12 Ngā Huarahi Hei Hanga i te Hononga Hinengaro i roto i te Hononga

Ko ngā hononga ā-tinana, ā-hinengaro, tae noa ki te wairua, e whakaarohia ana ko ngā tūāpapa o tētahi whanaungatanga taurite, pakari. Ahakoa he tika taua aromatawai, kotahi te wāhanga nui o te hononga i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kāore i te arohia – ko te whanaungatanga hinengaro. I mua i te ruku hohonu ki te take e taea ai e te whanaungatanga hinengaro hauora te mahi whakamiharo mō tētahi whanaungatanga – me pēhea te whakatutuki – me mārama tātou ki te tikanga o te whanaungatanga hinengaro ki tō hoa.

Kaitohutohu hinengaro Gopa Khan e homai ana ki a tātou ētahi tirohanga mō te whanaungatanga hinengaro, me pēhea hoki te hanga i taua whanaungatanga me tō hoa.

He aha te Whakawhanaunga Hinengaro?

"Ka taea te whakamārama i te whanaungatanga hinengaro he rite tonu te whakaaro ki tō hoa rangatira, ki tō hoa rangatira rānei," te kī a Tākuta Khan. "E kī ana te tangata kei te rapu aroha rātou, kei te rapu rānei i tētahi "whanaungatanga tino pai" engari he uaua ki te whakapuaki i tā rātou e hiahia ana mai i tētahi whanaungatanga. Ko te tikanga, ko te hunga e rapu ana i te hoa rangatira kei te rapu i tētahi hoa hei hoa pai, hei hoa rangatira, hei hoa aroha, hei hoa wairua rānei, hei hoa katoa rānei," tāna tāpiri.

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Ko te whanaungatanga hinengaro, ko te whanaungatanga hinengaro rānei, e whakaahuatia ana ko te tūtakitanga o ngā tāngata tokorua i runga i te taumata whakamarie, ā, kāore rāua e mangere ki te whakapuaki i ō rāua whakaaro me ō rāua ariā, ahakoa he rerekē ō rāua whakaaro.

Ina he whanaungatanga hinengaro tō te tokorua, ka mōhio rāua tetahi ki tetahi mai i roto, he hohonu ake i tā te tangata. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga aroha, ahakoa e kitea ana te whanaungatanga ā-tinana, ko te mea pono, ina tino mōhio te tokorua tetahi ki tetahi, ā, ka hono atu rāua i waho o taua ao ā-tinana, ka noho hei hoa.

Ka whakapuaki te tokorua e piripono ana ki te taha hinengaro i ā rāua mahi whakangahau, i ā rāua hiahia, i ā rāua moemoeā, tae atu ki ngā mea ngaro pōuri, ā, ka angitu ai tā rāua hononga. Ā, ko ēnei tauira piripono hinengaro katoa kāore i roto i te taha tinana.

I ētahi wā, ka puta te whanaungatanga piripono mai i te whakawhitiwhiti whakaaro i waenganui i te tokorua. Ki te kīanga whānui, ko te whanaungatanga piripono ko te 'whiwhi tetahi ki tetahi'. Ā, e mōhio ana tātou katoa ki te whakamarie o te whai i tētahi tangata i roto i tō ao e whiwhi ana i a koe. Inaianei kua riro koia tēnei tangata hei hoa mōu! Kei te titiro hōhonu rātou ki roto i tō hinengaro, ā, e tino mārama ana ki ō whakaaro? Koinei ngā pātai whanaungatanga piripono me pātai koe ki a koe anō.

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He aha koe i hiahia ai ki te whanaungatanga hinengaro i roto i tō whanaungatanga?

Nā, kua kōrerotia atu ki a koe ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te pou tokomanawa o tētahi whanaungatanga hauoraKo te kaha ki te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro, ō whakaaro, ō tumanako, ō kaingākau, ō hiahia me ō mataku pōuri rawa, ō tumanakohanga me ō whāinga o te ao, mō ngā hāora maha, koinei te tihi o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai rawa atu. Koinei tonu te mea e āwhina ana te whanaungatanga hinengaro ki a koe kia tutuki.

"Ko te tokorua e whakapau kaha ana ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga hinengaro piripono ki roto i tā rāua whanaungatanga, kei te hanga i tētahi hanganga pakari mō tā rāua whanaungatanga, me te hanga i te whakapau kaha tetahi ki tetahi mō te heke mai. Ka taea e ēnei whanaungatanga te ora i ngā awha, i te mate pāwera, i ngā āhuatanga uaua, ā, i roto i te wā, ka noho hei hononga kaha," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

Hei tauira, ko te kaiwhakaari kua mate a Christopher Reeve, nāna i takaro a 'Superman', me tana wahine a Dana. "I muri i te whara o te eke hoiho i takoto kau ai ia i runga i te moenga, i noho tahi te tokorua i roto i te te marena kaha. "Tērā pea kua roa kē te hinga o tētahi atu whanaungatanga. Ko te mea i angitu ai te marena i te whakamātautau o te wā, he pakari te whanaungatanga hinengaro o rāua. Ko rāua ngā whakautu ki ngā pātai a tētahi ki tētahi mō te whanaungatanga hinengaro," tana kī.

Ka whakakaha ake tēnei momo whanaungatanga hinengaro i roto i te marena, i ngā whanaungatanga rānei, ina hangaia e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ngā whakaaro o tētahi ki tētahi, ā, ka haria ngā kōrero ki tētahi taumata hou o te whai wāhi, me te kore tetahi o rāua e hoha, e noho pōrearea rānei. Ko te whiwhi, te whakamārama me te tukatuka i ngā whakaaro o ō hoa i roto i te wairua tika tētahi o ngā whanonga nui o te whakanui ake i te whanaungatanga i runga i te taumata hinengaro.

He pai ki a koe te whanaungatanga piripono hinengaro?

Mā te mōhio ka taea e te hononga roro-ki-roro te āwhina i te tipu o tō whanaungatanga, ka whakaaro pea koe mēnā kei te pai koe ki te whanaungatanga hinengaro me tō hoa. Pērā i ngā mea pai katoa, ka puta te whanaungatanga hinengaro mā te whakaharatau. He mea nui te waihanga i ngā mahi whanaungatanga, ā, mā ēnei tauira whanaungatanga hinengaro koe e āwhina ki te mārama:

• Kei te rapu tonu koe i ngā mea hou ngā mea hei mahi tahiMai i te whakamātau i ngā momo kanikani hou ki te eke hōiho, ngā pūkenga tunu kai ki te māra, he huarahi kore here kei a kōrua mō ngā mea ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi.
• Kāore koe e hiahia ana ki te noho i roto i te mano hei whakangahau i a koe. Ka taea e kōrua ko tō hoa te kōrero mō te ao me ngā mahere, me te kōrero tahi mō ngā tumanako me ngā moemoeā a tētahi ki tētahi mō ngā hāora.
• Ka pātai tonu kōrua i ō kōrua whakaaro mō ngā mea iti rawa. Mēnā kei te hoko ārai hou koe mō te whare, kei te tāuta rānei he taupoki nohoanga hou ki roto i te motuka, me mōhio koe ki ō rātou whakaaro mō tāu i whiriwhiri ai. Ehara i te mea hei whakamana engari he mea nui ki a koe ō rātou whakaaro.
• taea e koe kōrerohia ngā take pūtea me te kore tetahi o kōrua e mataku, e kōpikopiko rānei
• Ka taea e kōrua te kōrero tetahi ki tetahi mō ngā mea e whakama ai kōrua, e whakama ai rānei ki te whakapuaki ki tētahi atu
• Ka taea e koe te kite mēnā kei te taumaha tetahi mea i roto i te hinengaro o tō hoa, engari kāore rātou e kōrero ana mō taua mea, ā, ka taea e rātou te noho mārire ki te kōrero.

Ahakoa kāore ēnei tauira e tika ana mō tō whanaungatanga, kia mōhio koe kāore anō kia roa rawa te tīmatanga. Pērā i te whakakori tinana kia noho ora ai, mā te hanga i ngā whakakori piripono ka kaha ai tō whanaungatanga.

Me pēhea te whakawhanake i te whanaungatanga hinengaro?

Ko te nui o te kaha o te tokorua ki te whakaoho i a rāua anō i roto i te hinengaro me te hono atu i te taumata hinengaro ka taea te whakahaere e ngā āhuatanga maha pēnei i tō pūnaha uara matua, ō papamuri mātauranga, me tō kaha ki te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro. Ā, kāore e taea e ngā tokorua katoa te whakatutuki i tētahi paerewa koura o te whanaungatanga hinengaro, pērā i te kore e taea e ngā tokorua katoa te tirotiro i ngā pouaka katoa mō te whanaungatanga ā-hinengaro, ā-ira tangata, ā-wairua, ā-whakaaro rānei.

Ahakoa rā, mā te whakapau kaha, me te whakapau kaha tonu, ka taea e koe te tīmata i te ara tika o te whanaungatanga hinengaro whai hua. Anei ngā huarahi tekau mā rua hei mahi i tēnei:

1. Kia rite ō whakaaro

Ko te waiaro te tirohanga a te tangata ki te ao. Mēnā he rerekē te tirohanga a kōrua ko tō hoa ki ngā mea o te ao, ko te rapu huarahi ōrite, ko te pupuri rānei i te hinengaro tuwhera ki te huarahi e whakatata atu ai tētahi ki tētahi ki ngā mea pēnei i ngā whāinga o te ao, te whakamahere pūtea, ngā ara mahi, he tīmatanga pai pea tēnei hei whakatipu i te whanaungatanga piripono hinengaro i roto i te whanaungatanga.

"Ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakapuaki ana i ō rātou taipitopito pūtea, e whakawhirinaki ana hoki ki ngā tohutohu a tētahi ki tētahi, ka whai hononga hauora. Mā te whakatenatena a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tetahi ki tētahi kia kaha te taha pūtea, kia whakamahere i ā rātou pūtea me tō rātou heke mai, ka whakarei ake i ō rātou whanaungatanga ā-tinana, ā-hinengaro me te hinengaro," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

2. Whakatipuhia ngā hiahia tahi hei waihanga i te whanaungatanga hinengaro

He aroha nui tōku matua kēkē rāua ko taku whaea ki ngā hikoi roa. Kāore i roa, ka noho hei mahi mā rāua. Mō ngā tau 23 o tō rāua oranga marena, tae noa ki te matenga o tōna whaea i te mate pukupuku, ka tīmata rāua ki te hikoi ahiahi 45-meneti i ia rā, ahakoa ua, ahakoa rā. Ko tēnei moni noa ko tō rāua mawhiti tēnei i ngā mahi o ia rā, ā, nā tēnā i kaha ake ai tā rāua marena.

Mā te whakatipu i tētahi hiahia ka taea e kōrua te whai hei tokorua ka taea te whakarerekē i te hononga e pā ana ki a kōrua ko tō hoa i runga i te taumata hinengaro. Kia arotahi ki ēnei mahi iti, engari he mea whaiaro mā ngā tokorua, ā, mātakitaki i te puāwaitanga o tō kōrua whanaungatanga.

3. Panui tahi

Kāore rawa he take mō te tokorua e pānui tahi ana ki te pātai me pēhea te whakawhanake i te whanaungatanga hinengaro? He taonga whakamiharo ngā pukapuka hei pupuri i ō pūtau hina kia tere tonu. Nō reira, kia whakatipu i a koe he tikanga ki te pānui tahi kātahi ka matapakihia te pukapuka ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatata hinengaro ki tō hoa.

Mā ēnei tikanga ka whakau tō hononga, ka hoatu hoki he tikanga mahi māu. Nō reira, hangaia he karapu pukapuka iti mā te tokorua. Ka taea e koe te whakauru atu ki tētahi karapu pukapuka nui ake ka kitea e koe he kaituhi hou hei pānui me ngā ao hou hei tūhura tahi.

4. Whakahāngaihia ō uara

Nō ngā whānau rerekē – ā, tērā pea, nō ngā papamuri rerekē, nō ngā wāhi rerekē rānei o te whenua/ao – e tata kore rawa e taea e te tokorua te whai i te pūnaha uara ōrite. Nō reira, te whakataurite i ō uara He mea nui te whakawhanake i tētahi whanaungatanga i roto i te wā, ehara i te mea mō te taha hinengaro anake engari mō te taha rangatira anō hoki.

"Ina whakanuia e te tokorua ngā mea ōrite pēnei i te pono, te tika, te whakapono ki te manapori, ki ngā tika tangata rānei, ka āwhina i te whakanui ake i tō rāua whanaungatanga hinengaro," te whakamārama a Tākuta Khan. Ka tāpiri atu ia, "Hei tauira, ko te tokorua e ngākau nui ana ki te taiao, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka hono atu rāua tetahi ki tetahi, ā, ka arotahi ki ngā take taiao pēnei i te penapena wai, te hiko, te hangarua me ētahi atu. Whakatauritea tēnei ki tētahi tokorua kāore i te ōrite – tera pea he pakanga, he whanaungatanga hinengaro ngoikore rānei i waenganui i a rāua."

I whakamārama anō a Tākuta Khan, ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine he rite ngā uara, he nui ake te tūponotanga ka angitu i a rātou e whakatenatena ana, e tautoko ana, e āwhina ana hoki tetahi i tetahi hei rōpū. "He maha ngā wā ka rongohia he tāne me te wāhine e kī ana, kāore e taea e rāua te whakatutuki i tēnei angitu me te kore te tautoko a tā rāua hoa, koinā te wā ka kite ai koe i te hononga kaha i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine," tana kī.

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5. Kia tautoko tetahi i tetahi

Kāore e taea e koe te whakatutuki i te whanaungatanga hinengaro me te kore e tautoko i tō hoa rangatira, ahakoa ngā āhuatanga uaua o te ao. Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakamahi i te kaha ki te haere i roto i ōna hu me te titiro ki te āhuatanga mai i tōna tirohanga.

"E mōhio ana ahau ki tētahi tokorua, kua whakapau kaha ki te pupuri i tētahi pukapuka tuhi tahi, te mihi tetahi ki tetahi, te tuhi i ā rāua moemoeā me ā rāua hiahia, me te whai i ngā tikanga i roto i tō rāua whanaungatanga e tino tumanakohia ana e rāua. Ko tētahi o ā rāua tikanga ko te pānui rotarota, te mahi panga kupu whakawhiti rānei. He mea ngāwari noa iho e homai ana ki a rāua te harikoa me te rangimārie," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

Ka tāpiri atu ia, "Nō reira, ko taku tohutohu ki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, warewarehia ngā koha utu nui me ngā putiputi, rapua ngā mea ngāwari. Ka whakautua e tō hoa tāne ō waea, ka whakautua ō karere, ka noho tahi me koe, ka whakatau tahi i ngā whakataunga me ngā mahere. Koinei pea te mea pai rawa atu, te mea tino pai rawa atu he koha whakaaro ake ake.”

6. Kimihia ngā mahi ngahau hei mahi tahi

Ko te whanaungatanga hinengaro i roto i te marena, i te aroha roa rānei, ko te whakatū hononga hinengaro ki tō hoa rangatira. Engari kāore e hiahiatia kia nui, kia taumaha hoki ngā mahi. Ka taea hoki e koe te pupuri i tēnei tukanga kia māmā, kia māmā hoki mā te kimi i ngā mahi ngahau, kia piripono hoki mā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine hei mahi tahi. Ka taea te whakamahi i ngā mea katoa mai i te haere tahi ki te kiriata, te mātaki nui rānei i tētahi raupapa hou i runga i a Netflix.

"Ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e wero ana tetahi i tetahi, e whai pānga ana rānei ki ngā hiahia ōrite te āwhina tetahi i tetahi ki te poipoi me te pupuri i ō rāua hiahia kia ora tonu. Hei tauira, ka tūhura te tāne me te wāhine e pai ana ki te haereere i ngā wāhi hou hei huarahi ki te tāpiri i te harikoa ki tō rāua whanaungatanga. Waihoki, i te wā o te rāhui, he maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i whiriwhiri ki te tunu kai tahi, ki te whakapaipai anō rānei i te whare. Mā te waihanga i ngā mahi me te whakauru tetahi i tetahi ka nui te āwhina ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga hinengaro," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

7. Kōrerohia te mahi hei hanga i te whanaungatanga hinengaro

Āe, he tika tāu i pānui ai. Ahakoa he maha ngā tohunga whanaungatanga e tohutohu ana i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kia kaua e kawe mai i ā rāua mahi ki te kāinga, he wāhi pai rawa atu ngā kōrero mō te mahi hei whakatupu i te whanaungatanga hinengaro. Ehara i te mea kei te kōrero tonu kōrua mō te mahi, kei te amuamu rānei mō ō rangatira. Engari ngana ki te hanga i tētahi wāhi e pai ai kōrua ko tō hoa ki te kōrero i tētahi mea, e rua rānei mō tō rāua oranga mahi.

Hei tauira, pātai atu ki a rātou mō te āhua o tō rātou rā i a rātou e inu waina ana. Mēnā ka puta he whakautu ātaahua i te tuatahi, akiakihia rātou kia kōrero mai anō ki a koe. Kāore e roa, ka noho hei tikanga noho. Mā te kaha ki te whakapuaki i tō oranga mahi ki tō hoa rangatira me te kore e mataku kei whakahengia, kei whakahēngia rānei, ka taea te whakapai ake i tō taumata whai wāhi, ā, nō reira, tō whanaungatanga piripono. Nā konei i te hunga i roto i ngā mahi taumaha marena i roto i te mahi.

Ahakoa nō ngā momo mahi rerekē rawa atu kōrua, kāore he kino ki te whakarongo ki ngā raruraru mahi a tō hoa, me te whakapuaki mai i ō raruraru anō hoki.

8. Kōrerohia ngā wheako o mua

I tētahi o ōku hoa tukinotia moepuku i ōna tau taiohi, ā, kāore i kōrero i te wheako ki tētahi atu, engari he torutoru noa iho ōna hoa tata. E rima tau ki muri i tana marena, i tētahi wā ngoikore, ka whakapuaki ia i ōna whakaaro ki tana tāne, ā, nāwai rā ka awhi ia i a ia, ka tangi tahi rāua. I kōrero rāua mō tēnei mea tae noa ki te pō, ā, i te roanga o te wā, ka whakatenatena ia i a ia kia kōrero ki tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro mō te mamae.

Nā taua wā ngoikore kotahi nei rāua i whakatata atu ai. Nō reira, whakarērea taua whakaroa, ka kōrero ki tō hoa mō tō oranga i mua i te taenga mai o te whanaungatanga, me te whakatenatena i a rāua kia pērā anō hoki. Kāore e tika kia nui, kia whakarihariha rānei.

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"Mā te whakapuaki i ngā mea huna, ka whiriwhiri te tokorua ki te tiaki i ngā kōrero whaiaro a tētahi ki tētahi, me te karo i te whakamahi i te mōhiotanga ki a rāua anō. Ka āwhina tēnei ki te hanga whakawhirinaki me te whanaungatanga hinengaro. Kāore e tino tūpono ana ēnei tokorua ki te tuku i tētahi atu tangata ki te whakararuraru i tō rāua whanaungatanga, ā, ka tiakina hoki rāua mai i ngā mahi moepuku i waho o te marena nā te mea he tino kaha te piripono o tētahi ki tētahi," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

9. Pānuihia te nūpepa ngātahi, ā, whakawhitiwhiti kōrero mō te whanaungatanga hinengaro

He aha atu te huarahi pai ake hei whakawhanake i tētahi hononga hinengaro tata atu i te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro me ō tirohanga mō ngā mea e tupu ana i te ao. I ngā wā katoa e taea ai e koe, pānuihia te nūpepa o te ata, mātakihia rānei te wā matua o te ahiahi, kātahi ka whai wāhi ki tētahi kōrero hauora mō taua mea.

Kia maumahara kaua e kōrerotia he mea whaiaro, ahakoa he rerekē ō whakaaro tōrangapū.

10. Whakamaherehia he haerenga tahi

Mā te whakanui ake i ngā wheako hou ka whānui ake ō tirohanga, ka whakaoho hoki i te hinengaro. he wheako hou tā te tokorua Mā te mahi tahi, ka tata ake ai ō rātou hinengaro. Haunga tēnā, ko te haumi i tō wā me tō kaha ki te whakamahere i tō haerenga hou he wāhi pai hei hononga.

Mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero whakahihiri i a kōrua, ahakoa he mahi ā-tinana pēnei i te rere waka, he mahi hinengaro pēnei i te rūma mawhiti rānei, ka tata ake kōrua. Ā, ko wai atu hei hoa pai atu i tō hoa rangatira, i tō hoa pai rawa atu hoki!

11. Hono atu mā te karere kuputuhi me te pāpāho pāpori

Ngā taunekeneke mariko I waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa – me te urupare e whai ake nei – ka taea te kawe i tēnei kanikani hinengaro ki tētahi taumata hou, nā te mea ka taea e kōrua te tūhura tahi i ngā mea hou. Nō reira, kia mau tonu te kanikani pāpāho pāpori me aua DM, ngā tohu pāpāho pāpori, te tohatoha meme, ahakoa kei te noho kōrua i te whare kotahi.

"Ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakapau kaha ana ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai, ā, e hiahia ana ki te ako i ngā hiahia o tētahi ki tētahi, ka nui te āwhina i a rāua ki te whakapakari i tō rāua whanaungatanga. E whakaaro ana rāua ka taea e rāua te whakapuaki i ō rāua feaa, wehi me ngā āwangawanga," te kī a Tākuta Khan.

12. Akohia ngātahi tētahi pūkenga hou

Mā te whai i tētahi mahi hou ka puta ake te wairua o te ākonga, ka whakaoho anō hoki i taua hiahia ki te ako. Nā te mea kei roto kōrua ko tō hoa i tēnei mahi, ka huaki ake ngā huarahi hou hei whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, hei kōrero tahi, hei tipu tahi hoki.

I a māua e tipu ake ana, he tokorua kaumātua kei te noho i te taha o te whare. He ahorangi reti te tāne, he wahine kore pānui te wahine. He maha ngā ahiahi i pau i ahau e takaro ana i tō rāua marae o mua. Ina hoki whakamuri, kāore au i kite i taua wā e kōrero ana tetahi ki tetahi, haunga te kōrero mō ngā kai hei hoko, ngā mea hei tunu mō te kai e whai ake nei, me te hiahia rānei ia ki te kai tī. He pono, ko te noho kaumātua tahi me nui atu i te kōrero mō te kai mō ngā tekau tau e whā o tō oranga.

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Ko te ruku hohonu ki roto i te hinengaro o tō hoa he mea nui te whakapau kaha me te manawanui, engari he tino pai te mutunga.
"Ko te mea tuatahi ka kitea e au ko te kore o te kaha e whakapaua ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te whakapakari i tō rātou whanaungatanga. He maha ngā wā, ka aro ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki ngā mea e riro mai ana i a rātou me te nui o tō rātou pouri. Ka mate rawa atu ēnei whanaungatanga mai i te tīmatanga nā te mea kāore he kaha e mahia ana kia noho tahi i te ngaru kotahi," te kī a Tākuta Khan. 

"E taea rānei te kimi i te hoa tika? Mā te rapu i ngā paearu hei pupuri i te whanaungatanga mō te wā roa. Hei kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro whanaungatanga, ka tūtaki ahau ki ngā rangatahi mātau, inā koa ngā wāhine, e whakaiti ana i a rātou anō, e whakaaro ana he aha rātou e kore ai e taea te pupuri i te whanaungatanga, he aha rānei te hē o aua mea?"

"Ka mea atu ahau ki a rātou kia tika tā rātou rārangi whanaungatanga, ngā paearu rānei, kātahi ka kitea e rātou te hoa hinengaro me te kare ā-roto hohonu e rapuhia ana e rātou," tana whakatau.

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