He aha taku e tono ai i roto i aku inoi mō taku tāne? Mena kei roto i tō hinengaro tēnei pātai i ngā rā tata nei, kei te rapu pea koe i ngā huarahi hei whakauru i te Atua ki roto i tō oranga.
E mōhio ana te hunga i whakatipuria i roto i te whakapono ko tō tātou whanaungatanga ki te Atua – te mana nui rawa atu rānei e pupuri ana i te ao kia nekeneke – ko te mea tino piripono, tino nui rawa atu hoki. Heoi, i te mea ka pukumahi haere ō tātou oranga, ka kī tonu hoki ō tātou pereti i ngā herenga me ngā herenga, ka waihotia tēnei whanaungatanga ki muri.
Engari kāore i roa rawa te wā ki te whakaora anō i taua hononga. I a koe e mahi ana i tēnā, he mea maori noa iho te hiahia kia mau tonu tētahi o ō hononga tino nui o te ao – tō hoa rangatira me tō marena – i roto i ō inoi. Hei akiaki i a koe ki tēnā huarahi, ka kawea atu e mātou ētahi o ngā inoi tino ataahua mō tō tāne hei tono māu mō tō whanaungatanga kia manaakitia ake tonu atu e te Atua Kaha Rawa.
21 Ngā Inoi Ataahua mō tō Tāne mō te Aroha Mutunga Kore
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Ko tāu tāne tētahi o ngā tāngata tino nui o tō ao. Ko ia te tangata e arohaina ana e koe me tō ngākau katoa, ā, e whakapuakina ana hoki ō moemoeā, ō tumanako me tō oranga ki a ia. Ina tuturi koe ki mua i tō Atua, e rapu ana i āna manaakitanga, ka hiahia koe ki te tono i taua mea anō mōna. to hoa ora rawa.
E mōhio ana koe i roto i tō ngākau ki tāu e hiahia ana mō tāu tāne. Kia noho haumaru ia, kia harikoa, kia ora, kia makona, kia angitu, kia noho hei putanga pai ake mōna. Heoi, ehara i te mea ngāwari te whakapuaki i ēnei kare ā-roto ki ngā kupu. Hei āwhina i a koe ki te ārahi i ō mahi ki te huarahi tika, ka tukuna atu e mātou he whakarāpopototanga mō ngā inoi e 21 mō tāu tāne, kia kore ai koe e pau i ngā huarahi ki te rapu i ngā manaakitanga me ngā arataki tika mōna:
1. Inoi mō tana tiakitanga
Me pēhea taku inoi mō te tiaki i taku tāne? Mena kua whakaaro koe mō tēnei, anei tētahi inoi hei tīmatanga māu:
"E te Ariki, tiakina taku tāne i roto i tōu tiaki i ngā wā katoa. Tiakina ia i ngā mate, i ngā whara, i ngā whakamātautau me ngā mate urutā."
2. A pure no te arata'iraa
I roto i ō kōrero ki te Atua, rapua tana arataki mō tāu tāne. Meatia he inoi i ahu mai i te irava o te Paipera - "Ma te kupu ngawari e whakakore te riri; engari ma te kupu taimaha e whakaoho te riri." Inoi kia ngawari tonu tāu tāne, kia tika hoki tana haere, me tēnei inoi.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te arataki tika i roto i ana whakataunga katoa, ahakoa te nui, te iti rānei. Āwhina ia ia ki te mahi i ngā kōwhiringa tika hei ārahi i a ia kia matara atu i te pōuri ki te māramatanga."
3. Inoi mō te kaha
I te wā e inoi ana mō te tāne, kaua e wareware ki te rapu i te kaha. Kia kaha te wairua, te tinana, me te hinengaro.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te kaha i tēnei rā, ā, ake tonu atu. Kia kaha tonu ia ahakoa te aha, ahakoa te āhua o te tinana, te hinengaro, te wairua rānei."
4. Inoi mō te haumaru
Kei te inoi koe mō tētahi tāne e whawhai ana? Inoi ki te Atua kia tiakina tō toa, kia waiho hoki hei rama ārahi māna i tēnei wā uaua i tawhiti atu i te kāinga.
"Aue, e Ihu, tiakina taku tāne kia haumaru, kia matara atu hoki i te kino i ngā wā katoa. Kia noho i roto i te māramatanga ārahi hei āwhina i a ia ki te whakatau tika ahakoa ngā āhuatanga kino."
5. Inoi mō te angitu
He aha taku e inoi ai mō taku tāne i te mahi? Āe, ko te nuinga o tātou e rapu ana i te angitu i roto i ā tātou haerenga ngaio. Nō reira, he tīmatanga pai tēnā.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te angitu i roto i ana mahi katoa. Kia kaha tonu ia ki te mahi i tana mea pai, kia whiwhi hoki ia i ngā utu e tika ana."
6. Inoi mō te ngākau pono
I a tātou e kōrero ana mō te 'inoi mō taku tāne i te mahi', kia maumahara he rite te hiranga o te ngākau pono ki te angitu, ki te kore he nui atu. Nō reira, me tono atu ki tāu tāne kia mahi tonu i tana mahi me te ngākau pono, te ngākau pono, me te ngākau tapatahi.
"E te Ariki, kia mahi tonu taku tāne i runga i te ngākau pono i roto i ana mahi katoa. Kia waiho te ngākau pono, te ngākau pono me te pono hei mātāpono mōna. Nō reira, āwhinatia ia e te Atua."
7. Inoi mo te rangimarie
Ko te noho rangimārie ki a koe anō tētahi o ngā taonga tino iti nei te whakanuia o te ao. He āhuatanga e ruarua nei te hunga e whiwhi ana i tēnei. E ai ki te kupu a te Paipera i roto i a Epeha 4:2-3, "Me te ngākau mahaki, me te ngākau māhaki, me te manawanui, me te ata hanga tetahi ki tetahi i runga i te aroha, me te hiahia kia mau te kotahitanga o te Wairua i roto i te here o te rangimārie." Ina kōrero koe ki te Atua, tāpirihia tēnei ki tō rārangi 'inoi mō taku tāne'.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te rangimārie. Kia ngākau mārie, kia marino hoki tōna hinengaro ki āna mea kei te ao. Tukua ia kia mawhiti i te moemoeā o ngā mahi mutunga kore."
8. Inoi mō te aroha
Kua whakaaro koe mēnā me tāpiri atu e au ngā inoi mō aku kia aroha mai taku tāne ki ahau ki aku kōrero ki te Atua? Āe, he aha rawa! Kāore he kino o te rapu i te arataki a te Ariki kia mau tonu ai tō marena ki te aroha. Heoi anō, ko te aroha te mana here i roto i te marena. Whakahāngaihia tō inoi ki te whiti Paipera a Hoani 15:12: "Ko taku ture tēnei, kia aroha koutou tetahi ki tetahi, me ahau hoki kua aroha ki a koutou."
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te nui o te aroha i roto i tōna ngākau mōku. Kia nui tonu te aroha o tāua tetahi ki tetahi hei āwhina i a tāua i roto i ngā wā tino uaua."
9. Inoi mō tō marena
Mō ngā inoi mō tāu tāne, kāore e taea te wareware i tētahi mō tō mārenatanga. Engari he aha te manaakitanga tika hei rapu māu mō tō mārenatanga? Anei te tohu:
"E te Ariki, e Ihu, kia manaakitia tō māua marena ki tō titiro aroha i ngā wā katoa. Kia kaua māua e whakahawea tetahi ki tetahi, kia kitea tonutia te kaha ki te whakahonore i ngā kupu taurangi i whakapuakina e māua i mua i tō aroaro tapu."
10. Inoi mō te hoa
He aha te inoi pai mō te ata mō taku tāne, e pātai ana koe? Āe, he aha e kore ai e tīmata tō rā me te hiahia kia noho tonu tō hoa rangatira ki tō taha.
"E te Atua, manaakitia mātou ki te noho tahi mō te wā roa. Kia whai wāhi mātou ki te koroheke tahi, kia wehea rā anō tāua e te mate.”
11. Inoi mō te hauora
He inoi mō te tiakitanga o taku tāne… he inoi mō te tāne e pakanga ana… he inoi whakaora mō taku tāne e mate ana… Ahakoa te aha e inoi ana koe, ka tutuki tonu te hiahia mō te hauora pai.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki te hauora pai, i tēnei rā, ā, ake tonu atu. Kia ora tonu tōna tinana, kia ora hoki tōna hinengaro. Manaakitia ia ki te hiahia ki te tiaki i tōna tinana, kia rite ki te temepara o tōna wairua."
12. Inoi mō te ngākau mārie
Kei te rapu koe i tētahi inoi poto mō tāu tāne? Ki te tono koe kia makona koe, kāore koe e hiahia ki te tono i tētahi atu mea. E ai ki tēnei irava Paipera, "Ki te whakarongo rātou, ā, ka mahi ki a ia, ka noho rātou i ō rātou rā e toe ana i runga i te pai, ā, i ō rātou tau i runga i te makona." Nō reira, rapua te makona mō tāu tāne, kia manaakitia ai tō kōrua marena ki te rangimārie.
"E Ihu aroha, āwhinatia taku tāne i te ara ki te ngākau māhorahora. Hoatu ki a ia ngā mea e ranea ana mō āna hiahia, ā, murua atu i roto i tōna ngākau ngā hiahia katoa e whakakahangia ana e te apo."
13. Inoi mō te whānau
Ina tuturi koe ki mua i tō Ariki, kaua e puritia ki roto i tō ngākau ngā inoi mō tāu tāne anake, engari mō tō whānau katoa hoki.
"E te Atua, ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te manaaki i a mātou ki tētahi whānau aroha. Kei te inoi mātou kia mau tonu tō aroha me tō manaaki i a mātou. Manaakitia ia whānau whānui ki te hauora me te harikoa, i ngā wā katoa."
14. Inoi mō ngā tamariki
Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe ki te whakatū whānau, inoi kia manaakitia koe ki ngā tamariki. Ki te mea kua mātua kē koe, tonoa ngā manaakitanga mō tāu tāne kia noho hei matua pai rawa atu.
"E te Atua, manaakitia tā māua marena ki te koha o ngā tamariki mēnā kei roto i tāu mahere tēnā mā māua."
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"E te Atua, ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tētahi tāne, he matua whakamiharo hoki ki ā mātou tamariki. Kia haere tonu koe ki te ārahi i a ia kia noho hei tauira mō ēnei wairua parakore kua tukua mai e koe ki a mātou."
15. Inoi kia aroha mai
E mea ana te irava o te Paipera i roto i a Epeha 4:32, "Kia ngawari tetahi ki tetahi, kia aroha ki te ngākau, me te muru hara tetahi ki tetahi, kia rite ki ta te Atua i muru hara ai ki a koutou i roto i a te Karaiti.” I runga i te whakaaweawe mai i te karere a te Ariki, tonoa ngā manaakitanga o tāu tāne, me te tono kia arohaina tō kōrua marena. Kāore hoki he āhuatanga e hiahiatia ana i te kaha ki te aroha ki te hunga e rawakore ana i a koe.
"E tō mātou Matua i te rangi, kei te inoi atu ahau kia manaakitia māua ko taku tāne ki ngā ngākau aroha, kia mahi tahi ai māua i ngā mea katoa e taea ana e māua ki te hora i te aroha ki te hunga e karapoti nei i a māua. Kia taea e māua te toro atu i te ringa āwhina me te aroha ki te hunga e matea ana."
16. Inoi mō tētahi rā ataahua
'He aha taku e tono ai i roto i taku inoi o te ata mō taku tāne i tēnei rā?' Kei te whakaaro pinepine koe ki tēnei mea? Inoi atu kia manaakitia ia ki tētahi rā ataahua.
"E te Atua, manaakitia taku tāne ki tētahi rā ataahua i tēnei rā. Kia taea e ia te whakaoti i ana mahi katoa me te ngāwari."
17. Inoi kia wikitoria ia i ana uauatanga
He moemoeā Utopian te oranga kāore he uauatanga, kāore e tutuki. Ko ngā uauatanga me ngā wero he hoa tonu mō tātou i te roanga o te wā e ora ana tātou, e manawa ana hoki. Nō reira, kaua e tono kia herea tātou i ngā raruraru o te whanaungatanga, engari me tono kia manaakitia tō tāne ki te kaha hei wikitoria i ngā āhuatanga uaua o te ao.
"E te Ariki, whakarongo mai ki taku inoi mō taku tāne, manaakitia hoki ia kia kaha ki te aro atu ki ngā āhuatanga katoa o te ao, kia puta mai ai i tērā taha he putanga kaha ake o ia anō."
18. Inoi kia puritia e ia tō ringa
He haerenga roa te marena mai i te ara ki te urupā. E tino kitea ana ngā pikinga me ngā hekenga, ngā āwangawanga, me ngā wā pōuri i te ara. Rapua te manaakitanga a te Ariki kia homai he kaha ki tō tāne kia tū ki tō taha i roto i ngā mea katoa. Ā, ko koe, ko ia.
"E te Atua aroha, whakarongo mai ki aku inoi kia aroha mai taku tāne ki ahau. Kia kitea tonutia e ia te kaha me te aroha i roto i tōna ngākau hei pupuri i tōku ringa i ngā wā tino pōuri o tā māua marena. Ā, kia noho ahau ki tōna taha i ia hikoinga o te ara."
19. Inoi mō te whakaaro nui
I a kōrua e tipu haere ana i roto i tō kōrua marena, me tono manaakitanga mō tāu tāne kia whai whakaaro nui, kia whai whakaaro nui hoki.
"E te Atua, āwhinatia taku tāne ki te whakaaro nui kia tika ai āna whiringa i roto i āna whakataunga i tēnei rā, ā, i ngā wā katoa. Āwhinatia ia kia tahuri ki a koe mō te ārahi mēnā kei te raru ia i te ao. Nāu hoki te whakaaro nui tūturu, e te Ariki."
Te pānui e pā ana: Ko tō hoa rangatira anō hoki tō hoa rangatira?
20. Inoi kia herekore i te waranga
'He aha te inoi tika hei tiaki i taku tāne?' Ki te mea kei te rapu whakautu koe mō tēnei, tonoa kia noho watea tonu ia i te te mate o te waranga.
"E te Atua aroha, kei te inoi atu ahau ki a koe kia tiakina taku tāne. Ārahitia ia kia matara atu i te ara o te waranga, kia waiho hoki koe hei tohu mō āna whiringa oranga ki te ara hauora."
21. Inoi mō tōna whakapono
'He aha tētahi o ngā inoi tino nui mā taku tāne?' Me puta ake tēnei pātai ki roto i tō hinengaro ina ko tō whanaungatanga ki te Atua te kaha e akiaki ana i tō oranga. He aha e kore ai e inoi kia manaakitia ia ki taua whakapono anō.
"E te Ariki Kaha Rawa, kei te inoi ahau kia manaakitia taku tāne ki te hononga kaha ki a koe. Puritia tōna ringa, kia kore ai tōna whakapono e ngenge. Ahakoa i ngā wā tino whakamātautau."
Me ēnei inoi mō tāu tāne i ō ngutu, me te nui o te aroha i roto i tō ngākau, ka taea e kōrua te mahi me te ngākau nui ki te hanga i tētahi marena kaha e tū atu ana i ngā awha tino uaua.
FAQs
Ka taea e te wahine te inoi mō tana tāne mā te whakauru i a ia ki roto i ana kōrero ki te Atua.
Me inoi te wahine mō tāna tāne, nā te mea ko te here o te marena tētahi o ngā whanaungatanga tino nui o te ao nei e hangaia ana e tātou i a tātou e noho ana i te whenua. He hoa rangatira te tāne me te wahine mō te oranga katoa. Ko ngā mea e pā ana ki tētahi, ka pā ki tētahi.
Ae, mā te kawe i tō marena ki te tiaki a te Ariki ka hoatu ki a kōrua te whakapono me te kaha ki te piri tahi i roto i ētahi o ngā wā tino uaua.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
