Te Āhua o taku Hanga Kāinga Anō mōku i Muri i taku Wehenga

I muri i taku marena, ka tomo ahau ki tōku kāinga hou (i taua wā) hei wahine marena i muri i tētahi rerenga pō roa i whakaroahia i te marama o Āperira 2007. Kāore tetahi e marena ana me te whakaaro he rā paunga tōna, ā, pērā i ngā wahine marena katoa, i whakapono ahau ki te whakataukī tawhito "Yahaan meri doli aayi, aur is ghar se ab meri arthi hi uthegi"Tekau tau ahau i noho ai i taua whare – i whakatūria, i tiakina, i manaaki i te whānau me ngā hoa, i te whare o taku taokete wahine." mehendi me te hungawai o te koroua chautha, i tunu kai maha i roto i taua kīhini, ā, i kai i runga i taua tēpu kai, i whakatangi waiata, ā, i whakahaere pāti. Koinā he wāhi harikoa te kāinga i muaKāore au i mōhio me hanga kāinga anō ahau i muri i taku wehenga.

Heoi, i te roanga o te wā, ka kī tonu i te āwangawanga me te wahangu. Ka āta wehe māua, nā te mea he rerekē ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e māua i te ao. I ngana māua ki te whakaae i ā māua moemoeā mō tētahi, engari ka nui ake te riri, te riri me te pōuri o tētahi ki tētahi. Ko ngā take iti wairangi ka huri hei pakanga nui, ā, i muri iho ka noho te wahangu ki roto i te whare mō ngā rā. I muri i tā māua whakatau ki te wehe, ka whakatau ahau ko au te tangata hei neke atu, engari i roa te wā ki te kimi i tētahi wāhi e rite ana ki taku tahua me aku hiahia.

Te Haerenga Hinengaro me te Hanga Anō

Heoi, i te memeha haere o te puehu, he wāhi anō hoki tēnei mō te tipu nui me te panonitanga. Ko tana tukanga hanga anō he tohu i te kaha o te wairua tangata ki te whakaora, ki te urutau, me te kimi i te ataahua ahakoa i roto i ngā āhuatanga tino uaua. He haerenga tēnei mō te kimi anō ko wai koe me ngā mea tino nui, ā, i te mutunga ka arahi atu ki tētahi wairua kaha ake, whai mana ake, me tētahi kāinga e whakaata pono ana i tō ngākau.

Nā te wahangu i whānui ake ai te tawhiti

Ko aua marama torutoru nei te āhua nei kāore he mutunga, ā, i tino hoha ahau. He tino uaua ki te hoki ki te kāinga i te mutunga o tētahi rā roa, hoha, taumaha hoki. Ka rapu huarahi ahau kia kaua e hoki ki te kāinga, kia noho tawhiti atu i ngā wā katoa e taea ana. Ka haere mai ngā pononga wahine, ka mahi mārire i ā rātou mahi, kātahi ka haere. Kāore au i whakahau i a rātou kia horoi i taua kokonga, kia horoi rānei i ngā pungawerewere, kia tunu rānei i tētahi mea reka. Kāore mātou i tino kōrero, engari ko te whakawhitiwhiti pea i tētahi ata pai, i tētahi pō pai rānei. Kāore ia i te mōhio i te wā i mate ai tōku kuia tae noa ki te kōrero mai a tētahi hoa noa ki a ia. Kua taunga ia ki te whakarongo ki ahau e tangi ana i te moe i taua wā, ā, kāore ia i te mōhio kua noho ia ki te hōhipera mō ētahi wiki, kua mate rānei ia.

Me noho te kāinga hei wāhi harikoa. Ko tō tātou piringa tēnei, ko tō tātou wāhi okiokinga iti i waenganui i tēnei ao porangi, ā, kua roa e mutu ana tō tātou noho kotahi.

Ki taku whakaaro, kāore i tino uaua te kimi whare i roto i te ngahere o te tāone e noho ana ahau, engari i hē rawa ahau mō tēnā. I taku kōrero atu ki ngā kaihokohoko kua wehea ahau, ka whakakahore ētahi o rātou ki te whakaatu whare ki ahau. I kī mārama mai rātou kāore ngā rōpū mahi tahi e whakaae ki tētahi wahine takakau, nō reira ka taea e au te utu i tētahi reti i nui ake i taku tahua ka noho ki tētahi whare noho, ka taea rānei e au te tango i tētahi papa reti i tētahi whare motuhake i waenganui o te korekore kāore he haumarutanga. E toru aku whiunga i pā ki ahau – he wahine takakau, he rōia, me tētahi Bengali.

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Kāore tetahi i hiahia ki te reti i tētahi whare mōku

I kite ahau i ētahi whare noho, ā, i utua e au te moni tūturu kia rua ngā wā, ā, ka whakahokia mai ki ahau nā te mea kāore ngā hoa noho tata i hiahia kia... wahine takakau e noho ana i reira. I whakaaro pea rātou ka whakahaere ahau i tētahi whare puremu, ka haere rānei ki te toro atu ki ā rātou tāne puku-pokapū pakeke. I tētahi wā i a au e ngana ana ki te neke atu, ka tukuna mai e taku hoa o mua kia hainatia te whakaaetanga rīhi ki ahau mēnā koinei anake te huarahi e taea ai e au te tiki whare rīhi, me te kī atu ki te rangatira whare kei tētahi atu tāone ia e mahi ana. Heoi, kāore au i hiahia kia herea ahau ki a ia mō tētahi tuanui i runga i tōku mahunga.

Whai muri i te rapu roa, uaua, me te whakarihariha, ka kitea e au tētahi whare, ā, ka hainatia e au te whakaaetanga rīhi. I te rā i mua i taku neke atu, ka purangahia e māua ko taku hoa o mua ngā mea katoa (haunga ngā tāonga me ā māua taonga whaiaro) ki waenganui o te rūma noho – ā māua pukapuka katoa, ngā mea whakapaipai, ngā whakaahua, ngā rinena moenga, ngā taonga hotoke, ngā oko, me ētahi atu. Kāore māua i tuku i tētahi atu kia tomo ki te whare i taua rā. I tirotirohia e māua ngā mea katoa me te kore aroha, ā, ka wehewehea.

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Ko ngā mea katoa i hokona tahitia e mātou kua tohaina inaianei ki waenganui i a mātou

I puritia e ia ngā tūru ringa e rua i arohaina e ia me te tūru whakatā, ko au ia i tango i te huinga sofa 3+2. I puritia e taku hoa o mua te tēpu kai, ā, i tangohia e au te kāpata pouaka whakaata. I puritia e ia tētahi whata pukapuka me tētahi moenga, pērā i ahau. I tangohia e au ētahi o ngā razais e rua me ētahi o ngā rinena moenga i kohia e au me te aroha i roto i ngā tau, i puritia e ia ētahi. I puritia e au ngā karāhe waina, ā, i puritia e ia ngā inu parani. Nā te nui o te mahi, te aroha me te moni uaua i whiwhi ai māua i whakatū tō māua kāinga. Ko ngā mea i maumahara motuhake i mua kua wehea inaianei. Kāore māua i whawhai, kāore māua i tautohetohe, i kōrero mārire noa māua, ā, i whakatau ko wai māna e pupuri. He nanakia, he makariri, he kore whakaaro.

I neke atu ahau me te tapeke o aku taonga: kotahi te moenga takirua, he whata pukapuka kī tonu i aku pukapuka, he pouaka whakaata, e rua ngā kāpata, he tūru, he ngaruiti me ētahi atu oko. I hokona e au he pouaka whakamātao, he hononga hau hou, he ārai mō te whare, he taputapu, he hauhautanga, me ētahi atu. Nō reira, i ringihia e au tōku pouri katoa, tōku pouri, tōku riri, tōku pouri ki te whakatū i tētahi wāhi harikoa mōku, ki tētahi wāhi e marino ai ahau, tawhiti atu i ngā pātai mutunga kore me ngā tohutohu kore tono a te katoa.

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Inaianei kua whai kāinga ahau e arohaina ana e au

I roa te wā i mua i te tīmatanga o taku karanga i taua kāinga, engari e koa ana ahau ki te kī atu kua āta hanga e au he wāhi okiokinga mōku ake. He nui ake ngā whānau me ngā hoa kua manaakihia e au i roto i te tau kotahi i noho ai ahau ki konei i tōku manaakitanga i ngā tau kua pahure ake nei i roto i te whare i noho tahi ai mātou ko taku hoa o mua. Ki taku whakaaro he huarahi hei whakahoki mai i te wairua me te whakaora anō i tō kāinga i muri i te whakarere. Nāku i hanga he kāinga e pai ai te haere mai o te tangata, e toro atu ana, e moe ai mō te pō, mō ngā rā torutoru rānei, koinei te mea e harikoa ai ahau. Ehara i te mea he rūma hōtēra ataahua, kāore he āhua whaiaro e noho nei ahau i ēnei rā, engari he kāinga paru, he kanapa, he mārama te rā, he nui te puoro e whakatangihia ana ināianei.

Thoughts Final

Ko te haerenga o te hanga anō i tētahi kāinga i muri i te wehenga he tohu mō te manawanui me te kaha o te wairua tangata ki te whakaora me te tipu. Mā te whakakore me te whakawhaiaro i tō wāhi ka taea e koe te whakakore i ngā toenga o mua me te whakakī i tō kāinga ki tō tuakiri ahurei. Mā te whakatū i ngā tikanga hou me te waihanga i ngā maharatanga harikoa ka āwhina i te whakatipu i te wairua whakamarie me te noho tahi. Ko te mea nui, ko te awhi i te manaaki i a koe anō me te poipoi i tō oranga hinengaro ka whakatakoto i te turanga mō tētahi oranga tino whai hua i roto i tō kāinga hou.

He roa te wā e hiahiatia ana hei hanga anō, hei kimi anō, hei whakaaro anō hoki i tō kāinga me tō ao. Kia manawanui ki a koe anō, whakanuia ngā wikitoria iti, kaua hoki e wehi ki te rapu tautoko i te huarahi. Mā te whakahonore i ō hiahia, te awhi i tō tuakiri, me te whakakī i tō wāhi ki te aroha me te whakaaro, ka taea e koe te huri i tō whare hei piringa, hei wāhi e noho haumaru ai koe, e whai mana ai, ā, e tino rite ana ki te kāinga.

Kaua e mangere ki te rapu tohutohu ngaio mai i tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro e tohunga ana ki te wehenga me te whakaora i te whakarere. Ka taea e rātou te whakarato taputapu me ngā rautaki hei whakahaere i te pouri, hei hanga anō i te whakaaro nui ki a koe anō, me te whakatere i te ara ki tētahi heke mai kanapa. Whakapā mai ki a mātou tohunga mō te tautoko i tēnei rā tonu.

I waenganui o aku whakamātautau whakamutunga i panuitia ai tō rāua wehenga e ōku mātua, ā, i tōia ahau ki roto i tā rāua pakanga i ia rā, i ia rā.

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