Nā te whakamahinga nui o ngā waea atamai, kua ngāwari ake te tirotiro i tētahi whanaungatanga. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whai i tō hoa rangatira, ki te uiui i ōna hoa, i ōna hoa mahi rānei kia tirohia anō mēnā kei te tika tā rātou kōrero, ki te utu rānei i tētahi kaitirotiro tūmataiti hei mahi i ngā mahi paru māu. Ko tāu noa e hiahia ana ko te waea a tō hoa rangatira i roto i tō ringaringa. Mā te pāwhiri noa i ētahi pātene ka kitea ngā mea katoa e pā ana ki tētahi tangata. Ā rātou taunekeneke, ngā mahi pāpāho pāpori, ngā takiuru hōtēra me ngā wharekai, tae atu ki ngā whakawhitiwhitinga pūtea. Ahakoa he ngāwari noa iho, ehara i te mea he mea whakaaetia? Ko te tirotiro puku i te waea a te hoa he tohu i ngā take nui o te whanaungatanga, ā, he takahi i te whakawhirinaki. I mōhio koe he hinengaro kei muri i te tirotiro? He mea tino nui tēnei. Nō reira, ki te mea ko koe te momo tangata e aroturuki tonu ana i te waea a tō hoa, e rapu huarahi ana ki te tirotiro i ngā tuhinga a tō hoa, kua kohikohia e mātou e 8 ngā take kāore e pai te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa.
He mea noa te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa
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He tata nei ako E tohu ana tēnei he nui ake te tūponotanga o te tirotiro i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga i tā tātou e whakaae ana. I whakahaerehia te rangahau whakawhiti-wāhanga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua marenatia i runga ipurangi. I whakaatuhia e te rangahau kua noho te tirotiro waea pūkoro, te tirotiro rānei i te waea a te hoa hei āhuatanga noa, inā koa i waenga i ngā tāngata kei roto i ngā whanaungatanga piripono, whanaungatanga aroha rānei. He maha ngā take e akiaki ana i te tirotiro waea pūkoro i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, engari ko ngā take matua e tohu ana i te kore whakawhirinaki me te iti o te whakaaro ki a ia anō.
Ahakoa e mōhio ana koe ki tēnei, kei te kite tonu koe kāore e taea te kore e hopu i te waea a tō hoa, ā, te tirotiro i ngā karere kuputuhi a tō hoa? Mena koinei te āhua, ā, kei te whakaaro koe mēnā he pai te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa, me mōhio anō hoki koe he mea mōrearea. I te whakawhanaungatanga i ngā tumanakohanga o te aroha, he maha ngā wā ka whakarērea e tātou te hiahia mō te wāhi whaiaro. Ka whakapoauau tonu tātou i te aroha me te wairua o te mana pupuri. Ko te whakaaro o te noho tahi ehara i te tango i te mana whakahaere o te oranga o tētahi ki tētahi, i te hono rānei ki te hope. He he rohe kei te whanaungatanga hauora kei roto i tēnā ko te hoatu wāhi tetahi ki tetahi ki te tipu hei tokorua, hei takitahi hoki.
Me whai wāhi ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki ngā waea a tētahi ki tētahi? Tērā pea, mēnā e pai ana ngā hoa tokorua ki te whakaaro ki te tohatoha kupuhipa me te tuku i a rāua anō ki te whakahaere i ā rāua taputapu me ngā pūkete whaiaro me te kore e whakaaro kua takahia tō rāua tūmataitinga. Engari he hē te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa me te tirotiro haere me te kore e mōhio, te tono rānei kia tohaina e rāua ō rāua taipitopito waea ki a koe ahakoa kāore rāua e pai ki te mahi pēnā, ā, ka mutu pea ka ngaro tō hoa.
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8 Ngā Take e Kore ai e Mutu Pai te Tirotiro i te Waea a te Hoa
He tūmataiti te āhua o ētahi tāngata, ā, ki a rātou he tapu tō rātou wāhi. Ina hoki, waahi whaiaro He pai te whanaungatanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, me whakautehia e ngā hoa whai pānga. Kāore he mana o tetahi ki te takahi i te tūmataitinga o tētahi atu.
Engari, i ētahi wā ka tūtaki pea koe ki tētahi hoa kāore e whakaute ana i tō wāhi whaiaro. Tērā pea ka pātai nui rātou, "He hē te tono kia kite i te waea a tō hoa?" Ā, ina whakautu koe i te āe, tērā pea ka riria koe e rātou me te kī, "He aha koe ka māharahara ai mēnā kāore he mea āu e huna ai?" Kāore ēnei tāngata e mārama ana ko te whakawhirinaki te pūtake o ngā whanaungatanga, me te maha atu anō hoki. Mēnā ka pātaihia koe pēnei, anei ētahi take e waru ka taea e koe te hoatu ki a rātou he aha ehara ai i te whakaaro pai te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa.
1. E tohu ana i ngā take whakawhirinaki i roto i te whanaungatanga
Ko te whakapae tētahi o ngā tino take e tūpato ana te tangata i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Kei te tuku karere tonu ia ki tana hoa o mua? e takaro ana i te mahi? I tana tari ia i taku waea atu ki a ia i te tina? Kei te hiahia koe ki te haere i muri i te tuara o tō hoa, te tirotiro i ngā tuhinga a tō hoa he kino atu rānei, me tono kia iritihia te pūrere, kia tukuna atu hoki ki a koe. He aha te tikanga ina tirohia tō waea e tetahi? Kei te whakaaro pea koe kei reira tētahi atu tangata i roto i te oranga o tō hoa rangatira ahakoa kāore he taunakitanga. E whakaatu ana tēnei he kore whakawhirinaki hohonu kei roto i te whanaungatanga. E kore te tirotiro i te waea e whakatau i ēnei take engari ka tino uaua ake te whārite.
2. Kei te taumaha koe i te hara
Ētahi atu take kāore e tika kia tirohia tana waea ka uru atu ki te whakapae i a koe mō āu mahi huna. He aha te mea ka tupu mēnā, i a koe e tirotiro ana i te waea a tō hoa, Kāore koe e kite i tētahi mea rerekē? Tērā pea ka tino pōuri koe. Ko te mea kino rawa atu, ki te kitea e tō hoa, tera pea ka mutu te whanaungatanga pai.
Ahakoa ka taea e koe te whakatenatena i a koe anō he mea noa te tohatoha kupuhipa me ngā taputapu, e mōhio ana koe kei te takahi koe i te rārangi i konei. Ko te hinengaro kei muri i te tirotiro e tohu ana i te kore whakawhirinaki me te whakaaro ā-roto o te tangata mō te kore haumaru me te whakapae. Ahakoa te nui o te tuwhera i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, e kore e riro mai i a rātou te whakawhirinaki. Mena ko koe tētahi o ēnei tāngata, tera pea he āwhina mēnā ka whakaarohia e koe he aha te tikanga o te tirotiro a tetahi i tō waea?
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3. A, mehemea ka hurahia e koe tētahi mea whakarihariha?
I mua i tō whakakorekore i te pātai, he hē te tono kia tirohia te waea a tō hoa? Whakaarohia tēnei, me pēhea mēnā i a koe e tirotiro ana i te waea a tō hoa ka hurahia e koe ētahi mea ngaro, ētahi kōrero kino rānei ka taea te whakararu i tō kōrua whanaungatanga? Hei tauira, ko tō kei te pāngia te hoa rangatira e te whanaungatanga kare ā-roto me tētahi hoa o mua. Ki te kore rānei, ka kitea e koe ngā haumitanga kino me ngā nama kāore koe i te mōhio. Hei whakahē i a rātou, me whakaae tuatahi koe kua tirohia pukutia e koe tā rātou waea. Inaianei, kua whakakorea tā rātou hara e tō ake. Engari ko te aro atu ki ngā take tūturu o te kore pono, o ngā haumitanga kino rānei, ka whakamahia e rātou te huarahi 'ko te whakaeke te parepare pai rawa atu' hei whakataurite i te papa tākaro, hei whakakore i a koe i roto i te tukanga.
4. Kei te takahi koe i te wāhi whaiaro o tō hoa
I te nuinga o te wā, ka tirohia e te tangata te waea a tā rātou hoa, ehara i te mea he whakapae, he ruarua rānei, engari he hiahia noa iho. Nā i te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa, ko tā rātou noa he aroturuki i ngā mea e pā ana ki te oranga o tā rātou hoa. Ka taea e koe te whakapae i te mea he mea tūturu āhua tangata whakahihi te hae rānei mō te roa o te wā e noho ana te hoa rangatira ki tā rātou waea pūkoro. Ahakoa pēhea, ko te whakautu ki te pātai, "He hē te tono kia tirohia te waea pūkoro a tō hoa rangatira?" he "Āe, he hē."
Ki te whakaute koe i te wāhi o tō hoa, ka miharo koe ki te āhua o te kukume mai o tēnei ki a koe. Mā te wāhi i roto i te whanaungatanga ka āwhina i a kōrua ko tō hoa ki te whakawhanake i ō kōrua tuakiri, ki te whai i ō kōrua ake hiahia, tae atu ki te whai hoa anō hoki. Heoi anō, ka hoatu he wā ki a kōrua ki te tukatuka i ngā kare ā-roto me ngā whakaaro. He āhuatanga wikitoria mō te katoa, ā, ko tētahi o ngā take pai kia kaua e kōrero mā te waea a tana hoa, mā te waea a tana hoa rānei.
5. Ka huri te hiahia mō te tirotiro hei mea āwangawanga
I roto i te nuinga o ngā wā o te puremu, ka taea e te hiahia ki te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa i muri i te tinihanga te huri hei āhua pōrearea. Ahakoa te tinihanga, ki te whakatau kōrua ki te noho tonu i roto i te whanaungatanga, ko te whakawhirinaki te tūāpapa hei hanga. Ko te hiahia ki te pōrearea ki te waea a tō hoa, me te tirotiro i ngā karere kuputuhi a tō hoa, ka raru pea te whanaungatanga.
Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te whakaatu koe i te whanonga āwangawanga? Kei te noho noa koe, e tatari ana kia whai wāhi koe ki te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa? Ki te kore rānei rātou i konei, kei te mōhio koe kāore e taea e koe te aukati i a koe anō ki te whakaaro ko wai rātou e kōrero ana, e kōrerorero ana rānei, i a koe e ngaro ana? He mea kino te āwangawanga mō tetahi, mō tetahi mea rānei. Ā tōna wā, ka noho katoa ō whakaaro ki roto i tō hinengaro, ā, ka arahi atu ki ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro me te tinana, me te kore e whakahua i te wehenga pea.
Ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te mea nui ki te whakatū whakawhirinaki me te whakatau i ngā tautohe. Mena he mea kei te whakararuraru i a koe, kōrero ki tō hoa mō taua mea. Me whakatū pea he tikanga mō te whakamahi waea pūkoro i a kōrua e noho tahi ana. Kaua e tukua Ka pakaru tō whanaungatanga i ngā waea pūkoroKo tētahi tohutohu pea, i a kōrua e tunu kai ana, e kai tahi ana, ka taea e kōrua te whakatau ki te whakangū i ā kōrua waea pūkoro, kia tawhiti atu i te tēpu kai. Pērā ai, ka taea e kōrua te kōrero kanohi ki te kanohi.
6. Ka whakararu i te whanaungatanga
Tērā pea kua take whakawhirinaki e whakaoho ana i tēnei āhua o te tirotiro puku i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Kei te whakanui ake koe i tētahi raruraru nui kua pā ki tēnei tirotiro huna. Ina mōhio tō hoa, ā, ka mōhio rātou, ā tōna wā, ka kite pea rātou he takahi i te whakawhirinaki. Mā tēnei hanga kore whakawhirinaki i ngā taha e rua ka whānui ake te āputa, ka whakararu hoki i tō kōrua whanaungatanga.
Tērā pea ka arahi atu ki te puremu nā te mea e whakaaro ana tō hoa kāore koe i te arohaina, kāore hoki koe i te manaakihia. Mā te tuku i a koe ki te hiahia mō tēnei mahi tirotiro huna āu, ā, te tirotiro i te waea i muri i te tinihanga, Ka whakanuia ake e koe tētahi raruraru nui kē, ka whakatū i tētahi huringa kino o te tinihanga me te tirotiro puku. Ina puta ake ēnei whakaaro ki roto i tō hinengaro, pātai atu ki a koe anō, he aha te tikanga o te tirotiro a tētahi i tō waea? Tuhia ēnei kōrero, ka whakamahara ki a koe anō ko te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa ka kino pea ki tō whanaungatanga, kaua ki te tiaki i te piripono e hiahiatia ana e koe.
7. Ka kawea mai he mana kino ki te takaro
By Mā te tirotiro i te waea a te hoa, mā te tirotiro rānei i ngā karere kuputuhi a tō hoa, kei te whakatū koe i tētahi mana kino i roto i te whanaungatanga. He mana e meinga ai koe kia whakahaere i a koe anō, ā, ka waiho tō hoa kia ngoikore, kia kitea hoki. Ko te whārite taketake o te ōritetanga i roto i te whanaungatanga ka puta noa atu i te matapihi i roto i ēnei āhuatanga, ka kino pea ki te hauora o tō whanaungatanga.
Kei raro i ngā paparanga o te whakawhirinaki me te whakapae he kare ā-roto o te mana, he hiahia ki te whakahaere, koinei te pūtake o te hinengaro o te tirotiro puku.. Ko ngā mana whakahaere e hanga ana i ngā whanaungatanga katoa. Ko te tohatoha rauemi me te mana whakahaere ka whakaara ake i te whanaungatanga. Ko ngā mana whakahaere kino ka pā kino ki ngā whanaungatanga, ā, ka kino pea te tirohanga a tō hoa ki a ia anō.
8. Ka huri tō arotahi ki te kimi hapa o tō hoa
Engari ko te rapu hapa i tō hoa rangatira, engari ko te kimi i ngā hapa o tō hoa rangatira hei whakapae i a koe. Ki te hiahia koe ki te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa rangatira, he hē kei roto i tō whanaungatanga. Engari ko te rapu hapa i tō hoa rangatira hei whakatau i ō raruraru, ko te kimi hapa i a ia hei whakapae i a ia. te huri-whakapaeKa hinga te kaupapa o te noho tahi ina arotahi koe ki te kimi i taua hapa kotahi e taea ai e koe te ripeka i a rāua, me te whakakore i ngā mahi hē katoa. Kāore he huarahi e tupu ai te whanaungatanga i roto i tētahi taiao kino pēnei. Koinei tētahi o ngā take maha e kore ai e tirohia tana waea, e tana waea rānei.
Kati te tirotiro me te arotahi ki te whakatika i tō whanaungatanga
Ki te tino hiahia koe kia pai ngā mea i waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa aroha, me mutu te tirotiro haere, me te whawhai ki te hiahia ki te mahi pera. Tirohia te waea a te hoa. Engari, kimihia he huarahi hauora hei whakatika i tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ki tēnā huarahi ko te kōrero pono mō ō whakapae me te kore whakawhirinaki. Tonoa kia mārama ake te whanaungatanga, mēnā koinā te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe kia noho haumaru ai koe.
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Ko ngā take matua ko te kore whakawhirinaki me te iti pea o te whakaaro ki a koe anō. Ki te kite koe i a koe e kukume ana ki I a koe e tirotiro ana i ngā karere kuputuhi a tō hoa, ngana ki te pupuri i a koe anō. He pai ake te kōrero tuwhera ki tō hoa, me te kimi huarahi hei hanga i te whakawhirinaki me te whakamanawa e hiahiatia ana e koe.
Kāo, ehara i te mea noa te tirotiro i te waea a tō hoa. He tohu tēnei ki tētahi āhua, ki tētahi hapa hinengaro rānei i roto i a koe anō. I ētahi wā, ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakaoti i ēnei take mā te kōrero noa. I ētahi atu wā, me āwhina pea koe e tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro ngaio, he hoa pai, he mema whānau rānei e whakawhirinakihia ana e koe.
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