Ehara te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena i te kupu whakapoauau e tika ana kia wehi koe. He maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e oho ake ana i te whakaaro tonu ki tēnei. Tērā pea nā te mea he rite ki te whakaaetanga whaimana, kaua ki te whakawhitiwhiti aroha. He āhua whakamataku noa iho kei roto i te kupu.
Heoi, he tawhiti rawa ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena. Ahakoa te āhua nei kei te tahae i te kare ā-roto o te marena, he rite tonu ki te kupenga haumaru. Ā, he mea pai ngā kupenga haumaru. Ahakoa he wheako ataahua, he wheako whakaharikoa hoki te marena, he kirimana here ture anō hoki. Nā te mea he pūtake i roto i te aroha me te ngākau aroha, ehara i te mea he nui aua mea hei pupuri i te haere tonu.
E kore te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena e whakakore i te aroha o tō kōrua marena, kia māia. Nō reira, kaua ō whakaaro mō te marena e waiho hei mea kino katoa. Tērā pea ka puta he whakahē, ka puta hoki he whakakitenga. Tērā pea he uaua te tukanga. Heoi, he pai te kupenga haumaru ka whakaratohia e ia mō te wā roa.
Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe ki te tiki i tētahi i mua i tō kī "Ae", tera pea ētahi pātai āu mō tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena, pēnei i: He aha ngā mea me tono e koe i roto i tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena? He aha ngā mea e tiakina ana e tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena? Ka tiakina e tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena ngā rawa o muri mai? Me te rōia mātau Tahini Bhushan, he tohunga ki ngā mahi tutu ā-ira tangata me ngā mahi whakatoi ā-ira tangata, me aro atu tātou ki ēnei āwangawanga katoa i tēnei rā.
Whakamāramatanga o ngā Whakaaetanga i mua i te Marena
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I mua i tā tātou whakautu me te mārama ki ngā mea e tika ana kia tonoa e te wahine i roto i te marena, me te take rānei me haina e te tāne tētahi whakaaetanga marena, me mārama tātou he aha te tikanga o tēnei pepa. Ko te whakaaetanga marena, e mōhiotia whānuitia ana ko te 'marena', he whakaaetanga ture kua hainatia e te tokorua i mua i te marena. I ētahi wā ka kiia hoki ko te Whakaaetanga Marena hei āwhina i te tangata waiho marietia te marena.
Heoi, kāore tēnei tuhinga e tautuhi ana i ngā mahi kāinga, ngā kawenga, e whakautu ana rānei i ngā pātai uaua māu pēnei i te "Ki te whare o ō wai mātua ka haere tātou ki te whakanui i te Kirihimete?" Ahakoa he mea pai kia whai pepa hei whakatau i aua whakatau mā tātou, ka hipokina e tēnei tuhinga ētahi āhuatanga whānui ake, nui atu hoki o te marena.
E kī ana a Tahini ki a tātou, "Ko ngā kirimana marena hou he kirimana ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakauru i mua i te herenga o te here. E whakawhirinaki ana ēnei kirimana ki te mea, mēnā ka wehe, ka wehe rānei rāua, ka āwhina tēnei kirimana i a rāua ki te whakahaere pai ake i taua mea. I te nuinga o te wā, he nui ngā rawa o ngā taha e rua i mua i te urunga ki te marena. Nō reira, me āta whakaaro rāua ki te tiaki i a rāua anō, mēnā kāore rāua e noho tahi anō ā muri ake nei."
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He aha ngā mea e tiakina ana e te whakaaetanga marena i mua i te marena? He maha ngā uauatanga o ngā taonga pēnei i ngā rawa, ngā rawa, tae atu ki ngā tika o ngā tamariki mēnā ka puta he whakarere, he wehenga, he matenga ohorere rānei. Mā te hainatanga i te whakaaetanga marena ka māmā ake te whakahaere i ēnei āhuatanga taumaha.
E whakahuatia ana i roto i tēnei kirimana whaimana te whakawhiti mana, te whakawhiti moni, te wehewehenga o ngā rawa i waenganui i te tokorua mēnā ka wehe, ka mate rānei. Ko te kaupapa o tēnei whakarāpopototanga he āwhina i ngā mea kia tika, kia māmā ake hoki. Kua whakaaetia, kua tohua hoki ō tūranga pūtea ki roto i tēnei tuhinga.
I te wā o te whakarere, ka taea e ō tātou kare ā-roto, ā tātou manukanuka me ā tātou amuamu te wikitoria i ō tātou kare ā-roto. Kia tika ai te tukanga, ka whiriwhiri ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te haina i ēnei whakaaetanga me te whakatau wawe i ngā mea ka pā ki ā rātou taonga i mua i te wehenga. He mea tika te mahi, kāore? Engari he aha ngā mea me tono e koe i roto i te marena tuatahi? Pānuihia tonu…
He whakaaro pai te whakarite i tētahi marena hou?
He mea tino whai hua ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena hei whakapau i tō wā me tō kaha ki roto. Ahakoa te āhua whakamataku o te tangi, ehara i te mea he whiu mate. Engari, he tino whakaora i a koe, ā, tera pea ka mihi koe ki a ia ā muri ake nei.
Ehara i te mea ko te marena he hononga o ngā hoa aroha e rua anake, engari he hononga anō hoki o ā rāua taonga. Mēnā koinā, ka tiakina e ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena ngā taonga o muri mai e whakaaro ana kōrua ki te hanga tahi, ngā taonga rānei kua mauria kētia e kōrua ki roto i te marena. Me whakarite pai tēnei taonga i mua i te ruku tika atu ki tētahi herenga roa ki tētahi atu tangata.
Nā, me titiro tātou ki te pātai, he aha ngā mea e tiakina ana e te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena?
He whakautu ngāwari ki taua pātai: Ko te tikanga, he tiaki i a koe.
Ahakoa he rawa whakapaipai, he taonga kua riro mai, he whare rānei, mā te marena mua koe e tiaki i a koe mai i ngā kēmu pakanga ture me ngā kēmu whakamate. He kōwhiringa tika tonu te marena mua mō te iwi o te Hononga o Amerika. I whakaaetia whānuitia i te tau 1983. Ture Whakaaetanga i mua i te Marenatanga Kotahi.
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He pai te whiwhi i tētahi marena hou?
He maha ngā painga o te marena ā-mua, engari he pai anō hoki te tirotiro i ngā ngoikoretanga o taua marena. He pai te marena ā-mua? Tirohia te ripanga i raro nei, ā, māu e whakatau.
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| 1. He hua mō te whanaungatanga whānui: Ka kawea mai e ngā marena mua te wairua o te pakeketanga me te kawenga. He aroha, he aroha nui rānei ngā kare ā-roto o te aroha ka taea te kawe i te tangata ki te ao whānui, engari he mea āwhina tonu te kōrero hauora mō ngā take moni | 1. Tērā pea ka mataku, ka pōuri hoki tō hoa: Ā, ko te mea kino rawa atu, ka puta ake ngā raruraru whakawhirinaki. Tērā pea kāore tō hoa e pai ki te kōrero katoa mō te hainatanga o te marena, ā, ka pātai pea koe ki ō whakaaro mō te noho tahi. |
| 2. Te tiaki i ngā tamariki: Mena kei te kawe mai koe i ngā tamariki ki te marena, kei te tino tumanako rānei koe mō rātou ā muri ake nei, he mea pai kia hainatia he kirimana marena mua. | 2. He utu nui te utu i tētahi rōia: Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe he haumitanga kuware te kimi rōia māu hei āwhina i a koe ki te tuhi i tētahi tono marena hou. |
| 3. Whakangawari i te tukanga whakarere: Ko tētahi o ngā painga o te marena tuatahi ko te penapena i te nui o te wā me te kaha i roto i te wā e wehe ai te wahine. Mena kua oti pai te whakarite i ngā mea katoa i roto i te marena tuatahi, ka tere, ka iti hoki te utu o te whakarere a muri ake nei. | 3. Kāore ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e whakaaroaro nui ana ki tēnei mea: He maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e haina ana i te marena i te wā e aroha nui ana rātou, ā, kāore e tono tika ana mō ō rātou hiahia. Ka ara ake pea tēnei i ngā tautohe ā muri ake nei ina puta he whakarere tūturu. |
He tokomaha ake te hunga e whiriwhiri ana ki te moe tāne i mua i te marena
I ēnei rā, ka āta haere te iwi te whakaroa i ā rātou marena ki ngā wāhanga o muri mai o ō rātou oranga. Kei te whai mana ngā mahi. Ina riro i ngā mahi te urungi, ka riro i a rātou te tūnga matua o te pumau pūtea, te mana motuhake me te whiwhi taonga. Nā te mea kua mōhio ake te iwi ki te whakahaere i ā rātou pūtea, he pai ake kia mōhio rātou me pēhea te pupuri me te whakarerekē i aua mea.
He tohu nui ngā whakaaetanga i mua i te marena i runga i ngā huringa o te wā. Hei tauira, me kī kua riro mai i a koe tētahi whare whānau i Hamptons. Kua roa te whare e noho ana i roto i tō whānau. Ahakoa kāore koe e toro atu ana ki te whare, he whare tawhito, he tata ki a koe, ā, e tere piki haere ana te uara moni.
Hei take mō te tautohe, me kī atu ka wehe kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira, ā, ka whai mana rāua ki te whare. Mēnā rānei ka mate kōrua, ka riro te whare i tō hoa rangatira. Tērā pea ka moe anō rāua, ā, kāore e kitea te uara o te kāinga. Engari ko te whānau tata, ka noho tō kāinga whānau ki raro i te mana o tētahi hoa rangatira o mua.
Tērā pea ka hokona atu e rātou, he kino atu rānei, ka whakatuwherahia he toa aihikirīmi hei whakakapi. Inaianei, kāore koe e harikoa ki tētahi o aua āhuatanga. Kāore hoki tō whānau e harikoa. Tiakina te mamae, hainatia he marena, ā, hiritia te heke mai o te kāinga. Nō reira, ka kite koe i te whakaaetanga marena e tiaki ana i tō rawa, pērā i te whakaaetanga noho tahi.
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He aha ngā whakaritenga mō tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena e whai mana ana?
Ahakoa te āhua whakamā, ehara te marena i te whakaū taha kotahi i ō tika me ō hiahia. He whakaaetanga tonu tēnei e puta mai ana i te kōrero whānui, te māramatanga me te whakaaetanga i waenganui i te tokorua e hiahia ana ki te marena i tētahi rā.
Kāore e taea e koe te haere noa ki roto i tētahi rūma me ō tono kua pania ki te pepa kua ki tonu i te mangumangu, me te tumanako ka whakarongo tō hoa. He aha ngā mea e tika ana kia tonoa e te tāne i roto i te marena? Hei wahine, he aha ētahi o ngā tono e hiahia ana koe ki te whakapuaki i roto i te marena? Anei ētahi huarahi rautaki hei whakarite mō tētahi whakaaetanga marena whai mana:
1. He aha te momo rōia e hiahiatia ana e au mō tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena?
Kāo, kāore mātou e whakarite ana i a koe mō te pakanga. Kāore te marena i te rite te uaua ki te whakarere, engari he roa, he mahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero anō hoki. He pai ake mēnā he rōia tō ia rōpū e mahi tahi ana me rātou. Me whai rōia koe e mōhio ana ki te tuhi marena, he wheako rānei ki taua mea. Kāore te tukanga i te tino uaua engari he pai ake te tangata whai mātauranga pai mō taua mea.
Āe, he āhua wehewehe tēnei e whakaiti ana i te harikoa i mua i te marena. Heoi anō, ka taea e te harikoa te whakamāmā i ētahi mahi whaihua. I ētahi wā he rite tonu te hiranga o te marena i mua i te marena ki te hoko ngā koha marena mō te pō tuatahi mo to tane.
E kī ana a Tahini, "Mēnā ka kōrerohia i mua i te marena me ngā rōia, ka māmā ake te mahi i te wā roa i mua i te wehenga. Ka whakaitihia te taumahatanga ki ngā kōti, ā, ka iti ake te utu mō te tukanga wehenga katoa ā muri ake nei. Ahakoa te nui o te moni whiwhi a ngā rōpū, ko te mea pai ko te haumi a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki tētahi rōia ināianei kia kore ai e roa te tukanga whakawakanga ā muri ake nei."
2. Whakatakotoria ō kāri katoa ki runga i te tēpu
Hei karo i te ngoikore rawa atu ā muri ake nei, me noho tahi koe, me te noho ngoikore i tēnei rā tonu. Me tino pono ngā taha e rua i tēnei tukanga, me te whakapuaki i ō rātou rawa me te whakaatu i te mana o ngā mea katoa. Tae atu ki ngā taonga tuku iho ka taea te tuku atu ki a koe ā muri ake nei, me whakaatu anō hoki. Ki te mea he tika tō māramatanga mō tō whanaungatanga, he pono, he whai hua hoki ō whakaaro mō te marena i mua i te marena.
3. Waihangahia he rārangi arowhai o ngā mea katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te aro atu ki tō marenatanga
Nāu ake ngā whakatau mō ō marena mua. Ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ngā mea maha, engari kaua e tino taumaha rawa. Te whakarite i te tautoko moni, te urunga atu ki ngā moni, te whakawhiti mana – kei a koe anake ēnei āwangawanga. Heoi anō, me aro atu ki ēnei āwangawanga i runga i te pūnaha.
He aha ngā mea e tika ana kia tonoa e te tāne i roto i te marena tuatahi? Mena he tamariki tā te tāne nō ngā marena o mua, me aro hoki te tāne ki te tohatoha moni mō ō rātou heke mai, ā, me waiho e ia ki tahaki. Mena kei te whakaaro koe ki te whānau tamariki ā muri ake nei, ka taea hoki te whakatau i ō rātou taonga tuku iho mā te marena tuatahi kua whakaarohia pai. Heoi, kāore he wāhi mō ngā whakataunga tiaki tamariki i konei. Kōrerohia te moni, kaua ko wai ka whiwhi i ngā tamariki i ngā wiki mutunga.
4. Whakaarohia hoki tōu heke mai
He mea nui anō hoki ngā mea e tonoa ana e koe i roto i te marena tuatahi, kaua e wareware ki te arotake. Ko te tika te mea e hangai ana ki ngā marena tuatahi, ā, tera pea ka pāngia koe e te mamae i ētahi wā. Kaua e tino apo, engari kaua hoki e tukua te aroha kia ārai i ō whakatau.
Nā, he aha ngā mea e tika ana kia tonoa e te wahine i roto i te marena tuatahi? Me whakaaro ia ki te tiaki i ana rawa, i tana pakihi mēnā he wahine mahi ia. Engari mēnā he kaitiaki kāinga ia, me aro atu ia ki te utu, ki te tautoko rānei māna ake. Me noho te marena tuatahi hei mahi taurite, kia taurite ai te aroha me te mahi. Kaua ngā whakaaro mō te marena tuatahi e uru ki te pakaru o te whanaungatanga ahakoa i mua i te tīmatanga o te whanaungatanga. Me tohu kei te whai whakaaro nui koe mēnā ka puta he wehenga. Koinā katoa.
E kī ana a Tahini, "He tino whakamā te kōrero mō te marena i mua i te marena, engari kei te rerekē haere ngā āhuatanga i ēnei rā. Kei te māia haere ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te kōrero pēnei, me te mārama hoki kāore ngā marena katoa e pumau tonu. Koia te take e harikoa haere ai te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te kōrero tahi me te kore whakahē."
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5. Kia mau ki te mana me te whakaute i te wā e whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ana
He rite te hiranga o te whakaae i roto i ngā marena mua ki te whakaae i hea atu. Whakaarohia te take e hiahiatia ai he marena mua. Ehara i te mea he kirimana noa iho hei tiaki i ngā mahi o tō oranga, hei ārai hoki. He wāhi noho tēnei mō tētahi tangata hou ki tō ao, hei whakatū hoki i te nui o te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te tohatoha. He manaaki te tohatoha, engari ehara te tohatoha i te tahae, i te karo rānei.
Kia iti te pēhanga i roto i ēnei wānanga, ā, kia āta tirohia hoki ō whakaaro te harikoa o te hoa me. Kua uru atu a Tākuta Dre, te kaiwaiata rap rongonui, ki tētahi āhuatanga kino, ā, e whakapae ana tana wahine i a ia mō te akiaki i a ia ki te marena. Ahakoa kāore e taea e mātou te kōrero mō te pono o aua kōrero, he mea tino pouri tēnei ka pā ki ō tūmanakohanga mō te heke mai i roto i te marena me te pakihi.
Kia pēhea te nui o te tiaki i a koe e te marena hou?
He hē te whakaaro ko te hunga whai rawa, whai rawa rānei te hunga e whai rawa ana, e whai rawa ana rānei, he pai anake te moe tāne i mua i te marena. E whakaarohia ana kāore e hiahiatia ana te whakahaere moni ōrite mō ngā pakihi iti, ngā whare o te akomanga waenga rānei. Heoi, he kōrero teka nui tēnā.
Ehara i te mea ka whakautua e te nui o tō pūkete putea te take e hiahiatia ai he marena hou. Ko te mea nui ko te nui o tō tupono ki te whakamātau i ngā mea ka taea e koe te whakamātau i roto i te hinengaro me te taha pūtea. Ko te marena, pērā i ngā mea katoa o te ao, kāore i te pumau. I te US, 40-50% o ngā marena ka mutu i te... whakarere.
Ka taea e te ao te huri wawe atu i tā tātou e whakaaro nei. I te wā kāore tātou e tino tumanako ka puta he mea nui, ka paheke noa iho ki raro i a tātou, ka taka tātou ki roto i ngā momo raruraru. Ka taea hoki e ngā marena te pēnei. Kāore tetahi e tomo ki te marena me te tumanako ka mutu, engari ko te mea pono, ka taea tonu. Ahakoa kāore e taea e te marena mua te whakaora i te mamae o te ngākau, ka taea e ia te tiaki i a koe mai i te mōrearea kino. te taupatupatu o te tahua.
1. Te tiaki i ō rawa whaiaro mā te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena
Hei whakarite kia ngāwari te tohatoha i te taonga me ngā rawa i waenga i te hoa rangatira me ngā tamariki, he nui te pānga o te marena i mua i te marena. He rite ki te kaupapa here inihua engari kāore he raruraru o te kamupene inihua. Mā te marena i mua i te marena, ka taea e koe te whakatau wawe i te nui o te taonga ka waiho e koe ki te taha ka wehea i waenga i tō hoa rangatira me ngā tamariki. I roto i te marena i mua i te marena, ka taea e koe te whakauru i ngā mea katoa e tumanakohia ana e koe ka whiwhi ā muri ake nei, me te haumi ki ngā rawa kia kore ai he pakanga mō te moni.
Hei tauira, e kī ana a Tahini, "Me kī he pakihi tā tetahi i tēnei wā, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te marena, ā, kāore tana hoa rangatira e whai wāhi ana ki roto. Kua whakapau kaha rātou ki te mahi i tā rātou pakihi, ā, me kī tātou ka tino piki haere te uara i muri i te marena. Ki te kore he marena mua, tera pea ka taea e tō hoa rangatira te wehe atu me te haurua o taua hea mēnā ka kino haere tō marena i te mea ka makahia ki roto i te wāhanga whenua noa."
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2. Kia kore ai koe e nama
Mena he nama tā tō hoa, ā, kāore pea koe e mōhio, kāore rānei, ka piki ake pea taua nama ki runga i a koe. i te wā o te whakarere i muri rānei i tō rātou matenga. He pepa makutu te marena tuatahi ka taea te whakakore i aua nama, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā painga nui o te marena tuatahi.
Mā te whakamārama i tō kore kawenga mō taua mea, e kore rawa koe e whai kawenga mō taua mea. I tino karohia e koe tētahi matā i reira. Mā te hainatanga i tētahi kirimana marena hou, kei te tiaki koe i a koe anō i tētahi nama kāore i puta i a koe engari me utu pea. He tino whakaaro nui tēnei mō tētahi kirimana marena hou, ā, ka taea e koe te whakaora i te maha o ngā raruraru ā muri ake nei.
3. Mēnā kāore koe e pai ki ngā ture o tō kawanatanga
Ki te kore he whakaaetanga i mua i te marena, ko ngā ture ā-rohe te mea hei whakatau i te tohatoha o tō pūtea mēnā ka wehe koe. Ahakoa he ārai ēnei, kāore pea koe e pai ki ngā mea katoa e pā ana ki aua ture. Ko tā mātou tohutohu he tirotiro whānui koe i aua ture, he haina rānei i tētahi whakaaetanga i mua i te marena, ka hanga i ō ake ture.
Nā Tahini i homai te tauira e whai ake nei mō te whakarere a Harrison Ford. "Nā te wahine tuatahi a Harrison Ford i tuhi te raupapa Indiana Jones engari kāore i a ia ngā mana pupuri. Nā tana tāne. Ā, i roa te whawhai mōna ki te kāwanatanga kia taea ai e ia te whiwhi i te 50% o ngā mana pupuri mō āna ake mahi i te wā i whakarerea ai rāua. Koinei te huarahi ka nui haere te raruraru o te āhuatanga katoa, ā, me kawe e koe ki te kooti me te kore he marena mua," tana whakamārama.
4. Tiakina ō haumitanga me ō mahere pakihi
Tērā pea he rite te koretake o ngā marena ki tā tātou mahi ā muri ake nei. Ahakoa te āhua nei kāore e tika ana i taua wā, tera pea ka hiahia koe ki te haumi nui ki tētahi wāhi, ki te whakarerekē rānei i ngā mahi o tētahi pakihi o nāianei.
Hei mahi ngāwari i tēnā, me te kore e hoatu te haurua o ō whiwhinga moni ki tō hoa rangatira o mua, he tino āwhina te marena tuatahi. Mā te marena tuatahi ō rawa ā muri ake nei e tiaki. He pōrearea ngā whakarere ā, kāore koe e hiahia kia riro mai i tētahi tangata kāore koe e hiahia kia moe tahi māua.
5. Te moni tautoko, te tautoko tamariki me ngā take ā-ture
He rerekē ā tātou whakaaro mō te whakapaunga moni i muri i te whakarere. Ko te whakarere tonu, me te kore he aratohu o te whakaaetanga i mua i te marena, he mahi roa, he mahi whānui hoki. Ka taea e koe te karo i te whakapau mano tāra ki ngā tukanga whakarere, hei matapaki i ngā āhuatanga ngaro moni pēnei i te momoho mā te whakatere i ēnei āhuatanga mā te whakaritenga marena hou.
Me whakamārama wawe te kōrero hauora i mua i te marena mō ngā hua ka puta mai i te whakarere me te haumi ki te tautoko tamariki mā te marena tuatahi. E kī ana a Tahini ki a tātou, "Ko te marena tuatahi hoki te mea e ārahi ana i te whanonga a te tangata i roto i te whanaungatanga. Mena he wāhanga e pā ana ki ngā mahi ā-ira me te taumata utu teitei ake e pā ana ki taua mea, ka ārai pea i te tangata kei mahi i taua mea i te wā e marena ana."
Te pānui e pā ana: Ngā Tohutohu mō te Puta i te Tau Tuatahi o te Marena
Ka taea te kī ehara te marena i te hua o te kore aroha. Ka noho harikoa tonu tō marena, ka whai hua, ka whakawhirinaki hoki. Ko ngā whakaaetanga marena he tohu noa iho o ētahi whakaaro nui me ngā āwangawanga ā muri ake nei. Nō reira, ahakoa he āwangawanga i mua i te marena, me tūpato anō hoki koe. He mea ataahua te aroha, ā, mā te marena ka pai ake. Heoi, kia tino mohio kei te matapo te aroha i ō pūkenga whakatau. Kaua e whakaiti i te aroha, engari kaua hoki e whakaiti i a koe anō.
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Ehara i te mea ka whakautua e te nui o tō pūkete putea te take e hiahiatia ai he marena hou. Ko te mea nui ko te nui o tō tupono ki te whakamātau i ngā mea ka taea e koe te whakamātau i roto i te hinengaro me te taha pūtea. Ko te marena, pērā i ngā mea katoa o te ao, kāore i te pumau. I te US, 40-50% o ngā marena ka mutu i te... whakarereNō reira, he taahiraa tika te marena tuatahi mō te nuinga o te tangata.
Kāore, kāore. Mā tēnei ka maeneene te haere o te marena, nā te mea i mua i tō marenatanga, kua mōhiotia kei te tiakina tō heke mai i te taha pūtea, ā, ka whiwhi ō tamariki i ō rātou tika mēnā ka whakarerea, ka mate rānei tō hoa rangatira.
Kāore he mea e whakapataritari ana i te marena tuatahi. Ki te mea he tangata whakaaro nui, he tangata mahi hoki koe, ka kite koe i ngā painga o te whai marena tuatahi.
Kāore he mea motuhake engari he mea nui ina tae mai ki te tohutohu whakarereEhara i te mea he marena mua tā ngā tāne me ngā wāhine katoa o te US. Engari ki te hainatia e koe tētahi, ka taea e koe te karo i te whakapau mano tāra ki ngā tukanga whakarere hei matapaki i ngā āhuatanga ngaro moni pēnei i te alimony mā te whakatere i ēnei āhuatanga i roto i te marena mua.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
