(Monga anauza Eleena Sanyal)
Ankawoneka ngati wofanana bwino ndi tsamba la matrimonial
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Makolo anga adamupeza pa webusaiti ya ukwati . Ankaoneka ngati wangwiro. Womaliza pa abale atatu, anali ndi mlongo wake wamkulu yemwe anali wokwatira ndipo anali wotanganidwa ndi moyo wake kwina. Anali ndi mchimwene wake wamkulu kuposa iye ndi zaka 10, yemwenso anali kutali. Makolo ake okalamba sakanatha kukhala ndi mphamvu zopezera mkwatibwi watsopano. Anali wophunzira bwino, amalankhula Chingerezi ndi Chibengali mofanana komanso anali ndi ntchito yolipira bwino. Kupatula apo, ankayang'ana mabokosi onse a anthu okongola, aatali, okongola, tsitsi lokongola komanso thupi lochepa thupi. Ndakhala wokonda zinthu zambiri koma nthawi zonse ndimayesetsa kufunafuna zinthu zosadziwika. Ndinkaganiza kuti amamveka ngati wosakaniza wabwino kwambiri wa awiriwa.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Mfundo 8 za ukwati zomwe simunadziwe.
Ndinamugwera nthawi yomweyo tisanakumane. Zinali zophweka kungoyankhula ndi maso ake pa chithunzi chomwe chinatumizidwa kwa ife ndi positi yolembetsa. Anabwera kunyumba atapempha bambo anga ndipo banja langa linali losangalala. Makolo anga ndi mng'ono wanga adapita kwa iye nthawi yomweyo ndipo sindimadziwa kuti ndapeza bwanji mwayi wotero!
Pomalizira pake, pamene tinaganiza zokumana kumapeto kwa mlungu umenewo, ine adadziwa nambala yake yam'manja pamtima. Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kuyang'ana nambala yomwe inali ya munthu wokondeka ngati iye? Ndinkanyadira poganiza kuti ndili ndi nambala yake, chifukwa kwa nthawi yayitali iyi ikhala yoyandikira kwambiri kukhala naye. Ngati nambala yake inali yanga, iye akanakhalanso, mwanjira ina! Kulondola? Kumene!
Kukumana kwathu kunali kwabwino kwambiri m'moyo weniweni
Anandipangitsa kukhala womasuka mosavuta. Ankangofunsa mafunso oyenera okha , mosiyana ndi ena omwe ankandipangitsa kuti ndizimva kutopa kuti ndiyankhe momwe ndimakhalira kumapeto kwa sabata kapena zomwe ndimafuna kuchita ndi moyo wanga!
Ndinapeza kuti anali wokonda nyama. Zimenezi zinamupangitsa kukhala wosadya masamba zaka zambiri zapitazo. Ndinachita chidwi ndi nzeru zake pamene ananena kuti sangaganize kudya chilichonse chokhala ndi nkhope! Palibe amene adamenyerapo zamasamba ngati choncho. Ndili kulira papad wanga wa masala pa msonkhano wathu woyamba kunja kwa siteshoni ya njanji ndikuchokera kuntchito, ndimadzifunsa ngati ndangoganiza zokhala moyo wanga wonse ndikumuphikira munthuyu mbale ya veggie? Tsiku ndi tsiku. Kawiri. Katatu? Inde, ndikanafuna. Mwachimwemwe!
Pambuyo pa msonkhano woyamba uja, anandipempha kuti ndipite nayenso ndipo nthawi ino tinamwa khofi kenako tinakhala m'mphepete mwa nyanja . Tinacheza mosalekeza. Za banja, abwenzi, sukulu, koleji, ntchito kenako zodziwikiratu. Pamene anandiuza za adzukulu ake aang'ono, ndinaganiza zokhala azakhali awo omwe amawakonda komanso omasuka kwambiri. Kenako ananditengera kukadya chakudya chamadzulo ndipo anandidziwitsa kwa anzake apamtima. Ndinaona kuti chinali chapadera kwambiri kuti 'akundionetsa'. Sindinkatha kudya mokwanira, chifukwa ndinkachita mantha kwambiri pakati pa abwenzi ake onse omwe anali anyamata abwino komanso okoma mtima. Pamene anandisiya, ananena kuti akupita ku Bangalore tsiku lotsatira kukakumana ndi banja lake komwe akalengeze!
Kenako anasiya kulankhula nane
Pambuyo pa madzulo amenewo, sindinamvepo kuchokera kwa iye. Mauthenga ake a SMS omwe ankandipangitsa kumva chisoni anali osowa, koma ndinkadziwa kuti anali paulendo kotero zinali bwino . Ndinakhala kumapeto kwa sabata ndikuchita sewero la mkwatibwi watsopano, mpongozi watsopano ndi azakhali atsopano. Sabata itayamba ndipo chete chinkapitirira, ndinavutika kukana m'mimba mwanga poganiza kuti pali vuto. Ndinamuyimbira foni kuchokera ku ofesi yanga mobwerezabwereza, koma sanayankhe foni. Amayi anga anandiyimbira foni masana amenewo. Ankayang'ana maimelo anga masiku amenewo, chifukwa makolo anga anali kuyang'anira mayankho anga a ukwati kuchokera kwa akwatibwi ndi mabanja awo. Ofesi yathu inali ndi kompyuta imodzi kuti aliyense aziyang'ana maimelo awo. Kulumikizana kwa intaneti kwaulere komanso kosasokoneza kunali nkhani yaikulu nthawi imeneyo. Anandiuza kuti anawerenga imelo yake ola limodzi lapitalo.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Iye anali wokwatirana bwino kwambiri mpaka pamene ndinayesa kumupsompsona.
Ayenera kuti ndi mnyamata wabwino kwambiri, chifukwa anasankha kundisiya ndikulembera makolo anga mwachindunji za chisankho chake chofuna kundikwatira. Ndinathamangira ku ofesi ya Mitali kukamuuza izi ndipo tinaganiza zowerenga imelo pamodzi. Ndinafuna kumuyang'ana Mr Perfect wanga tisanatibweretsere msonkhano. Anali akundiuza sabata yonse momwe ankaganizira kuti sindingasiye kulankhula za iye . Mphindi zochepa ndisanadina dzina lake, ndinayamba kuona langa litalumikizidwa pa pempho lathu la ukwati! Mayina athu ankaoneka ngati mitambo pamaso panga pamene ndinkawaganizira pa matikiti athu a ukwati ndipo kenako pa dzina la nyumba yathu. Sindinathe kuletsa kumwetulira. Dzina langa limamveka bwino kwambiri pamene linatha ndi lake! Linali ngati nyimbo.
Imelo yoyipa ija yomwe idafotokoza kundikana kwake
Mwachidule, inali imelo yayitali kwambiri . Tikayembekezera chinthu chomwe chimawoneka ngati kwamuyaya, maso athu amawonetsa malingaliro athu ndipo amakana dongosolo kapena kutsatana. Sawerenga kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto. Choyamba amazindikira zinthu zomwe zili pakati ndi pamakona kapena kumapeto. Chifukwa chake amatiletsa mwayi wokonzekera kukhudza . Zimenezo zimandipweteka kwambiri. Izi zinkandichitikiranso ine. Mawu ambiri monga 'opatsidwa bwino', 'ofiira' ndi 'zinthu zikanasiyana' ananditembenukira ndipo anasokoneza china chilichonse.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Kodi amuna aku India amatha bwanji kuthetsa kusudzulana?
Pakhosi panga panauma ndipo maso anga anadzaza ndi chifunga pamene ndinali kuwerenga imelo. Misozi inatuluka m'maso mwanga mosayembekezereka . Nkhope yanga yonse inagwedezeka ndipo milomo yanga inagwedezeka. Sindinalire kawirikawiri pagulu, koma tsiku limenelo ndinangopereka thupi langa lodzipereka ndi maganizo anga ndipo ndinalola kuti lituluke. Mphuno yanga inathamanga ndipo ndinatambasula dzanja langa kutenga nsalu m'thumba mwanga. Mitali yemwe anali pafupi nane , anayang'ana pafupi ndi sikirini ndi nsidze zopindika. Tinali kutali ndi anthu onse kotero palibe amene anaona misozi yanga.
Iye analemba kuti ngakhale kuti ankakonda zinthu zambiri zokhudza banja langa ndi ine, anakayikira akaganizira za ife omwe tili pachibwenzi. Ankafuna kuti ndikhale ndi 'makhalidwe abwino'. Kwenikweni, ankaganiza kuti kuti akondwere mokwanira , amafunika mkazi wokhala ndi mabere akuluakulu kuposa anga.
Pamene ndimaganiza zachikondi, iye anali kundiyeza thupi langa
Zinandichititsa nseru kuganiza zomwe zinkamuchitikira m'mutu mwake ndi m'ziwalo zina za thupi lake pamene ankaganizira za vuto langa la thupi. Ndinachita mantha kuganiza zomwe ayenera kuti ankaziona ngati zazing'ono pamene anali wabwino komanso wokondana nane nthawi ziwiri zomwe tinakumana. Zinandipangitsa kuti ndiganizire zomwe ndimayimira mwamuna aliyense amene akufuna kundikwatira. Ndinatseka maso anga ndipo ndinajambula chithunzi changa m'maganizo mwanga. Ndinalibe chilichonse choti ndizidzaze kupatula mabere awiri akuluakulu komanso onenepa omwe ndinalibe. Khungu langa linayamba kukwawa. Ndisanasanza, ndinatuluka ndikubwerera pampando wanga.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Anasiyidwa chifukwa anali ndi vuto la mano ake.
Lingaliro langa la kupatulika kwa chikondi chenicheni, makonzedwe a ukwati ngakhalenso ubwenzi wakuthupi unasweka tsiku limenelo. Iye anali atasintha chinachake mwa ine. Ndinawawidwa mtima ndi kuuma mtima ndipo ndinataya chikhulupiriro. Komabe ndinkamukonda kwambiri moti ndinkadzida kuti ndine wochepa thupi komanso wosasangalala. Ndinayamba kukhulupirira kuti chimene amuna ankangofuna chinali mabere akupsa komanso okoma kwambiri amene ankalendewera ngati nyama.
Kudzidalira kwanga kunayamba kuoneka ngati chinthu chopanda pake. Ndinkangoona zolakwika zokha. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndinali ndi ziphuphu, ndinkaganiza kuti tsitsi langa layamba kufiira ndipo ndinkaganiza kuti tsitsi langa linali loipa kwambiri. Choncho ndinapewa kukumana ndi anthu. Ndinaganiza zodya kwambiri ndi kunenepa. Ndinaganizanso kuti nditha kumufunsira chibwenzi kuti tikambirane patatha miyezi 6. Mwina ndikanakhala ndi mabere ambiri panthawiyo. Mpaka nditakumana ndi mwamuna amene adzakhala mnzanga wa moyo wanga ndi kundipatsa chimwemwe chomwe ndinachiiwala kuti ndimayenera kuchipeza.
Kuwerenga kofanana: Njira yabwino yothetsera kukana ndikuthana nako
Ndimafufuzabe pa social media
Mpaka lero, sindinathe 'kusiya' mutu wanga. Zinandivutitsa kwambiri kuyambira kale. Mwamuna wanga wokhulupirika komanso wachikondi amene ndakhala naye kwa zaka zoposa khumi amandibweretsera maluwa pazochitika zapadera ndipo amandiwononga m'njira iliyonse yomwe ndingaganizire. Anandikwatira patatha miyezi 18 nditamufotokozera za nkhani yoopsa imeneyo. Sitinakambiranenso za nkhaniyi. Ine ndi mwamuna wanga timapita ku tchuthi, kuonera mafilimu, kucheza ndi anzathu komanso kulera ana athu momwe tingathere. Timakhala moyo wofewa m'nyumba yokongola ndipo ndimakonda kukhulupirira kuti ndife anthu osirira ambiri. Mwina ndimadzimva bwino ndikaganiza motere.
Palibe amene akudziwa kuti ndakhala ndikusunga ma social media a munthu ameneyo , mbiri zake zaukadaulo, ndi zithunzi zake zomwe zimapezeka pagulu. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wake. Moyo umene ndikanagawana naye. Moyo umene anandikana. Ndinaganiza kuti popeza ndinalibe nambala yake komanso iye, ndikanatha kulowa muzithunzi zake za digito. Mwina ndinkapitiriza kuchita zimenezo kuti ndidziwe ngati ndikanakhala bwino popanda iye.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Momwe ndinathanirana ndi vuto la kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kwa mwamuna wanga.
Ndinapita ku mbiri ya mkazi wake posachedwapa ndipo ndinapeza kuti sanali bwino. Nditafufuza mopitilira ndidapeza mnzanga wamba ndipo ndidakambirana naye. Zikuoneka kuti mkazi wake posachedwapa anapezeka ndi khansa ya m'mawere yopita patsogolo ali ndi zaka 36 zokha. Zinandikhudza kwambiri, ngakhale kuti sindinkamudziwa.
Momwe mkazi wabodza adaswa mtima wa mnyamata wa tauni yaing'ono ku Tinder
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Kugonana ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo wa m'banja komanso chisangalalo ndi kukhutira pakugonana. Komanso ukwati ndi nkhani yaumwini. Kotero mnyamata ali ndi ufulu wonse wosankha bwenzi lake lamoyo pazigawo, monga mtundu, kutalika, nkhope, tsitsi, thupi, ndi zina zotero. Sangatsutsidwe pankhaniyi.
Kugonana ndi mbali yofunika ya moyo wa m’banja. Momwemonso chisangalalo cha kugonana ndi kukhutitsidwa. Komanso ukwati ndi nkhani yaumwini. Mnyamatayo anali ndi ufulu wosankha bwenzi lake lamoyo pazigawo monga, mtundu, kutalika, kalembedwe ka tsitsi, thupi ndi zina za mkazi. Iye, pokhala woona mtima, anakana mtsikanayo chifukwa cha chifukwa chenichenicho. Iye sangakhoze kudzudzulidwa chifukwa cha izi.
Ndipo tsopano ndapeza chimodzi mwa zikhulupiriro zanga zolimba tsopano nditawerenga nkhaniyi yabwino kwambiri yakuti Karma ndi Bitch. Ndi boomerang.. CHILICHONSE MUNGACHITE KWA ENA… Zimabwereranso. Idzakubwezerani kumbuyo.
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Ndinamva chisoni kuti amakuyesani pamene mumamuganizira zachikondi. Ingondiuzani chinthu chimodzi, kodi mukanamupatsanso ganizo lachiwiri akanakhala kuti sanali wamkulu ndi maonekedwe? Mukudziwa chiyani, mudakhala chinthu ndipo nthawi yomweyo mumatsutsa. Mfundo yakuti iye anayima pa zotsutsa zanu ndipo inu munazitaya izo, sizikupanga aliyense wa inu kukhala wolondola kwambiri. Nonse ndinu olakwa komanso olakwa pakuchita manyazi ndi thupi.
Ndipo, mukudziwa chiyani, kugonana ndikofunikira. Iwenso uli ndi ufulu wosiya mwamuna ngati munthuyo sakukhutitsa pakama. M'malo mwake, muyenera kuthokoza bamboyo kuti anali wowona mtima ndipo kukhulupirika kwake kunakuthandizani kupeza mwamuna yemwe alibe chidwi ndi thupi.
Nkhaniyi si yosokoneza. Komabe, m'dziko lathu kugonana ndi zilonda zam'mimba ndizovuta zazikulu choncho timaziwombera mosagwirizana. Mpumulo, kulemba mzere wotsiriza kunapha chirichonse. Dona, khansa ya m'mawere ndi temberero ndipo tiyenera kudziwitsa anthu za izi, m'malo mongoyika mzere wofunikira wa 'karma'.
Chofunika kwambiri, khansa ya m'mawere ilibe kanthu kochita ndi kukula.
Mkazi wopotoka, yemwe ali ndi ufulu wonse woyesa mnyamata pa makhalidwe ake, koma amakhumudwa pamene akuweruzidwa mofanana? Zikadakhala bwino mukadapanda kubweretsa zachipatala za mkazi wake. Ngakhale pali mawu oti azibambo otchedwa MCP, ndi nthawi yoti izi zithetsedwe pofuna kugonana mwachilungamo!
Ashish, bwana upangiri ngati ungafune, pama post ngati awa ndemanga yamunthu ndiyosafunikira kwenikweni ??? kotero kuti ndibwereze ndekha musakhale wodana ngati mulibe luso lomvetsetsa. Zikomo!
Ndiye munamugwadira pongoyang'ana pic yake ali ndi tsitsi lokongola osakumana naye koma mwakwiya kuti akukuzani? Ndiwe chikwawa chomuzonda kwa more than a decade kukumana nanu kawiri kokha, basi coz ndiwe mkazi sakupasa ufulu woganiza kuti ali ndi ngongole yokhalira limodzi coz umafuna. Iwenso ndiwe wachisoni kuti usangalale ndi kupsinjika kwa mkazi wake yemwe sakugwirizana ndi chilichonse chomwe chidachitika. Ndibwino kuti anakana osazama ndi zokwawa ngati inu pazifukwa zosazama.
Lol, chimodzimodzi.
Ndipo iye akuganiza kuti mkazi wake ali ndi khansa ya m'mawere chifukwa iye anamukana iye pa nthaka imeneyo? Lol, chizoloŵezi cha anthu kufotokoza zochitika zilizonse mwachisawawa ndi kuzitcha karma kuti athe kumva bwino za moyo wawo. Ndipo n’zoonekeratu kuti iye amakhutira kwambiri ndi zoti ali ndi khansa ya m’mawere. Kudwala.
Chaitali werengani, phunzirani & chenjerani! Azimayi amatsutsidwa nthawi zonse ndipo iyi ndi imodzi mwa nkhanizi. Palibe chifukwa choyenda kapena kukhala wodana chifukwa simumatha kumvetsetsa 🙂
Rhea, weruzani kwambiri? Kudwala ndi mawu owawa pamene zikuwonekeratu kuti akukhutira kuti mkazi wake wapezeka ndi khansa ya m'mawere. Zikuwoneka kuti wangonenapo zowona, komanso, kuchita ndikukomera mtima ndikuwunika ndemanga zanu musanatumize. Kukhutitsidwa si mawu????