Me pēhea taku whakamāori i a au anō i taku ngana ki te kukume i taku i aroha ai

Porohia te aroha

"Māku e kōrero atu ki a koe taku whakamā ki tētahi tāne," te kī a tēnei wahine ki ahau. Ka pā te wā ki te katoa, ka tukua koe ki te aroha o te tangata e kore e taea te whakatutuki. Ki te titiro whakamuri ki ngā tau o ngā wheako ki te ira tangata kē, kei te whakama tonu ētahi maharatanga; i ētahi wā o te harikoa, i ētahi wā o te whakama.

"Ko tēnei pūrākau e pā ana ki taku ngana ki te whakawai i taku i aroha ai, me taku whakamāori i ahau anō i mua i taku i aroha ai. Ka taea e te wahine te whanonga i ngā momo huarahi katoa i a ia e pāngia ana e te kuru ki tetahi "nō reira, ehara i te mea tauhou te whakama i a koe anō i mua i te tangata e arohaina ana e koe," te kī a te kōtiro i aroha ki tōna rangatira.

Me whiwhi te katoa i te whakaae mai i taua tangata tino nui o te ao, ā, i a koe e tamariki ana, he tangata hurihuri, he tangata koretake te nuinga o tēnei tangata, kāore e tika kia manaakitia koe. Heoi, ka ngana tonu tātou ki te whakakore i taua āhua, i taua āhua e ārai ana i a rātou, i taua ataata motuhake, i taua ruru rānei, i tētahi mea whakamiharo rānei mō te ao katoa. I ētahi wā ka hē katoa, ā, ka mutu ka waiho koe hei kata mō te rā.

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Me pēhea taku whakakino i a au anō me tētahi tāne

Ripanga o Ihirangi

Kāore e taea te whakakorekore i te meka i ētahi wā ka whakamā tātou i a tātou anō ina ngana tātou ki te kukume i tō tātou aroha. Nā te kore e mōhio me pēhea te whakapuaki i ō tātou kare ā-roto ki te tangata e pai ana ki a tātou, ka whakama tātou i a tātou anō i mua i tō tātou aroha. Anei ngā kōrero a ētahi tāngata mō ngā mahi hē i mahia e rātou i a rātou e ngana ana ki te miharo i tētahi tangata e arohaina ana e tātou.

"Me pēhea taku whakamāori i a au anō me tētahi tāne," ko tā rātou i kōrero mai ki a mātou.

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1. I taku ngana ki te kukume i te aro o taku hoa aroha

He aha te mea ka puta mai ina whakama koe i a koe anō i mua i te tangata e arohaina ana e koe? Māku e kī atu ki a koe. Kua mutu te wā o te akomanga MBA, ā, i huihui mātou ki tētahi o ā mātou whare wānanga paetahi hei whakanui. I titiro matatau ahau ki tēnei tāne ātaahua, ā, i hiahia ahau ki te whakamōhio atu kei te pirangi ahau.

I te haereere noa iho ngā tohu kore-waha, engari i hiahia ahau ki te hopu i a ia. Nō reira, i muri i ētahi inu, ka piko atu ahau ki roto, ka kōrero pōhiri ki ōna taringa e hiahia ana ahau ki te moe tahi me ia. Kī tonu te rūma i ōku hoa akomanga e noho puku ana, ā, kāore au i mōhio kua rangona taku kōrero pōhiri. Āue! He whakama, he mamae hoki tēnā. He hapa kino tēnā kua taea e au te karo.

2. I muri i taku whakarēreatanga i mokemoke ahau, ā, i ngana ki te miharo engari kāore i te whai hua

He rangatira pai tōku, he tangata marino, he tangata ngāwari, he tangata tika, ā, i a au e hikoi haere ana i te tari me te ataata whānui me te ngākau maru. Me ora ahau. Kāore tetahi i te mōhio ki ōku kare ā-roto, ā, kua tino pouri haere ahau.

I tū pakari tēnei tangata i tōna tawhiti puku mai i ahau. Nō reira, i tuhituhi atu ahau ki a ia, me te kī atu kei te pirangi ahau ki te whakaipoipo i a ia.

I muri tata mai, ka haria ahau e ia ki tōna whare iti, ā, ka tukua mārire mai ahau, ka mea mai kua taumau ia mō te marena i te wiki e tū mai nei.

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3. Āe! Ko te kaimātakitaki hē

He kotiro tino ataahua a Seema, taku hoa noho. I hiahia ia ki te miharo ki tana hoa tāne i whakaritea kia tae mai i te rerenga o te atatu. I kakahuria e ia tōna kākahu kore kakahu kanapa i te pō o mua.

I te tangi o te pere tatau, ka haere ia me te hiamoe ki te whakatuwhera i te tatau, ā, ka kitea e ia tā mātou kaimahi miraka 70-tau te pakeke, he tangata puremu, kua waiho te miraka ki te paepae o te whare, ā, e tatari ana kia utua. I a ia e piko ana ki te tiki i te miraka – ka titiro matatau te koroua ki te tirohanga pai kua tukuna ki a ia. Ka kata mātou i te wiki katoa mō te whakapataritari hē a Seema.

4. Ko Shubha te diva o nāianei engari i riro i a ia tana tāne mā te māngai whakakapi

"Me pēhea taku whakamā i ahau anō me tētahi tangata e hiahia ana koe ki te mōhio?" i pātai a Shubha me te kata. I rite tonu māua ki ngā mahi o ia rā. I aroha nui a Anand ki te hēkeretari o te MD, ki a Shubha, engari kāore i taea e ia te kohi i te maia ki te haere i tua atu i te ōkawa, kia ora!

I te aro nui a Shubha ki a Vinod, he tangata whakahihi o te rohe, e haere mai ana ki te mahi i roto i tētahi motuka hou i ia rā. I kite a Anand he pūkenga kōrero a Vinod, nō reira i whakatata atu ia ki a ia ki te whakamātautau i te pāmahana, mā te māngai. Nō reira, i tētahi ata i muri i te taraiwa a Vinod ki te mahi i roto i tana BMW hou i namahia e ia i tana hoa mekanika, ka tohu ia ki a Shubha e hiahia ana a Anand ki te tono marena.

I kata noa ia, ā, i te taha whakakatakata ka mea ia he pai ake ki a ia te marena. He pono i marena a Vinod rāua ko Shubha i te mutunga o taua marama. Ko Anand, i riri, i whakama hoki. Kāore i te whakahuatia te kata i roto i te tari.

5. Te whakapuakitanga o Valentine i huri hei kōrero teka

"I taku nganatanga ki te kukume i taku i aroha ai, i hē katoa ngā mea," te kī a Sankalp. Te rā o Valentine ka ngangau tonu ngā rangatahi o tō mātou kāreti. He kaiako ahau i tēnei kāreti. I te atatu, ka kawea pukutia mai e ngā ākonga taitamariki a ratou koha he rōhi rānei hei koha ki tā rātou kōtiro tino pai.

Ko tētahi o aua tauira ko Sankalp, ā, koinei te wā tuatahi i ngana ai ia ki te hoatu i tētahi rōhi whero ki tana hoa aroha, ki a Sancharika. I tōna kitenga i a ia i te pito o ngā kaupae, ka oma tere atu ia, ka paheke ki runga i tētahi puranga paru kau hou i whakatakotoria ki runga i te papa. Ahakoa i pupuri tonu ia i te rōhi ki runga, he raruraru tana kākahu, me tōna whakapehapeha hoki. Ā, hei tiaki i tōna mata – ka oma ia ki muri ki te pei i te kau hara. I whai tonu te kata i a ia mō ake tonu atu!

E whakaatu ana ēnei pūrākau rorirori i te āhua o te mahi wairangi a te tangata i a rātou anō e ngana ana ki te kukume i tā rātou e aroha nei. He pūrākau rorirori anō tāu hei whakapuaki mai? Kōrero mai ki a mātou i roto i ngā kōrero i raro nei.

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