Tō Aratohu ki te Whakamahere i te Rā Kawhe Tino Pai 

He uaua pea te whakarite i ngā rā tuatahi nā te mea kāore anō kōrua kia mōhio ki ngā mea e pai ana ki a kōrua. He tangata kai reka tō hoa, he tangata hikoi noa rānei i te māra? Mā te nui o tō whakaaro, ka uaua ake te whakarite i te rā tuatahi tino pai. Koia te take he pai ake te waiho i ngā mahere tino uaua mō te rā tuarua. Hei tīmata i ngā mea, ko wai ka taea te whakahē ki te kōrerorero i runga i te kapu moka whakangā i te rā kawhe?

He māmā noa te kimi huarahi ki te tono mō te hui kawhe, he mahi noa iho, ehara i te mea tino ōkawa. Ko tētahi wharekai ātaahua me te āhua aroha me te kawhe pai rawa atu o te tāone te huarahi tino pai ki te whakatakoto i te turanga mō taua hononga motuhake e tumanako ana koe ki te hanga. Me hiahia koe ki ētahi atu whakaaro ko te hui kawhe aroha te mea pai rawa atu mō taua hui tuatahi whakamataku? Pānuihia tonu!

He aha te tikanga o te hui kawhe?

Ehara i te mea hou te whakatau kawhe. Ina hoki, ko ngā whakatau kawhe te huarahi tino pai ki te tūtaki ki tētahi, ki te whakapau wā ki taua tangata, ā, te pupuri i tētahi kōrero pai kia pai ake ai te mōhio ki a rātou. Kāore ēnei hui e hiahiatia kia noho hei hui aroha. Ka taea te tū i waenganui i te mātua me te tamaiti, i waenganui i te tokorua, i waenganui rānei i tētahi rōpū hoa e kōrero tahi ana, i waenganui rānei i ngā hoa mahi e whakawhitiwhiti whakaaro ana.

I taua wā anō, koinei tonu te whiringa pai mō te tūtaki ki tētahi tangata aroha, ki tētahi hoa aroha rānei, puta noa i ngā whakatipuranga katoa. Ko te tikanga, ka whiriwhiria e koe tētahi wharekai tawhito, tētahi wharekai papai rānei hei wāhi. Ko ngā kai reka kei roto ko ngā inu wera me ngā inu matao tae atu ki ngā momo kai tunutunu. Mā te āhua marino, ōkawa hoki ka āwhina i te tangata kia noho humarie tetahi ki tetahi, ā, ka rere noa ngā kōrero!

10 Ngā Painga o te Rā Kawhe mō te Hui Tuatahi

Ka hipokina e mātou ngā mea katoa mai i ngā whakaaro kākahu mō te rā kawhe ki te wā pai rawa atu kia tino whai hua ai koe i tēnei wheako. Engari tuatahi, me kōrero tātou he aha te take he pai ai te inu kawhe hei whakaaro tuatahi mō te rā tuatahi. Ko te kakara o te kawhe hou me tētahi kai reka iti hei haere tahi me ia e karanga ana i te aroha, kāore? Haunga tēnā, he āwhina te wāhi marino ina mōhio koe ki tētahi.

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Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapau i tō rā tuatahi i tētahi wāhi pukumahi, i tētahi pae inu rānei he nui te haruru o te puoro, me hamama ki te taringa o tētahi ki tētahi kia puta ai he kōrero. Koia te take he wāhi pai ngā whare kawhe mō tētahi rā tuatahi me te nui o te kaha aroha, kaua e tino ōkawa, kaua hoki e tino taketake. Anei ētahi atu take he whakaaro tino pai te rā i te whare kawhe hei tīmatanga me te hiahia aroha:

1. He huarahi pai hei wawahi i te hukapapa

Ehara i te mea ngāwari te tūtaki ki tētahi tangata hou mō te katoa. He mea whakamataku te whakaaro ki te whakatuwhera i ō tātou whakaaro ki tētahi tangata tauhou, ā, e mārama ana mātou ki tēnā. Ahakoa kāore pea tēnei e pā ki tētahi tangata e hiahia ana ki te kōrero whānui, ka pai ki tētahi tangata whakama, e hiahia ana ki te noho motuhake, ki tētahi tangata whakamā, ki tētahi tangata whakamā rānei, ki te noho pōrearea rānei ki te noho tahi me tētahi tangata hou i ngā meneti tuatahi e kōrero ana mō tētahi mea noa me tētahi kapu kawhe, kia kore ai e aro atu te aro ki a ia.

Ko te here i runga i tō aroha tahi ki te kawhe he mea pea he kaiwawao huka pai Ka taea e tēnā te whakaiti i te pēhanga. Mena he maha ngā wā ka kitea koe e ngaro ana i ngā wā tuatahi o te hui, anei ngā āwhina hei āwhina i te hui tahi me te kawhe:

• Mā te hui kawhe māmā koe e āwhina ki te kōrero poto i te tīmatanga, i a koe e tirotiro ana i te tahua hei tuku i tāu ota.
• Ka taea e koe te kōrero mō te ranunga pia e pai ana ki a koe, he kaupapa kōrero ngāwari, he kaupapa whakamarie hoki tēnei.
• Ki te kitea e koe te wā tika, ka taea e koe te tuku i tētahi kata kawhe hei kata mā tō hoa, pēnei i te: "He aha te ingoa e huaina ai ina tahaetia tō kawhe e tetahi?" "Taohanga!"
• Ki te pai ngā mea katoa, ka taea e koe te pāwhiri i ētahi whakaahua mō aua pou kawhe ātaahua i runga i te Instagram

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2.  Ehara i te mea utu nui

Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki te tangata e tūtaki ana koe i tēnei rā, he pai ake te tango kawhe me te tiki biscotti i te wheako kai papai. He ahua koretake, he koretake hoki te kawe i tētahi ki tētahi tina papai i te wā kāore koe i te tino mōhio mēnā ka kite anō koe i a ia. He mea pai ki te teiti noa i te tīmatanga, kia kite rā anō koe i tētahi tangata ā muri ake nei.

He maha ngā wharekai he ātaahua, he ātaahua hoki te āhua, ā, he iti noa ngā tahua kai, nō reira whakamahia pai i a koe e tūtaki ana ki te tangata kia kite ai koe i te āhua o ngā mea. I taua wā anō, me whakarite kia pai te noho o tō hoa, ā, me whiriwhiri marie koe i ngā wāhi. Rangahau, rangahau, rangahau (engari kaua e whakamahia hei take whakaroa i te whakarite i tētahi rā).

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3. Ka āwhina i a koe ki te kite i tētahi mea e pā ana ki ō rātou tuakiri

E mea ana rātou, "Kaua e whakatau i te pukapuka mā te uhi", engari ehara i te mea kāore e taea e koe te whakatau i tō hoa mā te tono kawhe a rātou. Ae, ko tā tō hoa e whiriwhiri ai ka taea te whakaatu i te maha o ōna āhuatanga. Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio he aha ngā kōrero a tō hoa mō rātou i runga i te kawhe i tonoa e koe?

• Kawhe pango: Ka tono kawhe pango tāu hoa? Āe, ko rātou te hunga e pai ake ana ki te noho mataara mō te mahi i te noho mataara mō tētahi pāti i Vegas. He hunga whakapau kaha, he hunga hihiri hoki rātou, me te whakaaro nui ki te kawenga. E mōhio ana rātou ki tā rātou e hiahia ana, ā, kāore e wehi ki te whai i tēnā. Ka taea e te tangata e pai ana ki te kawhe pango te noho hei hoa mahi pai, engari hei hoa mahi? Kia tūpato!
• Miraka: I rongo koe i a rātou e tono ana i te Cream and Sugar, i te Chai Latte rānei? Ko rātou te mea ka taea te kī he 'wairua tawhito'. He pai ki a rātou ngā mea ngāwari o te ao, ā, e hiahia ana kia mau tonu. Ehara i te mea he ao noa iho, kāore rātou e aro ki te rahi o tō pēke moni, ki te waitohu rānei o tō waka. He kaitiaki rātou, e hoa mā!
• Frappuccino: He ngākau hihiko te tangata e aroha ana ki te frappuccino! Ki te inu pērā tō hoa i tētahi inu, kua kitea e koe tētahi hoa e rapu ana i ngā mahi mōrearea. E hiahia ana rātou ki te karo i te whakama katoa, ka haere ki waho ki te mahi i tētahi mea ngahau. Me paku whakahihiri tō hoa e whai ake nei, ki te kore ka hoki ko koe anake ki te kāinga.

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4. Kāore e nui te tumanako

Ko te mea pai rawa atu mō ngā hui kawhe ko te āhua kore ahotea o ēnei hui. Me whakamārama atu ahau. Ki te whakamahere koe i tētahi hui aroha tino matatini e uru ana ki te tiki me te tuku i tō hoa ki te kāinga, he kai tino pai, me te waina pea i roto i tētahi wharekai moemoeā, ka nui ake te tumanako.

I tētahi atu taha, he huarahi pai te whakatau tahi i te whare kawhe hei tīmatanga mārire, hei anga whakamua ki tētahi mea pai ake. Me kimi noa me pēhea te tono i tētahi whakatau tahi mō te kawhe, kātahi ka tirohia te huarahi e arahina ai koe. Tonoa he rā tuarua ki te hiahia koe, ki te kore rānei e waea mai – kāore he pēhanga!

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5. He mea noa iho

Ko koe tētahi o te hunga e pātai tonu ana ki ō rātou hoa pai mō te kākahu tika hei mau i tētahi rā? Kāore rānei ki a koe te whakaaro katoa o te whakapaipai i a koe anō mō ​​tētahi tāne, te āhua pai rānei mō te tūtaki ki tētahi wahine i te wāhi tūmatanui, he mea tawhito, he mea whakahihiri hoki? Ahakoa pēhea, ko te tūtaki ki tō hoa i te wā kawhe te huarahi māmā rawa atu hei karo i te raruraru.

Mena kei te whakaaro tonu koe he aha te kākahu hei kakahu mō te hui kawhe, tukua mātou kia āwhina i a koe. Kāore he kākahu "tika" mō te hui kawhe. He tika tāu i pānui ai. Ko te mea pai mō tēnei momo hui ko te iti o te whakapau kaha ki te whakamahere. Me kakahu noa i tētahi mea e rite ana ki tō āhua, ā, me auaha ki ētahi whakapaipai māmā – e tino mōhio ana mātou ka ātaahua tō āhua!

Ngā whakaaro mō ngā wāhine:

• Ka taea e koe te whitiki i ō tarau tīni noa me tētahi tihi ātaahua me te kaki ataahua, ā, kua rite koe.
• He pai hoki tētahi kākahu iti ātaahua, mena he mea e pai ai koe ki te mau.
• He pai ngā tarau rinena me ngā rekereke teitei mēnā kei te tūtaki koe ki tētahi i te rā wiki i mua atu, i muri rānei i te mahi.
• Whakamātauria ngā hāte whatu, ngā koti roa rānei kua honoa ki ngā tarau tīni me ngā pūtu mō te rā hotoke whakamarie

Ngā whakaaro mō ngā tāne:

• Ka ātaahua te āhua o te tangata i roto i te hāte poto-ringa e piri ana ki roto i ngā tarau, i ngā tarau tīni rānei.
• He pai te tīhāte kaki porowhita me ngā tarau oma, ngā tarau tiini rānei mō tētahi rā noa
• Kākahuria he koti mēnā kei te pirangi koe ki tētahi mea ātaahua

6. Kāore e hiahiatia kia tino matatini rawa

He mea pai tonu kia whakarite mō ngā mea kino rawa atu ka pā mai i te wā tuatahi o te rā. He tino tūponotanga kāore ō kōrua kare ā-roto e ōrite, ā, ka haere tonu pea tō hoa ki te kōrero mō ngā mea kāore koe e aro nui ana ki ai. Mena he rite koe ki ahau, ko te noho tahi me tētahi e kōrero ana mō ngā paināporo i runga i tā rātou pīta mō te hawhe haora ka ngana koe ki te pehi i te 30 hāmama.

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Mena kei te haere koe i tētahi rā tuatahi whakahirahira e uru ana ki te kai reka, ki tētahi atu mea whakahirahira rānei, tikanga o te whakaipoipo ka tono kia noho koe i te wā kai/wheako katoa – he mea tino mamae mena kei te whakapataritari te tangata kē atu i a koe. Koia tonu te take he pai rawa atu ngā wā kawhe hei wā tuatahi. He ngāwari te hopu kawhe, he tere te wareware, ā, ka hoatu he wā ki a koe ki te hanga i tētahi take me te oma mena he moe te wā.

7. Ka taea e koe te tono neke atu i te kotahi me te kore e haurangi

Ki te pai ake te haere o te rā i tāu i tumanako ai, ka taea e koe te tono i tētahi atu kapu ka whakapau moni anō. wā kounga me tō hoaEhara i te whakatau atamai te whai i te whakaaro kotahi i tētahi pā, i tētahi pae inu rānei i tētahi rā tuatahi, ā, koinei te wāhi e pai ake ai te rā kawhe i ētahi atu whakaaro. Anei te take:

• Tuatahi, kāore koe e hiahia kia pōuriuri te rā, āe? Me maumahara koe ki ngā kōrero a tēnei tangata mōna ake kia taea ai e koe te whakatau mō te tūtaki anō ki a ia.
• Me noho mārire hoki koe i roto i ō taunekeneke i te wā tuatahi o te rā. Ehara i te mea whakaaro nui te whakaatu i tō āhua haurangi ki tētahi tauhou i te wā tuatahi o te hui! E hiahia ana koe kia angitu tēnei rā, kaua hei tangi mō tō hoa o mua, tika?

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8. Ka taea e koe te whakakakahu i ngā wā katoa o te rā

"Kei te wātea koe mō te kawhe āpōpō?" "Āe, he pai te 12 mōu?" Ā, koinei te ngāwari o te whakarite i tēnei rā. Ki te tonoa koe kia haere ki te kawhe, kāore koe e hiahia ki tētahi huringa nui ki tō kaupapa mahi kia uru atu ai. Te mohio He painga anō tō te tangata e inu kawhe tere ana:

• Ka taea e koe te inu kawhe i ngā wā katoa o te rā
• Ka taea e koe te whakarite i tēnei rā i waenganui o te mahi mēnā he tangata pukumahi koe, kāore hoki he wā mō te ao pāpori.
• Kāore he mōrearea o te mate pāwera mena he rā nui kei mua i a koe
• Kāore tēnei rā e pā ki tō kaupapa mahi nā te mea he poto, he ātaahua hoki ngā rā i te nuinga o te wā i te wharekai.

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9. Kāore i te tino mōhio mēnā he rā whakatā? Tūtaki mō te kawhe

Nga tohu whakauru He uaua rawa te whakatau i te tangata e arohaina ana e koe, ā, ka puta he raruraru i roto i tō hinengaro. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te moumou taima me tō kaha ki tētahi tangata e whakaaro noa ana koe he hoa. Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki ō wawata aroha me tētahi tangata kua roa koe e aroha ana, ko te wāhi pai hei tūtaki ki a rātou ko tētahi wharekai. I te wā e poroporoaki ana koe, tera pea kua mārama ake koe ki tō tūnga ki a rātou – me te kore e māharahara ki te noho tahi me tētahi kāore e aro ki a koe.

10. Tērā pea ka arahi atu ki tētahi mea aroha!

Ahakoa he āhua noa te hui kawhe, kāore e mutu i reira. Ki te pai koe ki tō rātou āhua, ā, he pai hoki te kōrero ki a rātou, ka taea e koe te noho roa mō tētahi atu mahi. Akene ka haere kōrua ki te hikoi aroha i muri mai, ka mātakitaki tahi i te tōnga o te rā, ka kai tahi rānei. Mā te hui kawhe ka taea te arahi i tētahi o ngā hui tuatahi pai rawa atu o tō oranga.

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Ngā Mea Hei Whakaaroaro Ina Whakaritea He Rā Kawhe

He pono, nā ngā painga kua whakahuatia ake nei kua whakatenatena i a koe ki te whiriwhiri i tētahi hui kawhe ina tūtaki tuatahi koe ki a rātou. Ka tono koe i a rātou ki te haere ki tētahi hui kawhe, ka whakaae rātou. He māmā noa iho, tika? Ae. Engari he iti noa ngā momo kawhe. ngā tohutohu mō te rā hei maumahara i te wā e whakarite ana i tētahi rā.

1. Whakamāramahia te wāhanga 'rā'

He mahi noa te hui kawhe, kāore i te herea ki ngā whanaungatanga aroha anake. Ka taea hoki te whakarite i waenga i ngā hoa, i ngā hoa mahi, i ngā kaupapa pakihi rānei. Nō reira, ina tono atu ki tētahi tangata, ki te kore rānei, me mārama he rā aroha tēnei. 

Ka taea e koe te whakamārama māmā noa iho, hei tauira, "Kia kotahi ai tā tāua whakaaro, he rā tēnei, tika?" Ki te hiahia rānei koe kia ātaahua, ka taea e koe te kī i tētahi mea whakakatakata pēnei i te, "Kāore au i te whakapono he takakau tētahi kōtiro ātaahua pēnei i a koe, ko taku tumanako ka taea e au te whakarerekē i tēnā😉"

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2. Kōwhiria te wāhi tika

He mea nui te whiriwhiri i te wāhi tika, nā te mea ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatakoto i te wairua tika mō tō rā. Anei ētahi mea hei whakaaroaro māu i te wā e whiriwhiri ana koe i te wāhi:

• Te Tata: Kōwhiria he wāhi e tata ana, e watea ana hoki mō kōrua 
• Kaua e haere ki ngā wharekai pukumahi – Mō te rā tuatahi, whiriwhiria he wāhi marino kia pai ake ai te rere o te kōrero. Engari i te wā kotahi, kaua e whiriwhiri i tētahi wāhi tino mokemoke nā te mea he mea nui te haumaru i ngā rā tuatahi.
• Whakaarohia te hiahia o tō hoa – ki te mea he tangata aroha pukapuka ia, he pai te whare pukapuka mōna, engari he pai te whare ngeru mō te hunga aroha ki ngā mōkai.

3. Kōwhiria he wā tika

Ko te tikanga, ka whakawhirinaki tēnei ki ō kaupapa mahi me te mea kei te haere koe i te wiki, i te mutunga wiki rānei. Engari i te nuinga o te wā, he pai ake ngā ata me ngā ahiahi mō ngā hui kawhe nā te mea he nui te kawhe. Waihoki, ki te whakatau koe ki te tūtaki i muri i te tina, ka hoatu he wā ki a koe ki te whakamahere i tētahi mea mō te ahiahi mēnā ko te ka pai te haere o te rā.

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4. Roanga

Ka roa pea te wā kawhe i waenganui i te hawhe haora ki te 3-4 haora. Ki te kore koe e rongo i te hononga ki te tangata, ka hiahia koe ki te wehe atu i te mutunga o tāu kawhe, engari ki te tere haere te kōrero, e kore koe e kite i te tere o te wā. I te nuinga o te wā, he nui te wā kotahi, e rua rānei hāora mō te kawhe, ā, ki te kore koe e hiahia ki te wehe, ka taea e koe te kai i tētahi kai, te haere rānei ki tētahi pae inu, i runga i te wā me te wairua.

5. Kākahu

I te rā tuatahi, tera pea ka hiahia koe ki te whakapau kaha miharo tō hoaEngari kia maumahara he mahi noa te hui kawhe. Nō reira, kaua e kakahuria he mea whakapaipai rawa, he mea rahi rawa rānei. Anei ētahi whakaaro mō ngā kākahu kawhe ka taea e koe te whiriwhiri i runga i tō momo kāhua.

•  He tihi ataahua me te remu roa
• He kakahu raumati rerehua
• He hāte pai e honoa ana ki ngā tarau/tāniu

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6. Whakaritea ētahi kaupapa i mua i te wā

Ko te kaupapa matua o te hui kawhe he kōrerorero, kāore he mea hei whakararuraru. Nō reira, me pau ngā mea hei kōrero, me noho puku noa iho. Kaua e manukanuka, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakamahere i te kōrerorero katoa. Kia tīmata koe ki te kōrero, kia rongo hoki i te hononga ki te tangata, ka rere pai te kōrero. Heoi anō, ka taea e koe te whakaaro tahi me ētahi atu. kamata korero i mua i te wā hei tīmata i ngā mea. Kei roto i ēnei kaupapa:

• Te oranga ngaio
• Runaruna
• Ngā Whakauru
• Nga whainga oranga
• Kōrero kōhungahunga

7. Kia whai rautaki putanga

Kāore i te tino whaimana te hui kawhe, he rerekē i te hui tina, nō reira, he māmā ake te wehe atu. Mēnā ka tīmata te ahua kino, te ahua koretake rānei o te hui mō tētahi take, ka taea e koe te wehe atu, ā, me haere atu anō hoki. Ā, ki te rite koe ki ahau, ka uaua ki te rapu whakamārama i te wā tonu. Nō reira, he pai ki te whakarite i tētahi i mua. Tērā pea he mea ngāwari noa iho, pēnei i:

• Aroha mai, kei te toro mai taku hoa ki te tāone i tēnei rā, nō reira me haere ahau.
• He mea ngahau te tūtaki ki a koe engari me haere au ki te mahi i tētahi mahi
• I tino pai taku wā engari me haere ahau inaianei kia tae atu ki tētahi wā whakarite

Te pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te oma atu i tētahi rā kino

Ngā Tikanga mō te Rā Kawhe: Ngā Mea hei Maumahara 

Mai i te whakakakahu nui rawa mō tētahi rā whakatā noa ki te maringi o tētahi inu, ka hē pea ngā rā whakatā i roto i ngā huarahi maha. Engari kaua rawa e tirohia e mātou. Ahakoa kei te haere koe ki te rā whakatā kawhe me tō hoa tāne, hoa wahine rānei, Whakataetae Tinder Ki te mea ko tō kōrua wā tuatahi tēnei ki te tūtaki, kei a mātou ētahi tohutohu pai mō te wā kawhe hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatere tere.

Ā, ko te tohutohu tuatahi, he pai te noho noa i te wā kawhe aroha, engari kaua e tino marino, kei pohehetia tō wairua marino he kore hiahia. Kāore he tangata e pai ki te noho mangere! Nō reira, ki te karangatia koe ki te haere ki te kawhe, ki te whakaaro rānei koe ki te whakapau i tēnei Rāhoroi ki te inu kawhe me tētahi hoa, e hiahia ana mātou kia tino angitu koe!

1. Kia taima

Kia tae tonu ki te wā tika i ō rā tuatahi kia pai ai te wā mana'o tikaIna hoki, kia wawe te wā kia kitea ai e koe he tēpu pai, kia noho ai, kia tirohia ai hoki te tahua hei whakatau i tāu ota. Ka hoatu hoki he wā ki a koe ki te whakangā me te whakamarie i ō manukanuka i te wā tuatahi.

2. Kia atawhai ki ngā kaimahi

He tino ātaahua te atawhai me te ngākau māhaki. Ā, kāore koe e hiahia kia whakakino i te āhua o tō hoa mā te riri, te pōuri rānei. Inaa, kāore tēnei tohutohu e herea noa ki ngā hoa tuatahi. Me ngana tonu koe ki te ngākau māhaki ki ngā kaimahi ahakoa te kaupapa me te kamupene.

3. Tukua kia utua ngā inu

Ahakoa tō ira tangata, me tuku atu koe ki te utu mō ngā inu. He tohu tēnei he tangata atawhai koe, he hinengaro tuwhera hoki. He tohu anō hoki tēnei kei te aro nui koe ki te tangata, ā, kāore i haere mai mō te kawhe kore utu anake.

Te pānui e pā ana: Ko wai me utu i te wā e whakatau ana - tāne, wāhine rānei?

4. Puritia tō waea ki tahaki

Koinei tētahi o ngā tikanga matua o te whakaipoipo. I haere mai koe ki te whakaipoipo kia noho tahi ai koe me te tangata, kia pai ake ai tō mōhio ki a ia. Nō reira, whakawetohia tō waea, ā, kia tino uru atu ki te kōrero. Ki te kore, he aha rawa te take o te tono atu ki a ia kia haere tahi? 

5. Kaua e roa rawa te wā e whakatau ana i tāu ota

He tino roa te wā e pau ana ki te tuku i tāu ota kawhe. Mena he tangata pai koe ki te kawhe, he wāhi noa rānei tō wharekai i whiriwhiria e koe, me haere noa me tāu inu tino pai. Engari kaua e hē te tono i te inu mā tō hoa. I tētahi atu taha, ki te kore koe e tino pai ki te kawhe, ā, ko te ngā āwangawanga o te rā tuatahi kei te uaua ake māu te whakatau i tāu whakatau, hei hoa mō ngā taunakitanga (mēnā kua tae rātou ki te wharekai i mua), ki te kore, pātai atu ki te kaimahi. Ahakoa he aha tāu e mahi ai, kaua e tukua te tukanga tono kia hipa i tō hoa.  

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Hei Whakarite

He whakaaro pai te hui kawhe tuatahi mēnā kei te rapu koe i tētahi mea ngāwari, ngāwari rānei. He pai hoki mō te hunga whakama, e mataku ana rānei i te hui tuatahi. Kia maumahara ki te noho ko koe anō, kia māia hoki, ā, he tino whai wāhi pai tēnei ki te whakanui ake i te ataahua o te kawhe i a koe e noho ana i tētahi hui kawhe whakamarie!

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