi ufuna ukwakha impilo yakho nalo wesifazane oyedwa. Uma owesifazane othandana naye ekuhlanganisa nawe ezinhlelweni zakhe zesikhathi esizayo, uzimisele ngawe futhi ufuna okufanayo. Lesi esinye sezibonakaliso ezinhle kakhulu zokuqala ukuthi nguye ozoshada. Eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi intombi yakho nayo ifuna ukukushada. Uma usulungile, yisikhathi sokuqala leyo ngxoxo futhi uyise ubudlelwano bakho kwelinye izinga.

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9. Ungazi kanjani ukuthi uyena? Akakulungisi ukushiyeka kwakho

Bonke ubudlelwane bubona izinsuku zakho zemvula (ngisho nezivunguvungu) kodwa yilabo kuphela dlulela endaweni embi yobudlelwano yibo abasinda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Into ewukuthi, ukungqubuzana ebudlelwaneni kungokwemvelo ngoba sonke sihluke ngokumangalisayo. Futhi masibhekane nakho, akekho kithi ophelele. Ngakho-ke, uma uzibuza ukuthi nguyena yini, khumbula:

Uma umlingani wakho egxile ekuxazululeni izingxabano esikhundleni sokulungisa amaphutha akho, lokho kuyifulegi eliluhlaza ukwakha impilo ndawonye
Kodwa-ke, uma ehlala ekululaza futhi eveza ukushiyeka kwakho ngendlela elimazayo kaningi, sekuyisikhathi sokuvalelisa ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi okungenzeka ukuthi buyingozi.
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukuba nengxoxo eqotho ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi kungase kuholele empini enyantisayo mayelana namaphutha akho, ubuhlobo bakho abunampilo ngempela.

10. Uzizwa uphephile ukuba sengozini uma unaye

Yebo, ukuba sengozini kusivulela ithuba lokulimala. Kodwa qagelani? Kubalulekile ebudlelwaneni obuqinile. Ngisho ukuthi sonke siyathwala umthwalo wemizwa kusukela ebuhlotsheni bangaphambilini. Yize kukithi ukuthi sikusebenzele, kuyasiza kakhulu uma umlingani wakho ekubambele isikhala. Kungaba usizo kakhulu lapho uzizwa kabi ngezinye zezinto ezibalulekile ekuphileni kwakho noma umane unosuku olubi. Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi indoda izoshintsha ibe ngowesifazane ofanele. Mhlawumbe, okushiwo ngempela ukuthi lapho ethola ofanele, uzoba sengozini naye.

Nakuba ukuba sengozini nomlingani wakho kungadala ukwesaba nokungaqiniseki, a cwaningo iphakamisa ukuthi kungaqinisa ukusondelana kwakho futhi kujulise ukuxhumana kwakho kobudlelwano. Ngakho-ke, uma usengozini ngowesifazane, kusho ukuthi uzizwa uphephile ukuvuleka kuye futhi ube ubuwena beqiniso naye. Zama ukungamyeki ngoba maningi amathuba okuthi uyena owakho.

11. Niyasiqonda isidingo somunye nomunye sokuqinisekiswa noma ukuhoxa

Naphezu kwezinkolelo-mbono ezivamile, amadoda anekhono njengabesifazane ekuvezeni imizwa yabo. Kodwa-ke, umphakathi esiphila kuwo awushiyi isikhala esiningi sokuthi amadoda aziveze. Kwesinye isikhathi, amadoda ayahoxa ngokomzwelo ukuze abone ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi kwawo futhi athole impendulo efanele kulesi simo.

Wonke umbhangqwana unendlela yawo ehlukile yokubhekana nalokhu, futhi sithemba ukuthi nawe unakho. Wazi kanjani-ke ukuthi uyena? Yiziphi izimpawu zokuthi muhle kakhulu kuwe? Into ewukuthi, uma wena nomlingani wakho nithole indlela yokuqonda isidingo somunye nomunye sokuqinisekiswa noma ukuhoxa, khona-ke kungenzeka kube nguyena nje. Okubalulekile lapha ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile mayelana nezidingo zakho ezingokomzwelo.

12. Unazo zonke izimfanelo zobudlelwane obunempilo

Ingabe uyena noma cha? Ezigabeni zokuqala, kulula ukwakha ubuhlobo obujabulisayo. Kodwa manje, ngemva kokuba usunaye isikhathi esithile, bheka ubuhlobo bakho futhi ubone ukuthi uyawamaka yini wonke amabhokisi: ukwethembana, ukukhulumisana okusobala, ukuhloniphana, futhi-ke, ukubuyisela kanye nokwazisa. Lezi izimpawu ze-a ubuhlobo obunempilo, futhi uma ubabona esibophweni sakho, kungenye yezimpawu ezicacile zokuthi ningakha ukuphila okwanelisayo ndawonye.

13. Usuvele wathanda umgomo ngemuva kokuhlangana naye

Usazibuza ukuthi ukulungele yini? Ingabe uyena obukade umlindile? Nansi indlela esheshayo yokuthola: ingabe ulubonile ushintsho oluhle empilweni yakho kusukela wahlangana nentombi yakho? Thatha isikhashana uqhathanise impilo yakho ngaphambi nangemuva kokuhlangana naye. Uthando lweqiniso lunendlela yokusinika amandla futhi lusiqhubele ekubeni inguqulo yethu engcono kakhulu. Uma ube ugqozi lwakho ukuthi ukhuphuke izinga futhi ujahe imigomo yakho, qhubeka uqinise. Lokhu kuphakathi kwezimpawu ezicashile ukuthi nguyena ongakuphuthelwa kalula.

14. Kungaphezu nje kocansi

Lapho ukusondelana ebudlelwaneni kudlulela ngale kocansi noma ukukhangwa ngokomzimba, uyazi ukuthi ushaye i-jackpot - yebo, kuwuphawu oluhle ukuthi usuyitholile. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuxhumana phakathi kwenu nobabili kujula kunokukhangwa ngokomzimba nobumnandi. Kumayelana nokusondelana ngokomzwelo kanye nesibopho esidlulela ngalé kwegumbi lokulala. Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, ukusondelana kungase kujule futhi kube kuhle.

15. Awudingi ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana

Ake sikhulume ngokuzizwa uvikelekile ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ukuvikeleka ngokomzwelo kubalulekile enhlalakahleni yakho. Uma ulokhu ukhathazeke ngokuthi umlingani wakho uhamba phezu kwakho lapho kukhona ukungaboni ngaso linye, kungase kukushiye ukhathazekile futhi ungakhululekile. Kodwa, uma umlingani wakho ekholelwa ekuxazululeni izinkinga kunokuba aqede ubudlelwano ngokuphazima kweso, kungenye yezimpawu zokuthi ungumgcini. Khumbula nje, kunezindlela ezimbili.

16. Uyawuzwa emathunjini uyena

Nansi into: njengoba siqhubekela phambili kulesi sihloko, yisikhathi sokubuyisela ukukhanya kuwe nokuthi uzizwa kanjani ngaye. Ngakho-ke, thatha isikhashana uzibuze lo mbuzo: ingabe uyena? Uma ithumbu lakho likhala YEBO!, lihambisana nezimvemvane esiswini, bese siyakuhalalisela, intombi yakho iyona! Indawo yonke ikunikeza izithupha ezinkulu, iqinisekisa ukuthi uyisithandwa sakho somphefumulo.

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17. Uyawamukela amaphutha akhe kodwa futhi uyawabona amandla angakasetshenziswa

Ingabe uyena noma cha? Uma wazi ukuthi nguyena, amaphutha akhe awakukhathazi. Ngisho ukuthi sonke sinamandla nobuthakathaka. Akekho kithi ophelele, futhi lokho kulungile. Ukwamukela umlingani wakho ngoba bangobani, kunciphisa ukungezwani okuningi okungadingekile ebudlelwaneni. Nansi indlela elula yokuhlola ukuthi ingabe kunjalo kuwena:

Bona ngeso lengqondo umdwebo we-Venn wokuhambisana kobudlelwane bakho
Yidwebe ephepheni uma uthanda
Bese uzihlolela ukuthi izici zobuntu bakho ziyahambisana yini nokuthi ungakwazi yini ukubekezelela amaphutha kanye nezinto ezicasulayo zomunye nomunye.
Tholani ukuthi nizimisele yini ukuqondisana ukuze nibe izinguqulo ezingcono zenu

18. Ufuna abe yingxenye yakho konke empilweni yakho

Futhi nalu uphawu olulula nokho oluhle ukuthi nguyena: ufuna abe yingxenye yazo zonke izici zempilo yakho. Kulula kanjalo ngempela, akunjalo? Uyamthanda, futhi umfuna eduze kwakho ebubini nasebubini.

Uma wabelana ngezinto ezintsha futhi udala izikhathi ezikhethekile ndawonye, ningakha ubuhlobo obumangalisayo nomunye umuntu. Noma ngabe ukumaka izinto ohlwini lwamabhakede lombhangqwana wakho, ukuhlola izindawo ezintsha, ukuhlonipha amasiko omuntu siqu, noma ukwenza uhlu lwezinto ofuna ukuzenza naye, usuyitholile leyo!

19. Umama wakho uyamthanda

Manje, ake sikhulume ngokuhlolwa kokugcina kwe-litmus: imvume kamama wakho! Uma uku ubudlelwano obuzibophezele, ukusabela kwabangane bakho nomndeni kungabaluleka kakhulu. Omama banomuzwa wesithupha okwazi ukukala uma othile engalungile kuwe. Uma umama wakho engakwazi ukuyeka ukukhuluma ngendlela intombi yakho emangalisa ngayo, usuthole uphawu lwe-OG lokugunyaza! Lapho umama ejabule ngokukhetha kwakho, ingabe udinga ezinye izimpawu ezinhle zokuthi uyena?

20. Wafunga ukuthi ngeke uphinde uqome kodwa ubebonakala efanelwe wukuqala

Uyakhumbula lolo cingo olwenzile kumngane wakho omkhulu lapho wafunga khona ukuthi uzohlala kude nothando impilo yakho yonke? Futhi nokho, nakhu, uzama ukuthola ukuthi wazi kanjani ukuthi uyena. Lapho nje usuyekile ukuthanda nokuqomisana, weza futhi wabuyisela ukholo lwakho othandweni. Wenza kubonakale sengathi kuwufanele umzamo futhi. Abanye bakubiza ngokudalelwa noma isiphetho, abanye bakubiza njengokuhlangana nelangabi lakho. Noma yini ofuna ukuyibiza, kuwuphawu oluhle lokuthi ukufanele ukudutshulwa othandweni.

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21. Uphupha ngempilo yakho naye

Uzomangala ukwazi lokho ucwaningo iphakamisa ukuphupha emini ngomlingani wakho nokuphila kwenu ndawonye kungathuthukisa impilo yakho yengqondo futhi kukukhuthaze ukuba wenze kangcono. Amaphupho ayilutho ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kwezinto esizithandayo. Wake waba matasa ngomsebenzi kodwa umcabango odlulayo ngaye uphenduka ube yimizuzu eyi-10 yokucula? Uma uvame ukuduka emicabangweni izinto ezinhle ongayenza naye, ummoshe ngokuqabula, ukumkhipha ngezinsuku, bese udlula ikhanda phezu kothando naye.

22. Imigomo nezimiso zakhe zihambisana nezakho

Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uzibekele imigomo, ucabange impilo yakho ngendlela ethile, futhi unezinhlelo onazo zomsebenzi wakho. Ukuze wazi ukuthi nguyena noma cha, yiba nengxoxo evulekile mayelana nekusasa lenu ndawonye. Uma umlingani wakho abelana ngezinhloso nezifiso ezifanayo, unayo impendulo yakho.

Futhi nansi i-cherry phezulu: uma izindinganiso zakho nezimiso zokuziphatha zihambisana, kufana nomdlalo owenziwe ezulwini. Kusho ukuthi nisekhasini elifanayo mayelana nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu. Futhi ukuba nalokhu kuvumelana kuyoholela ebuhlotsheni obunenjongo.

23. Izimpawu zomoya nguyena – uke wawela izindlela ngaphambili

Kungenzeka ukuthi wena nomlingani wakho senike nawela izindlela ngaphambili kodwa anizange nihlangane kwaze kwafika isikhathi esifanele. Futhi lapho ekugcineni nihlangana, wamangala ukuthi wawuseduze kangakanani ukuhlangana nabo ngaphambili kodwa awuzange uhlangane. Lezi yizibonakaliso zikamoya ukuthi nguye. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ku-a ukuxhumana kwe-twin-flame – lapho niphambana khona empilweni, kodwa ningahlangani kuze kube nikuhlomele ngokugcwele ukubhekana nokuxhumana okunamandla kangaka empilweni yenu.

24. Uletha ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho noma engekho

Wazi kanjani lapho uthola eyodwa? Uzibuza ukuthi ungazi kanjani ukuthi intombazane ifanele ukuphishekelwa? Futhi wazi nini ukuthi uqinisile? Nansi impendulo: uma ekujabulisa, kungenye yezimpawu zentombi enkulu. Futhi uma kunguye, ngempela lowo, khona-ke ngeke uzizwe ujabule kuphela lapho ekhona. Kufana nokuthi unalawa mandla omlingo okukhanyisela usuku lwakho, ngisho noma engekho ngokomzimba. Nazi izimpawu ezimbalwa ezicashile ukuthi ungowakho:

Ifoni yakho iyabhaza futhi ubona isithombe esihle sakhe sivela. Ngokushesha, ubuso bakho bukhanya ngokusineka okukhulu
Ukuthumelela umbhalo omnandi wobusuku obuhle futhi inhliziyo yakho izizwa ifudumele futhi ingahlangani
Izinto ezincane, njenge-emoji yothando noma inkumbulo yesikhathi esikhethekile owabelane ngaso, zingakwenza umomotheke ngaphandle kokuqaphela
Ukucabanga nje ngaye kuletha ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho futhi kwenza inhliziyo yakho ibhaluze

25. Nisengabangane naye

Cabanga ngobudlelwano phakathi kukaRyan Reynolds noBlake Lively. Isizathu esenza ukuthi babe yizithandani zosaziwayo abayintandokazi ku-inthanethi ukuthi: benza njengabangane abakhulu phakathi kwabo ngisho nangemva kweminyaka beshadile. Ngakho, uma usengaba abangani abakhulu nomngane wakho womshado noma umlingani, ushaye i-jackpot! Ngokweqiniso, kufana nokuba nokungcono kakhulu kwemihlaba yomibili. Nakhu ukuthi kungani engumngane wakho womphefumulo uma ningabathandi futhi ningabangane omunye nomunye:

Ningahleka ndawonye, nicobelelane izimfihlo futhi nisekelane ngendlela engenziwa abangane beqiniso kuphela
Ningazwana futhi nidale izinto ezinhle ngisho noma kuthatha isikhathi nomzamo
Ukuba abangani ngaphezu kokuba yizithandani kuqeda ukungezwani
Kuthuthukisa ukukhulumisana ngokukhululekile
Niyaqonda futhi nifeze izidingo zomunye nomunye kumazinga amaningi

Izikhombi Ezibalulekile

Uma ehlala ekhona, ekunikeza lokho kucindezela okwengeziwe futhi akujabulele ukuze ube inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho, kungenzeka kube nguyena.
Uma ucabanga ikusasa lakho, likhona lapho esithombeni ngoba impilo ngaphandle kwakhe ayinangqondo
Ukuze wakhe ubudlelwano obujabulisayo nobunempilo, udinga ukuthola ukuthi uyawazisa yini umbono wakhe futhi umamukele ngendlela ayiyo.
Uma ekwenza ukholelwe othandweni futhi, enezingxoxo ezithembekile nawe, futhi ebonisa ukuthi ufuna ikusasa nawe, uyazi ukuthi uyena

"Ngabe uyena owami?" Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uzibuze lo mbuzo - ikakhulukazi uma uhlela ukubopha ifindo nentombi yesikhathi eside noma wenze isinqumo esikhulu othandweni lwakho. Uma ehlola iningi lamabhokisi akulesi sihloko futhi enze umphefumulo wakho wenze umdanso ojabulisayo, khona-ke siyakuhalalisela, kungenzeka ukuthi uwutholile lowo! Kusukela kulezo zinto ezincane ezithandekayo kuya endleleni akusekela ngayo futhi akuphonsele inselelo ngayo, lezi zimpawu zibonisa ukuxhumana okukhethekile ngempela. Ngakho-ke, gcina amehlo akho evulekele lezo zinhlansi zemilingo, lalela amathumbu akho, futhi ujabulele uhambo lwakho ngokujabulisayo!

Lesi sihloko sabuyekezwa ngoJuni 2023.

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1. Wazi kanjani uma othile engowakho?

Ukwazi ukuthi ngabe othile ungowakho kuwukuzizwisa okujulile komuntu siqu. Kodwa kunezici ezimbalwa ezibalulekile ongazicabangela. Ingabe izinkolelo zakho namaphupho akho aphakeme komunye nomunye? Kufana nokuthola umaqondana ebugebengwini ofuna izinto ezifanayo nezakho – umdlalo owenziwe ku-rom-com ezulwini! Futhi, ingabe uzizwa ujulile ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo kanye nenjabulo yangempela lapho nindawonye? Ungakwazi yini ukwabelana ngemicabango nemizwa yakho ejulile, wazi ukuthi bakutholile? Okokugcina, ingabe bayi-cheerleader yakho enkulu? Uma kunjalo, maningi amathuba okuthi lo muntu kube ngowakho!

2. Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukwazi ukuthi uyena?

Asikho isikhathi esinqunyiwe sokunquma ukuthi nguyena yini. Abantu abaningi basikisela ukuthi kuthatha cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha noma izinsuku ezingu-172 ukujola nentombazane ngaphambi kokunquma ukuthi iyona yini ezoshada. Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukwethemba imizwa yakho engokwemvelo, ukuxhumana ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakho, futhi uvumele ubuhlobo buthuthuke ngokwemvelo.

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