Tiyeni tivomereze, aliyense wa ife ayenera kuti anaganizapo kapena analota za kugonana mopanda chilolezo kapena kugonana mopanda chilolezo nthawi zina. Kugonana mopanda chilolezo kungapangitse kuti zinsinsi zanu zogona zikwaniritsidwe. Pali ambiri otizungulira omwe amakonda kwambiri lingaliro la kugonana mopanda chilolezo, lomwe limatchedwa 'kugonana nthawi zina'... ndipo inde... ambiri ali m'gulu lomwelo omwe angafune kulitcha 'ilo' kuti “ Zikomo, amayi, ” mawu a Benjamin Franklin akufotokoza bwino maganizo okhudza kugonana mopanda chilolezo, ponena kuti “Sindigwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri koma pa thanzi kapena ana; Osachita manyazi, kufooka, kapena kuvulaza mtendere wanu kapena mbiri yanu.” Koma Bineesh Balakrishnan akudabwa ngati “Ndi bwino kukhala ndi kugonana nthawi zina. Ndipo munthu ayenera kuchita kangati?”
Zonsezi “zimadalira momwe mungazichitire komanso ngati mungathe kuzigwirizanitsa bwino ndi anthu ena omwe akukhudzidwa,” akutero Saumya Tewari. Kugonana nthawi zina ndi chinthu chabwino chifukwa kungakulepheretseni kuganizira zinthu. Mukakhala osakwatira komanso omasuka, nthawi zambiri mumakhala otopa ndipo mungafune kusintha zinthu kwamuyaya. Hridaan amakonda momwe Bineesh amagwiritsira ntchito mawu oti 'kugonana nthawi zina' osati 'kugonana mwachisawawa.' "Palibe vuto ndi kugonana nthawi zina chifukwa kungathandize munthu kukhala ndi moyo wabwino. Koma kugonana kungakhale kokwera mtengo. Choncho onetsetsani kuti muli ndi 'Bambo Chitetezo' m'thumba mwanu," akulangiza.
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“Ndipo inde, kukondana nthawi zina kukhale kwa kanthawi kochepa, osati kwachizolowezi,” akutero Lekha Menon. Aman Singh akugwirizana ndi zomwe Lekha akunena kuti mpaka nthawi yomwe sitiyamba kuyika malingaliro athu pa kugonana, kumangokhala kukondana ndi kukondana . “Mwachionekere, kukondana ndi kwabwino. Umakhala bwino pabedi ndipo umalola munthu winayo kuti nayenso asinthe. Ndipo, zonsezi popanda chilichonse chomwe chili pachiwopsezo. Kotero kukondana ndi kwabwino,” akutero Aman, akuwonjezera kuti, “Ndipo mungachite bwanji? Ndi 'chitetezo' ndi mphamvu zambiri. Ndipo nthawi zina mowa pang'ono m'mimba mwako.”
Devraj Kalsi anati: “Munthu wongouluka mwa apo ndi apo amapeza nthawi yake yekha. Pa tsiku la mvula kapena tsiku la zitsiru za April! Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuwombera mfuti mukangopeza mwayi, kulikonse,” akuseka Devraj Kalsi, akuwonjezera kuti, “palibe munthu padziko lapansi amene angakulembereni kangati kapena kangati mukuyenera kukhala nako. Zonse zakonzeka.
Kuthamanga kwapang'onopang'ono kumakhala kwabwino "mpaka nthawi yomwe mumamvetsetsa bwino ndi munthu winayo. Kwa munthu winanso ubalewu uyenera kutanthauza chimodzimodzi ndipo onse ayenera kukhala papulatifomu imodzi, akutero Raul Sodat Najwa. Siddhartha Mishra akuwona kuti chisankho ndi chathu chifukwa ena amachikonda ndipo ena amaika ubale patsogolo.
Sipangakhale yankho wamba ngati inde kapena ayi pafunso lofunsidwa ndi Bineesh akumva Gaurangi Patel. Zingadalire nthawi zonse ndikusiyana malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili komanso malingaliro kupita kumalingaliro. Komabe, “ngati muli pachibwenzi chokhazikika, ndiye kuti mukubera mnzanuyo,” iye akutero. Ndibwino kuti tikambirane ngati ubale wapatukana kapena kupatukana ndikukhala ndi mikangano yambiri, Gaurangi akutero.
Palibe cholakwika ndi kukhala ndi nthawi ndi nthawi kuti munthu asacheze ndi anzanu.
“Pita ukachite,” akulangiza motero Komal Chopra.
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Kwa amayi ambiri, kugonana mwachisawawa sikungosewera ndi moto kusiyana ndi kupeza mwayi wokhala mbeta.
Ndikumva kuti imatha kuchepetsa nkhawa ndikukweza kudzidalira.
Kugonana kuli ngati khofi.