Ndinakumana ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga koyamba pa tsiku la ukwati wathu. Tinasangalala kwambiri nthawi imeneyo. Koma patatha pafupifupi chaka chimodzi, ine ndi Vikram (dzina linasintha) tinayamba kutumizirana mameseji. Sindinkafuna china chilichonse koma ndinkasewera Cupid m'malo mwake. Sindinkaganiza kuti zinthu zingasinthe chonchi pamapeto pake.
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Momwe ndidalumikizirana ndi Bwenzi lapamtima la Mwamuna wanga…
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Tsiku lina, pamene tinkaimba foni nthawi zina, mwamuna wanga anati, “Mukukumbukira Vikram? Anabwera ku ukwati wathu. Tsopano akufunafuna mtsikana. ”
Mnzanga wina, Tuheena (dzina lake lasinthidwa), ankafuna kukwatiwa ndi munthu ngati mwamuna wanga - mkulu wa asilikali. Ndi wanzeru, wachifundo, wanzeru komanso wosayenera kumuphonya, wokongola. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndingathe kumuthandiza.
Mwamuna wanga anali kutumizidwa kutali, malo omwe kutentha kapena mawu a mkazi wake sakanakhoza kufika kwa iye. Mnzake wapamtima, panthawiyi, adatenga gawo lalikulu pamndandanda wanga wa WhatsApp, chachiwiri chabe pamacheza amwamuna wanga omwe anali atasiya kugwira ntchito kwakanthawi tsopano.
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Ndinauza bwenzi langa za Vikram
Vikram ndi wamwano kwambiri . Aliyense angamukonde. Tuheena anachitadi zimenezo. Posewera Cupid, ndinalankhula ndi Vikram za Tuheena. Vikram, munthu wamanyazi, anavomereza kuti anaona Tuheena kukhala wokongola koma anati, “Ndiyenera kuyendetsa pempholi m’banja langa kaye.” Sindinakhale wosangalala kwambiri. Zinthu zinali bwino. Awiri mwa anthu amene ndinkadziwana nawo akhoza kukhala mabwenzi a pamtima. Panthawiyo, ndinkatha kuona kuwala kozungulira mutu wanga nditadziona ndekha pagalasi. Kodi ndinalotadi zogonana ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga? Ayi!
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Tinapitiriza kukambirana za ukwati
Pofika nthawi imeneyo, ine ndi Vikram tinayamba kukambirana . Nthawi zambiri. Pafupifupi nthawi yonse yomwe tinkagona. Tinakambirana za mafilimu, zomwe wina ndi mnzake amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda ndipo tinayambanso kutumizirana zithunzi zingapo.
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Miyezi itatu yapitayo, usiku wina, pamene ndinkayembekezera kuti Vikram andiuze za chibwenzicho, sindinathe kulephera kuganiza za moyo wawo waukwati. Ndinaoneratu nthawi yawo yosangalala, nyumba yawo yabwino, misonkhano komwe ndikanalandira ulemu wonse chifukwa cha chimwemwe chawo, chikondi chomwe akanakhala nacho kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso chofunika kwambiri, moyo wawo wogonana.
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Masiku angapo otsatira, zinafika poti ndinkangoganizira za moyo wabwino kwambiri wogonana womwe awiriwa okongolawo akanakhala nawo. Ndinkangokhalira kulota za kugonana kodabwitsa komwe awiriwa adzakhale nako . Zinali zachilendo koma ndinachitadi.
Ndinadziyika ndekha m'malo a Tuheena
Ndisanazindikire, ndinayamba kudziika m'malo mwa Tuheena. Kudzikuza kwa Vikram n'koledzeretsa. Sindinaganizepo m'maloto mwanga kuti ndingaganize za chibwenzi chakunja kwa ukwati ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga kapena kuti ndingakopeke ndi mwamuna wina aliyense kupatula mwamuna wanga. Ndimakonda mwamuna wanga. Ndi wachikondi, wosamala, wokongola, komanso wokoma mtima. Sizinali ngati kuti Vikram anali ndi "chithumwa cha mnyamata woipa" chomwe chinkandipangitsa kukonda kwambiri.
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Mnzanga wapamtima wa mwamuna wanga anakhala mutu wa nkhani za kugonana
Sindinkadziwa chifukwa chimene ndinkamvera. Mwina zinali zoti mwamuna wanga sanali pafupi, mwina zinali zachilendo, zachibadwa ngakhale chifukwa ndinali wosagonana. Sindinadziwe, ndipo kunena zoona, sindinkafunanso kudziwa.
Kotero, ndinapitiriza ndi malingaliro atsopanowa pamene ndinkadzithandiza ndekha pabedi usiku uliwonse. Ndikamaliza, wosangalala komanso wokhutira, ndinkabwerera n’kumayembekezera yankho lochokera kwa Vikram komanso kuganiza za moyo wake wachimwemwe ndi Tuheena. Izi zinachitika kwa masiku angapo.
Kodi ndingasiye bwanji kuganizira za kugonana?
Patatha sabata imodzi, foni yanga inalira nthawi ya 2 koloko m'mawa. Anali Vikram, akundiuza kuti akufuna kukumana ndi Tuheena. Ndinatumiza uthenga kwa Tuheena nthawi yomweyo, ndipo anayankha nthawi yomweyo. Ndinakonza msonkhano wawo . Anakumana, ndipo zonse zinayenda bwino. Pakadali pano, ndinadzifunsa kuti chifukwa chiyani sindinkachita nsanje , chifukwa, mwanjira ina, ndikuthandiza Tuheena kupeza zomwe ndimafuna - kukhala pabedi ndi Vikram. Zonse zinali zachilendo komanso zachilendo kwa ine. Posazindikira za kulimbana kwanga kupeza mayankho, Vikram anandipempha kuti ndipite naye kukakumana ndi makolo ake ndikukambirana za pempho la ukwati. Nthawi yomweyo ndinati, inde. Ndinali wokondwa kwambiri ndi awiriwa, koma wosangalala kwambiri chifukwa ndidzakhala ndi Vikram.
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Ndiyeno izo zinachitika
Ine ndi Vikram tinakumana ndi makolo ake. Anali adakondwera ndi lingalirolo ndipo ankafuna kuti zinthu zichitike mwamsanga. Mwachibadwa, ndinapatsidwa maudindo akuluakulu amene ndinavomera mosangalala. Ine ndi Vikram tinayamba kuthera nthawi yambiri pamodzi konzekerani ukwati. Tinkakambirana za Tuheena nthawi zambiri.
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Patatha mwezi umodzi, pamene ine ndi Vikram tinali kunyumba kwake, ndinataya mphamvu zanga. Ndinali kuyang'ana m'maso mwake, maso anga anali amphamvu komanso okhazikika. Maso ake anatsika mpaka pakamwa pake. Ndinalakalaka kupsompsonana kwambiri moti anazindikira . Pofuna kupewa manyazi, ndinauza Vikram mwadzidzidzi kuti mwina ayenera kupaka milomo yake pa tsiku la ukwati wake chifukwa milomo yake inali itasanduka yakuda, chifukwa cha ndudu.
Zilakolako zanga zakugonana zinandinyenga
Anamwetulira. Inenso ndinamwetulira, koma ndinayang'ananso milomo yake, kenako, popanda choletsa chilichonse, ndinaona thupi lake lodzaza ndi ming'alu. Sindinathenso kupirira chilakolako changa, ndipo ndinamupsompsona. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, patatha masekondi 10, ndinazindikira kuti nayenso anali kundipsompsona. Izi zinali zathu. Chinthu chimodzi chinatsogolera ku china, ndipo tinatha kuswa lamulo lalikulu la ubwenzi - "Aliyense, koma osati mkazi wa mnzanu wapamtima, aliyense koma osati bwenzi la mwamuna wanu wapamtima." Komabe, ndinasangalala kuti sizinali zongopeka za zilakolako ndi malingaliro anga okha. Zinali zofanana.
Kugonana kunali kokhutiritsa kwambiri kotero kuti sindinadzimve liwongo ngakhale pang’ono.
Belu la pakhomo litalira, Vikram anavala zovala zake mwachangu ndipo anafika pakhomo. Makolo ake anali atabwera kuchokera ku Panditji ndi tsiku labwino. Aliyense, kuphatikizapo ine, sakanatha kudikira tsiku la ukwati, mwezi umodzi kuchokera pamenepo.
Tsiku la ukwati wake linafika
Paukwati wawo mizimu inali itakwera. Mwamuna wanga anakwanitsa kubwera ndipo anali pafupi ndi bwenzi lake pamene ine ndinasankha kukhala kwa Tuheena. Anayife tinali titavala zoti tizipha, ndipo tikumwetulira pankhope pathu, sitinadziwe ngakhale zimene zinachitika tsiku limenelo kwa Vikram. Palibe amene anadziwa za kugonana kwanga ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga.
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Pofika 6 koloko m’maŵa, tonse tinali titatopa. Chikondwererochi sichinathe - ena adaletsa Vikram kulowa m'chipinda cha Tuheena pomwe ena adalephera kudikirira kugunda pabedi.
Sindinkamvetsa mmene ndinkamvera
Nditagona pafupi ndi mwamuna wanga amene anali atagona tulo tofa nato, ndinali maso kwambiri, ndikungoganizira zomwe zidzachitike m'chipinda cha banja latsopanoli. Sindingathe kuletsa kulakalaka kugonana naye.
Chinali chiyani icho? Ndilibe yankho. Sikuti ndinkamukonda, kapena ndinkangofuna chibwenzi ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga. Koma china chake chosadziwika bwino chinachitika.
Sizovuta pakati pathu tsopano
Ine ndi Vikram tikupitilizabe kugawana ubale wabwino. Sizovuta pakati pathu, koma sitikambirananso za tsikulo. Kumvetsetsa kosanenedwa kunapambana. Chodabwitsa, sindinamvenso kufuna kubwerera ku Vikram chilichonse.
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Anthu onyansa akuyesera kulungamitsa kunyansidwa kwawo
Sanangonyenga mwamuna wake komanso mnzake Tuneesha yemwe adakwatirana ndi Vikram. Lero kuyambira mkaka, chakudya ndi zina zogulidwa mpaka maubale, chirichonse chikukhala chigololo. Maukwati ena ataya kupatulika nthawi ino & anthu odzikonda komanso osachita bwino amapita kulikonse kuti akwaniritse zilakolako zawo zosakhutitsidwa. Mwamuna wosauka adachoka ndi anthu odalirika kwambiri m'moyo wake monga opereka. Anthu awa amanena zoona kuti "Ghar Ki Chor Ko ngakhale Mulungu sangagwire". Koma Ghar Ki Chor owopsa kwambiri… ..
Chilakolako chili paliponse, koma umachita cholakwika kunyenga mwamuna wako, ndiwe khalidwe lochepa akazi chilakolako chili paliponse
O! Zodabwitsa bwanji. Aliyense amadziona kuti ndi wamphamvu pazikhalidwe ndi makhalidwe. Koma zochitika/zovuta m'moyo zimavumbula umunthu weniweni wa munthu ndi momwe alili wamphamvu pakati pa zikhalidwe/khalidwe ndi zina. Malingana ngati palibe zovuta, chilichonse chimakhala chabwino. Apa mwamuna anayesa kusunga lonjezo lake lakuchirikiza bwenzi lake lapamtima kuthetsa moyo mwa kuleka mkazi wake m’kusankhira mkwatibwi ndipo m’katimo iwo anakhala onyenga kumbuyo ndi kum’pereka.
Kuti akhutiritse maliseche, awiri mwa anthu odalirika a Mwamuna wosauka adagwa pansi ndipo adakhala wankhanza kwambiri potsatira malire onse ndi chidaliro choperekedwa pa iwo. Inde, anthu awa atsimikizira kuti ino ndi nthawi ya "Kaliyug" yomwe KULAMBA ndi Kudzikonda kumalamulira chirichonse ndipo kulibe malire. Ndi tsogolo kuti mwamuna wosauka amakhala ndi anthu odzikonda komanso opanda khalidwe ngati mkazi wake komanso bwenzi lapamtima m'moyo wake. Ngakhale adani sayenera kutenga anthu otere mu ubale wawo.
Palibe chosadziwika chomwe chinachitika. Inu ndi amuna anu abwenzi apamtima ndinu odzikonda komanso opanda khalidwe. Ndi chifukwa chake izi zidachitika. Ichi ndi chowonadi chamaliseche. Manyazi pa inu anthu kuti nonse inu anthu okhulupirira kwambiri mwamuna wanu ananyenga iye kumbuyo ndi kunyada kwambiri ndi pa mtengo wa chikhulupiriro chake. Chikondi chako kwa mwamuna wako sichina koma chikondi cha hule. Anthu inu mwina munapusitsa aliyense kuzisunga mobisa koma aliyense ali mkati mwake & ikafika nthawi yake zimayamba kuluma inu anthu ngati chirichonse. Komanso anthu inu mukuganiza kuti mwasangalala ndipo mwathawa ulendowu koma m'dziko lino monga mwamuna wanu inu ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima mulinso mbali ya dziko. Anthu inu mwaponya mpira wadothi ndipo Inu anthu mudzalandiranso mipira yonyansa yambiri. Ingodikirani kuti mukulipirenso zomwe mwachita, zomwe zidzakuchitikireni zidzakuwonetsani momwe zidzakufikireni komanso liti.
Zikuwonekeratu kuti masiku ano abwenzi apamtima padziko lapansi amakhala onyenga kwambiri komanso kuti theka labwino limakhala lopweteka kwambiri. Zimangotsimikizira, kubera kuli ndi malire ndipo kubayidwa kumbuyo kumachitika ndi okondedwa / olowa mkati okha. Manyazi pa izi. Mwina bwino kukhala nyama kuposa anthu monga nyama, palibe malire angakhale zosiyanasiyana. N’chifukwa chiyani anthu amenewa amakwatira komanso amabera anzawo. Amantha chifukwa sangathe kukhala osakwatiwa ndikusangalala ndi moyo momwe amafunira.