"Kei te whakamatea taku marena e te ahotea pūtea, ā, kua rua noa ngā marama kua pahure ake nei e kite ana ahau i te pōuri," te kōrero a tētahi o ōku hoa ki ahau i ēnei rā tata nei. E 22 tau te roa o taku mahi i tētahi kamupene, ā, i te marama kua hipa i tukuna ia ki te mahi.
I whakahekehia te utu o tana tāne mā te 30 ōrau mai i te wā i pā mai ai te mate urutā me te rāhui. He nama whare tā rāua, he nama mō ngā akoranga a tā rāua tama ki tāwāhi, ā, me tiaki e rāua ō rāua hungawai e mate ana, tae atu ki te hoko rongoā me te utu i ngā kaitiaki.
"He rite māua ko taku tāne ki te ngeru me te kuri e whawhai ana, ā, kāore māua e mōhio me pēhea te whakatau i tēnei raruraru pūtea i roto i tō māua marena," tana kī.
He mea noa te pānga o ngā take pūtea ki ngā marena, ā, ko ngā take pūtea te mea tino noa e tautohetohehia ana e te tangata. Mai i te rāhui i muri i te mate urutā coronavirus, kua nui ake ngā marena e pāngia ana e ngā take pūtea.
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He aha ngā pānga o ngā raruraru pūtea ki te mārenatanga?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
He iti noa iho te hunga e kōrero ana mō ngā take moni, e whakatakoto ana hoki i ngā whāinga pūtea ina marena rātou. Inaa, he iti noa iho te kōrero mō tēnei kaupapa tino nui, ahakoa he kōrero pea mō ngā tamariki me te ārai whānau . Ko te nuinga o te wā, ko ngā penapena me ngā haumitanga i muri i te marena te mea whakamutunga i roto i ngā hinengaro o te tokorua, ā, e harikoa ana rātou ki te whai oranga pai me ā rātou whiwhinga.
Engari, ki te haere koe ki te ratonga kaiārahi i mua i te marena, ko te tikanga ka aro nui rātou ki te hototahitanga o te taha pūtea, me ētahi atu mea maha hei āwhina i te angitu o te marena.
I muri i te 20 tau o tā māua marena, ka kite taku hoa i te hiranga o te hototahitanga pūtea me te pānga o te kore taurite o te pūtea ki ngā whanaungatanga. Ko tana tāne he momo tangata e pai ana ki te oranga pai , ā, e pai ana ki te whakapau moni mō tēnā.
Mehemea he maha ngā nama i riro mai i a ia, ka pena ia. He iti tonu tana kaute nama. Engari, ehara ia i te tangata whakapau moni, ā, i whakapau kaha ahau ki te penapena mā te whakatakoto tahua me te haumi ki ngā whenua me te hanga rawa. Engari ehara i te mea ngāwari te mahi ko ia anake.
He uaua te whakatau i te ahotea pūtea i roto i te marena. Ko ngā pakanga e puta mai ana i ngā tikanga whakapau moni rerekē a te tokorua ka tino whakararu i te hanganga hononga.
Ka pā tika pea ngā raruraru pūtea ki te marena. Ko ngā take e puta ake ana i te ahotea pūtea ka huri hei whakawhiti whakapae , ka kore pea he whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, ā, ka kore pea e whai wāhi ki te whakatau tahi i ngā whakataunga pūtea.
Kāore he pūkete tahi a te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine hei penapena moni mō ngā wā uaua, nō reira, ina pāngia rātou e te āhuatanga pūtea uaua, kāore rātou e mōhio me aha. "Kei te mate ahau i te ahotea moni," koinā anake tā rātou e kī ana.
He Take o te Wehe te Auētanga Pūtea?
I roto i tētahi rangahau a te kamupene ture a Slater and Gordon i whakahaerehia ki ngā pakeke Peretānia neke atu i te 2,000, i kitea ko te manukanuka ki te moni te tino take e wehe ai ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ā, kotahi i roto i te tokorima i kī koinei te tino take o ngā tautohetohe i roto i te marena.
I roto i tētahi tuhinga i whakaputaina ki The Independent, neke atu i te hautoru o te hunga i pātaihia i kī ko ngā pēhanga pūtea te wero nui ki tā rāua marena, ko te haurima i kī ko te nuinga o ā rāua tautohe he mea mō te moni.
Kotahi i roto i te tokorima o te hunga i uiuitia i whakapae i tā rātou hoa rangatira mō ō rāua āwangawanga moni, me te whakapae i a rātou mō te whakapau moni nui rawa, te kore rānei e whakatakoto tika i tā rātou tahua, tae noa ki te kore pono i te taha pūtea.
"He take noa te moni, ā, ki te whakaaro tetahi tangata kāore tana hoa e tautoko ana i a ia i te taha pūtea, e ngana ana rānei ki te tautoko i a ia, ka tere tonu te tipu o te riri, " te kī a Lorraine Harvey, he rōia whānau i Slater and Gordon.
E hia ōrau o ngā marena ka mutu i te whakarere nā te moni? E ai ki tētahi rangahau a te Kaitātari Pūtea Whakarere Whakamutunga Tiwhikete, e 22 ōrau o ngā whakarere ka puta nā ngā take moni, ā, koinei te tuatoru o ngā take nui mō te whakarere i muri i te kore hototahi me te puremu.
Ka haere tahi ngā whanaungatanga me te ahotea pūtea, ā, ka mutu, ka puta te whakarere. Ka pakaru ngā whanaungatanga i te moni. Nō reira, he mea nui kia whakatauria ngā raruraru pūtea i roto i te marena i mua i te tomuri rawa.
Ko te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kāore i te tino mōhio ki te whakahaere i ngā take pūtea e whai ake nei:
- Kāore e taea e rātou te whakahaere i ngā nama pēnei i ngā nama me ngā mokete, ā, ka mutu ka nui ake tā rātou whakapau moni i tā rātou e kaha ai te utu ā muri ake nei.
- Kāore ā rātou tahua a te whareI ētahi wā onge, tata tonu ka nui rawa atu tā rātou tahua
- Kāore he tohatoha moni motuhake mō ngā āhuatanga ohorere pēnei i ngā take hauora
- Kāore he ture mō te whakapau moni
- Kāore ā rātou pūkete whiwhinga moni tahi
- Ka nui rawa atu tā rātou hoko waka me te whare, ā, he onge te wā e taka ana ki roto i te tahua e hiahiatia ana.
I kī pono mai taku hoa ki ahau, "Kei te patu te ahotea pūtea i taku marena, ā, kāore au e pono ki te kī atu kāore au i whakaaro ki te whakarere. Engari i tēnei wā i roto i tēnei āhuatanga, ina kore he mahi a tētahi o māua, ā, kei te totitoti tētahi atu i roto i te mahi, me te nui o ngā utunga pūtea hei utu, ehara i te mea pai ki ahau te peke i tētahi kaipuke e totohu ana. He pai ake ki ahau te ngana ki te whakatika i te āhuatanga, me te kite mēnā ka taea e māua te ora i tēnei marena ahakoa ngā raruraru pūtea."
Koinei te wā i whakaaro ai mātou o Bonobology ki te rapu huarahi hei whakaatu i tētahi ara hei puta i ngā take pūtea e whakamate nei i ngā marena.
Me pēhea te whakatau i te ahotea pūtea i roto i tō marena
Ko te kore taurite o te moni te mea tino pā ki ngā whanaungatanga. Ā, ki te raru moni te marena, kāore rawa koe e noho marino. Kei te whakamahere tonu koe i ngā huarahi me ngā tikanga hei puta atu i te raruraru kua pā ki a koe.
Engari ki tā mātou whakaaro, kaua e kī tonu "kei te patu te ahotea pūtea i taku marena," me noho koe me te pene me te pepa ki te whakatau i ngā take pūtea ka pai ake ai tō āhua pūtea. Anei ngā mea e waru ka taea e koe te mahi.
1. Arotakehia tō tūnga pūtea
Kāore he tangata e kore rawa he penapena. I ētahi wā ka ngana rātou ki te penapena, ā, kua hokona pea he inihua, ā, kua wareware katoa ki taua mea.
Nō reira, tirohia tēnā kia kite ai mēnā ka taea e ō penapena te āwhina i te whakahaere i ō nama. Mā te arotake i ō rawa ka mōhio koe he nui atu ngā mea kua puritia e koe i tō whakaaro.
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2. Whakaritea he tahua
E whakaatu ana te rangahau a Gallup e 32 ōrau anake o ngā Amerikana he tahua ā-whare ā-whare. Mena he iti tō tahua hei whakahaere i ngā whakapaunga o ia rā , ā, e ngana ana koe ki te noho i roto i te tahua i ngā huarahi katoa, tera pea ka kitea e koe kei te pai ake tō whakatau i ō raruraru pūtea.
He tahua tā tētahi o aku hoa hei hoko taonga takaro mā tāna tamāhine, ā, e mōhio ana hoki tāna tamāhine kāore e taea e ia te hoko i te $7 neke atu. E hiahia ana mātou ki te mea pai mō ā mātou tamariki, engari mā te pupuri i tētahi tahua ka ako rātou i te uara o te moni.
3. Mahi tahi hei rōpū
Me waiho ō kōrua rerekētanga ki te taha, ka mahi tahi hei rōpū, ka whakatika i ngā take pūtea o tō kōrua marena. Kua takaro kōrua i te kēmu whakapae engari nā te mea kua panaia kōrua ki te pakitara, kāore he huarahi kē atu i te mahi tahi hei rōpū, ka whakatika i ngā take pūtea.
Tuhia kia rua ngā pou mō āna whakaaro me mahi e koe mō ngā take pūtea me ō whakaaro me mahi e koe. Whakatakotoria he whāinga pūtea, ā, tīmata ki te mahi tahi ki tēnā. Mā tēnei pea ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatika i ō raruraru pūtea.
4. Whakaritea nga whainga hou
Tērā pea kei roto koe i te pōuri pūtea, engari ehara i te mea ka noho tonu koe ki reira mō ake tonu atu. Me ngana koe ki te whakaputa i a koe anō i roto i taua raruraru, ā, ka taea anake tēnei mā te whakatakoto i ngā whāinga pūtea hou māu ake.
Tērā pea kei a koe tētahi whakaaro pakihi mō te wā roa, ā, koinei pea te wā tika hei whakamātau. E kīia ana ka pai te waimarie ki te hunga toa. Ki te taea e koe te whakamātau, te haumi me te mahi kaha, ka memeha haere ngā raruraru pūtea o tō marena.
5. Kōrero ki te peeke
Kei te pāngia te katoa e te wā uaua nā te mate urutā coronavirus me te rāhui me te hekenga o te ōhanga.
Kei te aroha ngā peeke ki ngā kai nama, nō reira kei te whakangawari rātou i te wā utu huamoni. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki ētahi atu tāngata e nama ana ki a koe, me te tono kia roa ake te wā hei utu. He nui te hunga kua atawhai i te wā i tēnei wā, me te mōhio kei te pāngia te iwi e tētahi āhuatanga pūtea uaua.
6. Hurihia tō whakaaro mō te pūtea
Me whakaaro pai koe mō ngā pūtea ā muri ake nei. Ki te tīmata koe i tētahi pakihi hou, ki te whiwhi mahi rānei, ko te mea tuatahi me mahi e koe ko te penapena me te haumi i ia moni whiwhi.
Kāore e taea te whakakorekore i te pānga o ngā take moni ki te marena. Me i penapena koe i mua ake nei, kua pai ake tō whanaungatanga ināianei. Kāore e eke ki te taumata iti rawa kua tae ki tēnei wā.
Tērā pea kua tīmata kē koe ki te whakamahere i tō pūtea i te mutunga o te rā, engari kua tīmata kē koe. E mōhio ana koe ki tō kaute nama inaianei, mō ō nama, tahua, he ture whakapaunga kei a koe e whai ana, ā, ko te mea nui, tikiake mai i tētahi taupānga kaute o ia rā hei aroturuki i ō whakapaunga.
7. Akohia te whakarite i ngā whakaaetanga pūtea
Ka mate te marena i te ahotea pūtea nā te mea kāore ngā hoa rangatira e pai ki te whakarite i tētahi whakaaetanga pūtea. I ētahi wā, ka riro i tētahi o ngā hoa rangatira te whakaaetanga katoa, ā, ka riro i a ia te taumahatanga katoa, ā, ka noho tonu tētahi atu hei āwangawanga. Tērā ētahi mea kāore e tika kia whakaaetia , engari me whakaae kia whakaaetia ngā take pūtea.
Kua whakahokia e taku hoa kei raro i te nama nui i tētahi whenua o te Moana-a-Kiwa tōna whānau ki Īnia. Ahakoa kei te haere tonu ia me te oranga pai, kāore ia e tuku moni nui ana ki te kāinga nā te mea he nui āna nama, ā, kei te mahi tōna whānau i Īnia i ngā whakaaetanga katoa.
He mahi kore tika tēnei i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, me whakarite ngā hoa tokorua i ngā whakaritenga pūtea hei whakatika i ngā take moni i roto i te marena.
8. Rapua he āwhina
Ina toremi koe i te moana o ngā raruraru pūtea, ā, kāore koe e kite i te whenua e tata ana, tera pea ka mahara koe ki taua hoa he kaikaute whaimana, ki tētahi rānei nō te kōhanga reo he tohunga pūtea.
Kaua e whakaroa, me waea atu. Kia rite ki te riria, engari tera pea ka tae atu rātou ki te kāinga ka ārahi i a kōrua i roto i te raruraru. Nō reira, kaua e mangere ki te tono āwhina mai i ō hoa me te whānau mēnā he mōhiotanga tō rātou ki te pūtea.
Ka taea e te kore taurite o te moni i roto i ngā whanaungatanga te whakararu i te ahotea nui. I kī anō taku hoa, "I tū kē māua i runga i te onepū o te raruraru pūtea, ā, nā te āhuatanga COVID-19 i pana māua ki roto. I roa te wā i whakamatea ai taku marena e te ahotea pūtea, engari i te mutunga kua tae mai ahau ki tētahi wāhi e whakaaro ana ahau kua riro māua ko taku tāne i te puru mā tōna haona."
"Kāore mātou e ngana ana ki te oma atu i te āhuatanga mā te kimi huarahi tere hei mawhiti, engari e ngana ana mātou ki te whakatika i te raruraru katoa." Tērā pea ka hua ake he hua nui i ō mahi iti nei, ā, ka hua mai ngā hua i te mutunga.
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E ai ki tētahi rangahau i whakahaerehia e te Kaitātari Pūtea Whakarere Whakamutunga Tiwhikete, e 22 ōrau o ngā whakarere ka puta mai i ngā take pūtea, ā, koinei te tuatoru o ngā take nui mō te whakarere i muri i te kore hototahi taketake me te puremu.
Ka pā kino ngā take pūtea ki ngā marena. Ko te kore whakamahere pūtea, te ngaronga ohorere o te mahi, te nui rawa o te whakapaunga me te kore tahua ā-whare, koinei ngā take ka puta ai te pakanga tonu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.
Ehara i te mea onge ngā raruraru pūtea i roto i ngā marena. Ka ora tonu ngā marena i ngā raruraru pūtea – ahakoa nui, ahakoa iti. Kei te hiahia ngā hoa rangatira ki te whakatau i ngā raruraru, me te pēhea hoki e taea ai e rātou te whakaoti.
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Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
