Me pēhea taku whakamutu i te tukino i taku wahine?

He mea noa tera ngā pakanga a te tāne me te wahine engari e aroha ana hoki rāua tetahi ki tetahi. I te nuinga o te wā i muri i te pakanga ka whakatauhia he tautohe me te hoa i runga i te rangimarie engari kāore e taea e au te mahi i tēnā. I patua e au taku wahine i te wā o te tautohetoheMe pēhea taku whakamutu i te tukino i taku wahine?

Me pēhea taku whakamutu i te tukino i taku wahine?

He maha ngā raruraru o te marena o te tangata, engari kāore e taea e au te whakahaere i aku ake raruraru. He nui tōku aroha ki taku wahine, engari i waenganui i te tautohe ka puta he mea i roto i ahau, ā, ka patua e au ia.

Me pēhea taku whakamutu i tēnei? Kua ngana ahau ki te wehe atu i te rūma, kāore e kōrero, engari e tatau ana i ngā tau engari kāore i āwhina.

Ngā mea e whakakitea ana e ō pakanga mō tō whanaungatanga

Ko tā aku pakanga e whakaatu ana mō taku whanaungatanga, he mea nui ki ahau taku wahine me taku whānau, engari ina riri ahau, ka rite ahau ki te taniwha. Kāore e taea e au te mutu te hamama kia patua rā anō ia e au. Koinei taku huarahi ki te whakamutu i te tautohetohe i roto i te meneti kotahi, me te whakarite kei roto ahau i te tūranga rangatira. Engari ki taku whakaaro he mea kāore e whakaaetia te tutu ki tō hoa. Engari kāore e taea e au te aukati i a au anō.

Te pānui e pā ana:  I whiua ahau e taku wahine tukino i ngā wā katoa, engari i rere ahau ki te kāinga, ā, i kitea he oranga hou.

Te whakatikatika i muri i te pakanga me taku hoa

Ka whakapāha tonu ahau ki a ia engari ināianei kei te whakaaro ahau kāore e whai hua te whakapāha nā te mea kua whai tauira taku whanonga. E mōhio ana hoki ia ki ngā mea hei tumanako atu, ā, e mōhio ana hoki ahau ki taku e mahi ai. Ngā tautohe a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine hanga ana he mea noa i muri i tērā, engari he maha ngā raruraru kei roto i taku marena nā aku whanonga, ā, e manawa pā ana ahau kei pakaru.

Āwhina mai. Me pēhea taku whakamutu i te tukino i taku wahine?

E te Tāne,
I ētahi wā, ka puta mai ngā āhuatanga pēnei, ā, hei Kaiako Whanoke, ko taku mahi he titiro ki ngā taha e rua o te moni, kia kite te tangata i te āhuatanga katoa mai i te tirohanga whānui.

Ko te whakaae ki te raruraru ko te haurua o te pakanga kua toa

Ko te haurua o te pakanga ka toa i te tīmatanga o tō karere. E aroha ana koe ki tō wahine, ā, koinā te mea nui. Ā, nā te mea e aroha ana koe ki tō wahine, ka whakapau kaha koe ki te whakarerekē i ō whanonga.

Ko te whakaae kei a koe tētahi raruraru, me te ngākau hihiko ki te whakapau kaha, he 25% anō tēnei o te pakanga i toa ai.

Tūpato, whakaarohia te mea e mahia ana e koe

Inaianei, hei whakatika i te 25% kē atu. Ina aroha koe ki tētahi, ka whakaae koe ki a ia me ōna hapa katoa, tōna hiranga, tōna āhua rerekē, ōna ngoikoretanga, tōna āhua whānui. Ina whakaae koe ki tētahi mō ōna āhua katoa, me wareware hoki koe ki ētahi mea. Ina totohe koe, ā, ka mutu ka karanga ia; me tatari pea koe, me te whakaaro mēnā he rā hoha, he rā kino, he rā taumaha, he rā ngenge tinana, he rā whakararuraru hinengaro, he rā taumaha hinengaro rānei. Kei te whakahaere ia i tō whare me ōna tini tāngata, ngā tono maha me ngā riri; tērā pea i hiahia ia ki tētahi wāhi hei whakaputa i ōna whakaaro. I pērā ia ki a koe, ā, i mua i a koe nā te mea ko koe anake te tangata ka taea e ia te haere atu, hei whakaputa i ōna whakaaro. Kia maumahara ki tēnā.

Ae, tera pea kua mutu tō mahi, kua pāngia hoki koe e te ahotea o te mahi, te koretake o te haere ki te mahi me te hoki mai, te āwangawanga mō ngā raruraru pūtea o te pakihi, te ngenge noa rānei o te tinana.

Me pēhea te aukati i te tukino i tāu wahine

Ko te puta noa i te rūma, te tatau rānei ki te 10, te kore kōrero rānei, he otinga pea tēnei; engari ehara i te mea i ngā wā katoa. Engari, i te wā ka tautohetohe anō koe ki tō wahine, ā, ka ara ake tō ringa; ara ake hei pā atu ki tōna mata, hei awhi rānei i a ia, me te kī atu kei te pai. Koinā anake tāna e hiahia ana. Kia kī mai tētahi kei te arohaina tonutia ia, kei te manaakihia tonutia ia, kei te hiranga tonu ia, ā, ko ia... e mārama ana te riri me te pōuriMe whakamōhio atu ki a ia kei a ia te tika ki te riri, ā, e mārama ana koe hei tāne, hei hoa rangatira hoki ki tēnā.

Tō mahi awhi i a ia Ka āwhina anō hoki i a koe ki te tuku i tō ahotea kua puritia, ā, ka marino hoki koe. Ki te mahi koe i tēnei, kāore koe e hiahia ki te patu i tō wahine i muri i tētahi tautohe. E kore koe e noho hei taniwha e kī ana koe ka noho koe. Ehara i te mea uaua ki te whakamutu i te tutu ki tō hoa. Ko tāu noa he titiro hōhonu ki roto i te aroha e mau ana i a koe mōna.

Whakamātauria e hoa, nā te mea Ko te aroha te reo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ā-ao.

Tumanako āwhina tenei.

Riddhi Doshi Patel

Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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