Ah, chibwenzi ku koleji. Ngati maubwenzi anu ku koleji anali momwe amakhalira nthawi zambiri, kukumbukira kukumbukira kungakusiyeni kukhumudwa. Pazifukwa zomvekanso, popeza mumaganiza kuti kuvala ma t-shirt ofananira ndi boo anu pagulu ndikovomerezeka.
Pamene kuitana munthu ku chipinda chanu dorm chinali chinthu wapamtima kwambiri mungachite ndi kukwera pamodzi zinali zabwino monga kuyenda limodzi, chibwenzi ku koleji ndithudi anali chithumwa. Ngakhale zonse zomwe mungakwanitse kupatsa wokondedwa wanu zinali batani ndi mpango pa tsiku lawo lobadwa.
Monga momwe mwawonera, chibwenzi ngati munthu wamkulu chikuwoneka chosiyana kwambiri ndi nkhani zanu zaku koleji zakutchire. Aliyense usiku wonse amamva moipa kuposa mowa wotsiriza, wotsika mtengo umayamba kukhala wosalolera, ndipo lingaliro lachilendo la malo aumwini tsopano likukhala lofunika kwambiri.
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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Pamene munali mutangoyamba kumene kukhala ndi chibwenzi ngakhalenso kucheza ndi anthu, mwinamwake munaphunzira zinthu zingapo m’njira. Tiyeni tiwone momwe maubwenzi akukoleji amasiyanirana ndi chibwenzi ngati munthu wamkulu, ngakhale zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuganizira zapoizoni wanu wakale kwakanthawi. Zikhala zosangalatsa, tikulonjeza.
1. Kukhala ndi mpumulo kumachepa
"Dikirani, n'chifukwa chiyani s/iye tag wamkulu wathu pa gulu chithunzi koma sananditchule ine? S/iye ndithu kunyenga pa ine" "Kodi s/iye kwenikweni kundidutsa ine kukhala ndi mnzanga m'malo? Ndi zimenezo, ine ndachita ndi izi" "S/iye anapitadi ku koleji pamene ine ndinati sindipita lero? Kodi s/iye kwenikweni kundidutsa ine kukhala ndi bwenzi m'malo? Ndi zimenezo, ine ndachita ndi izi "" Iye / iye anapitadi ku koleji pamene ine ndinati sindipita lero?
Mukumvetsa mfundo. Chibwenzi ku koleji mwina anadzazidwa ndi kusiyidwa nkhawa. A flirty ndemanga kwa mnzanuyo "bwenzi" pa Instagram awo kungakhale chifukwa chokwanira Google "momwe kulimbana ndi kusweka mtima".
Mukakhala pachibwenzi muli wamkulu, mumazindikira kuti kukhala ndi mtsikana/mnyamata sikufanana ndi chinyengo. Malo anu paokha ndi ochulukirapo kuposa maola awiri osatumizirana mauthenga ndipo simungathe kulamulira zomwe "anzanu" omwe ali ndi ludzu amalemba pa zolemba za S.O wanu.
2. Kuchokera pansanza kupita ku chuma (chake)
Ku koleji, zomwe muli nazo ndalama ndi paketi ya ramen Zakudyazi aliyense. Ngati mukumva kukoma kwambiri, mkaka wa chokoleti womwe umatsagana nawo umasandulika kukhala chakudya chokoma kwambiri. Mowa ndi wotchipa, mowawo ndi methanol wangwiro ndipo palibe kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zovala zanu zapamwamba ndi zaku koleji.
Mukayamba chibwenzi pambuyo pa koleji, zinthu zimayamba kusintha. Mukuzindikira kuti mutha kugulira wokondedwa wanu zambiri patsiku lawo lobadwa kuposa kungochotsa kachikwama kochokera ku akaunti ya Instagram. Malo odyera amakukondani, simugulanso mipando yowonera kanema wapakona ndipo mumazindikira kuti bwalo lazakudya la m'malo ogulitsira si tsiku.
Ps, mukadakhala m'modzi mwa ana olemera omwe adalemedwa ndi ndalama, simungadandaule chilichonse. Tonse tidadana ndi Gregg ndi malamba ake a LV ndi mafuta onunkhira a Burberry.
3. Tsopano mwapambana pakulankhulana
Simudzatumizanso mauthenga kudzera kwa anzanu. Ayi, bwenzi lanu popereka "S/anandiuza kuti ndikuuzeni kuti musalankhulenso ndi Jason kapena tatha" sikukuchitirani zambiri. Pepani.
Ku koleji, vuto laling'ono limayitanitsa kutsekereza wina ndi mnzake, kungotsegula pakatha sabata ndikuphwanya chete potumiza meme yopusa kwambiri yomwe mungapeze. Mosakayikira, simunali okhoza kufotokozera zosowa zanu pamene luso lanu lofotokozera malingaliro anu linali la "Idk" ndi "Chifukwa chiyani vibe ili kutali?"
Mukakhala pachibwenzi mukamaliza koleji, mumazindikira kuti mawu akuti “hmmmph” ndi “K” sawerengedwa ngati kulankhulana. Mumazindikira kuti kusaikidwa pa Instagram sikutanthauza kuti musamachete ndipo kulankhulana bwino kumafuna zambiri kuposa kungowononga nthawi pamodzi.
4. Umayamba kugonana bwino
Inde, mwina munaganiza kuti ndinu katswiri pa nkhani yogonana ku koleji. Munkadziwa zonse zokhudza kugonana kwa munthu wogonana ndi munthu wogonana naye, komanso kugonana ndi munthu wogonana naye, ndipo munkadziwa bwino tanthauzo la queef. Sikunakusekeni kwambiri.
Ngati mukuganiza mmbuyo, mudzazindikira kugonana ku koleji, pamene mungakhale ndi zambiri, sizinali zabwino kwambiri zomwe zikanakhala. Mwinamwake simukumbukira ngakhale theka lake, popeza munaledzera m’maganizo mwanu.
Mukagonana mutadziwana pang'ono, pamapeto pake mumazindikira kuti kuchita chiwerewere ndikwabwino kwambiri kuposa kukhala mutaledzera. Mumadziwa momwe mumazungulira matupi a wina ndi mnzake ndipo nthawi zambiri zimathera pachimake, osati chifukwa china chake chayamba kupweteka. Queefs akadali oseketsa, komabe.
5. Sikuti aliyense akudziwa
Pazifukwa zina, aliyense amadziwa yemwe anali pachibwenzi ndi yemwe sanali, kubwerera ku koleji. Zithunzi za Instagram zomwe mumayika nthawi zonse za wina ndi mnzake mwina sizinathandize kuti zikhale chinsinsi. Achinyamata a m'kalasi, mapulofesa, ogwira ntchito yosamalira ana, aliyense anali ndi zochitika za moyo wanu wa chibwenzi.
Ngati munakula ndikukula kuchokera pazama TV, mudzazindikira kuti si anthu ambiri omwe akudziwa za ubale wanu. Mwinanso ndi chinthu chabwino. Ngati mumagwira ntchito muofesi yomweyi ndipo "chikhalidwe" sichimavomereza maubwenzi, ndibwino kuti muzisunga pansi-otsika. Mwachangu, Janice wochokera ku HR akubwera, ikani nkhope yanu yantchito!
Mosakayikira, chibwenzi ku koleji n'chosangalatsa. Koma mukudziwa chomwe chimasangalatsa kwambiri? Kutha kupatsana nthawi yogonana kudzera mu masewero a foreplay. Choncho musapite kukanena kuti, “Tinayamba liti kusangalala?!” koma tsopano. Kungoti lingaliro lanu la zosangalatsa tsopano likulola Netflix kusewera chilichonse chomwe ikufuna m'malo momwa mowa kwambiri sizikutanthauza kuti ubale wanu ndi wosasangalatsa. Monga mwaonera, muli bwino kuposa momwe munaganizira.
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