I muri i te whakaritenga tere o te marena me taku tāne, i moe māua, ā, i noho māua ki te US i muri tonu i te marena. Ka rerekē te āhua o taku tāne i tana inu waipiro, ā, ka tīmata tana kōrero. te tukino i ahauE toru tau māua e marena ana, ā, kāore he whakawhanaunga tinana rānei. Kua hoha ahau ki tōku ao. Kei te hiahia ahau ki te whakarē i taku tāne waipiro tukino.
E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarērea taku tāne waipiro, tukino hoki
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Kāore rawa ahau i whakaaro ka pēnei te āhua o tōku ao i muri i te marena. kino ki taku tāne Ina inu ia, ā, kāore au e aroha ki a ia i ēnei rā. I te wā i whakaritea ai tā māua hoa, i whakaahua ia i a ia anō he tangata whakama, he tangata tūpato, kāore rawa i pā ki te waipiro. Kāore āna hoa, ko tōna whaea anake tana hoa.
He whakataetae kua whakaritea
te i whakatikahia te whakataetae ā, i roto i ngā rā e rima ka kōrero mai ia kua whakawhitia ia ki te US, ā, me haere tonu ia. He tangata Bengali ahau pērā i a ia engari nō tētahi whānau tino matatau ahau, ā, kua haereerea e au puta noa i Īnia nā te mahi whakawhiti a tōku pāpā.
He kotiro harikoa ahau, he maha aku hoa, ā, he pai ki ahau te whakahoahoa. Engari i whakaae ahau ki tētahi whakaritenga mō te marena nā te mea i pai ahau ki te tama.
I taua wā, i mahi ahau i Delhi, ā, e noho mokemoke ana ahau. I a ia e haere ana ki te US mai i Kolkata, i noho ia ki Delhi mō te rā kotahi ki te noho tahi māua. Koinā te wā tuatahi i tūtaki ai māua. I noho mokemoke māua i te rā katoa, ā, i moe tahi māua.
I kite ahau he tangata pai ia, he tangata rangatira hoki.
I rerekē tōna āhua i tōna taenga ki te US
He tino rerekē i tōna taenga atu ki ngā takutai o tāwāhi, ka rerekē tōna āhua. Ka tīmata ia ki te hamama me te kōrero kino mai ki ahau i runga i te waea. I mōhio ahau kua haurangi rawa ia. I whakapāha mai ia ki ahau i te aonga ake, ā, i kī mai ia i pouri ia i muri i tana wehenga atu i te kāinga, nō reira i haurangi ai ia.
E rima marama i mua i tō māua marena, ā, i roto i tēnei wā katoa i kite ahau i te rerekētanga o tōna āhua i ngā wā katoa e inu ana ia. I tino kino ia ki ahau i a ia e haurangi ana. Ka tīmata ngā whawhai ki ahau, me te whakamahi i te reo kanga me te maha o ngā kōrero pororaru.
Kāore au i kōrero ki ōku mātua mō tēnei mea nā te mea kāore au i te tino tata ki a rāua. I whakaaro ahau kua aroha ahau ki a ia, ā, i muri i tā māua marena ka huri ngā mea katoa.
Te pānui e pā ana: Te Noho tahi me te Tangata Waipiro Ngā Mea e Tika ana Koe, Ngā Mea Kāore e Tika ana!
I kino haere ngā āhuatanga i muri i te marena
I tae mai ia ki Īnia i ngā rā e whitu i mua noa atu i te marena. I marena māua, ā, i haere tahi māua ki te US.
E rua marama te roa o tā māua marena, kātahi ka tīmata te heke o te pai o ngā mea katoa. Ia rā, ia rā, ka inu ia, ka whawhai ki ahau. I ētahi wā ka whakapae ia i ahau, i ōku mātua, ā, i ētahi wā ka kī tonu ia he hapa te marena. I reira ka mōhio ahau he tangata inu waipiro, he tangata tukino taku tāne.
I mutu tana moe tāne ki ahau i muri i ngā marama e rua o tā māua marena. I whakarērea e au taku mahi, ā, i haere mai ahau ki te USA i runga i tētahi visa whakawhirinaki. Kāore e taea e au te mahi i tētahi mahi ināianei.
E atawhai ana ia i ahau pērā i te pononga wahine
Ki te karangahia mātou e ōna hoa mahi ki te tina, ka haria ahau e ia, engari i mua i tērā, he maha āna mahi whakaari. I ētahi wā ka whakarite ia kia tino pōuri rawa tōku wairua, ā, kāore au e hiahia ki te haere, ā, ka harikoa ia ki te haere ko ia anake.
E toru tau nei māua kāore anō kia moe tāne, wahine. Ka kōrero māua, ka haere māua ki waho, ka rite māua ki te tāne me te wahine, engari e whakaaro tonu ana ahau ko tana pononga wahine ahau, ehara i te wahine māna.
E hiahia ana ahau kia whakarerea inaianei
Kua hoha ahau ki tana kino i muri i te inu. Kua hoha ahau ki tēnei tukinotanga tonu.
Inaianei kei te hiahia ahau ki te whakarere engari kei te tino mataku ahau. Kua pakaru taku mahi mō tēnei tangata, ā, i ngana anō ahau ki te whakamomori i tētahi wā. Kāore e taea e au te kohikohi i ngā mea katoa. te maia ki te hikoi te whakarērea o taku tāne waipiro, tukino, ka tīmata i tētahi oranga hou. Āwhina mai.
Te pānui e pā ana: E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarere i taku tāne waipiro, wahine hoki
E te Wahine,
He tino uaua tō āhua. Me titiro tātou ki ētahi tohutohu i raro nei hei āwhina i a koe ki te mārama.
I warewarehia e koe ngā haki whero i te tīmatanga
I tautohe koe ki a ia i mua i te marena, ā, kāore koe i te tino mōhio mō te marena. He haki whero i warewarehia rawatia e koe. He aha koe te whakaaro ai ki te kōrero taipitopito ki a ia mō ō raruraru i mua i te marena?
He aha te mea i whakaaro pōhēhē ai koe ka huri ia i muri i te marena? He aha ia ka huri ai i taua wā ki te kore i nāianei? He pono, ehara i te mea ko te herenga ture anake? Ā, ko ngā kare ā-roto me ngā whāinga?
Kāore ō mātua i te tata ki a koe
Kua kōrero koe kāore ō mātua i te tino piri ki a koe. I ngana koe ki te mawhiti i tēnei hononga taumaha ki ō mātua mā te marena i tētahi marena kāore koe i te tino mōhio?
He uaua tō āhua o nāianei
He tino uaua te āhua o nāianei, nā te mea kāore e taea e koe te mahi, ā, kāore ia e hoatu moni ki a koe. Me ata whakaaro koe inaianei. Ka taea e koe te rapu āwhina i tētahi kaitohutohu mēnā e hiahia ana koe.
Kōrero pono ki ō mātua
He aha koe te kōrero pono ai ki ō mātua, me te tono atu kia tautoko rātou i a koe ki te hanga i tētahi oranga hou? Me tono atu rānei kia kōrero rātou ki tō tāne, kia ngana ki te whakatau i ngā rerekētanga?
Engari ko te mea nui, kia mārama koe ki tāu e hiahia ana mai i tō ao. Kātahi ka tuwhera ngā ara ki mua i a koe.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
