Shabaz… Shabaz… O, Shabaz… Ndimaimba dzina lake ngati mawu ofotokozera ndipo zimandibweretsera chimwemwe. Ndimakumbukira kuti Shabaz anandigwira dzanja kenako ndimaganizira za nthawi yathu yobisika yopsompsonana muofesi komanso momwe timachitira nthawi zonse muofesi. Pamenepo, ndimaiwala kuti ana anga aakazi sakuchita bwino kusukulu ngakhale kuti amalandira ndalama zambiri zolipirira sukulu ndipo mwamuna wanga amandiimba mlandu chifukwa cha zimenezo. Mwamuna wanga, yemwe amagwira ntchito ku kampani yazachuma sabata yonse, amathera nthawi yake ku Ramakrishna Mission ndipo amagwira ntchito kumeneko kumapeto kwa sabata. Alibenso nthawi yocheza ndi atsikanawo, osanenanso nthawi yanga. Koma ine ndine amene nthawi zonse ndimaimbidwa mlandu.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge nkhani iyi yokhudza ukwati wakunja kwa banja mosangalala kwamuyaya.
(Monga adauza Joie Bose)
Shabaz ndi yokongola kwambiri
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndimagwira ntchito ngati wothandizira wamkulu wa kampani ina yamitundu yosiyanasiyana ndipo ndinalibe chiyembekezo mpaka nditakumana ndi Shabaz, manejala watsopano waukadaulo. wamphatso mu luso la kupanga chikondi.
Iye ndi mnyamata wowala komanso wanzeru ndipo ali ndi makhalidwe onse a anthu okongola kwambiri. Anayamba kuonedwa ndi abwana ndipo nthawi zambiri amamuitana ndi CEO kuofesi yake. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ankakumana nane kawirikawiri. Ndipo ndipamene zonse zidayamba. Koma ndinali ndisanaganizepo kuti tingakumane mu ofesi.
Dinani apa kuti mudziwe zifukwa 6 zomwe akazi aku India amachitira zibwenzi kunja kwa ukwati.
Anali wamantha komanso wamantha
Bwana anali kubwera kuchokera ku New York Loweruka limenelo ndipo Shabaz anali kumuyembekezera. Ndinali kuwunikanso dongosolo la polojekiti lomwe Shabaz adzapereka. Zinali zodziwika bwino kuti ngati nditavomereza dongosolo la polojekiti, panali mwayi wa 80 peresenti woti makasitomala athu avomereze polojekitiyi. Koma ndine woyang'anira ntchito mwakhama ndipo oyang'anira onse anali kukayikira za ine. Ndimatsutsa zomwe akupereka ndipo ndikupitiriza kuwauza kuti asinthe kuti tisataye mwayi wopambana ntchito.
Shabaz anali ndi mantha ndipo anapitiriza kuyang'ana nkhope yanga pamene ndinkayang'ana nkhaniyo. Maso ake anali amphamvu, monga momwe anthu okongola amachitira . Anandichititsa mantha ndipo sindinathe kuletsa kumwetulira pang'ono. Nayenso anayamba kumwetulira nthawi iliyonse imene maso athu anayang'ana. Umu ndi momwe zonse zinayambira.
Iye anatenga sitepe molimba mtima
“Ndiwe wa nkhope yokongola,” anatero mwadzidzidzi, kundigwira modzidzimutsa.
"Ndiye ukundiyang'ana nkhope yanga?"
"Mukufuna ndikuwoneni kwina?"
"Chani?"
"Mwinanso kutsika pang'ono ..."
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge za nkhani iyi yomwe inayamba ndi kukopana pa WhatsApp.
Ndinafiira kumaso
Ndinachita manyazi ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndinamva ngati ndikupsa mkati. Shabaz anali wooneka bwino kwambiri moti ananena mawu otere...ndinangomva kufooka pang'ono. Kwa zaka zambiri palibe amene ananena zimenezi kwa ine. Mfundo yakuti ine ndi mwamuna wanga sitinali paubwenzi waukulu inawonjezera moto pa izi. Sindinakhumudwe, koma ndinaona kuti ndiyenera kukhumudwa.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge chifukwa chake kuchita chigololo kunja kwa ukwati kungathandize ukwati wanu.
Ndinali wamkulu kwa iye, ndinali wokwatiwa komanso ndinali ndi mbiri yakuntchito. Koma palibe china koma kuti Shabaz amangoganiza za thupi langa zinandifikira.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge njira zopulumutsira m'banja lopanda kugonana popanda chinyengo.
Anakhala wolimba mtima
"Ndi zabwino, mukudziwa. Zomwe zili pansi pa nkhope yanu."
Ndinakhala chete ndikuyang'ana pa sewero la kompyuta thupi langa linandipereka.
"Mukudziwa, mwafiira kwambiri ndipo ndizosangalatsa ..." adatero molimba mtima, mochititsa chidwi.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge nkhani iyi yokhudza mayi amene anakanidwa chifukwa mawere ake anali ang'onoang'ono kwambiri.
Ndinadzikakamiza kuganiza zina. Sindingathe kukwanitsa izi, sindingathe kuganiza kuti ndikanatha kuziona mu ofesi. Ndinadzimva wopanda thandizo. Ndinayesa kuganizira za mwamuna wanga, koma shati yomwe ndimaganiza kuti wavala inali ya pinki. Shabaz anali atavala pinki. Ndinaganizira za khitchini yanga, koma nkhope ya Shabaz inkaonekera mu chiwiya chilichonse chowala chomwe chinali pamenepo . Ndinkafuna kuganizira za tchuthi changa chomaliza ku Mysore koma dalaivala, yemwe ankatitengera kumeneko, anali ndi nkhope yofanana ndi Shabaz kwambiri. Ndipo onse oyenda pansi analinso ndi nkhope yokongola. Umenewo unali kukongola kwa Shabaz.
Iye anangopitirira
"Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndikukhudzeni ? "
Misozi inatuluka mmaso mwanga chifukwa sindimasangalala ndi maganizo oti Shabaz wandigwira modzidzimuka chonchi. Ndinatembenukira kwa iye ndipo ndinati, “Ilekeni.” Mawu anga anali ofooka ndi kuyang'ana kumodzi pankhope yake ndipo ndinadziwa kuti ndatha kwamuyaya.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge zomwe zinachitika munkhaniyi pamene mwamunayo anawagwira akutumizirana zithunzi zolaula.
Nkhope yake inawala. Milomo yake inkaoneka yofewa. Zomwe ndimafuna kuchita ndikucheza naye. Sindimaganiza kuti ndili pafupi kuchita nawo muofesi!
Kupsopsonana kwachinsinsi ndimomwe tinayambira kupanga mu office
Shabaz anali wosewera. Anadzuka nabwera kwa ine nagwira dzanja langa. Anandiyang'ana m'maso mwanga nati, "Pepani kwambiri chifukwa cha izi. Koma ndiwe mkazi wokongola kwambiri." Kenako anawerama nandipsompsona pamilomo. Unali mpsompsono wabwino kwambiri m'moyo wanga.
Linali Loweruka ndipo muofesi munalibe anthu. Abwana amayenera kubwera nthawi ina iliyonse. Koma sindinasamale ndipo tinayamba kucheza muofesi. Pomwepo pa mpando wanga.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge zomwe zinachitika pamene mayi wapakhomo wosungulumwayo anakumana ndi mtsikana wosakwatiwayo.
Izi zinali zonyansa! Ndikuti chiyani? Tinali ofunitsitsa kuti tipezeke mu ofesi moti palibe china chilichonse. Kwenikweni, zomwe zidayamba Lowerukalo sizinayime. Nthawi zonse muofesi mulibe, timapeza.
Patha zaka zisanu tsopano
Patha zaka zisanu tsopano. Nthawi zina ndimamva ngati ndikukonda Shabaz . Nthawi zina, ndimamva ngati ndikungomugwiritsa ntchito kuti ndibwezere mwamuna wanga wopembedza kwambiri. Ndipo, nthawi zina ndimamva ngati ndimatenga Shabaz ngati zosangalatsa. Ndimamva chisoni, koma sindiyenera kutero, chifukwa Shabaz nayenso si mwana chabe ndipo akusangalala naye.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge maulosi a mkazi wokwatiwa amene ali pachikondi ndi mwamuna wachinyamata.
Aliyense mu ofesi ali ndi whiff kuti pali chinachake pakati Shabaz ndi ine. CEO wanga alibe nazo ntchito ndipo wandiuza kuti nayenso akudziwa. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani ayenela kusamala? Ndikudziwa momwe VP ya kampani yathu ndi mayi yemwe adalowa nawo ngati wopanga mapulogalamu zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo. Dziko lamakampani lili ndi zinsinsi, palibe amene akudziwa. Ndipo nyumbazi zili ndi maso akhungu ndi makutu ogontha ndipo apa ndi malo omwe Shabaz ndi ine timachita bwino.
Kuvomereza Kugonana: Ndinkafuna Bwenzi Lapamtima la Mwamuna Wanga
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Suludzulani mwamuna wanu, musiye mwamuna wanu ndipo mumulole kuti amupeze munthu wachipembedzo kapena wina wamtundu wake, iye adzamukonda bwino, simukukondana kapena kuyesa kukonza zinthu mwa kulankhulana kapena kumudziwitsa za vuto la m'banja lomwe nonse simungathe kuthera nthawi yokwanira limodzi, osapatsa mwamuna wanu mwayi wopeza wina amene angamukonde moyenerera kapena anthu okonda chuma, osadziwa zambiri. ,aliyense ndi opanda ungwiro mwanjira ina, thupi lirilonse liri ndi zokonda zina kotero mwina mumawazindikira kuti zizolowezi zawo sizili bwino paubwenzi, kuti chifukwa cha zizolowezi zomwe ubale sukupeza chidwi kapena nthawi yokwanira kotero onse amayesa kusintha kapena ngati sanakhazikike pita kwa munthu wina yemwe ndi manja awo opanda ungwiro mwanjira ina (monga iwo eni AKUKHALA okonda chuma ndipo sangadzivomereze moyenerera, ndi odzimvera bwino komanso sakonda chipembedzo). kungogwiritsa ntchito mwamuna wanu, zopusa zotere ndikudzudzulanso
Kugonana mu company ya mnc ,anzake akuziwa kuti mkulu wa mnc ameneyu amadziwa izi ndipo sakuchitapo kanthu ,iye ndi nyamatayu akukumana ndi a ceo ,malo omwe ali ,,kungopeka nkhani munjira yoti zizioneka zoona ,ingokhala nkhani yosatheka
Sulutsa mwamuna wako,musiya mwamuna wako ndipo amupeze munthu wopembedza kapena munthu wamtundu wake,iye adzamukonda bwinoko,ulibe chikondi kapena kuyesa kukonza zinthu mwa kulankhulana kapena kumudziwitsa za vuto la m'banja, osapatsa mwamuna wako mwayi wopeza wina woti azimukonda moyenera kapena kwathunthu, pali anthu ambiri omwe ali okonda chuma, iwo eni amangokhalira kudandaula. mumawadziwa kuti zizolowezi zawo zina sizabwino paubwenzi kotero mwina onse awiri amayesa kusintha kapena ngati sizinakhazikitsidwe pita kwa munthu wina yemwe ali ndi manja opanda ungwiro mwanjira ina (monga iwo eni AMAKHALA okonda chuma, achipembedzo) amavomereza POMWE iwowo sali angwiro ndipo amamvetsetsa bwino komanso amakonda bwino, mukungogwiritsa ntchito mwamuna wanu, zopusa zotere ndikuimbanso mlandu.
bwanji osasiya mwamuna wanu ndikumulola kuti amupeze munthu wopembedza kapena wina wamtundu wake, iye adzamukonda bwino, simunakonde kapena kuyesa kukonza zinthu kapenanso kumupatsa mwayi mwamuna wanu kuti apeze wina woti amukonde
Kodi mkazi wokwatiwa angagwirizane bwanji ndi mnzake wachinyamata? Nanga ngati Shahbaz atamujambula mayiyu ndikuyamba kumuchitira blackmail pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana? Nanga bwanji ngati mwamuna wa mkaziyo atadziwa zimenezi kudzera mwa munthu wina kenako n’kumusudzula pambuyo pomuchitira manyazi dama? Zikuoneka kuti chisembwere chilichonse mwachinambiziro cha ufulu waumwini ndicho chinthu chatsopano chamtengo wapatali chachibadwa pa zolakwa ndi makhalidwe abwino.