Ngā Mea Tino Whakarihariha 35 i roto i ngā Hononga

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Mō ngā āhuatanga whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga, i kī te kaiwaiata Amerikana a Carrie Underwood i roto i tētahi uiuinga, kāore ia e aro ki ngā kakahu paru o tana tāne e takoto kau ana i roto i te whare me i kore te aroha. He rerekē te kōrero mō tā tātou tokorua rongonui tino pai a Beyonce rāua ko Jay-Z, he ahua pōrearea ia i te kāinga, ā, e pai ana a Jay ki ngā mea whakarite. Pērā i tēnā, he rārangi o ngā mea kāore e taea e tātou te aro atu, pērā i ngā mea mōhio-katoa, ngā haruru ngaungau rānei.

He rerekē te aro atu ki ēnei whakarihariha i ētahi wā. Engari ki te noho tahi koe me rātou i ia rā, nā te mea ko tō hoa te pūtake o aua whakarihariha, ka huri ēnei hei 'whakariri mō te whanaungatanga'. Ehara i te mea ko koe anake tēnei. Ko te nuinga o te wā, ka whakarihariha te tangata ki ngā mahi maha e mahia ana e ō rātou hoa. Ka ako ētahi ki te hohou i te rongo ki tēnei, ki te kore rānei e aro ki tēnei; ki ētahi atu, ka huri ētahi whakarihariha mō te whanaungatanga hei wawahi i ngā whakaaetanga. 

He aha ngā mea whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga? 

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Ki te mea kāore anō kia mārama ki a koe te tikanga o te kupu "pet peeves", e whakamāramahia ana e te papakupu Collins he "whakariri motuhake, ā, he maha ngā wā ka haere tonu". He mea noa te noho hei whakariri i roto i te whanaungatanga nā te mea kāore he tokorua i hangaia kia tino ōrite ki ngā momo āhua o tētahi ki tētahi. Tērā ētahi āhuatanga o tō hoa ka tino whakapataritari i a koe ahakoa he mea pēnei i te kore e horoi rihi i te wā tika. 

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Akoranga e whakaatu ana he hononga kino ngā mea whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga ki te pai o te whanaungatanga, te oranga, me te aro nui. Mai i te tirohanga a te tangata o waho, ko ngā mea whakarihariha noa i roto i te whanaungatanga kāore pea i te ahua he mea nui hei aro atu. Engari ko ētahi āhuatanga whakamataku pēnei i te kore pono, te ngāwari ki te whakarongo puku, te hiahia whaiaro, te pupuri hononga rānei ki tētahi o mua he maha ngā wā ka tata ki te hononga whero haki.  

Koia te take me aro atu, me whakamutu rānei ēnei whakarihariha i te tīmatanga. Nā te mea, ki te roa te wā e whakararuraru ana tētahi mea iti i a koe, ka taea e ia te horapa nui rawa atu, ka arahi atu ki ngā pakanga kino. Kāore he painga o te whakaroa i te kōrero, me te whakaaro ka whara pea tō hoa. Me ata whakamōhio atu ki a rātou he aha te mea e whakararuraru ana i a koe.

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Ngā Mea Tino Whakarihariha 35 i roto i ngā Hononga

E ai ki te rangahau I roto i ngā hoa noho, e 45% o ngā kaiuru e whakaaro ana ko te kore tango i te para he take whakapataritari, ko te 30% kāore e aro ki te nui o te kōrero a ō rātou hoa noho i runga waea. He tauira anō ēnei o ngā mea whakapataritari i roto i te whanaungatanga mēnā kei te noho tahiEngari he maha atu anō. Anei tā mātou rārangi o ngā mea whakarihariha rerekē e 35 e kitea whānuitia ana i roto i ngā whanaungatanga:

1. Te kore e whai wāhi ki ngā mahi o te whare 

He tino whakarihariha te whanaungatanga. Ko te wehewehenga koretake o te mahi i te kāinga ka puta he raruraru nui i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Whakaarohia, kei te tiaki koe i te tunu kai, te horoi, me te hoko kai, me te pupuri tonu i te mahi 9-ki-5. Ā, ka hoki mai tō hoa ki te kāinga i ia rā kia kore ai e whai kawenga katoa. Ka taea e ia te whakaoho i te riri. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "He aha ngā mea tino whakarihariha a ngā wāhine?", koinei pea tētahi o aua mea. 

2. Te pupuri i te kaute 

Whakaarohia tēnei hei tetahi o ngā mea tino whakarihariha mō te whanaungatanga, nā te mea ka taea e te whanonga kino te patu i te aroha ā, ka panaia tō whanaungatanga ki te mutunga kore. "E whā ngā wā i tunua ai e au he tina i tēnei wiki, ā, e toru noa iho āu i tunu ai", "I waiho ahau e ia i runga i te Seen, ināianei ka pena anō ahau", "Ki te taea e ia te pai ki te pikitia o tana hoa o mua, ka taea anō hoki e au" - ehara tēnā i te huarahi e mau tonu ai he whanaungatanga hauora.  

3. Ngā momo kai e pai ana ki a koe

Me pēhea rā te take iti nei e waiho ai hei take whakapataritari? Āe, whakaarohia tēnei. He kaiwhenua tino kaha koe, kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata ehara i te kaiwhenua, ā, ka kai heihei tō hoa i ia rā. Tērā pea ka tae ki tētahi wā ka huri koe ki ētahi rūma motuhake mō te tina.

4. Te piripono 

Ko te āhua tamariki e hiahia ana, e hiahia ana kia nui ake ngā awhi me ngā kihi, e tono tonu ana kia arohia – he āhua ātaahua katoa te āhua ina tīmata te whakaipoipo a te tokorua. Engari ina mutu te wā tuatahi o te harikoa, ā, e hiahia tonu ana koe kia whakamanahia tonutia, kia haere tahi me tō hoa i ngā wāhi katoa, kia tirotiro haere rānei i tā rāua waea, ka tino hoha rawa atu. Te piripono he tino raruraru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.

5. Kata whakarihariha

He ahua whakarihariha pea tēnei, engari e mārama ana mātou ki tāu e kōrero nei. Ko te ngunguru, ko te kata nui rānei e puta mai ana i tō hoa i waenganui o te karakia, i te wharekai marino rānei – he mea whakama!

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6. Te akuaku kino 

Me pā mai tēnei āhuatanga whakarihariha ki a koe mai i te tīmatanga. Mēnā kua kite koe i tēnei āhuatanga i roto i tō hoa i muri i te neke tahi, tera pea he uaua ki te haere tonu pēnei mēnā kāore ia e whakaae ki ētahi huringa.  

7. Kei runga tonu i tā rātou waea 

Kaore tetahi e hiahia ana tukua te waea kia whakangaro i tā rāua whanaungatanga engari anei tāua. Ka haria e tō hoa tā rāua taputapu iti ki ngā wāhi katoa, mai i te wharepaku ki te rūma moe ki te tēpu kai, me te mea kei te tiaki ia i tētahi mea ngaro nui a te kāwanatanga i reira. Ā, ka rite koe ki te noho tahi me te atarangi o tētahi tangata e kore rawa e titiro ake i te mata, e aro rānei ki tētahi kōrero. 

Kei runga tonu i tā rātou waea 
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8. Kei runga tonu i TŌ waea 

Me taka ki raro i ngā kāwai o ngā whanonga kino me te tino whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga. He aha te whakarihariha ina noho tonu tō hoa ki tō waea pūkoro? Kāore mātou e kōrero ana mō tētahi mea nui pērā i te tirotiro haere nā te mea he nui te kino. take whakawhirinaki. Kei te takaro kēmu noa iho pea rātou, kei te tono kai rānei. Engari he aha i tika ai kia waiho tonu māu waea pūkoro, kaua mā rātou ake?

9. Te horoi ā-tinana

Kei te noho tahi koe me tētahi wahine tūturu, arā, a Monica Geller? Nō reira, i tangohia e koe tētahi kapu i roto i te kāpata, ā, i wareware koe ki te wāhi me te koki i whakatakotoria ai i a koe e whakahoki ana i te kapu. Koinā tō whiunga tuatoru i muri i te hu i runga i te tēpu kawhe me te tauera mākū. Ki te tumanako tētahi kia mahi tā rātou hoa i runga i te taumata o te horoi, ka raru pea te whanaungatanga. 

10. Te tautohetohe i te aroaro o te marea

E mea ana a Megan, tā mātou kaipānui nō Greenville, South Carolina, "He āhua tō taku hoa ki te hanga i ngā āhuatanga whakahihi i ngā wāhi tūmatanui mō ngā take iti noa iho. Tērā pea ka pai ki a rātou te whakamōhio i ngā tāngata e karapoti ana i a mātou mō ā mātou take whaiaro, engari kāore au e tautoko i ēnei kōrero nui." Ko te kore e whakaatu i te atawhai o te kōrero tūmataiti i roto i te tūmataitinga tētahi o ngā whanaungatanga e whakarihariha ana.

11. Te kore utu mō ngā mea 

Te korero mo ngā whanonga kino e whakangaro ana i te whanaungatanga, me pēhea tātou e karo ai i te taha pūtea? Pēnei, he maha ngā wā, ina haere tētahi tokorua ki te tina, ka haere tētahi ki te whakautu i te waea i te wā e tata mai ana te utu. Mēnā he tikanga noa, ā, kāore he raruraru pūtea e pā ana ki tēnei tangata, ka waiho hei tauira o ngā amuamu noa i roto i te whanaungatanga. 

12. Te tahae i tō miraka kawa

Ae, ko ētahi tāngata e whakatipu ana i ngā momo whakahihi whakakatakata mō te whanaungatanga pēnei i ēnei. "Ka whakatuwherahia e au te pouaka whakamātao i muri i tētahi rā roa, pukumahi hoki hei kai i te miraka kawa Kariki, ā, ka kitea kua pau katoa!" – E amuamu ana taku hoa a Alan i te iti rawa i te kotahi i te wiki nā te mea kua pouri ia ināianei ki te murunga a tana hoa i ana kai reka. 

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13. Te kōrero mō ō raruraru ki ō hoa

Tērā pea ka whakaarohia e koe tēnei hei tetahi o ngā mea tino whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga, nā te mea kāore he mea papaku atu i te whakatuwhera i te tatau ki tō oranga whaiaro ki te hunga o waho. Kāore he he o te whakapuaki i tētahi mea ki tētahi hoa tata. raruraru whanaungatanga. Engari, ki te mea ka pērā tonu te mahi a te tangata, kāore e whakaaetia. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio "He aha ngā mea whakarihariha a ngā tāne?", koinei pea te pātai.

14. Ina ko tō kōrua whanaungatanga te pūtake o tō rāua oranga 

I roto i tenei horopaki, a Reddit kaiwhakamahi e mea ana, "Ko te noho i roto i te whanaungatanga me tetahi kotiro ko tana mahi anake ko te whanaungatanga he whanonga tino whakarihariha." Mena ka ora, ka mate rānei te oranga whaiaro me te oranga pāpori o tō hoa i a koe me tō whanaungatanga, ka tino whakamomori i muri i tetahi wā, ā, ka ngawari te huri o tēnei āhua ki roto i te peere mōrearea māu.

15. Kāore e whakaatu ana i te aro ki ō hiahia

I kōrero ahau mō tēnei take mō te tokorua i ētahi marama kua pahure ake nei i te wā i whakapuaki mai ai taku hoa a Jen i tana kōrero, "Kei te mōhio koe, kāore taku hoa e whakaaro ki te tirotiro i ngā kiriata, i ngā waiata rānei e tūtohutia ana e au, ā, kei te whakararuraru tonu i ahau. Me te mea he papaku rawa aku kōwhiringa mō rātou. Kāore ianei i te mea noa te whakapuaki i ō mea tino pai ki a rātou anō, me te ngana ki te ite hono "Mō tētahi kaupapa noa?" Āe, e Jen, he tino tika tēnā. He rerekē te tuku arotake whai hua, engari ko te karo ā-tauira, te whakapehapeha rānei mō ngā hiahia o tō hoa, ko tētahi o ngā mea tino whakarihariha ki te whanaungatanga. 

16. Te waiho i te nohoanga wharepaku ki runga

E mōhio ana koe mēnā e mōhio ana koe. Koinei te pūtake o te tautohetohe tawhito i ia rā i waenganui i ngā hoa noho e rua. E hia atu ngā whakamaharatanga e hiahiatia ana e rātou? E kīia ana e mātou he mea whakarihariha ki te whanaungatanga ahakoa he rite tonu te whakarihariha ki tētahi atu. Ka whakautua hoki e ia tō pātai, "He aha ngā mea whakarihariha nui ki ngā wāhine?"

17. He nui te haruru o te pūtu

I pātai koe mō ētahi mea whakarihariha kē, ā, i riro mai i a koe tētahi. E tino whakapono ana ahau ka whakaae ā mātou kaipānui kua ora i tēnei moemoeā kino he amuamu tika tēnei. Kei te tuku tō hoa i tētahi take hei whakarihariha māu.  

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18. Kia tae mai tētahi i muri, ka tae mai tonu ia i muri

Ko te wa ki hoatu he koha ki tō hoa rangatira He mātakitaki mai i te mea kua mutu te whakaroa. E kī ana a Olivia, he kaihokohoko pāpāho pāpori taitamariki nō New Jersey, "Ki ahau nei, ko te mea tino whakarihariha ki te whanaungatanga ko te kore o taku hoa wahine e tae ki te wā. Ka tatari ahau mō te 45 meneti i tō mātou wāhi hui, ā, ka tae mai ia i muri i te whakapau kaha ki te whakaoti i tētahi wā whakarite mani-pedi. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro he aha te hoha o tēnā!"

19. Te ngaungau me te waha tuwhera

Tērā pea he tino aro nui ētahi o koutou ki ngā tikanga kai. Ki te kite i tō hoa e kai ana me te waha e tuwhera ana, he mea whakarihariha, he mea whakaute hoki, nā te mea ki a koe, he rite ki te hara o te tēpu kai. 

20. Kāore he āhua o te wāhi whaiaro 

E tino mōhio ana ahau kāore mātou e hiahia ki te whakamārama atu ki a koe te hiranga o te wāhi whaiaro i roto i te whanaungatangaKāore e taea e koe te harikoa, te makona rānei i roto i te whanaungatanga mēnā kāore koe e whakaaetia kia pupuri i tō tuakiri. Ki te kore tō hoa e tuku i taua wāhi ki a koe, ka waiho hei tetahi o ngā mea whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga ka kino pea.

21. Kaua rawa e whakahokia ngā taupoki o ngā pounamu 

Me kōrero tātou mō tētahi atu mea whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga. I ētahi wā, ka tino whakarihariha te noho tahi me tētahi e waiho tonu ana i ngā taupoki o te uma kia tuwhera. Me te mea ko tāu mahi he whakaoti i tā rātou i tīmata ai. He aha ngā mea whakarihariha nui a ngā wāhine? Ka tomo rātou ki te wharepaku, ka kite i ngā pounamu hopi horoi me te hinu kaukau kua huakina katoatia. Pātai atu ki ngā wāhine, ka kī atu rātou he aha te whakarihariha o tēnei.

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22. Te whakautu tonu i ngā waea a tā rātou hoa o mua 

He pai te noho tahi me tō hoa o mua, engari kaua e rite ki te mea kei te mau tonu koe i tētahi wāhanga o tō hītori. Tērā pea ka whakaaro tō hoa kāore koe i te tino uru ki tēnei whanaungatanga. Mena kei te whakautu tonu koe i ā rātou waea, kei te tūtaki pinepine hoki ki a rātou, he tohu tēnā kei te mau tonu tō aroha ki tō hoa o mua. Ko te mea e āhua ana he mahi whaiaro māu, tera pea he take e tino whakarihariha ai tō hoa. 

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23. Hae koretake

He āhua ātaahua te hae iti nei, ā, i ētahi wā ka meinga tātou kia whakaaro he mea nui tātou. Engari, ki te mea kei te tumanako koe kia kaua rawa tō hoa e titiro, e kōrero rānei ki te ira tangata kē, he tino nui rawa atu tēnā. Kāore koe i te whakaaro? Ko te hae tonu te pūtake o ētahi o ngā mea whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga. 

24. Te rerekētanga o te reo whakapāha 

Ahakoa ngā wā katoa ka whakatau koe ki te waiho i tō whakapehapeha ki te taha, ka mea 'aroha mai', he mea whakamiharo te whakaora i tō hononga. Engari, tera pea he rerekē ngā whakaaro o ngā hoa tokorua i roto i te whanaungatanga. ngā reo whakapāhaHei tauira, ka mea pea tō hoa, "Aroha mai mō te whara i a koe" ā, ka horoi i ōna ringa ki te take. Engari ki a koe, he mea nui kia kite i te ripeneta i roto i āna mahi, ā, e hiahia ana koe kia whakatikahia e rātou te hē ki a koe. He mea nui tēnei koretake ki a koe. 

25. Te waiho i ngā tauera mākū ki runga i te tūru 

E rua ngā momo hoa i roto i te whanaungatanga – ko te mea pākiki, ko te mea pōrearea. Ehara i te mea ahuareka te titiro ki ngā tauera mākū e whiua noatia ana ki te whare. Tērā pea ka riri te tangata mā e hanga ana i tētahi whanaungatanga rorirori, ā, ka riri ki a ia.

26. Te kore horoi i muri i te moe tāne

Kāore pea tō hoa e whakaatu i tōna pono. Engari kāore he tangata e pai ki te awhi me te moe i muri i te moe me te kore e horoi. Tēnā koa, horoia ō makawe ki te kore koe e hiahia kia whakapataritari anō tō hoa i te whanaungatanga. 

27. Ngā whakautu tōmuri, ngā whakautu kore rānei ki ngā tuhinga

I a koe e kōrero ana mō ngā amuamu e kitea whānuitia ana i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, Reddit kaiwhakamahi ka tangi, "Kāore au i te rongo i a ia mō ngā hāora ina kore ia i te kāinga, ā, kāore au i te mōhio he aha te āhua. Ina rānei kei waho ia me ōna hoa, ā, kāore e pai ki te tirotiro i tana waea/whakautu mai ki ahau ahakoa kei te pouri ahau nā te mea he 'kino'. Āue! Mā te kore aro ki ahau ka nui ake ngā raruraru." He rite tonu te āhua o taua kōrero ki te kōrero?

28. Te kore whakatau 

Ko tētahi o aua whanonga whakararuraru e mōhio ai koe kei te i roto i te aroha engari kāore te whanaungatanga e mahi Kāore anō. Mēnā e pai ana koe ki ngā āhuatanga kua hoatu. Kei te haere koe ki tētahi wā whakatā, ā, kāore e taea e tō hoa te whakatau i tētahi wharekai, kāore hoki e taea te whakatau he aha tā rātou e hiahia ana ki te tono, ā, ka ruarua anō hoki ō whakaaro. 

Mai i te whiriwhiri i ō rātou kākahu mō tētahi hui ki te whakatau i ngā tae e hiahia ana koe ki te peita i ngā pakitara o tō whare noho, me tiaki e koe ngā mea katoa. Nā te mea he pōro nui rātou e noho pōrearea ana i tō taha. He nui te riri mō te nuinga o tātou ina he hoa kore whakatau kei a tātou. He ātaahua i te tīmatanga, engari he whakarihariha i te mutunga.

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29. Te waea atu i ngā wā katoa kāore koe e whakautu mai ana 

He mea whakararuraru tēnei. He tikanga atawhai te mutu waea atu ina kore te tangata e whiwhi, e kite rānei i te waea tuatahi. Hoatu he 15 meneti ki a rātou, ka ngana anō mēnā kāore, mehemea he mea nui. Ā, kei reira anō tō hoa e waea mai ana 10 ngā wā karapīpiti i a koe e hui ana. Kia pono, whakarongo mai ki tētahi tohutohu! 

30. Te whakamahi i te kupu "tino" i roto i ia rerenga kōrero 

Kei te mahara koe ki te pakanga i waenganui i a Ted rāua ko Robin i te wā o Pehea ahau i tae atu ai ki to whaea Nā te mea he maha rawa ngā kupu 'tūturu' i kīia e Robin i roto i ngā horopaki whakarite? He mea ngahau te mātaki i runga i te pouaka whakaata, kāore i te tino ngahau i te ao tūturu. Kiia he mea rerekē te riri mōna mēnā e hiahia ana koe, engari ko te kī, "Ka pakū taku puku mēnā ka ngaua anō e au" he mea whakararuraru tikanga, inā koa koinei tō 'tūturu' tuawhā i roto i te rima meneti.

31. Te hikoi atu i waenganui o te pakanga 

He aha ngā mea e whakarihariha ai ngā tāne? He aha ngā mea e whakapataritari ana i ngā wāhine i roto i te whanaungatanga? Koinei tēnei, ā, he mea noa mō te katoa. He take anō kia kiia ai tēnei ko tētahi o ngā mea tino whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga nā te mea he tino whakaiti te wehe ohorere i te wā e tautohe ana i tētahi atu tangata. Ehara tēnei i te huarahi e pai ai koe. whawhai i roto i te huarahi hauoraIna mahi te tangata i tēnei, e oma atu ana rātou i te ao tūturu. E whakaatu ana tēnei kāore tō hoa e hiahia ki te aro atu ki ngā raruraru, ki te rapu huarahi whakaaro nui rānei.  

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He tino hoha te hikoi i waenganui o te pakanga

32. Te kēmu ārai-wetewete

He tino hē te āhua o te hunga e aukati tonu ana i ā rātou hoa i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori i muri i ia pakanga. Ara, kāore koe i te kura tuarua i ēnei rā! Kāore koe i te whakaaro me whai tikanga koe ki te kōrero pērā i ngā pakeke, me te whakatau i ngā mea, kaua e huna i te take? Ahakoa kāore i te tino kitea i nāianei, ka taea e tēnei aukati me te wetewete tonu te whakaiti i te turanga o te whanaungatanga, ā, ka wehe kē ngā hoa e rua i roto i te wā. 

33. Te inu i te awatea me te nui rawa o te pāti

Nā, i aroha koe ki tēnei tangata nā tōna āhua 'ora me te wairua o te pāti'. Ā, inaianei kua kite koe koinei tonu tōna oranga katoa. Ehara te Wenerei i te Rāhoroi hou, e te Atua! Kaua e inu nui i waenganui o te wiki, me te huna i ō kanohi ki ngā mea katoa. ngā kawenga whanaungatangaE mārama ana he aha tēnei mea he uaua ki ētahi tāngata.

34. He tangata hiahia nui ki ngā whakamana 

Ko te hiahia nui kia whakamanahia, he mea tino whakarihariha tēnei ki te whanaungatanga. Ki te mea me whakaū koe i tō hoa rangatira tekau ngā wā i te rā kāore anō kia ngaro ō kare ā-roto ki a ia, ko te tikanga kei te noho ia me ētahi āwangawanga tūturu. Ka taea te whakararu i a ia te whāngai tonu i tōna whakahāwea i a ia anō.

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35. Kāore he ngākau whakawhetai

Ka hoatu, ka hoatu, ka hoatu anō. Ā, he aha te utu ka riro mai i a koe? He whakautu kore whakawhetai pēnei i te "I tono atu ahau kia mahia e koe ēnā mea katoa māku?" E hia te nui o te mihi a te tangata ki tana hoa mō te parakuihi i mahia e rātou, he ohorere rā whānau whakamiharo rānei? He tohu iti noa iho engari he tino kaha. Mā te mōhio kei te maioha tō hoa ki a koe ka āwhina noa i te... te whakapakari i tō honongaĀ, he rite tonu te kino o te korenga o taua mea ki te whanaungatanga. 

Tohutohu Matua

  • Ko ngā mea whakarihariha ko ētahi āhuatanga, whanonga rānei a ētahi atu e kore e taea e koe te aro atu
  • He mea maori te noho whakarihariha i roto i te whanaungatanga ina whakaatu ana tō hoa i aua āhuatanga whakarihariha.
  • Ahakoa ngā take iti noa iho, ka taea te huri hei pakanga nui ki te kore e arohia i mua.
  • He pai ake te kōrero ki tō hoa mēnā kei te whakaaro koe kāore e taea e koe te noho tahi me ētahi o ngā mea whakarihariha e tino whakararuraru ana i a koe.

Anei rā - he whakamārama poto mō ngā mea tino whakarihariha o te whanaungatanga. Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te tikanga tuturu o ngā mea whakarihariha me ngā wāhi pea e puta ai te raruraru, ko te tumanako ka kitea e koe he huarahi hei whakatau tahi māu ko tō hoa. Ko te whāinga matua kia kaua e tukua ēnei raruraru iti kia arai i a kōrua ki te whai whanaungatanga hauora. 

FAQs

1. Me pēhea te whakatau i ngā āhuatanga whakarihariha i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga?

Tuatahi, me arotake e koe mēnā he take whakararuraru tēnei mōu. He pai ake te tatau i ngā mea pai me ngā mea kino o tō whanaungatanga, kia kite ai ko tēhea te taha e nui ake ana te taumaha. Ki te mea ko ngā mea pai te mea e wikitoria ana, me kōrero koe mō ēnei take kino ki tō hoa, me te rapu i tētahi otinga whai hua. Me ako rānei ki te whakaae, ki te kore rānei e aro ki ēnei mea whakararuraru.

2. He riri nui tō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa?

Ae, he maha ngā wā ka pāngia te tokorua e ngā raruraru o te whanaungatanga. Ka taea e ētahi te whakatau i tēnei raruraru mā te whakatau i te raruraru, ka whawhai ētahi mō ngā whanonga whakarihariha a tō rātou hoa, ā, ko te mea kino rawa atu, ka wehe ētahi i a rātou anō nā te mea he nui ngā raruraru. 

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