Ndinakumana ndi wanga bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna kwa nthawi yoyamba pa tsiku la ukwati wathu. Tinali titasinthana zosangalatsa zingapo panthawiyo. Koma patapita pafupifupi chaka chimodzi, Vikram (dzina linasinthidwa) ndipo ndinayamba kutumizirana mameseji. Osati china chilichonse koma ndinali kusewera Cupid kwa iye. Sindinaganizepo kuti zinthu zidzasintha motero.
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Momwe ndidalumikizirana ndi Bwenzi lapamtima la Mwamuna wanga…
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Tsiku lina titangoimba foni nthawi zambiri, mwamuna wanga anati: “Eya, ukukumbukira Vikram, amene anabwera ku ukwati wathu. kufunafuna mtsikana."
Mnzanga wina, Tuheena (dzina lasinthidwa), ankafuna kutero kukwatiwa ndi munthu ngati mwamuna wanga - mkulu wa asilikali. Iye ndi woganiza bwino, wachifundo, wanzeru komanso wosaphonya, wokongola. Ndinaganiza akhoza kumuthandiza.
Mwamuna wanga anali kutumizidwa kutali, malo omwe kutentha kapena mawu a mkazi wake sakanakhoza kufika kwa iye. Mnzake wapamtima, panthawiyi, adatenga gawo lalikulu pamndandanda wanga wa WhatsApp, chachiwiri chabe pamacheza amwamuna wanga omwe anali atasiya kugwira ntchito kwakanthawi tsopano.
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Ndinauza bwenzi langa za Vikram
Vikram ndi wanzeru momwe ungathere. Aliyense angamugwere. Tuheena anatero. Ndimasewera Cupid, ndidalankhulanso ndi Vikram za Tuheena. Vikram, munthu wamanyazi, anaulula kuti anapeza Tuheena wokongola koma anati, “Ndiyenera kukambirana kaye za banja langa.” Sindikanatha kukhala wosangalala. Zinthu zinali kuwoneka bwino. Awiri mwa abwenzi anga atha kukhala okwatirana. Panthawiyo, ndinatha kuona kuwala kuzungulira mutu wanga pamene ndinadziwona ndekha pagalasi. Kodi ndinalotadi ndikugonana ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga? Ayi!
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Tinapitiriza kukambirana za ukwati
Pofika pamenepo, Ine ndi Vikram tinayamba kucheza. Zambiri. Pafupifupi maola onse osagona. Tinakambilana za mafilimu, zokonda ndi zosakonda za wina ndi mzake ndipo tinayambanso kutumizirana zithunzi zingapo.
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Miyezi itatu yapitayo, usiku wina, pamene ndinkadikirira Vikram kuti abwere kwa ine za pempholo, sindinalephere koma kulingalira za moyo wawo waukwati. Ndinadzioneratu nthawi yawo yosangalatsa, nyumba yawo yabwino, misonkhano yomwe ndikanawayamikira chifukwa cha chisangalalo chawo, chikondi chomwe akanakhala nacho kwa wina ndi mzake komanso chofunika kwambiri kuposa zonse, moyo wawo wogonana.
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M'masiku angapo otsatira, zidafika poti zonse zomwe ndimachita ndikungoganizira za moyo wosangalatsa wogonana womwe banja lokongolali lingakhale nawo. Ndinapitiriza kulota za kugonana modabwitsa awiriwa adzakhala nawo. Zinali zachilendo koma ndidachita.
Ndinadziyika ndekha m'malo a Tuheena
Ndisanazindikire, ndinayamba kudziyika ndekha m'malo mwa Tuheena. Machismo a Vikram ndioledzeretsa. Konse mu maloto anga wildest anali ine ndinaganiza kuti ine ndimalota za kugonana kunja kwa banja ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga kapena kuti ndingakopeke ndi mwamuna wina aliyense kusiyapo mwamuna wanga. Ndimakonda mwamuna wanga. Iye ndi wachikondi, wosamala, wokongola, ndi zinthu zonse zokoma. Sizinali ngati kuti Vikram anali ndi "chithumwa cha anyamata oipa" chomwe kukopeka kwanga kunachokera.
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Mnzanga wapamtima wa mwamuna wanga anakhala mutu wa nkhani za kugonana
Sindinkadziwa chifukwa chimene ndinkamvera. Mwina zinali zoti mwamuna wanga sanali pafupi, mwina zinali zachilendo, zachibadwa ngakhale chifukwa ndinali wosagonana. Sindinadziwe, ndipo kunena zoona, sindinkafunanso kudziwa.
Kotero, ndinapitiriza ndi malingaliro atsopanowa pamene ndinkadzithandiza ndekha pabedi usiku uliwonse. Ndikamaliza, wosangalala komanso wokhutira, ndinkabwerera n’kumayembekezera yankho lochokera kwa Vikram komanso kuganiza za moyo wake wachimwemwe ndi Tuheena. Izi zinachitika kwa masiku angapo.
Kodi ndingasiye bwanji kuganizira za kugonana?
Patapita sabata, foni yanga inalira 2 koloko. Anali Vikram, akundiuza kuti akufuna kukumana ndi Tuheena. Ndinalembera Tuheena meseji nthawi yomweyo, ndipo anayankha nthawi yomweyo. Ine anakonza msonkhano wawo. Adakumana, ndipo zonse zidayenda bwino. Panthawiyi, ndinali wotanganidwa kudzifunsa chifukwa chake Sindinachite nsanje, chifukwa, mwanjira ina, ndikuthandiza Tuheena kupeza zomwe ndimafuna - kukhala pabedi ndi Vikram. Zonse zinali zachilendo ndi zatsopano kwa ine. Posadziŵa za kuvutikira kwanga kupeza mayankho, Vikram anandipempha kuti ndimuperekeze kukakumana ndi makolo ake ndi kukambitsirana za ukwatiwo. Nthawi yomweyo ndinati, inde. Ndinkasangalala kwambiri ndi banjali, koma ndikusangalala kwambiri chifukwa ndidzakhala ndi Vikram.
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Ndiyeno izo zinachitika
Ine ndi Vikram tinakumana ndi makolo ake. Anali adakondwera ndi lingalirolo ndipo ankafuna kuti zinthu zichitike mwamsanga. Mwachibadwa, ndinapatsidwa maudindo akuluakulu amene ndinavomera mosangalala. Ine ndi Vikram tinayamba kuthera nthawi yambiri pamodzi konzekerani ukwati. Tinkakambirana za Tuheena nthawi zambiri.
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Patatha mwezi umodzi, ine ndi Vikram tinali pamalo ake, ndinalephera kudziletsa. Ndinayang'ana m'maso mwake, maso anga amphamvu komanso okhazikika. Maso anatsikira ku milomo yake. Ndinalakalaka kiss kwambiri moti anazindikira. Pofuna kupewa manyazi, ndinauza Vikram mwadzidzidzi kuti pa tsiku la ukwati wake adzapaka milomo yake chifukwa milomo yake inali itachita mdima chifukwa cha ndudu.
Zilakolako zanga zakugonana zinandinyenga
Anamwetulira. Nanenso ndinamwetulira, koma ndinayang'ananso milomo yake, kenako, popanda choletsa chilichonse, ndinayang'ana thupi lake lodzipukuta. Sindinathenso kuugwira mtima, ndipo ndinamupsopsona. Ndinadabwa, pambuyo pa masekondi 10 abwino, ndinazindikira nayenso amandipsopsona. Izi zinali kwa ife. Chinthu chimodzi chinatsogolera ku china, ndipo tinatha kuphwanya lamulo loyamba la ubwenzi - "Aliyense, koma osati mkazi wa bwenzi lako lapamtima, aliyense koma osati bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wako." Komabe, ndinali wokondwa kuti sikunali kutukuka kwa zilakolako ndi malingaliro anga. Zinali zogwirizana.
Kugonana kunali kokhutiritsa kwambiri kotero kuti sindinadzimve liwongo ngakhale pang’ono.
Belu lachitseko litalira, Vikram anavala zovala zake mofulumira n’kukafika pakhomo. Makolo ake anali atabwerako ku Panditji ndi tsiku labwino. Aliyense, kuphatikizapo ine, sanathe kudikira tsiku laukwati, mwezi umodzi kuchokera pamenepo.
Tsiku la ukwati wake linafika
Paukwati wawo mizimu inali itakwera. Mwamuna wanga anakwanitsa kubwera ndipo anali pafupi ndi bwenzi lake pamene ine ndinasankha kukhala kwa Tuheena. Anayife tinali titavala zoti tizipha, ndipo tikumwetulira pankhope pathu, sitinadziwe ngakhale zimene zinachitika tsiku limenelo kwa Vikram. Palibe amene anadziwa za kugonana kwanga ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga.
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Pofika 6 koloko m’maŵa, tonse tinali titatopa. Chikondwererochi sichinathe - ena adaletsa Vikram kulowa m'chipinda cha Tuheena pomwe ena adalephera kudikirira kugunda pabedi.
Sindinkamvetsa mmene ndinkamvera
Nditagona pafupi ndi mwamuna wanga yemwe anali tulo tofa nato, ndinaona ndili maso, ndikungoganizirabe zimene zikanachitikira m’chipinda chogona cha okwatiranawo. Sindinathe kuthandizira kumuganizira zakugonana.
Chinali chiyani icho? Ndilibe yankho. Sikuti ndinkamukonda, kapena ndinkangofuna chibwenzi ndi bwenzi lapamtima la mwamuna wanga. Koma china chake chosadziwika bwino chinachitika.
Sizovuta pakati pathu tsopano
Ine ndi Vikram tikupitilizabe kugawana ubale wabwino. Sizovuta pakati pathu, koma sitikambirananso za tsikulo. Kumvetsetsa kosanenedwa kunapambana. Chodabwitsa, sindinamvenso kufuna kubwerera ku Vikram chilichonse.
Malangizo Kwa Mkazi Aliyense Okwatiwa Kuti Anyengele Mamuna Wake
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Anthu onyansa akuyesera kulungamitsa kunyansidwa kwawo
Sanangonyenga mwamuna wake komanso mnzake Tuneesha yemwe adakwatirana ndi Vikram. Lero kuyambira mkaka, chakudya ndi zina zogulidwa mpaka maubale, chirichonse chikukhala chigololo. Maukwati ena ataya kupatulika nthawi ino & anthu odzikonda komanso osachita bwino amapita kulikonse kuti akwaniritse zilakolako zawo zosakhutitsidwa. Mwamuna wosauka adachoka ndi anthu odalirika kwambiri m'moyo wake monga opereka. Anthu awa amanena zoona kuti "Ghar Ki Chor Ko ngakhale Mulungu sangagwire". Koma Ghar Ki Chor owopsa kwambiri… ..
Chilakolako chili paliponse, koma umachita cholakwika kunyenga mwamuna wako, ndiwe khalidwe lochepa akazi chilakolako chili paliponse
O! Zodabwitsa bwanji. Aliyense amadziona kuti ndi wamphamvu pazikhalidwe ndi makhalidwe. Koma zochitika/zovuta m'moyo zimavumbula umunthu weniweni wa munthu ndi momwe alili wamphamvu pakati pa zikhalidwe/khalidwe ndi zina. Malingana ngati palibe zovuta, chilichonse chimakhala chabwino. Apa mwamuna anayesa kusunga lonjezo lake lakuchirikiza bwenzi lake lapamtima kuthetsa moyo mwa kuleka mkazi wake m’kusankhira mkwatibwi ndipo m’katimo iwo anakhala onyenga kumbuyo ndi kum’pereka.
Kuti akhutiritse maliseche, awiri mwa anthu odalirika a Mwamuna wosauka adagwa pansi ndipo adakhala wankhanza kwambiri potsatira malire onse ndi chidaliro choperekedwa pa iwo. Inde, anthu awa atsimikizira kuti ino ndi nthawi ya "Kaliyug" yomwe KULAMBA ndi Kudzikonda kumalamulira chirichonse ndipo kulibe malire. Ndi tsogolo kuti mwamuna wosauka amakhala ndi anthu odzikonda komanso opanda khalidwe ngati mkazi wake komanso bwenzi lapamtima m'moyo wake. Ngakhale adani sayenera kutenga anthu otere mu ubale wawo.
Palibe chosadziwika chomwe chinachitika. Inu ndi amuna anu abwenzi apamtima ndinu odzikonda komanso opanda khalidwe. Ndi chifukwa chake izi zidachitika. Ichi ndi chowonadi chamaliseche. Manyazi pa inu anthu kuti nonse inu anthu okhulupirira kwambiri mwamuna wanu ananyenga iye kumbuyo ndi kunyada kwambiri ndi pa mtengo wa chikhulupiriro chake. Chikondi chako kwa mwamuna wako sichina koma chikondi cha hule. Anthu inu mwina munapusitsa aliyense kuzisunga mobisa koma aliyense ali mkati mwake & ikafika nthawi yake zimayamba kuluma inu anthu ngati chirichonse. Komanso anthu inu mukuganiza kuti mwasangalala ndipo mwathawa ulendowu koma m'dziko lino monga mwamuna wanu inu ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima mulinso mbali ya dziko. Anthu inu mwaponya mpira wadothi ndipo Inu anthu mudzalandiranso mipira yonyansa yambiri. Ingodikirani kuti mukulipirenso zomwe mwachita, zomwe zidzakuchitikireni zidzakuwonetsani momwe zidzakufikireni komanso liti.
Zikuwonekeratu kuti masiku ano abwenzi apamtima padziko lapansi amakhala onyenga kwambiri komanso kuti theka labwino limakhala lopweteka kwambiri. Zimangotsimikizira, kubera kuli ndi malire ndipo kubayidwa kumbuyo kumachitika ndi okondedwa / olowa mkati okha. Manyazi pa izi. Mwina bwino kukhala nyama kuposa anthu monga nyama, palibe malire angakhale zosiyanasiyana. N’chifukwa chiyani anthu amenewa amakwatira komanso amabera anzawo. Amantha chifukwa sangathe kukhala osakwatiwa ndikusangalala ndi moyo momwe amafunira.