Te Kōrero mō te Haki Whero

Ko tētahi o ngā tohu nui o tētahi whanaungatanga kino ko te kore whakaute. Ki te kore tō hoa e mārama ki ō hiahia, ki ō matea, ki ngā tāngata e whai tikanga ana ki a koe, ki ō mahi o ia rā, me ō herenga ngaio, koinei te wā ka kitea te kore whakaute i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Ahakoa he maha ngā wā he iti noa te whakaute i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ko te mea pono, ki te kore taua whakaute, kāore e taea te hanga hononga hauora i waenganui i te tokorua.

Me pēhea te noho pai me te harikoa i te tikanga tūturu? Ko tētahi huarahi hei whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto kino me te whakatipu i te pai tūturu ko te whakaharatau i te whakawhetai. Whakapaua he wā i ia rā ki te whakawhetai mēnā e hiahia ana koe ki ngā whakaū pai i te wā kāore koe i te pai. Ko tētahi atu taputapu āwhina ko te hiahia nui ki te mōhio. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio ki te ao e karapoti ana i a koe, ki tō ahurea, tae atu ki a wai koe hei tangata, ka tipu tonu koe i ngā hiahia me ngā mahi whakangahau hou hei whakawhānui ake i ō tirohanga.

Ka taea hoki e ēnei whainga te whakautu ki te whakaaro pai ina pouri ana koe. Mena kei te e pa ana ki te pouri Ahakoa te manukanuka, te kimi i tētahi mahi whakangahau, i tētahi kaupapa e ngākau nui ana koe, i tētahi mea rānei e nui atu ana i a koe hei punga pai.

Ehara i te mea he mea pai tonu te whakaaro pai. Ae, kua pānuihia e koe taua pānui. Ina akiakihia te whakaaro o te tangata mō te mea pai me te mea hihiri, ka huri hei whakaaro pai kino. Hei mārama ki te rerekētanga i waenga i ngā mea e rua, me mōhio koe ki te hinengaro pai kino me tōna mahi. Ko te whakaaro pai he mea e whiriwhiria e koe māu ake. Ka puta mai i roto.

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Ko te pai o te wairua paitini, i tētahi atu taha, he mea akiaki. Ko tētahi o ngā tauira pai o te pai o te wairua paitini ko te whakataurite i te hinengaro pai ki tētahi atu, ki a koe anō rānei. Ko te kī ki te wehe atu i tēnei huringa o te pai o te wairua paitini ko te whai mahi, te whai whakaaro nui me te whai whakaaro nui, me te whakaae kāore koe e hiahia kia pai tonu te wairua. Ki te kore, ehara i te tohu kei te pōuri koe, kei te ngoikore rānei.

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Ka taea e te roa rawa o te wā e noho ana i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori te whakararuraru. I kitea nuitia atu tēnei tauira i te wā i tīmata ai te pānga kino o te doomscrolling ki te hauora hinengaro o te tangata i te wā tino nui o te mate urutā COVID-19. Ko tētahi huarahi māmā hei ārai i tēnei ko te okioki i ngā pāpāho pāpori me te wā mata i ia wā, i ia wā.

Haere atu ki waho ka hikoi i ngā mahi tawhito, whakarongo ki ngā waiata, tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi ki te tangata i roto i te ao tūturu, ā, whakakitea ki tētahi te nui o tō aroha mō rātou. Kāore e taea te rongo i te mahana o ngā whanaungatanga e arohaina ai tātou, e haumaru ai, e manaakihia ai tātou mā te mata.

Me whakaatu rānei he kanohi harikoa i roto i te wāhi tūmatanui mēnā kei te pouri koe ki tō hoa? Kua pāngia tātou katoa e tēnei raruraru i tētahi wā, i tētahi wā rānei. Ko te menemene me te whakaari he mahi noa iho te mea tino uaua ina pupuhi ana koe i roto i a koe. Ko te huarahi kē atu – arā, ko te whakaatu i ō kakahu paru ki te aroaro o te iwi – ehara i te mea pai ake. Nō reira, me aha koe? Ko te huarahi pai mō te hunga katoa e whai wāhi ana ko te kaua e whakanoho i a koe ki tētahi āhuatanga e hiahia ana koe kia noho hei putanga rūpahu o koe anō. Au

mēnā kua karangatia koe ki tētahi huihuinga pāpori engari tautohe whanaungatanga Nā te pakanga rānei ki tō hoa rangatira kua waiho koe i roto i te hinengaro pōuri e hiahia ana koe ki te whakahoahoa me te whakawhanaunga, me kī noa "kāo". He aha koe ka mau ai i te ahotea kāore pea e taea e koe te kawe, ka whakanoho i a koe ki tētahi āhuatanga ka whakanui noa i te kino kei roto i a koe?

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