Ehara i te mea ngāwari te whakataurite i ngā tumanakohanga, ina koa mēnā he tumanakohanga nō tō whaea me tō wahine. Hei whakatau i te raruraru o te whaea mutunga kore me te wahine, ka huri ahau hei kaitātari, ka wehewehe i ōku rā i roto i te wiki ki waenganui i ngā whare e toru, kia noho hei tama pai, hei tāne pai, hei matua pai hoki.
E whakapono ana taku wahine, ahakoa kua moe tāne, me whakatutuki e ia tāne me ia wahine o ēnei rā ā rātou kawenga ki ō rātou mātua. Engari he ngāwari ake te kī atu i te mahi. Kāore he hungawai e pai ana ki te whakaaro kei te aro tonu te wahine marena o tā rātou tama ki ōna mātua i ngā hiahia o tā rātou tama utu nui. I roto hoki i tōku whānau, i puta he pakanga i waenganui i te wahine me te whaea. Nō reira, me pēhea taku whakahaere i te whakamarie i te whaea me te wahine? Pānuihia kia kitea ai.
Me pēhea te whakataurite i te wahine me te whaea
Ripanga o Ihirangi
I ngā tau tuatahi o te marena, i whakatau māua ka noho tahi māua hei tokorua i ngā wiki mutunga anake. I te toenga o te wiki ka tūtaki māua, kātahi ka hoatu he wā ki ō māua mātua, ka noho ki a rāua. Te āhua nei ko te huarahi tino pai tēnei hei karo i te raruraru marena.
I tētahi wā, i mahara ahau he porangi māua, engari i muri i ngā tau, ka mōhio ahau koinei te whakaaetanga pai rawa atu i mahia e māua, ahakoa ki tā māua tama, kia whakamahia ai te wā pai rawa atu i noho tahi ai māua, kia kore ai he tautohetohe me he riri, kia noho kore hara hoki mō te kawenga me te aroha ki ō māua mātua.
Kāore i taea e taku wahine, te tamaiti kotahi a ōna mātua e mate ana, te whakarere i a rāua, me te noho ki tōku kāinga hei wahine tuku iho. I mōhio ahau mai i te tīmatanga kāore ia e whakaae ki te anga o tōku whānau kei reira ngā wawata me ngā arai o te akomanga waenga, he mea noa iho, he mea Bengali. Nā tēnei i ara ake ai te raruraru o te whaea me te wahine.
I whakamātau ia mō tētahi wā, me te wehewehe i tōna wā i waenganui i tōku whare me tōna whare, engari tata kore rawa e taea i muri i te whānautanga o tā māua tama. Kāore hoki ahau i taea te whakarērea ōku mātua nā te mea kei waho o te tāone ōku tuākana (teina me te tuahine), ā, kāore e taea te tiaki i a rātou. He tino ātaahua hoki taku wahine ki ēnei herenga; i whakaaro ia mēnā ka tiaki ia i ōna mātua, ko taku mahi he noho ki te whare i hangaia e tōku pāpā. Nō reira, ka rere tonu tō mātou oranga whānau rerekē, ā, ka tiaki mātou i a rātou. tō mātou raruraru whaea me tō mātou wahine.
Ā, i pai ki a mātou ngā wāhanga katoa.
Pānui e pā ana: Ko tōku whaea e amuamu tonu ana mō tana hunaonga wahine mō te kore …
Ahakoa kua 15 tau māua e marena ana, te āhua nei he haerenga honimene tā māua i ia mutunga wiki!
E tino hiahia ana mātou katoa ki te neke ki tō mātou whare iti i ia Paraire, ki tō mātou kāinga mō te mutunga wiki. Ahakoa taku tama taiohi, e pai ana ki a ia hei wāhi okiokinga mutunga wiki. He maha ā mātou pātai ki a ia mēnā kei te pouri ia mō te korenga o pāpā e noho tahi me ia i ia pō. I tino mārama tana kī he pai ki a ia te noho ki te taha o ōna koroua me ōna kuia, ā, i kōrero anō hoki ia mō ngā hoa e haereere ana ō rātou pāpā mō te nuinga o te marama.
Ngā mihi ki taku tama me taku wahine 'rereke' e kite nei i te ngahau i roto i ngā mea katoa e kiia nei e tēnei hapori he mea rerekē, kāore au e whakama, e kua mau i roto i taku marena. Nā, me pēhea te whakataurite i te wahine me te whaea? Kōrerohia, ā, whakaarohia ngā otinga e pai ana māu. Kāore he āhuatanga kotahi e pai ana mō ngā āhuatanga katoa. Engari, ehara i te mea me hinga te tangata ki te tautohetohe me te pouri i roto i te ao.
Kāore au e whakakahore i ētahi pō i noho mokemoke ai ahau. Engari i mōhio tonu ahau he waea noa iho taku wahine. Ā, e kī ana taua wahine tauhou i roto i tōku ao he rite te kōrero i te waea ki te moe tahi i ētahi wā, ā, e pai ana ki a ia, pērā i tana mahi ki tētahi atu tāne.
Nā te mea ka puta te aroha i roto i te tāne, ehara i te tāne rangatira Inia noa. Mō taku whaea e mate ana, e harikoa ana ia kei te noho tonu tētahi o āna tamariki. Koinei te momo tautoko e hiahiatia ana e ngā mātua katoa i ō rātou kaumātuatanga.
Pānui e pā ana: Me nui te pono kia angitu ai te whanaungatanga tawhiti
Me pēhea te whakatau i te raruraru o te whaea me te wahine?
Me whakatau koe i ō kaupapa matua me ō hoa aroha, ā, me mahi koe i tō ara ki te karo i aua kaupapa. Tērā pea ka huri ngā whakapono me ētahi whakarerekētanga. Engari, i te mea kei a koe te aroha o tō ora i tō taha, ka huri katoa ngā ārai hei puehu.
Kāore au i whakapono ki te ariā o te whānau karihi, engari i tēnei ao hou, kāore e taea te whakaaro rerekē.
Kua whakaritea e mātou tā mātou ake whakaritenga whānau mō te mutunga wiki, e whiwhi ai te tamaiti i te harikoa o te noho tahi me ōna koroua me ōna kuia, e noho harikoa ana mātou me te mea he hoa aroha. He haumaru te noho a ō tātou mātua kei a rātou tātou i ia hikoinga, ā, ka noho tātou i roto i ngā whare i hanga e rātou mā ō rātou werawera me ō rātou toto.
"He mea nui te whakatakoto i ngā rohe hauora hei pupuri i te whanaungatanga pai ki tō whaea me tō wahine."
Kāore e kore, kāore i pai ki tōku whānau whānui tēnei whakaritenga, ā, he tokomaha i pātai mai mēnā kua whakarerea ahau, mēnā rānei kua whakarērea ahau e taku wahine nā te raruraru whaea me te wahine. Ko taku wahine te kaiwhiwhi o te raruraru. whakahē tonuKāore au i ngana ki te whakamārama i tētahi mea ki tētahi, nā te mea kāore au i whakaaro me whakamārama e au ki tētahi. E mōhio ana au kāore e taea te mārama ki ētahi mea mēnā kāore te tangata e mātakitaki ana i aua mea.
Ā, ki tētahi wāhi, e whakapono ana ahau kei te mau tonu ā mātou menemene ahakoa ngā wero maha, nā te mea i whiriwhiria e mātou kia noho hei 'whānau mutunga wiki' kaua ki te titiro noa ki ngā whanaungatanga.
Pānui e pā ana: E ono ngā huarahi ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakatutuki i te taurite mahi-oranga
FAQs
Ka kōrero koe ki a rāua tokorua, ka ngana ki te kimi i te taurite. Me mōhio koe, tāu wahine, me tō whaea ki ngā mea nui, me te mahi i ngā whakarerekētanga. Kāore e āwhina ngā tautohetohe iti me ngā hamama. Engari ka āwhina ngā kōrero whakaaro nui, mārire hoki mō ngā hiahia o te katoa.
Ngā mea e rua. Nā tō whaea koe i whānau, ā, nāna koe i tiaki i tō oranga katoa. Ko tō hoa rangatira tō hoa wahine, tō hoa aroha, tētahi i whiriwhiria e koe hei hoa mōu. Nō reira, he mea nui rāua tokorua, me ō rāua kare ā-roto me ō rāua hiahia.
Me matua noho tō whaea me tō wahine i roto i tō kōrua ao. Mēnā he taupatupatu pānga, mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hauora ka āwhina i te whakatau me te whakatau i ngā hiahia me ngā whakaaro o te katoa, ā, ka taea e kōrua te whakatau i tā kōrua huarahi mahi.
Thoughts Final
Ko te whakataurite i ngā hiahia o tō whaea me tō wahine me whai whakaaro nui, me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera, me te whakapau kaha ki te pupuri i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora me te whakaute ki a rāua tokorua. Mā te whakatairanga i te tiaki i a koe anō me te rapu tohutohu ngaio ina hiahiatia ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatere i ēnei āhuatanga uaua me te hanga i tētahi oranga whānau kaha, whai hua hoki. Ā mātou kaitohutohu whakaratohia he wāhi haumaru, he wāhi tautoko hoki hei tūhura i ō āwangawanga, hei whakawhanake i ngā rautaki whakawhitiwhiti kōrero whai hua, me te hanga hononga kaha ake ki tō whaea me tō hoa wahine.
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He whakaritenga whakamiharo, ahakoa he rerekē. Ā, he tino pai tāu whakaahuatanga.