E 10 ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga e whakarārangihia ana e te tohunga

He maha ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ka warewarehia e te tangata me te kore e mōhio, e mārama rānei ki te pānga hohonu o taua whanaungatanga. E toru ngā āhuatanga o te whanaungatanga, ko te tuatahi ko te kukume tinana – te āhua o te tirohanga a te tangata ki tētahi atu i runga i te āhua. Ko te tuarua ko te matū me te hototahi, e whakawhirinaki ana ki te pai o te noho tahi o tētahi tangata me tētahi atu. Ko te tuatoru ko te whanaungatanga piripono – te āhua o te whakaatu a te tangata i te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga.

I taku whakapā atu ki Shivanya Yogamaya, he tohunga whetū, he kaiako hoki mō te whanaungatanga me te piripono, i mea ia, "I te nuinga o te wā, ina kōrero tātou mō te piripono, ka peke te iwi ki ngā whakatau ka whakaaro ko te moepuku anake me te whai wāhi a te tokorua ki ngā mahi moepuku i roto i te whanaungatanga. Engari he rerekē rawa atu tēnā i te pono. Ko te piripono ko te mahi whakaraerae i te taha o te tangata e arohaina ana e koe. Ko tōna tikanga ko te kitea me te rangona i a koe e kore e tātarihia, e mata ana hoki. Kāore he kanohi huna, kāore he whakapehapeha, ā, kāore he whakaari."

"Ki te pātai koe he aha te mea e hanga ai te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, ko te whakautu ko te whakawhirinaki. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu nui o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ko te kaha ki te whakawhirinaki me te whakawhirinaki mai i tō hoa aroha me te kore e whakahengia, me te kore hoki e whakahāwea. Koinei te wāhi e takoto ai te whanaungatanga pono. I roto i te mahi whakawhirinaki ki tētahi me te ngākau pono."

Ko te kore e taea te ātete i tō hoa te mea i hono ai kōrua. Engari me nui atu i te kukume tinana anake kia mau tonu ai te whanaungatanga, ā, he nui te mahi e hiahiatia ana mō tēnā. Kāore he whanaungatanga e ngāwari ana. He mahi uaua, he mahi roa hoki te hanga whanaungatanga e harikoa ai te tokorua, ā, he maha ngā momo whanaungatanga e hiahiatia ana. Ki te rapu koe i ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga, pānui tonu kia kitea ai.

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Hiwanya e mea ana, "He nui ngā mahi a te whanaungatanga piripono ki te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga. Ka puta mai he maha ngā āhuatanga pai pērā i te aroha, te whakaae, te aroha ki te tangata, te herekore, te manawanui, me te kaha ki te kore e whakahē me te whai whakaaro pono. Ka āwhina i a tātou ki te tuku i ngā tumanakohanga koretake kua whakatakotoria e tātou mō ō tātou hoa."

I te pātaitanga ki a Shivanya mō te pānga o te whanaungatanga piripono ki tētahi whanaungatanga, ka mea ia, "He maha ngā ngā momo whanaungatanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, e pā ana ēnei katoa ki a tātou i ngā huarahi tino ataahua. Ka kawea mai e ia te whakatutukitanga me te tirotiro i te mooni. Ka pakaruhia e ia ngā whakaaro pohehe, ā, ka ārahi i a koe i roto i tētahi haerenga tere.

"Ki te mea he whanaungatanga tō kōrua, kei roto kōrua i te kotahitanga. Ka noho ko kōrua hei hoa pai, ā, kāore kōrua e whakahe i ngā ngoikoretanga o tētahi ki tētahi. Ka noho tahi kōrua, ka tuku i a kōrua kia ora, kaua e tumanako kia whai rātou i ō tohutohu." He maha ngā momo whanaungatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga. Mai i te tinana ki te kare ā-roto ki te whakangahau me te wairua, e hiahiatia ana ngā momo whanaungatanga katoa hei whakakaha i te aroha e tohaina ana e te tokorua.

Ehara i te mea ko te moe pai anake te mea e hiahiatia ana mō ngā whanaungatanga roa. Ahakoa ko te moe tetahi o ngā mea nui hei pupuri i te mura o te ngākau, hei hinga te hoha i roto i te whanaungatanga, tera atu anō ētahi āhuatanga hei whakaora ake i te ngākau māhaki me te harikoa i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. 

1. Te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute i waenganui i a tātou

Mā te whakatū i tētahi wairua whakawhirinaki me te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga ka whakatairanga i te whanaungatanga piripono. Āhea tātou ka whakapuaki i ngā whakaaro hohonu, pōuri rawa o ō tātou ngākau ki tētahi? Ko te wā tēnei e whakapuaki ai tātou i ō tātou whakaaro ki a rātou. Ina tino whakawhirinaki tātou ki a rātou, ā, e hiahia ana tātou ki te whakapuaki i ngā mea katoa ki a rātou. Kia ako koe i ngā mea katoa ngā tohutohu hei whakawhanake i te whanaungatanga kare ā-roto ā, mā te whakamahi i aua mea i roto i tō whanaungatanga, ka eke te here o waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa aroha ki tētahi taumata hou.

Ko te mahi ngoikore o te whakapuaki i ngā whakaaro pono me te pono i te wā e tūpono ana koe ki te whakahēngia, ko tētahi o ngā tohu tuatahi o te whanaungatanga piripono. He tino ataahua te kite i te mārama o te tangata e arohaina ana e koe, e whakautehia ana e koe, kaua e whakahēngia.

E kī ana a Shivanya, "Ka tutuki te whanaungatanga kare ā-roto ina tuwhera te ngākau o te tokorua tetahi ki tetahi, ā, kāore e mangere ki te whakapuaki i ō rāua hiahia me ō rāua wawata. Mā te āheinga ki te pupuri i te wāhi kia puta ai ō rāua ngākau me te tangi, me te kore e pōuri, koinei te mea e hanga ana i te whanaungatanga piripono." Te kore o te aroha me te whanaungatanga ka puta he arai i roto i tō kōrua whanaungatanga.

"Hei tauira, me kī atu ka kōrero mai tō hoa ki a koe, ka kōrero mai i tukinotia rātou i a rātou e tamariki ana. Engari i te whakahē i a rātou, i te whakamahi rānei i tēnei hei whakahē i a rātou, ka kimi huarahi koe hei mārama i a rātou, hei whakapau kaha hoki ki te whakaora i a rātou. Ka āwhina koe i a rātou ki te aro atu ki ō rātou mamae."

"Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi e taea ai e koe te whakaatu i te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ko te tuku tautoko kare ā-roto mā te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi. Ko te whakanui i ngā kare ā-roto me ngā hiahia o tetahi ki tetahi tētahi o ngā huarahi e taea ai e koe te hanga whakaute. Waihoki, ki te whakaute tō hoa i ō rohe ahakoa te aha, ā, ka kōrero tuwhera me te pono, ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga."

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2. Kua tutukihia ō hiahia moepuku

E kī ana a Shivanya, "Mai i te pupuri ringa ki te awhi me te moe tāne, ka uru katoa ki te whanaungatanga ā-tinana. Ehara i te mea ko te whakawhanaungatanga anake te take o te moe tāne. Ehara i te mea ko te aue me te orgasm anake. Engari ko te āhua o tō haumaru me te whakawhanaungatanga i a rātou i te wā e moe tāne ana. Tērā ētahi wā ka ārai pea te pā o tētahi i a koe, ka whakaaro rānei koe ehara i te momo pā tika."

"Ko te mea e hanga ana i te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ko te wā e pā ai te pā o te tangata ki a koe kia noho haumaru, kia noho whakamarie hoki koe. Ko te kaha ki te tuku i a koe anō ki tētahi me te kore e kitea, e kore hoki e tiakina, ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ko te whanaungatanga ā-tinana me te herekore ā-ira tangata i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ko te wā e whakaatu ana, e whakahonore ana hoki i ngā wawata o tētahi ki tētahi."

Ehara i te mea he wheako whakamīharo noa iho te moepuku hei whakatutuki i te hiahia, engari me whakaaro ki te moepuku hei mahi toi. Kōrerohia ō hiahia, ō kare ā-roto, me ō kore e pai. Whakarārangihia ō hiahia. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakamātau, kōrerohia. Ki te hiahia hoki tō hoa rangatira ki ēnei momo mahi, mā tēnei wheako koe e āwhina kia kaha ake ai. 

3. E pai ana koe ki a koe

I roto i tētahi whanaungatanga tino piripono, ka tino rongo koe i te manakohia e tō hoa. He maha ngā mea ngā tohutohu hei hanga whanaungatanga mārieKo tētahi o aua mea ko te whakaae. Ina whakaae koe ki a rātou me ō rātou ngoikoretanga katoa, ō rātou mea ngaro, me ō rātou whara, me ō rātou kaha me ō rātou ngoikoretanga katoa, koinei te mea e hanga ana i te whanaungatanga piripono. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakamīharo hei kukume i a rātou kia aroha ki a koe. Ina whakaaetia koe e tō hoa, ka tupu noa ngā mea katoa. 

E kī ana a Shivanya, "Ina mārama ake tātou, ka taea te whakaae me te whakawhirinaki. Ka nui ake te whakawhirinaki o tō hoa rangatira ki a koe ina nui ake tō whakaae ki a rātou, ki ā rātou whanonga, me ā rātou whanonga. Ina kore koe e whakahengia, e whakaekea rānei mō tētahi momo kare ā-roto, ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono."

"Ko te whanaungatanga tuatahi i roto i te whanaungatanga ko te wā ka taea e koe te mahi hapa me te whakaae ki aua hapa me te kore e wehi ki te aro atu ki ngā whakahē. Ka uaua te ao, ā, ka taea e tātou te mahi hapa. Akohia me pēhea te muru hara me te wareware ngā hapa i roto i te whanaungatanga. E hiahia ana tātou katoa ki tētahi e kore e pupuri i aua hapa ki a tātou, e tawai mai rānei ki a tātou mō te toenga o ō tātou oranga. Ki te mōhio koe kua whakaae tō hoa ki a koe me te ngākau pono, ā, kāore he rapu hapa, ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga.”

4. Ka whakawhirinaki koe tetahi ki tetahi

He mea nui te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa ina roa kōrua te whanaungatanga. He rārangi angiangi te rerekētanga i waenga i te tautoko kare ā-roto me te whakawhirinaki kare ā-roto. He mea noa te rapu tautoko kare ā-roto mai i tō hoa, engari ki te tono koe, ki te tumanako hoki kia tino whakawhirinaki koe ki a ia mō ngā mea katoa, ka hipa atu i ngā momo tautoko katoa, ā, ka huri hei whakawhirinaki kare ā-roto. 

Kua huri te kupu "whakawhirinaki" hei kupu e rite ana ki te ngoikore me te piripono. Engari ehara tēnā i te pono. Kua mōhiotia ko te whakawhirinaki hauora ka whakapakari i te whanaungatanga. Ko tāu noa he ako me pēhea te hanga hononga whakawhirinaki kei reira te whakaute me te tipu o tetahi ki tetahi. Me ngoikore te tangata i roto i te whakawhirinakitanga, ā, he aha te mea e hanga ai te whanaungatanga piripono? Te ngoikore. Me te pīngo! Koia te hiranga o te whakawhirinakitanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa.

Ki te mea kua whānui ake ō kōrua radar kare ā-roto, ā, kua whakawhirinaki tetahi ki tetahi mō te tautoko kare ā-roto, ā-tinana, me te tautoko pūtea ki tētahi taumata hauora, koia tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono. 

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5. Ka whakatau tahi koe i ngā raruraru

Kāore he whanaungatanga e rere mārie ana pērā i te awa. Me aro atu ia whanaungatanga me ōna kaiuru ki tētahi raruraru i muri i tētahi raruraru. E kī ana a Shivanya, "He maha ngā ngā wero whanaungatanga e pā ana ki te katoaKoinei te mea e mōhiotia ana ko te whanaungatanga tata. Ko te noho tahi me tetahi i ngā wā uaua. Ina tūtaki kōrua i ngā wā uaua, ka hangaia he whanaungatanga tata i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.

"Hei tauira, ki te mate te hoa aroha o tō hoa, ā, ka tū tahi koe me ia i roto i te ngākau aroha, ka tautoko i a ia, koinei te huarahi e whakaatu ai koe i te whanaungatanga piripono. Ka tū tahi kōrua i roto i ngā wā pai, i ngā wā uaua. Kāore kōrua e wehe i tōna taha. Kei reira kōrua mō rātou ahakoa ngā āhuatanga uaua."

Tēnei tētahi tauira whaiaro e hiahia ana ahau ki te kōrero. Ko tā māua kōrero mō te pakaru o te pūtea. He ingoa rongonui tōku pāpā i roto i te umanga hiako. I piki ake ia i roto i taua mara, ā, i pai ki a māua ngā painga o tōna angitu i a māua tamarikitanga. I te hinganga o tana pakihi, i tautoko tōku māmā i a ia ahakoa te raruraru pūtea i pā mai ki a māua.

I reira ia mōna, pērā i te toka, ā, i tīmata tana ake pakihi, he mea whakatenatena nui nā tōku pāpā; i riro ia hei pourewa kaha mōna. I te korenga o te kaha o tōku pāpā ki te whakarato, ka whakakīia e tōku māmā taua tūranga, ā, ka pakaruhia ngā tikanga ira tangata katoa o te hapori, me te nga mahi ira tangata tuku ihoTae noa mai ki tēnei rā, kāore taku pāpā i te mahi, engari kei te āwhina tonu ia i taku māmā i tana pakihi tunu kai ahakoa ngā karanga katoa a tō tātou hapori whakamuri.

E kī ana a Shivanya, "I ngā wā o te raruraru, ka huihui tātou, ka wehe rānei tetahi i tetahi. Ina whakatau koe ki te wehe, ko te tikanga he whanaungatanga tinana noa iho i roto i te whanaungatanga; kāore he momo whanaungatanga kē atu i roto. Engari ina āwhina koe i tō hoa kia tipu, kia nui ake te aroha tetahi ki tetahi i aua wā o te tipu, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ka āwhina te raruraru ki te hanga i te aroha me te manaaki. Ina whakaatu tō hoa i tēnei momo whanaungatanga, ka nui ake tō tātou whakawhetai mō tō rātou aroaro i roto i ō tātou ao."

6. Ka whai wāhi koe ki ngā hiahia o tētahi ki tētahi

E mea ana ia, "Ki te mea kei te pātai koe he aha te mea hei rapu i roto i te whanaungatanga, kātahi ka whai wāhi atu ki ngā hiahia me ngā mahi a tētahi ki tētahi i roto i tētahi o ngā mea. Ko te mea e hanga ana i te whanaungatanga piripono ko te tuku mai a tō hoa ki te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi e pārekareka ana ki a koe, ā, ka whai wāhi atu koe ki ngā mahi e pārekareka ana ki a rātou.

"Kāore koe e hiahia kia rite ngā mea e pai ana ki a kōrua, kia rite rānei ō kōrua whakaae ki ngā mea katoa. Ko te mea nui ko te ataahua me te aroha o te whakaae a kōrua ki te whakahē. Mā ngā mea iti pēnei ka pai ai te mahi tahi. Ka whāngaihia te whanaungatanga ki tua atu i tō whakaaro." 

"Ka taea hoki e kōrua te mahi tahi i ētahi atu momo mahi. Te mahi māra, te horoi rānei i te whare. Me kī atu i pānui koe i tētahi pukapuka, ā, i pai ki a koe. Ka whakapuaki koe i ō whakaaro ki tō hoa, ka whakapuaki hoki i ngā mea kua akohia e kōrua, ā, ka hua ake tēnei i te whanaungatanga hinengaro. Ko tētahi atu tauira o te whanaungatanga hinengaro ko: Kua mātaki tahi kōrua i tētahi kiriata, ā, ka whakapuaki i ō kōrua tirohanga mō te kiriata."

"Pērā i te kōrero i runga ake nei, he maha atu anō ngā mea ngā huarahi hei hanga i te whanaungatanga hinengaro i roto i te whanaungatanga. Kāore ō whakaaro e hiahiatia kia ōrite, engari ko te whakaute i ō rātou tirohanga, me te kore e ngana ki te akiaki, ki te awe rānei i ō whakaaro ki a rātou, koinei te take e hanga ai te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.

"Ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ko te kore e ngana ki te whakaatu kei te tika koe, kei te hē te tangata kē. Ka taea e te tokorua te whai kare ā-roto, whakaaro, whakaaro, me ngā ariā rerekē, ā, kei te tika tonu i te wā kotahi. He hinengaro anō tō ia tangata. Ā, ina whai whanaungatanga hinengaro koe, ka tīmata koe ki te maioha me te whakaute i ō rātou huarahi whakaaro."

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7. Ka waiho e kōrua tetahi ki tetahi hei kaupapa matua

Ki te kore koe e whakatakoto i tō hoa rangatira ki mua, kāore rawa e taea e koe te hanga i te momo whanaungatanga e āwhina ana ki te whakanui ake i te aroha me te whanaungatanga. Ko te mea e nui ake ai te harikoa i te whanaungatanga ā-tinana ko te mea ka waiho tō hoa hei kaupapa matua, ka tohaina tō oranga ki a koe anō, ka whakauru i a ia ki roto i ō whakatau. Ko tētahi tēnā o ngā mea ngā tohu o te aroha mutunga kore i roto i te hononga.

E kī ana a Shivanya, "Ko te whakaatu i te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ko te wā e whakarite ana koe i te wā mō tō hoa, me te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a rātou hei ngana ki te hono atu ki tētahi taumata hohonu ake. Ina whakatairangahia e koe tō hoa, ā, ka whakapiki ake i te kounga o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ka eke koe ki tētahi taumata piripono hou."

"Whakaritea he wā mō tō hoa, ā, haere tahi ki te haereere. Ko tētahi o ngā momo whanaungatanga tino pai e whakamahia ana e au me aku tūroro ko taku kī atu kia haere tahi rāua. He maha ngā take." he aha i tika ai kia haere tahi te tokorua"Mā te haere tahi ka huaki he matapihi hou ki tētahi whanaungatanga. Kāore he waea tari, he mahi kihini, he pere tatau rānei hei whakararuraru i te tokorua. Mā te wāhi hinengaro ma koe e āwhina ki te pēhi i te pātene whakahou."

8. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono ko te whakaute o kōrua ko tō hoa i ngā whakapono o tētahi ki tētahi

E mea ana ia, "Mā te whanaungatanga wairua ka nui ake te kounga o ia whanaungatanga. He mahi ako ngawari, he mahi whakakore i ngā herenga ako. Me kī, he nui ake te mōhio o tētahi hoa ki te taha wairua. Ka taea e rātou te whakaako i tētahi atu i tētahi, i ētahi rānei mea mō taua mea, ka puta ai he kotahitanga wairua, ā, ka hohonu ake te whanaungatanga. Ko te whakaute i te whakapono me ngā whakapono o tētahi ki tētahi, ko tētahi o ngā mea nui." ngā tauira o ngā rohe hauora i roto i te whanaungatanga.

"Kia whai wheako atua ngātahi koutou. Nā te mea ka taea e te ahotea te whakakino i te whanaungatanga i roto i ngā huarahi maha, ā, ka taea e ngā hararei wairua te āwhina i a koe ki te whakaora. Engari ki te kore rātou e hiahia, kaua e akiaki, e whakahaere rānei i a rātou kia mutu tō rātou whakapono me ngā whakapono. E mōhio ana koe ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono i roto i te whanaungatanga ina tautoko koe i ngā hiahia wairua, whakapono rānei o tō hoa. Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi tēnā ki te ako i te aroha."

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9. Ko rātou tonu te tuatahi e hiahia ana koe ki te kōrero ki a rātou

Ko tētahi o ngā take whakaū i whiriwhiri ai ahau ki te marena i taku hoa o nāianei ko tēnei. Ahakoa he aha te mea e tupu ana i roto i tōku ao, ahakoa pai, ahakoa kino, ko ia te tangata tuatahi e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakapā atu. Ahakoa he kōrero pakiwaitara, he raruraru mahi rānei, ko ia te tangata tuatahi e tukuna atu e au ki a ia. He whanaungatanga piripono tā māua e pakaru ana i ngā tikanga me ngā tikanga katoa o te whanaungatanga. 

Ko te whanaungatanga tuatahi i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga ko te wā ka noho tō hoa hei hoa pai mōu, ā, he maha ngā mea e pā ana ki a koe. ngā huarahi hei noho hei hoa pai mō tō hoa rangatira nā te mea he āwhina tēnei ki te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga. Ka whakatakotoria ō waea ki raro ki te kōrero ki a koe anō, ka mōhio ai koe ki te āhua o tō rāua rā. Ko tētahi o ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga piripono ko te aro nui ki a rāua.

10. He hinengaro tīma

E kī ana a Shivanya, "Ko tētahi o ngā tohu matua o te whanaungatanga piripono ko te whai whakaaro kapa. Ka anga tahi ki ngā āhuatanga uaua, ā, kāore e tukua tetahi ki tetahi. Ko ētahi hoa mahi ka tiaki i ngā mahi o te whare, ko ētahi ka whiwhi moni, ka tiaki i ngā pire. Whakarērea ngā tapanga. Kāore he momo tapanga "Ko au te tāne, ko koe te wahine" i ēnei rā." te ōritetanga o te ira tangata i roto i te marena ā, he mea tino nui i roto i tētahi momo whanaungatanga.

"Ko te ōritetanga te mea nui. Me āwhina tetahi i tetahi ki te mahi i ngā mahi o te whare me te whakatipu tamariki. Kāore tātou e noho ana i tētahi wā e tika ana kia whiwhi moni te tāne, ā, ko te wahine hei mahi i ngā mahi o te kīhini. Ko te mea e hanga ana i te whanaungatanga piripono ko te wā e kawe ana koutou i ngā kawenga hei rōpū." 

"Kāore koe e whakahaere, e whakahaere rānei i tō hoa rangatira. Ka taea e ngā tāne te tono āwhina moni mai i ā rātou wāhine. He tika tā ngā wāhine ki te tumanako kia whai wāhi katoa ngā tāne ki ngā kawenga o te whare. He tino tika te wawahi i ngā tūranga ira tangata."

"He maha ngā kōrero a te tangata. Engari ehara rātou i te hunga e utu ana i ō pire, e āwhina ana rānei i a koe ki te whakahaere i te whare. Ko kōrua anake ko tō hoa rangatira, nō reira ko ngā mea e tupu ana i waenganui i a kōrua me whai wāhi ki ā kōrua whakatau tahi." Hono atu ki tō hoa i tētahi taumata hohonu ake, kia hangaia he hinengaro tīma. Kia oti te hanganga o te hinengaro tīma, ka rite tō whanaungatanga ki te wāhi haumaru rawa atu o te ao. Ā, e ai ki te kōrero, mā te mahi tahi ka tutuki ai te moemoeā.”

He pānga pai rawa atu te whanaungatanga piripono hauora ki tētahi whanaungatanga. He maha ngā reo o te aroha, ā, ko te whanaungatanga piripono tētahi o ngā mea tino nui. Ka rerekē pea ngā whakaaro o ngā hoa, ka taupatupatu hoki i ngā wā katoa. Engari kaua rawa e whakama i a rātou mō ā rātou hapa, kaua hoki e pupuri i ō rātou hapa ki a rātou. Whakaaturia tō aroha tetahi ki tetahi mā te waihanga i tētahi wāhi haumaru mō tetahi ki tetahi, kāore he whakahē, he whakahē rānei. 

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