18 Ngā Momo Ira Tangata me ō rātou Tikanga

Kua ngaro ngā rā i ārahi ai te ariā o te ira tāne me te ira wahine ki te whakahē i te whānuitanga o te moepuku. I ēnei rā, kei te tīmata te hapori ki te ako ki te whakaae i te rere o te whanaungatanga hei tikanga, ehara i te mea ko wai tātou engari ko wai me pēhea tātou e aroha ai. Kei te ako tātou mō ngā momo moepuku rerekē. Ā, i te mea ka piki haere te tokomaha o te tangata ki te whakaae ki tō rātou ira tangata me tō rātou tuakiri moepuku, ka whakaurua tonutia mai ngā kupu me ngā kāwai hou ki te rārangi waiata.

He tata nei rangahau I kitea e neke atu i te 1.3 miriona tāngata i Ingarangi me Wales e kī ana he takatāpui rātou, he takatāpui, he takirua rānei. Tata ki te 165,000 tāngata e kī ana he 'kē' ngā momo ira tangata. Ā, 262,000 tāngata i kī he rerekē tō rātou tuakiri ira tangata i tō rātou ira tangata i rēhitatia i te whānautanga. He mārama kei ngā wāhi katoa tātou, engari i roto i ngā huarahi maha, kāore anō kia mau te kōrero mō ngā momo ira tangata.

Hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakarerekē i tēnā, kia mārama ake ai hoki ki tēnei kaupapa, me titiro tātou ki ngā momo moepuku rerekē mā te kōrero tahi me te tohunga hinengaro me te kaiwhakaako pūkenga ora whaimana. Deepak Kashyap (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro Mātauranga), he tohunga ki ngā momo take hauora hinengaro me te LGBTQ me te tohutohu ā-roto. E whakamārama ana ia, "Ko te moepuku e pā ana ki te tangata e hiahia ana koe ki a ia, me te pehea e hiahia ai koe ki te tangata. Ā, ko te tuakiri ira tangata e tohu ana i te pehea e mārama ai koe me te titiro ki a koe anō i roto i te whakaaturanga pāpori o tō tinana. He mahi nui tā ngā kupu whakakapi i roto i taua whakaū i a koe anō."

Mō ngā kupu whakakapi, ka tāpiri atu a Deepak, "Ka haere koe ki taua tangata ka pātai, "He aha ngā kupu whakakapi ka whakamahia e au māu?" He māmā noa iho." Mō te hunga kāore i te mōhio, he takatāpui, he aha atu rānei, ka taea e tēnei kohinga kupu e tipu haere tonu ana te taumaha. Engari kaua e manukanuka, e ngā pēpi takatāpui me ngā hoa hou, nā te mea ka ngana ahau ki te hoatu ki a koutou he akoranga poto mō te tikanga LGBTQIA+, te rerekētanga i waenga i te ira tangata me te hōkakatanga ira tangata, i waenga i te kukume aroha me te kukume ira tangata, me te whakautu i ngā pātai pēnei i te, "he aha te moepuku", "he whānuitanga te moepuku", me te "e hia ngā momo moepuku kei reira".

He aha te moepuku?

E ai ki te tohunga ira tangata a Carol Queen, Ph.D., koinei te āhua o ngā kare ā-roto me ngā whakaaturanga a te tangata i tōna whanaungatanga ki te ira tangata, te hiahia, te whakaohooho, me te whakaipoipo. Koinei te kukume ira tangata, tinana, kare ā-roto rānei o te tangata ki te tangata. He maha ngā momo ira tangata, 18 o ēnei kua kōrerohia i mua.

He rerekē te tuakiri ira tangata, ā, ka taea te whanake – ka rerekē ngā ira tangata me ngā tikanga katoa. Kaua e miharo mēnā i muri i ngā tau maha o te noho hei wahine takatāpui, ka mōhio ohorere koe kei te e kukume ana ki ngā tāne hoki. I muri i tō noho takatāpui mō tō oranga katoa, ka mōhio koe i ō tau 40 he tino pansexual koe, ā, ka pāngia koe e te hiahia moepuku me te aroha ki ngā momo tāngata katoa.

He aha ngā pānga ki te tuakiri ā-ira tangata? Te āhua o tā tātou taunekeneke ki te ao, te āhua o tā tātou pupuri i tō tātou hinengaro kia tuwhera ki ngā wheako me te whānuitanga katoa o ngā kare ā-tangata, te āhua o tā tātou tango i a tātou anō i ngā tuhinga paerewa, te āhua o te whanaketanga o ā tātou mahi tōrangapū (he mahi tōrangapū te kukume, āe), te āhua o tā tātou whakamōhio i a tātou anō ki ngā ariā hou me te tuku i a rātou kia whai pakiaka i roto i a tātou - ka pā katoa ēnei ki te āhua o tā tātou wheako i te kukume ā-ira tangata i ō tātou oranga katoa.

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He mea whakakatakata te whakaaro ka taea e tātou te whakakotahi i tētahi mea e pōrearea ana, e āhua ana, e hihiri ana hoki i te taha tōrangapū, pērā i te kukume i te moepuku. Whakaarohia tēnei: ​​Me i kore te takatāpui hei mea noa, kāore tātou e hiahia ki tētahi atu tapanga. Ka mutu te whakaaro o te tangata ki te ira tangata e pai ana ki a koe, ā, kāore tātou e moumou taima ki te whakamārama he aha i tika ai, i pūtaiao ai rānei ētahi momo moepuku. Ka kukume noa te tangata ki te tangata. Nō reira, ko te ariā o te moepuku/te hōkakatanga moepuku kei te noho tonu nā te mea e whakaaro ana tātou ko te takatāpui te mea noa.

Ko tētahi atu whakamāramatanga mō te moepuku ko tēnei: ​​Ko te moepuku ko tō kaha ki te whakaputa i ngā kare ā-ira. Hei tauira, ka taea e te tangata takatāpui te kī pēnei: ​​"Ina mau ahau i tēnei kākahu, ka tino whakaū i taku moepuku" "He tino whakatenatena taku hoa ina tae mai ki te tūhura i taku moepuku, i taku rānei whakamātautau i roto i te moenga. "

He aha te tikanga o te LGBTQIA+?

Ā, he aha te tikanga o te LGBTQ? Ko te LGBTQIA+ he tohu ā-ringa e tohu ana i te wahine takatāpui, te takatāpui, te takirua-ira, te whakawhiti ira tangata, te takatāpui me te pātai, te ira tangata-kore, te kore-ira, me te aromantic. He kupu whānui tēnei mō te hapori takatāpui, ā, kei roto ko ngā momo ira tangata katoa ME ngā tuakiri ira tangata. Hei tauira, ko te B e tohu ana i te takirua-ira – he hōhonutanga ira tangata, ā, ko te T mō te whakawhiti ira tangata – he tuakiri ira tangata. Ko te + e tohu ana i ngā momo ira tangata me ngā ira tangata katoa e kore e taea te whakaahua/tāpiri, i ngā mea rānei ka kitea tonutia e tātou.

He mea nui kia mōhio koe ki tō ira tangata?

I mua i tā tātou pānui i te rārangi ira tangata, me titiro tātou mēnā he mea nui te mōhio ki tō ira tangata/ira tangata. Āe, he uaua pea, he whakaora hoki, engari kāore pea i te 'tika' kia mārama koe.

• He takatāpui ahau, he takirua rānei? Kāore koe e hiahia ki te mōhio pono. He maha ngā tāngata o te hapori LGBTQIA+ e whanake tonu ana ina tae mai ki tō rātou tuakiri, ā, e pai ana ki te kore e whakamahi i tētahi tapanga, ki te tango rānei i tētahi tapanga whānui pēnei i te 'takatāpui' me te 'takatāpui' hei whakaahua i a rātou anō. 
• E miriona ngā tāngata 'tika' anō hoki, e pai ana ki te kore e whakaaro ki te āhua tūturu o ō rātou hiahia me te kukume i roto i ō rātou oranga katoa.
• I tētahi atu taha, ka hiahia pea koe ki te mōhio ki tō hiahia ā-ira tangata kia a) kia nui ake ai tō rangimārie ki a koe anō, b) kia mārama ki ō kare ā-roto aroha/ā-ira tangata, ā, tera pea whakaatu aroha māu ake, c) whakahuatia te tukinotanga e pā ana ki a koe (te mataku ki te tangata, te mataku ki te tangata, me ētahi atu), d) kimihia he wāhi haumaru me te hapori o ngā tāngata whakaaro kotahi 
• I taua wā, kia mōhio koe ka roa te wā me te manawanui ki te whakakore/ako, ā, me ata atawhai koe ki a koe anō.
• Ahakoa kua mōhio koe ki te tapanga tika mōu ake, kāore he take kia whakapuaki i tō tuakiri ki tētahi. He mea whaiaro tō tuakiri.
• Tērā pea he rerekē te whakamāramatanga o tō hiahia ā-ira tangata i ērā atu he rite tonu ō rātou hiahia, ā, he mea noa tēnā.

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He whānuitanga anō tō te moepuku?

Kāore he huarahi kotahi hei whakaahua i te hiahia ā-ira tangata. Ki taku titiro ki te hiahia ā-ira tangata, he rite tonu ki ngā nekehanga wai o te moana, ā, māu e whiriwhiri te atarangi me te ngaru e pai ana ki a koe. Ehara i te whānuitanga rārangi e rere ana mai i te takatāpui ki te takatāpui (pēnei i te whakaaro o te Kinsey Scale). Ko ēnei tuakiri katoa, ki a koe, ka taea te noho hei wāhanga tapanga e rere ana, e hono ana, e wehe ana i te wā me te mōhiotanga.

Te rerekētanga i waenga i te tuakiri ira tangata me te moepuku

Kaore koe e mate puta mai i te rūma kakahu, ake tonu atu. Engari me mōhio koe ki te rerekētanga i waenga i te ira tangata me te tuakiri ira tangata. Kei roto i te ira tangata ngā āhuatanga pāpori, hinengaro, ahurea, me ngā whanonga o te noho hei tāne, hei wahine, hei tuakiri ira tangata rānei. Nō reira, ko te tuakiri ira tangata ko te mea e kitea ana e koe tō ira tangata, engari ko te ira tangata/te hōhonutanga ira tangata e tohu ana i te/ngā ira tangata e hiahia ana koe.

Hei tauira: He tāne whakawhiti ira tāne koe, ā, he takatāpui koe. Ko te tikanga he 'tāne' tō ira tangata, ā, he 'tāne-tāne' tō ira tangata, arā, ko ngā wāhine anake āu e hiahia ana.

Te rerekētanga i waenga i te aronga aroha me te aronga ira tangata

E honoa rawatia ana ngā 'kare' e rua, ā, e whakaaro ana mātou me mahi tahi tonu te kukume i te moepuku me te kukume aroha. Heoi anō, te aronga aroha e tohu ana i te ira tangata (ngā ira tangata rānei) e arohaina ana koe (kāore pea koe e arohaina ana e te ira tangata), ā, ko te hōhonutanga ira tangata e pā ana ki te ira tangata (kāore pea koe e arohaina ana e te ira tangata).

Tērā pea ka kukume koe i ētahi atu wāhine, he wahine takatāpui. Nō reira, he takatāpui koe. Engari he kukume aroha koe (ehara i te mea he takatāpui). Nā tēnei ka huri koe hei tangata aroha-ira me te takatāpui. Koinei te rerekētanga i waenga i te kukume ā-ira me te aroha/te aronga ā-ira me te aroha.

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Ahakoa ko wai koe, ko wai tāu e aroha nei, me te āhua o tāu whiriwhiri whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto ki tētahi e arohaina ana e koe – he wāhi kei reira mōu i tēnei ao. He whakaaro pai, nō reira, kia mōhio koe ki ngā momo ira tangata me ngā tikanga katoa. Ahakoa kāore he hiranga o ngā tapanga, ka āwhina i a koe ki te rapu i tētahi hapori. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakapuaki i tō ira tangata, kei a Deepak tēnei tohutohu māu, "Me whakarite tuatahi koe ka noho haumaru koe i muri i tō putanga mai. Ā, ina puta mai koe, kaua rawa e whakamahi i te reo whakapāha. Me kī noa ko wai koe." 

I mua i te urunga atu ki ngā kupu, me titiro whakamuri tātou ki te hītori mō tētahi hēkona. Whai muri i tētahi rangahau nui, i hangaia e te tohunga koiora me te tohunga ira tangata o Amerika, a Kinsey, tētahi tauine o te whānuitanga o te moepuku kia pai ake ai te whakarōpūtanga o ngā momo ira tangata. Ahakoa he mahi auaha, kua ngaro te hiranga o te tauine Kinsey i roto i te ao hou nā te mea kāore e taea te hopu i ngā āhuatanga motuhake me ētahi atu tuakiri ira tangata matatini.

Nā, e hia ngā momo moepuku kei te tau 2023? Ka tipu haere tonu ngā momo moepuku katoa me ō rātou tikanga, ā, ehara tēnei i te rārangi whānui. Engari ki te mea kei te tūhura tonu koe i tō tuakiri, koinei te aratohu tika māu. Me te kore e whakaroa, anei tētahi rārangi me ngā tikanga o ngā momo moepuku 18 kei reira:

1. Te ira tangata

Me tīmata te matapaki i ngā momo ira tangata katoa me ō rātou tikanga ki ngā momo ira tangata, arā, ko te hunga e pāngia ana e te hiahia ira tangata, ā, e uru ana ki ngā mahi ira tangata. Ka taea e te hunga whai momo ira tangata tēnei te pāngia e te hiahia aroha me te hiahia tinana ki te tangata. Kei te whakahaerehia te ao i tēnei wā me te whakaaro noa he ira tangata te katoa, e mōhiotia ana ko te ira tangata.

2. Te kore ira tangata

Ko te hunga kore-ira tangata e pāngia ana e te whakarihariha ki te taatai, kāore rānei e pāngia e te hiahia moepuku, ā-wāhanga rānei, ā-tikanga rānei. He mea noa te kore e pāngia e te hiahia moepuku ki tētahi ira tangata. Tangata takakau engari ka taea e rātou te wheako i ngā kare ā-roto aroha ki ētahi atu tāngata. Ko te aronga aroha (ehara i te aronga ā-ira tangata) e pā ana ki te kore-ira tangata ko te aromanticism.

Kāore te hunga aroha e mārama, e hiahia, e hiahia rānei ki te aroha. Kāore rātou e pāngia e te aroha ki ngā tāngata o tētahi ira tangata, o tētahi ira tangata rānei. Tērā pea he kore ira tangata, he kore ira tangata rānei, ā, ka taea e rātou te whai i tētahi momo hiahia ira tangata. He uaua ki te hunga aroha te mārama ki te ariā o te aroha ki tētahi, te hinga rānei ki te aroha. Kāore rātou e whakapono he mea nui ngā whanaungatanga aroha ki te tangata, he ariā e mōhiotia ana ko te amatonormativity.

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3. Te ira tangata

Ko te hunga takatāpui-ā-ira (androsexual) ko te hunga e pāngia ana e te hiahia ā-ira ki ngā tāne, ki ngā tāngata rānei e whakaatu ana i ngā hiahia tāne. Mēnā he tangata takatāpui-ā-ira, he tangata whakawhiti ira tangata, he tangata takirua rānei ngā taha e rua, ka taea te noho hei ira tāne, hei ira tāne, hei ira wahine rānei. Kāore tēnei momo ira tangata e herea noa ki te whakamahi i ngā whakaaro whāiti mō te ira tangata, te ira tangata, me/ranei te hanganga tinana kua tohua, ā, e pā whānuitia ana ki te hiahia e pāngia ana e te tangata, te tangata tāne rānei.

4. Te tāne me te wahine

Ka rongo te hunga tāne me te wahine i te kukume ā-ira, i te kukume aroha rānei ki te wahinetanga me ngā wāhine. Kāore tēnei kupu e herea ana ki te ira tangata, te ira tangata, te hanganga tinana rānei. He kupu whānui tēnei e whai tikanga ana kia uru atu ngā tohu katoa o te kukume ka pā ki te tangata, ki tētahi wahine rānei. Ka taea hoki te kī ko te gynephilia tēnei aronga.

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5. Te ira tāne me te wahine

E kiia ana ko te tūponotanga, ko te ira tāne me te wahine te mea 'taunoa' i roto i te rārangi ira tangata. Kei roto ko te hunga e aro nui ana ki te ira tangata, e ai ki ngā whakamāramatanga ira tangata tawhito, nō te ira 'kē'. Nō reira, ko te tikanga he tāne e aro nui ana ki te wahine, ā, ko te ritenga kē.

6. Te takatāpui

Ko tētahi atu kupu tawhito tēnei e pā ana ki te hunga e arohia ana e te ira tangata/ira tangata, ira tangata rānei. E rua ngā wāhanga o te hunga takatāpui, arā, te takatāpui me te hunga takatāpui, i runga i tō rātou ira tangata. Ko te tangata takatāpui he tāne e arohia ana e te ira tangata, arā, ka arohia ia e te tāne. Ko te wahine takatāpui he wahine e arohia ana e te wahine.

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7. Te ira tangata maha

Kei roto i tēnei ko te kukume ā-ira tangata, ā-aroha rānei ki ngā tāngata o ngā ira tangata maha. Ko ngā aronga ira tangata maha ko te ira tangata rua, te ira tangata pansexuality, te ira tangata spectrasexuality, te ira tangata katoa, me te queerness, me ētahi atu. Ka whakamahia e te hunga ira tangata maha taua kupu hei tohu i ō rātou wheako o ngā momo aronga ira tangata maha.

Ko te polyromanticism te aronga aroha e pā ana, arā, ko te wā e pāngia ai koe e te kukume aroha ki ngā tuakiri ira tangata maha, engari ehara i te katoa. E whitu ngā momo ira tangata e mutu ai tēnei, engari he maha atu anō.

8. Te ira tāne me te wahine

I mua i tō pātai, "He aha te ira tāne me te wahine?", whakaarohia tēnei: ​​kei a ia te whakaaro "He takatāpui ahau"Kua whakahihiko, kua whakahari rānei i a koe? Ko te hunga takatāpui, takatāpui rānei, ko te hunga e kukume ana i ngā ira neke atu i te kotahi, tae atu ki te kukume i te ira kotahi. Ka taea e rātou te kukume i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e ira-kore ana, tae atu ki te hunga whakawhiti ira tangata me te hunga ehara i te ira-rua."

Kāore e taea te wehewehe i te hunga takatāpui kia rua ngā wāhanga, arā, ko te takatāpui me te takatāpui. Ehara i te mea ko te moepuku anake te mea e kukume ana, engari ka uru atu hoki ki te kukume aroha me te kare ā-roto. Ko te aronga aroha e pā ana ki te takatāpui ko te aroha tahi. He nui atu i te kotahi te ira e kukumehia ana e te hunga aroha tahi, engari kāore i te kukume ā-ira, tae atu ki ō rātou ake ira.

9. Te pākiki rua

Ko te hunga e hiahia ana ki te rua-ira, ko rātou kei te tūhura tonu, ā, kāore i te tino mōhio mēnā he ira-ira rātou. Kāore rātou e hiahia ki te pera. whakaae ki te ira tāne me te wahine hei tapanga mō ake tonu atu. Nō reira, tera pea kei te tuwhera rātou ki te whakaipoipo, ki te moe rānei me ētahi atu ira tangata, kia whakaū rā anō rātou i tō rātou hiahia. Hei tauira, ki te mea kei te whakaatu koe i a koe he takatāpui, ā, inaianei kei te hiahia koe ki te tūhura i te ao o te ira tāpui, ka taea e koe te kī he bicurious koe. Ka taea e te tangata te noho bicurious mō tōna oranga katoa, me te kore e aro ki tētahi tapanga motuhake.

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10. Pansexuality

Ko te tikanga o te kupu pan ko te katoa, nō reira, ka taea e te hunga pansexual te kukume i te tangata ahakoa he aha ō rātou ira tangata, ira tangata, ira tangata rānei. Ko te panromanticism te aronga aroha e pā ana ki tēnei ira tangata, arā, te kukume aroha ki te tangata me te kore e whai whakaaro ki ō rātou ira tangata, ira tangata, ira tangata rānei.

11. Te Whakakore ira tangata

Te whakakao ka taka ki te whānuitanga o te hunga takatāpui – te hunga kore-ira rānei. Ka taea e te hunga takatāpui te kukume i te tangata ki te moepuku, engari me whai hononga kaha ki te kare ā-roto, ki te aroha rānei kia whakatūria ai. Kia tutuki taua whakaritenga, ka taea e te hunga takatāpui te pārekareka ki te moepuku pērā i ngā wā katoa, engari kāore pea e rite te nui o te moepuku ki tā te hunga ehara i te takatāpui.

Pērā i te hunga takatāpui, me tutuki hoki ētahi whakaritenga i mua i te rongonga i ngā kare ā-roto aroha ki tētahi tangata. Ko te tikanga o tēnei me whakatū he hononga kare ā-roto i mua i te rongonga i te aroha ki tētahi.

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12. Te ira tangata hina

Ko te hunga ira-hina, anō nei, kei roto i te whānuitanga o ngā ira-kore i roto i te rārangi o ngā ira-tāne. Ka rongo rātou i te kukume ira-tāne, ā, ka hiahia rātou ki te moe i ētahi wā, engari i ētahi wā, ina kei te hiahia te hoa, kāore pea rātou. He pai ake ki ēnei tāngata te whanaungatanga ā-tinana kore-ira pērā i te awhi. Ko te Graysexual he wāhi waenga i waenganui i te allosexual me te asexual, he tata atu ki te asexual.

Ko te aronga aroha e pā ana ki tēnei ko te aroha hina. Kei roto i te whānuitanga o te aroha hina ngā aroha hina. Ko te tikanga he kare ā-roto aroha tō rātou ki te tangata engari kāore i te rite ki ētahi atu. Kāore rawa ngā aroha hina e hiahia ana ki te tīmata i tētahi whanaungatanga aroha ahakoa he aroha tō rātou ki tētahi. Kei te wāhanga hina rātou i waenganui i te aroha me te aroha kakara.

13. Te ira tangata

He kupu hou tēnei mōku anō, ā, ka whakaaro anō ahau, "E hia ngā momo ira tangata kei reira?" Kei roto i te ira tangata kapu ko ngā tāngata toa (ngā tāngata kore ira tangata rānei) e kore nei e pāngia e te hiahia ira tangata, engari e hiahia ana ki te hono, moe tāne, me te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi ā-tinana ōrite. Te aronga aroha e pā ana: te aroha ki te kapuiromanticism. E hiahia ana te hunga aroha ki te kapuiromanticism ki ngā whanaungatanga aroha ahakoa kāore e kitea he aroha aroha ki a rātou.

14. Te ira tangata

Ko te whaiaro-ira tangata he kukume i te tangata ki a ia anō. He tokomaha o rātou e pai ake ana ki te mahi i te mirimiri i te moe tahi me ētahi atu, me te hoa rānei. He kōrero mō te whakawhirinaki ki a ia anō, āe? Ko te aronga aroha e pā ana ko te whaiaro-ira tangata. Ka aroha rātou ki a rātou anō. He uaua ki a rātou te whakapuaki, te whiwhi rānei. tohu whaiāipo, engari e pai ana ki te whakatutuki i ā rātou moemoeā ki a rātou anō. Tērā pea ka pāngia hoki te hunga aroha-ā-roto e te hiahia ā-ira tangata ki ētahi atu tāngata.

15. Te noho ā-ira tangata

Ko te ira tangata (ceterosexuality) he wā e pāngia ai te tangata e te hiahia ā-ira tangata ki ngā tāngata ira tāne me ngā tāngata ehara i te ira tāne. Ko te kupu Kāore e pā ana ki te fetish, te whakaipoipo, me te whakaāhua i te hunga transgender/enby. Ko te ceteroromanticism, te aronga aroha e pā ana, e whai wāhi ana ki te kukume aroha ki te hunga transgender me te hunga ehara i te takirua.

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16. Te whanaungatanga ira tangata

E kitea whānuitia ana i runga i tautuhinga hoahoa, ā, i te nuinga o te wā kāore i te whakamahia tika, ko te hunga sapiosexual ko te hunga e aro nui ana ki te taatai ​​i runga i te mātauranga, kaua ki te ira tangata, te ira tangata, te āhua, me ētahi atu āhuatanga whaiaro. Ka taea e koe te whai i tētahi atu momo hiahia ira tangata me te noho hei sapiosexual. Ko tōna momo hiahia aroha e pā ana, arā, te sapioromanticism, ko te aro aroha ki te tangata i runga i te mātauranga.

17. Te moe tāne me te wahine

He rerekē te āhua o te moepuku o te hunga takatāpui, arā, ka nekeneke haere rātou i waenganui i ngā momo kukume rerekē me ngā moepuku i roto i ō rātou oranga katoa. E whakaatu ana rātou i te meka kei te whanake tonu te kukume moepuku, ā, ka taea te whakarerekē i te kaha me ngā tapanga. Waihoki, ko te hunga aroha-aroha he aronga aroha e rere ana i roto i ō rātou oranga katoa.

18. Ngāwaritanga rerekē me te ngāwaritanga ōrite

Tērā pea ka kī te tangata takatāpui he takatāpui ia, engari ka pāngia pea ia e te hiahia ki ngā tuakiri ira tangata ōrite, ki ētahi atu tuakiri ira tangata rānei. Tērā pea ka kī te tangata takatāpui he takatāpui ia, engari ka pāngia pea ia e te hiahia ki ētahi atu tuakiri ira tangata.

Nō reira, i mua i tā tātou whakamutunga, me pātai atu ahau ki a koutou – Kei te whakaae ake tātou ināianei, hei hapori, ki ngā momo moepuku rerekē? E whakapono ana a Deepak, "He pai ake i mua. Engari kāore anō kia taea e tātou te kī he hapori whakaae tātou. He tāngata whakaae motuhake kei roto i te hapori, ā, kei te kite tātou i tēnei." te huri i ngā tirohanga mō te taatai me te kukume, engari kāore i te rawaka te whakaae i a tātou i te taumata pāpori, ture, me te pūnaha hei tohu i a tātou he hapori whakaae.”

Tautoko mō te hapori LGBTQIA+

Mena kei te pōhēhē koe, kei te uaua rānei ki te tautuhi/te whakatau i tō hiahia ā-ira tangata, ā-aroha rānei, engari e hiahia ana koe ki te whai i tēnei ara o te tūhuratanga whaiaro, ko te rapu tautoko mai i ngā rauemi tika te mea pai rawa atu māu. E ai ki ētahi rōpū me ngā wāhi rongoā ka taea e te hunga takatāpui te tahuri atu mō te tautoko, News News i tenei ra, ko:

• Te Kaupapa TrevorE whakaahua ana tēnei whakahaere i a ia anō hei kaiwhakarato mōhiohio me te tautoko ki te hapori LGBTQ
• Kaupapa Audre LordeKei te Tāone o Niu Ioka tēnei whakahaere, e whakatairanga ana i te tika pāpori mō ngā wāhine takatāpui, ngā wāhine takatāpui, ngā wāhine takirua, ngā wāhine-rua, ngā wāhine-ira me ngā tāngata-kore-ira (LGBTSTGNC)
• Te Whare Wānanga o Zuna: He whakahaere tautoko tēnei mō ngā takatāpui mangu e arotahi ana ki ngā wāhanga hauora, kaupapa here tūmatanui, whanaketanga ōhanga, me te mātauranga.
• National Queer Asian Pacific Islander AllianceE kī ana tēnei whakahaere "ka whakamanahia ngā tāngata Āhia LGBTQ+ me ngā tāngata o Te Moana-nui-a-Kiwa mā te whakapakari kaha o ngā kaupapa, te tautoko kaupapa here, me te māngai."
• Te Whare Wānanga o te Ira Tangata Rua o AmerikaE mōhiotia ana ko te Bi Foundation, e tautoko ana tēnei whakahaere i te hunga e kī ana he takatāpui rātou
• Hononga PokapūKa taea e te hunga o te Hononga o Amerika, Ahitereiria, Kānata, Colombia, Haina, me Uganda te whakamahi i tēnei paetukutuku ki te kimi i ngā pokapū hapori LGBTQIA+ ā-rohe.
• Te Rōpū WhakaōriteKei tēnei whakahaere he rārangi ingoa mō ngā whakahaere LGBTQIA+ puta noa i te motu.

Ko tā tātou anake e tumanako nei ka rerekē te āhua i roto i te wā, ā, ka whiwhi ngā tāngata o ngā momo ira tangata me ngā momo ira tangata katoa i ngā tika ōrite, i ngā whakarerekētanga ture, i ngā whakatikatika, i te whakaute, me te whakamana. Ahakoa e whakarārangihia ana e tēnei tuhinga ngā momo ira tangata e 18 anake, kia mōhio koe he maha atu anō kei reira. I te whakaaro ki te maha o ngā ira tangata kei reira, tera pea he uaua ki te kimi ko wai koe i taua wā tonu. Ahakoa kāore koe e pā ki ngā ira tangata me ō rātou tikanga kua whakarārangihia i konei, kia mōhio koe he tika ō kare ā-roto me tō oranga. Kaua e tukua tetahi kia kī atu i tētahi atu mea.

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