Kia tīmata tātou me tētahi kōrero tūturu mō te whāwhā i roto i te marena i tae mai ki a mātou i tētahi o ā mātou kaipānui inā tata nei.
I reira tētahi tangata, he tohunga ngaio 45-tau te pakeke, e mahi ana i tētahi umanga hangarau mōhiohio rongonui. He tangata mātau, he ātaahua, he angitu hoki ia, engari he raruraru anō tōna. He nui rawa tōna hiahia ki te moepuku. He nui rawa te moepuku. Kāore he mea i makona i tōna hiahia.
I tētahi rā tino taumaha ka riri ia. Nō reira ka tūtaki ia ki a ia, ā, kāore i ruarua, ka peke atu ki a ia, ka whana i a ia. I tana ātete, ka taupokina e ia tōna waha ki ōna ringa taratara, ka pēhi kaha ki a ia.
I ngana ia ki te ātete engari i te mutunga, me tuku ia . I mōhio ia he kaha ake tōna tinana i a ia, ā, kāore he wāhi mōna ki te whakahē i tōna mana. Koinei te wā tuatahi i tahuri ai ia ki te tāwharau. I whakamahia ia e ia hei taonga, i tukinotia ia e ia, i moe tahi me ia, he mea whakarihariha katoa, ā, i te wā i makona ai ia, ka waiho noa ia e ia kia takoto noa iho.
I muri i ngā pō maha pērā, i mōhio ia e 15 meneti te roa o tana whakamātautau. Kia mahara, ina kī ia he 15 meneti, ko te mamae tinana anake tana e kōrero ana. Engari i te mutunga, ka kore ia e aro ki te mamae tinana. Ko te mamae hinengaro me tōna mamae koi e wero ana i a ia i te ao me te pō katoa.
Āe, ko tana tāne te tāne i roto i te pūrākau. Āe, koinei tonu te mea e whakaarohia ana e koe – te tāwharau i roto i te marena.
Te Tūponotanga Pōuri o te Tāmitanga i roto i te Mārenatanga
Ripanga o Ihirangi
I pōuri koe i tēnei kōrero? I riri koe? I whakarihariha koe? Āe, koinei te oranga o ngā mano tini o ngā wāhine o tō tātou whenua. Ahakoa e whakaatuhia ana, e whakanuia ana hoki ētahi take tāwharau e ā tātou pāpāho, he maha atu anō e huna ana, ā, e kore e arohia.
Ko ngā take tāwharau marena e tū ana i muri i ngā tatau kua kati o te whare, kāore i te tino mārama. E akiakihia ana ngā wāhine kia kaua e kōrero mō tēnei mea, nā te mea ka whakakino i te mārama o ā rātou tāne.
He tokomaha te hunga e whakapono ana ehara i te ariā tika te tāwharau i roto i te marena, nā te mea i muri i te marena ka whakaaetia kia moe tāne, wahine rānei mō te wā katoa.
Pānui e pā ana: I pāngia ia e te whāwhā i roto i te marena, engari i whakapaehia mō te wehenga
Kua tae ki te wā kia kōrero tātou ki te arewhana i roto i te rūma
Ka taea e te tāwharau te whakaoho i te ngangau, engari ko te tāwharau i roto i te marena he mea kāore mātou e hiahia ki te kōrero. E whakamārama ana te Ture 375 i ngā take o te tāwharau – mēnā he haurangi te wahine, he tinihanga, he iti iho i te 18 tau te pakeke, kāore rānei ia e whakaae i roto i tētahi āhuatanga, ka mōhiotia taua moepuku he tāwharau.
Tērā pea ka kōrerohia te arewhana i roto i te rūma, engari he nui ake te ngaro o tēnei kaupapa i te arewhana. Kāore mātou e kite, kāore mātou e mōhio mōna, ā, kāore rawa! He rite tonu te noa o te tāwharau i roto i te marena ki ngā take tāwharau e pā ana ki ngā wāhine i waho o te marena.
Ina hoki, e ai ki ngā pūrongo a ngā IPleaders , 14% o ngā wāhine kua moe tāne i kī mai i tāwharautia rātou e tā rātou hoa rangatira, ā, 10% o ngā take whakaeke moe tāne katoa i pūrongotia e ngā wāhine, ko tā rātou tāne, tā rātou tāne o mua rānei te kaiwhakararu. Engari, kāore anō kia whakakinotia te tāwharau i roto i te marena i Inia.
Ko te whakawa i tatarihia e tātou katoa
Nō nā tata nei, i te kīnga a te Tumuaki Kaiwhakawā Whakakapi a Gita Mittal me te Kaiwhakawā a C. Hari Shankar o te Kōti Matua o Delhi, i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga pērā i te marena, he tika tā te tāne me te wahine ki te kī 'kāo' ki ngā whanaungatanga ā-tinana, he maha ngā wāhine i whai hua i te whakataunga.
I puta te tirohanga a te kooti i te wā e whakarongo ana ki ngā tono kia waiho te tāwharau marena hei hara, me ētahi atu e whakahē ana i a rātou. Engari e hia ngā wāhine kua tino whai hua mai i tēnei whakataunga? E hia ngā kēhi kāore i tuhia i ia rā? Me tumanako rānei tātou ki tētahi aukati tūturu i te tāwharau marena mēnā kāore i raro i te mana o te Ture 375?
E 52 ngā whenua kua whakaturetia te tāwharau i roto i te marena, tae atu ki a Ahitereiria, Brazil, Canada, Japan, France, Kenya, Aotearoa me Russia. Kāore anō kia kitea āhea ka uru atu a Īnia ki roto i a rātou.
He Pānui e Pā Ana: He Kōrero Mai i Ngā Wahine Mō Te Tāne Tūkino Me Te Marena
Kāore e hiahiatia kia tinana tonu
I roto i te whakataunga kua whakahuatia ake nei, i kite anō te rūnanga, "Ehara te marena i te mea kua rite tonu te wahine, kua hiahia, kua whakaae (mō te moepuku). Me whakaatu e te tāne ko ia tētahi o ngā tāngata i whakaae."
Ahakoa he maha ngā paparanga o tēnei kēhi, i kite te kooti ehara i te mea ko te kaha tinana anake te tikanga o te tāwharau, ā, kāore e tika kia rapua he whara i roto i te tāwharau.
Kāore he kupu pono i puta mai! He maha ā mātou kaipānui kua whakapuaki i ō rātou mamae, kua rapu tohutohu hoki mō te tāwharau i roto i te marena. Kāore i te katoa o rātou i amuamu mō te kaha tinana o ā rātou tāne.
He rite te mamae o te mamae hinengaro e pā ana ki ngā wāhine ki te tukino tinana. He mea whakamā te meka me kati te waha o ngā wāhine mō tēnei mea, me te ako hoki ki te tango i tēnei takahi i ō rātou tinana i runga i te ngākau mārie.
He ara roa i mua
Kua puta ngā pātai tohutohu i roto i ngā uiuinga, ā, i whakaae ngā pāngia ki te whakaputanga o te riri a ā rātou tāne ki ngā tamariki me ngā mātua i te korenga o ngā wāhine e whakaae. Kua puta anō hoki ngā wā i whakawehi ai te tāne i te wahine kāore ia e hoatu moni ki a ia mō ngā whakapaunga a ngā tamariki, ā, kua whakahuatia anō hoki ēnei take e te kōti.
He roa tonu te ara kei mua i a tātou, engari kei te ara tika tātou. Kua puta te karanga a ngā wāhine puta noa i te ao, ā, kua whakatūria ētahi NGO me ētahi atu whakahaere hei whakapuaki i ngā pakanga a ēnei wāhine.
Kāore anō te tāwharau i te hara i Inia, engari ko te mea e nekeneke haere ana ngā ārai o ngā ara hiko i tēnei hau hou o te huringa, e homai ana te tumanako kei te ara tika tātou.
FAQ
Āe. Ki te kore koe e whakaae, ahakoa kua moe tāne koe, ko te moe tāne me tō hoa rangatira he tāwharau. Kāore e hiahiatia kia uru te tutu.
E 52 ngā whenua kua whakaturetia he mahi tāwharau i roto i te marena, tae atu ki a Ahitereiria, Brazil, Canada me Hapani.
Te āhua o taku oma atu i taku tāne tukino , me te hanga anō i taku ao
E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarērea taku tāne waipiro, tukino hoki
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Ae rā!! He maha ngā wā e kore e arohia ngā mahi tāwharau i roto i te motu, engari ko te mamae e pā mai ana i ēnei mea kāore e whakaitihia ana e te mea he mahi tāwharau tēnei. ME WHAKAMANAIA.