E pēhea ana tō mōhio ki tō hoa rangatira? He pātai miriona tāra pea kāore e tino uaua ki te whakautu ina kei te taha koe o te hoa rangatira tika, ā, ka pānui pukapuka kōrua tetahi ki tetahi. Engari i ētahi wā, ahakoa te roa o tō kōrua oranga, kāore e ranea hei kite i te tangata mōna ake. I muri i ētahi tau o te noho tahi, tera pea ka kitea koe e aue ana, e whakaaro ana ko kōrua tētahi o aua tāne me ngā wāhine kua whiwhi i ā rāua 'tuatahitanga' katoa. Kāore he mea ngaro, kāore he kōrero hei whakapuaki!
Āe, me whakamanamana koe ki te mōhio whānuitia o tētahi ki tētahi, engari, i te mea miharo, ka noho pūmau pea koe ki ngā pātai uaua mō te whanaungatanga pēnei i te "He aha te maharatanga tino pai o tō hoa rangatira i tōna tamarikitanga?" me te "He aha kei runga i tā rātou rārangi hiahia i muri i te reti?". Tomo mai a Bonobology me tana putea kī tonu i ngā pātai mō te mōhio ki tō hoa rangatira hei whakapakari ake i tō hononga kaha.
Mai i te wāhi moemoeā a tō hoa ki te reka aihikirīmi tino pai ki a rātou, ka tukuna atu e mātou te kete tīmatanga mō ngā kōrero whakamere maha a muri ake nei. Nō reira, noho mai, hopukia he kapu kawhe māu, ka whakamātau i ēnei pātai mā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Whakaarohia he whakamātautau aroha ngahau mēnā ka taea e koe. Kia māia, ka puta he ngaru aroha hei whakanui i a kōrua tetahi ki tetahi.
He aha te mea nui kia mōhio pai koe ki tō hoa
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Ko te pai ake o tō mōhio ki tō hoa rangatira, ko te pai ake o ō tupono ki te angitu o te whanaungatanga, he mea ngāwari noa iho. Koinei tētahi o ngā take e kore ai te tini o te tangata e aro ki te whakaaro o te aroha i te kitenga tuatahiNā te mea, me pēhea rā koe e hinga ai ki tētahi tangata, ka moemoeā ai mō te oranga harikoa ake ake, me te kore e mōhio ki a ia?
He aha mēnā he hunga kaipaipa nui rātou, ā, kāore koe e aro ki te haunga o te hikareti? He aha mēnā kei te hiahia rātou kia noho hei kaihaerere whenua i tētahi rā, ā, he nui rawa tō aroha ki tō tāone iti, kāore koe e whakaaro ki te wehe atu? Kia tae ki tētahi wā, ka kite koe ehara te kore mōhio i te mea ngahau, engari he pūtake o ō pakanga katoa.
rangahau E whakaatu ana tēnei mā te mārama pai ki ngā kare ā-roto, ngā tumanakohanga, me ngā āheinga o tō hoa rangatira/hoa rangatira, ka whakapakari ake i te māramatanga o te whanaungatanga. Hei tāpiri, mā te whakaae me te whakaae ki ngā herenga me ngā āheinga o tō hoa rangatira, ka pai te haere o te whanaungatanga.
Nā te mea kei konei koe, e rapu ana i ngā pātai whai tikanga hei pātai atu ki tō hoa tāne/wahine/hoa rangatira/hoa rangatira, kua tīmata pai tāu mahi ki te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga o tō kōrua hononga. Tukua mātou kia whakamārama he aha, me te hoatu ki a koe e rima ngā take pai he mea nui kia mōhio pai koe ki tō hoa rangatira mō tētahi wā roa. hononga hauora:
- Mā te mōhio ki ngā taumahatanga kare ā-roto me ngā wheako mamae o tō hoa aroha ka taea e koe te whakahaere i ngā take tairongo me te āta whakaaro, me te kore e pā ki tētahi wāhi mamae.
- Mā te mōhio ki ngā āhuatanga o tō rātou whānau, tō rātou tamarikitanga, me ō rātou mātauranga ka āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ki te pūtake o ngā āhuatanga maha o tō rātou tuakiri, tō rātou tirohanga whānui ki te ao, me te ōrite rānei o ō uara me ō tikanga matatika.
- Mā te mōhio pai ki ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe me ngā hiahia o tō hoa ka whai wāhi koe ki te kimi i ngā pūtake kōrero me ngā mahi tahi.
- I a koutou e whakaatu ana i te hiahia nui, e pātai ana hoki i ngā pātai matapōkere ki a koutou anō i roto i te tukanga o te hono atu ki tō hoa i te taumata hohonu ake, ka huaki i ngā huarahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hou, inā koa i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hou
- Ina kohia e koe ngā kōrero mō tō hoa rangatira, wāhanga i wāhanga, ā, ka āta kite koe i tō rātou ataahua, ka ako koe ki te maioha ki a rātou, ka nui haere tō aroha ki a rātou i ia rā.
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He whakamataku te tangi? Engari, kei a au tō tautoko! Anei tētahi rārangi o ētahi pātai kua whiriwhiria ā-ringa hei mōhio ki tētahi hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau mēnā e mōhio ana koe ki tō hoa rangatira pērā i te tuara o tō ringa, mēnā rānei kei reira tonu ētahi āhuatanga o tōna tuakiri me tūhura e koe.
Ahakoa te mutunga, he taha kanapa kei roto. Ki te mōhio koe ki tō hoa rangatira, ka taea e koe te tino mohio kua eke koe ki tētahi taumata o te whanaungatanga e hiahiatia ana. Ki te kore, tirohia ēnei pātai whakamere hei pātai atu ki tō hoa aroha hei whai wāhitanga ki te hura i ngā taha hou ki a ia.
Kei hea koe e whakaaro ana kei te tū koe? Kotahi te huarahi hei kimi i tēnei: te whakamātau i tēnei whakamātautau aroha tino ngahau kua kohia e mātou māu. He tino māmā te mahi. Ka pānuihia e koe ngā pātai, ka ngana ki te whakautu i te maha o aua pātai, ā, i ngā wā katoa ka takoto kau he pātai, ka taea e tō hoa te whakakī i ngā kōrero tika ki a koe. Me tīmata tāua, āe?
Ngā pātai mō te tamarikitanga me te whānau
Ka ngaro i a koe tētahi wāhanga nui o te kōrero a tō hoa aroha mēnā ka huna e koe tōna oranga i mua i tō taenga mai ki te ao, inā koa tōna tamarikitanga me tōna taiohitanga. He pānga nui tō te whānau me tōna tamarikitanga ki tōna āhua o nāianei. Tirohia ēnei pātai whānau kia kite ai koe i te pai o tō mōhio ki tō hoa rangatira, ki tōna hononga whānau, me ngā wheako o tōna tamarikitanga, ahakoa pai, ahakoa kino.
1. He aha te maharatanga tino ataahua o tō hoa rangatira i tōna tamarikitanga?
2. I hea tō hoa i tipu ake ai? I te tāone nui, i ngā tāone iti rānei?
3. He aha te mea e tino arohaina ana e rātou mō te tipu ake i taua wāhi?
4. I nui te nekenekehanga o ngā mātua o tō hoa rangatira?
5. Me pēhea e rātou te whakaahua i tō rātou kāinga whānau i roto i tētahi rerenga kōrero?
6. Ko tēhea te īngoa karanga tino pai a tō hoa wahine?
7. Māmā me Pāpā – ko wai te mea e rite ana rāua?
8. He aha te kaupapa tino pai ki a rātou i te kura?
9. He whanonga rerekē tā tō hoa i a ia e tamariki ana?
10. I aro nui rātou ki ngā mahi toi/puoro/whakaari i ō rātou rā kura?
11. Kei te maumahara koe ki ētahi kōrero whakamere mō tō rātou tamarikitanga pērā i tā rātou whakaaturanga tuatahi i te atamira, i te wā rānei i takaro ai rātou i te hooki?
12. I takaro rātou i tētahi hākinakina i a rātou e tipu ake ana?
13. Ki tā tō hoa kaiako, he aha te mea pai rawa atu i akohia e rātou mai i tētahi kaiako, ā, e whai tonuhia ana e rātou?
14. He aha te mea i harikoa ai rātou i a rātou e tamariki ana?
15. Ko wai ngā hoa pai o tō hoa rangatira? I mua, ā, i nāianei.
16. Kei te hono tonu tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne ki ō rātou hoa kura?
17. Ko wai tā rātou i aroha tuatahi ai i te kura?
18. I angitu tō hoa i te whakaipoipo i te kura tuarua?
19. He aha te kupu tuatahi ka puta ake ki tō rātou hinengaro ina rongo rātou i te kupu kura tuarua?
20. He tamaiti rongonui tō hoa rangatira, he tamaiti nerd rānei i te kura?
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21. I a koe e tamariki ana, he aha te hiahia o tō hoa rangatira kia tupu i a rāua e pakeke haere ana?
22. Kua tukinotia tō hoa i te kura?
23. E pai ana ki tō hoa rangatira te noho tahi me tōna whānau?
24. He aha te raruraru kino rawa atu i pā ki a rātou i a rātou e tamariki ana?
25 I a tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne he mōkai i a koe e tipu ake ana?
26. Tokohia ngā tuākana/teina o tō hoa? He pai te noho tahi o rāua?
27. He tata tō pēpi ki tōna matua?
28. He aha te momo hononga e hono ana rātou ki tō rātou whaea?
29. He aha ngā whakaaro o tō hoa rangatira mō te momo whakatipu tamariki a tōna mātua?
30. I noho haumaru, i hauora hoki te kāinga o tō hoa i a ia e tipu ake ana?
31. I tata tō hoa rangatira ki ō rāua koroua, kuia? Kei te ora tonu rāua?
32. Ko wai ngā whanaunga o te whānau e kore e taea e tō hoa te tautoko?
33. He whakapono tō rātou whānau?
34. He haerenga whānau kei reira e tino maumahara ana tō hoa ki ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e ia?
35. He aha te kai tino pai rawa atu i tunua e tō rātou māmā?
36. Ko tēhea te pakiwaituhi tino pai a tō hoa i a koe e tamariki ana?
37. He aha te pukapuka tino pai ki a rātou i a rātou e tamariki ana?
38. He aha ngā kupu whakaaro nui kua tukuna iho e ngā mātua ki a rātou?
39. He aha ngā tikanga whānau e tino hiahiatia ana e tō hoa?
40. I pēhea tā rātou whakapau i ngā hararei nui?
Ngā pātai mō te whanaungatanga piripono me te matū ā-ira tangata
He aha te mea e pai ana ki tō hoa i waenganui i ngā whāriki? Ka taea e koe te matapae i te wāhi ngaro reka e whakaohooho ana i a rātou? Ko te mōhio ki tō hoa me ōna āhua katoa me ōna hiahia e whakaata ana i te nui o te aroha. te taumata o te whanaungatanga piriponoĀ, anei te wā ki te whakaatu i tō mōhiotanga mō tō hoa wahine mā te whakamātau i ēnei pātai whakahirahira mō te mōhio ki a koe. Nō reira, kua rite koe?
41. He aha te whakamāramatanga a tō hoa mō te taatai whakamiharo?
42. Tokohia ngā tāngata kua moe tahi rātou?
43. He aha te moepuku pai rawa atu kua mahia e tō hoa?
44. He tangata hihiko rātou ki te moepuku?
45. Ko tēhea te wāhi tino rerekē i mahia ai e tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne?
46. He mea motuhake kei roto i te moenga kāore anō kia mahia e rātou engari e hiahia ana rātou ki te whakamātau?
47. He tangata 'manaaki' tō hoa, he pai rānei ki a ia te mana whakahaere?
48. He aha ō rātou whakaaro mō te moe tahi tokotoru? Kua moe tahi rātou i mua?
49. He aha etahi ngā mahi, ngā mea rānei kāore i te moepuku e whakaoho ana i tō hoa?
50. Ko wai kei runga i te rārangi a tō hoa o ngā whetu rongonui e rima e hiahia ana rātou kia moe tahi?
51. He aha te moemoeā moepuku tino porangi a tō hoa wahine?
52. Kua tutuki rānei ētahi o ā rātou moemoeā moepuku?
53. He mea whakahirahira ā rātou mō tētahi wāhanga tinana?
54. He aha te mea tuatahi e kukume ai tō hoa ki tētahi?
55. He aha te mahi a te mahi pono mō rātou?
56. Ki te kore he tangata e mātakitaki ana, kei hea tō hoa e hiahia ana ki te moe tahi?
57. He aha ngā rohe tino tairongo o te hiahia?
58. Ki te pono, ko wai rā te mea e moemoeā ana rātou i a rātou e pā ana ki a rātou anō?
59. He aha tā rātou whakaaro mō te whakakakahu i ngā kākahu whakahirahira?
60. Kei te hiahia tō hoa tāne/wahine ki te whakaaro kia haere tahi tāua ki te hoko taonga takaro ira tangata?
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61. Kua tomo mai tetahi i a rātou e moe tahi ana me tetahi atu?
62. Kua moe tō hoa rangatira ki tētahi i te rā tuatahi?
63. He kōrero whakama ā rātou mō te moepuku hei whakapuaki?
64. He aha te mea e tino ātaahua ana ki tō hoa?
65. He aha te maharatanga tino pai a tō hoa mō ngā tūtakitanga moepuku ki a koe?
66. He aha tā rātou e tino pārekareka ana ki te takaro i mua i te moe?
67. Te takaro i mua i te takaro - he mea papai, he mea nui rānei?
68. Ko tēhea te wāhi e tino pai ai rātou kia kihihia?
69. He aha te whakaaro o tō hoa mō te BDSM?
70. He aha tā rātou tūranga moe tino pai?
71. Taatai i roto i te motuka, taatai waea, taatai kaukau – he aha tā rātou e whiriwhiri ai?
72. Kua pāngia tō hoa e ētahi wheako mamae i pā ki tōna oranga moepuku?
73. E hia te uara o rātou te tūranga o te whakaae i roto i te taatai?
74. I runga i te tauine mai i te 1 ki te 10, me pēhea tā rātou aromatawai i tō oranga moepuku?
75. Ki te whai wāhi rātou, ka mahia rānei e rātou i roto i te whare pikitia, i te ararewa rānei?
76. Ka taea e tō hoa te moe tahi me tētahi atu tangata, engari kāore he hononga i waenganui i a rāua?
77. He kaitautoko rātou i te moe haumaru? He aha te momo moe e pai ana ki a rātou?
78. Kua kitea kētia rātou he mate tuku iho i te taatai?
79. Ka taea te mutu o te whanaungatanga i runga i te moepuku kino? He aha ō rātou whakaaro?
80. He pō e rima ngā wā? He aha te tau makutu kua ekehia e tō hoa i roto i te rā kotahi?
Ngā pātai mō te whanaungatanga me te aroha mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine
I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, me mārama koe ki ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e tō hoa i a koe. He aha tā rātou whakamāramatanga i te aroha? He aha ngā mea ngā kaiwhakakore whakaaetanga whanaungatanga mō rāua? Kei te whakaaro kotahi kōrua mō te whakapūmau i te whanaungatanga roa, mō te noho tuwhera rānei? He pātai whanaungatanga hōhonu ēnei hei pātai atu ki tō hoa wahine/hoa rangatira kia tika ai ō kōrua tirohanga mō te heke mai. Engari i mua i tēnā, kia tirohia e tātou te maha o ēnei ka taea e koe te whakautu mō tō hoa wahine:
81. I tehea tau i whiwhi ai tō hoa i tā rāua kihi tuatahi?
82. He aha tā rātou whakamāramatanga mō tētahi whanaungatanga tino pai?
83. He tere rawa rānei tō rātou whakamā, te hae rānei?
84. He aha ngā mea e toru kāore e pai ki tō hoa mōu?
85. He aha ngā āhuatanga ka whakamahia e rātou hei miharo i tētahi hoa rangatira?
86. Kua aroha rānei rātou ki tētahi hoa?
87. E hia ngā whanaungatanga i mua atu i a koe i a rātou?
88. He aha ngā whakaaro o tō hoa wahine he here kore?
89. He aha rātou i whakaae ai ki te haere tonu, ki te tono rānei i tētahi atu rā ki a koe?
90. He ngāwari te whakawhirinaki o tō hoa? Kāore rānei e roa te wā e hanga ai i te whakawhirinaki me te whakawhirinakitanga i roto i te whanaungatanga?
91. He hoa, he tangata whakawhirinaki rānei e rapu āwhina ana rātou mō ngā take whanaungatanga?
92. Nā te aha i mutu ai te whanaungatanga whakamutunga a tō hoa, ā, he aha hoki?
93. E whakapono ana rātou ki ngā whanaungatanga takakau?
94. He take hōhonu kei reira e arai ana i a rātou ki te whakapau kaha ki ō rātou hoa?
95. He aha te whakamāramatanga a tō hoa mō te tinihanga?
96. E whakaaro ana rātou he tinihanga ngā mahi whakaipoipo kare ā-roto?
97. Kua tinihangatia, kua tinihangatia rānei tō hoa?
98. He aha te wehenga kino rawa atu i pā ki a rāua?
99. He aha te akoranga i akohia e rātou i tā rātou whanaungatanga whakamutunga?
100. He aha ngā whakaaro o tō hoa aroha ki ngā tamariki?
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101. He aha tana reo aroha?
102. He āhua āwangawanga kei roto i ō rāua whanaungatanga?
103. Ka mutu rānei te whanaungatanga o tō hoa ki tētahi atu mēnā kāore ōna hoa e pai ki a rātou?
104. Kia pēhea te wawe o te wā mō rātou ki te whakataka i te kupu 'L'?
105. I tēhea wāhanga o te whanaungatanga ka pai rātou ki te whakauru i tā rātou hoa rangatira ki te whānau?
106. He aha taua mea kotahi e kore e taea te whiriwhiri mā rātou i roto i te whanaungatanga?
107. He kupu huna tā tō hoa wahine mō tētahi whanaungatanga harikoa, pumau hoki?
108. He aha te mea i akiaki i a rātou ki te waea atu ki tā rātou hoa pai kia oma atu i tētahi pō whakaipoipo kino?
109. He kaiwhaiwhai rātou ki ngā kupu whakahihiri?
110. E whakapono ana tō hoa aroha ki ngā hoa wairua?
111. Ki tā rātou whakaaro he aha te momo pānga kua pā ki tō rātou ao?
112. He aha ngā tohu nui e whakaarohia ana e rātou mō te hoa rangatira?
113. Ki tō whakaaro, ka taea e tō hoa te muru i te hara o tētahi i muri i tana tinihanga?
114. He aha tā rātou maharatanga tino ataahua mō tō kōrua rā tuatahi?
115. He aha te whakaaro o tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne mō tētahi pō tino pai mō te whakaipoipo?
116. E ai ki a rātou, he aha te koha pai rawa atu ka taea e te tangata te hoatu ki tana hoa rangatira?
117. He aha te huarahi pai rawa atu mā tō hoa ki te kōrero mō te wehenga – he kanohi ki te kanohi, he karere kuputuhi rānei?
118. He aha tā rātou mea nui rawa atu te whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga?
119. Kua wehe kē tō hoa i tētahi atu tokorua kia tutuki ai tā rāua i pai ai?
120. Ka taea e tō hoa te aroha ki tētahi i runga ipurangi me te kore e tūtaki ki a ia?
Ngā pātai ngahau mō tō hoa rangatira
Kei te rapu pātai koe hei whakamōhio atu ki tētahi tangata, me te kore e tino whakamātau? He maha ā mātou tauira māu! Ahakoa e hiahia ana koe ki te herea tonutia hei tokorua hou kua marenatia kua maha ngā tau e piri tahi ana kōrua, ka nui ake te ngahau o te whanaungatanga, ka ataahua ake tō kōrua hononga.
Mā te mōhio ki ētahi o ngā kōrero rorirori mō tō hoa rangatira, me te kata tahi, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakaoti i ngā wāhanga uaua o te whanaungatanga. Ā, me hanga he rārangi pātai tino ngahau hei pātai atu ki tō hoa rangatira mēnā kāore anō koe kia mōhio ki ā rātou mahi whanoke me ā rātou mahi tinihanga? Ka whakamārama ake i te wairua, ā, ka taea e koe te huri hei kēmu mō te mōhio ki tō hoa rangatira:
121. He aha ngā mana nui e hiahia ana tō hoa wahine ki te whiwhi?
122. He aha te pūkenga tino koretake e whakaarohia ana e tō hoa kei a ia?
123. He aha te wā tino whakama i tūmatanui ai rātou?
124. He pai ake ki tō hoa te haere i runga i te waka reti reti, te hikoi rānei i te pāka?
125. He aha te mea tino porangi kua mahia e rātou?
126. Kua mamingatia rātou kia mahi i tētahi mea kuware?
127. He aha te huinga kai tino rerekē e tino paingia ana e tō hoa?
128. Kua oti kē rātou te rere atu i tētahi rā kino?
129. He aha te kupu whakahihiri tino māhaki kua whakamahia e tō hoa?
130. Kua teka rātou kia kore ai e whiwhi i tētahi tīkiti waka?
131. He aha te mahi tinihanga tino wairangi rawa atu kua mahia e rātou ki tētahi tangata?
132. He pai ake rānei ki tō hoa te tango i te mano tāra, te wehe rānei i a kōrua?
133. He tohunga tō hoa ki te whakaroa?
134. Mēnā kāore tō hoa rangatira e kitea mō te rā kotahi, ko ēhea ngā wāhi ka toro atu rātou?
135. Mēnā he kararehe tō hoa wahine, ko tēhea kararehe ia?
136. He aha te kata kotahi e whakakatakata tonu ai rātou?
137. E ai ki a rātou, he aha te mea tino ngahau o te noho tahi me koe?
138. Kua pakaru kē te marena i tō hoa rangatira?
139. Kua tino kino rawa atu rānei te pō waiata karaoke i a rātou?
140. He pai ake ki tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne te noho ki te kāinga, te haere rānei ki waho i te pō o te Rāhoroi?
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141. Mēnā he kehua rātou, ko wai ngā tāngata e tino hiahia ana rātou ki te whakamataku?
142. I rahua rānei tō hoa i tētahi whakamātautau i te kura?
143. Mēnā ka tapaina e koe tō ipo ki te ingoa o tētahi inu, ko tēhea te mea ka whiriwhiria e koe, ā, he aha ai?
144. Kua pāngia rātou e tētahi hapa i roto i ō rātou kākahu i tētahi pāti?
145. Kua kata nui rātou i roto i tētahi hui nui? He aha te take i kata ai?
146. I mauheretia tō hoa e tinihanga ana i ngā whakamātautau?
147. He aha tā rātou e pai ai ki te hara?
148. Kua pāngia tō hoa e te aroha i te kitenga tuatahi?
149. Ko tēhea tā rātou e pai ake ai – te ātaahua o te āhua, te kōrero pai rānei?
150. He pai ki tō hoa wahine/tāne te kanikani me te mea kāore he tangata e mātakitaki ana?
151. He aha ngā nekehanga tuatahi a tō hoa i kore ai e kore e eke ki te taumata tuarua?
152. He mea kei runga i tā rātou rārangi whāinga e hiahia ana rātou ki te mahi tahi me koe?
153. Kei te kitea e tō hoa ngā tuhinga aroha he ātaahua, he whakarihariha rānei?
154. He aha te kākahu tinihanga-o-te-maimoa tino rorirori a tō hoa wahine?
155. E ai ki tō hoa rangatira, he aha te mea e motuhake ai kōrua hei tokorua?
156. Ko tēhea te wāhi tino rerekē i pakaru ai rātou i te pō?
157. Kōwhiria he emoji mai i tō waea e tino whakaahua ana i tō hoa.
158. He aha taua kiriata kotahi i whakama ai rātou ki te tangi mōna?
159. Kia pēhea te roa ka taea e rātou te kore kaukau?
160. Nō tehea tau te pakeke i whakapono ai tō hoa he tūturu a Hāta Kerei?
Ngā pātai matapōkere mō te mōhio ki tō hoa mahi
Taria, he mea anō tāku māu! He pikinga, he hekenga hoki ō ngā whanaungatanga, ā, i ētahi wā ka pāngia tō hononga e te hoha o te oranga o ia rā. I ēnei wā, ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te mea tuatahi ka pāngia. Koinā te wā e hiahia ana koe ki ētahi mea. kamata korero Hei whakararuraru i ngā mea. Hei reira, ka tukuna atu e mātou ētahi pātai matapōkere mō te mōhio ki tō hoa, me pēhea te pai o tō mōhio ki a rātou, ka taea e koe te pātai atu ina hiahia noa koe ki te whakaoho i tētahi āhuatanga ngahau ki roto i tō whanaungatanga:
161. Ka aha tāu hoa rangatira mēnā ka toa rāua i te rota miriona tāra?
162. Ko wai te kiripuaki pakiwaitara tino pai ki a rātou?
163. Ko tēhea kararehe e pai ake ana ki a rātou hei mōkai?
164. He aha te koha pai rawa atu kua riro i tō hoa rangatira?
165. He aha te mea e whakapouri ai rātou?
166. He aha te hararei moemoeā a rātou?
167. He aha te mea e tino kinongia ana e tō hoa wahine/hoa tāne i roto i tā rātou mahi?
168. Kua aroha rānei rātou ki tētahi kiripuaki o tētahi pukapuka?
169. He aha tā rātou e pai ai ki te mahi hei whakangā i muri i tētahi rā roa?
170. He aha te wharekai tino pai a tō hoa mō te pō whakatau?
171. Ki te taea e rātou te hoki whakamuri ki te wā o mua me te whakatika i tētahi hapa o te ao, ko tēhea te hapa?
172. He aha te mahi tuatahi a tō hoa rangatira?
173. He aha ngā kaupapa tino pai ki tō hoa i te kura?
174. He aha te kiriata tino pai ki a rātou e hiahia ana kia mātakihia e koe?
175. E whakapono ana tō hoa ki ngā kehua?
176. He aha te motuka moemoeā a rātou?
177. E hiahia ana rātou ki te ako i tētahi reo hou? Ko tēhea?
178. He mea whakangahau te inu waipiro a tō hoa, he mea rānei hei mawhiti atu i te ao tūroa?
179. He tangata ngeru rātou, he tangata kurī rānei?
180. He aha te waiata rongonui a tō hoa wahine?
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181. Ko wai tā rātou hoa haere tino pai, he pai rānei ki a rātou te rere takitahi?
182. E hia ngā whenua kua tae atu tō hoa ki reira?
183. He aha te tae tino pai ki a rātou?
184. Whakahuatia tētahi o ā rātou whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata tino pai e kore e hoha ki te mātaki
185. He mahere tau rima tā tō hoa kua whakaritea, kāore rānei e noho ana i roto i te ao o nāianei?
186. He aha ō rātou tirohanga tōrangapū?
187. He aha te rapunga whakaaro o te ao e whaihia ana e tō hoa, e kauwhauhia ana hoki e ia?
188. He aha tā rātou e whakaaro nei ko tō rātou ngoikoretanga nui rawa atu?
189. He wahine tautoko i te mana o tō hoa rangatira?
190. Kua pokangahia rātou i mua?
191. Kua tūtaki rātou ki tētahi aituā?
192. He aha te wā i tino huri ai te ao o tō hoa rangatira?
193. He aha te pūtake o tō rātou hihiri i te ao?
194. Ko wai ngā tāngata hei āwhina i a rātou i roto i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere?
195. He uaua ki tō hoa te kī 'kāo' ki te tangata?
196. He maha ā rātou tangi, he tohu ngoikore rānei tēnei e kitea ana e rātou?
197. He aha te whakamāramatanga o te angitu ki tāu hoa wahine/tāne?
198. Kei hea rātou e hiahia ana ki te hanga i te whare o ō rātou moemoeā?
199. He aha te mea ngahau mō te mahere reti a tō hoa?
200. Kua wehe kē rāua ko tētahi hoa?
201. He aha te mea e harikoa ai tō hoa rangatira i te ao?
Ko te tumanako ka āwhina tēnei kohinga pātai ngahau, whakamere hoki mō tō hoa rangatira i a koe ki te mārama ki tō tūnga i roto i tēnei whanaungatanga, me te tautuhi hoki i ngā wāhanga ka taea e koe te whakapai ake hei whakapai ake i tō kōrua whanaungatanga piripono. Akoranga Kua whakaatuhia e koe mā te ngana ki te mōhio pai atu ki tō hoa ka nui ake tō kaha ki te wetewete i ngā take o ā rātou tauhohenga ki ētahi huihuinga me ngā āhuatanga, ā, ka pā tēnei ki tō tauhohenga me te hauora o te whanaungatanga whānui.
Nō reira, whiriwhiria mai i ngā pātai tino kare ā-roto ki ngā pātai māmā, i runga i tō wairua mō te rā, ā, tirohia māu ake te pai o tō mōhio ki tō hoa. He mārama, ka whai hua ake tēnei pātaitai aroha ina whakautu tahi kōrua me te pono.
Kua whakahoutia tēnei tuhinga i te marama o Poutū-te-rangi, 2023.
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