Kukhala bisexual ndi kukwatiwa nthawi yomweyo ndi chinthu ndakhala juggling kwa zaka zingapo tsopano. Kutuluka mukakhala m’banja kumafuna kulimba mtima kwakukulu, ndipo pamlingo wina kukhazikika kwinanso, pankhani ya zachuma, ndipo ndithudi, chikondi ndi chichirikizo.
Akazi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali kale chandamale cha kuzunzidwa kochuluka, koma akazi okwatirana omwe ali ndi amuna awiri ayenera kulimbana ndi chidani pamlingo waukulu. Koma palibe chomwe chimabwera mosavuta m'moyo, ndipo inenso ndinakonza njira yangayanga ndi nkhani kuti ndifotokozere aliyense.
Ndikuganiza kuti ndili ndi amuna awiri
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Mukakula mwanjira inayake, mumakhala ndi ufulu wochepa wofufuza za kugonana kwanu. Mumakhala ndi maganizo oti mukopeke ndi anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana komanso kuchita zinthu zachikhalidwe , kotero mukayamba kukonda anthu amitundu ina, mwadzidzidzi zimakukhudzani ndipo mumakhala ngati, “Ndikudziwa kuti sindili mwamuna kapena mkazi. Koma sindili wolondola.”
Koma zimatenga nthawi yayitali bwanji kuti ndikugwireni- "Ndikuganiza kuti ndili ndi bisexual?" Malangizo ochokera kwa ine kwa inu, yambani kufunsa mafunso awa muzaka zanu zaunyamata. Ngati ndinu bisexual mkazi wokwatiwa ndi mwamuna, ndipo inu anangozindikira kugonana wanu, msewu patsogolo panu ndi yaitali.
Momwe Mungadziwire Ngati Muli ndi Awiri Awiri
Inde, ndine wokwatira komanso wokwatiwa. Wokwatiwa ndi mwamuna. Inde, zinanditengera nthawi kuti ndimvetse izi. Koma kuti ndithandize amayi okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha padziko lonse lapansi, ndikugawana maupangiri, ndikufotokozera nkhani yanga kuti ikuthandizeni kuyankha funso lomwe likubwera m'maganizo mwanu- "momwe mungadziwire ngati muli ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?"
Njira yotulukira
Bisexuality, kwa ine, inali yosazindikira kuposa chilichonse. Kufika kwa zaka zaunyamata kunandipangitsa kuzindikira kuti ndinali munthu wogonana kwambiri. Kukhumudwa kudayamba ndipo ndidazindikira kuti ndikadachitapo kanthu za "kukhumudwa" komweko, ndimamva bwino.
Komabe, ndinali ndidakali mwana paulendo wonyowa komanso wolusa. Chibwenzi changa choyamba chinali munthu amene ndinakopeka naye. Sindimadziwa kuti anali m'gulu la LGBTQ, ndipo ngakhale nditazindikira (ndikulakalaka nditakuuzani momwe, koma sangasangalale nazo), sindinamvepo zachilendo.
Nditakwanitsa zaka 16 ndinayamba kuŵerenga za zinthu zimenezi ndipo zinandipweteka kwambiri. Ndinazindikira kuti pali anthu ogonana mosiyana komanso kuti si mnyamata kapena mtsikana aliyense amene amamenya munthu wowongoka.
Ndili ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa ngati mbira, ndinagwera m'madzi osadziwika, osadziŵa njira yomwe inali kutsogolo. Ndinasambira ndikuyenda ndipo pamapeto pake, panafika gawo lomwe ndimafuna munthu m'moyo wanga - mnyamata kapena mtsikana, zinalibe kanthu.
Anthu ondizungulira ankandiweruza mwankhanza. Ena ankati ndimayesetsa kuchita zinthu mwaulemu, ena ankaganiza kuti imeneyi inali njira yanga yofuna kuti anthu azindisamalira, koma zoona zake n’zakuti ndinalowa m’gawo limeneli nthawi zambiri ndisanaphunzirepo.
Mtsikana wapita kutchire
Kodi mungaganizire bwanji mtsikana ngati ine ku sekondale - maloko akuda, opindika, khosi lopindika, zidendene za pensulo, kukamwa kofiira ndi maso osuta? Ayi. Ndinali munthu wamng'ono uyu atavala mathalauza otayirira, mathalauza achikwama ndi zoyandama zazikulu. Ndakwanitsa kudzisintha kukhala msungwana wa malongosoledwe apakale aja, koma izi zasintha posachedwa.
Ndinayamba kucheza ndi mnyamata yemwe ndinakumana naye paphwando la mnzanga. Unali usiku wophulika, ndipo ndinasonkhanitsa umboni wokwanira wotsimikizira kuti ndinali wowombera moto pabedi. Kunena kuti zalimbitsa chikhulupiriro changa kukanakhala kunyoza kwambiri. Nthawi zina ndinkakopeka ndi chibwenzi, koma sindinadutse malire.
"Kodi muli ndi bisexual serious?" linali funso lofunsidwa ndi ambiri. Ndipotu ndinali woyamba kudzifunsa zimenezi. Pakhala pali nthawi zosawerengeka zomwe ndimazisiya, ndikuzinyalanyaza monga kutengeka maganizo kapena zochitika zina zoledzera. Koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi ndinazindikira kuti chinalibe chochita ndi moŵa.
Sindikanayenera kuletsa maganizo amenewo. Ndi bwino kudzivomereza msanga m'malo mongozindikira kuti ndine wokonda kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ndikumva chisoni kuti ndinasiya kulankhula chifukwa choopa kutuluka m'chipinda chosungiramo zinthu.
Kudzutsidwa kwanga koyamba kunachitika paphwando lanyumba lomwe linali kukumana kwanga koyamba ndi mkazi. Tonse tinali kuledzera kwambiri, ndipo tingonena kuti ndimayembekezera kuti chinachake chingachitike. Osati kuti ndinapita kokachita kalikonse.
Monga mwayi ukadakhala nawo, chinthu chimodzi chidatsogolera ku china ndipo tidakhala ndi gawo lathunthu lodzipangira. Nkhaniyi inatsimikizira mfundo yakuti sindinali wokonda 'bi-curious', koma 'bi-sexual' ndipo panalibe zochepa zomwe ndikanachita kuti ndisinthe khalidweli.
Pakati pa mapepala
Ndine wogonana modabwitsa momwe ndingathere. Ine sindiri chabe bi, Inenso amachita BDSM – lalikulu pamene ine ndiri ndi mkazi ndi wogonjera pamene ine ndiri ndi mwamuna. Koma, vuto lenileni ndikupeza mkazi yemwe amagawana utali wofanana. N'zovuta, koma si excruciatingly zovuta.
M'malo mwake, akazi amasangalatsidwa pamene mkazi wina wawafunsa - kapena ine ndakhala ndi mwayi. Sankhani malingaliro osawoneka bwino awa, ndikupangira - kusamba kwachiyamikiro, kukhudza kosadziwika bwino…
Pali kusiyana kwapadera pakati pa kupanga chikondi ndi mwamuna ndi kupanga chikondi ndi mkazi. Ndipo si amuna onse amene ndakhala nawo anali odzikonda, monga momwe akazi ambiri amanenera. Ndikudziwa anyamata omwe amapita kutawuni pa ine asanandigwedeze kuti ndiyambe kuwasangalatsa.
Koma chomwe chimasiyanitsa kupanga chikondi ndi mkazi ndikuti mumadziwa zomwe mkazi winayo amakonda, ndiye kuti ndizosavuta kubwereza. Mayi aliyense ali ndi zigawo zosiyana za erogenous - ndikudziwa wina yemwe khosi lake limakhala lachidziwitso, wina yemwe amatsegulidwa ndi kukhudza kwanthawi yayitali - chinsinsi ndikuyesa, kuseka, kukhudza, kuyesa ndi kutuluka ndi zala zanu, lilime lanu ndipo pamapeto pake ndi zoseweretsa, ngati mukufuna.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Zinthu zokhudza kugonana kwa akazi zomwe simunazidziwe
Pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, orgasm ndiyofunika kwambiri. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, maubwenzi ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhudza kwambiri kukondweretsa munthu wina osati kugunda wamkulu-O. Ngakhale orgasm ndi "bi-product", sikuti cholinga chake ndi kukhala wapamtima.
Pokhala wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso wokwatiwa, ndatenga zidule zonsezi tsopano. Ndikadadziwa kale kuti akazi ndi osavuta kukhutitsa pakama, sindikanakwatira mwamuna.
Moyo pambuyo pa ukwati
Kukhala mkazi bisexual ndi chinthu chimene ine ndakhala omasuka za kwa kanthawi tsopano. Sindinachite manyazi ndi kugonana kwanga komanso kuti ndimakopeka ndi amuna ndi akazi. Ndipo zimenezo sizinasinthe pambuyo pa ukwati wanga.
Mukudziwa, sindinakwatirepo nthawi yayitali, koma ndakwatiwa ndi mnyamata wodabwitsa uyu yemwe amakhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti sindiyenera kudziletsa kuchita zinthu chifukwa chakuti ndine wosiyana. Tonse tili ndi lamulo la 'kukhala-ndi-tikhale-moyo', lomwe, kuthokoza kumwamba, limatanthauza kuti tikhoza kulankhulana wina ndi mzake pa chilichonse, popanda kuopa chiweruzo.
Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti ali wokondwa kwambiri kuti amayenera kuyenda movutikira. Ndinazindikira kuti tidakali pachibwenzi ndipo ndinamuuza za kugonana kwanga. Mogwirizana ndi ndondomeko yake, iye anali wabwino kwambiri ndi zimenezo, chifukwa ndi zomwe zinandipangitsa ine kukhala mkazi yemwe ndiri lero.
Sizinali zophweka choncho pachiyambi. Kutuluka m'banja kumabwera ndi sewero zambiri - kukangana ndi mwamuna, apongozi amakangana nthawi zonse, ndipo pamapeto pake adandithamangitsa m'nyumba. Mwamuna wanga ankandikonda kwambiri moti sakanatha kundisiya, ndipo pang’onopang’ono anayamba kundichirikiza pa nkhani ya kugonana.
Koma, ndinena zoona. Sindinasangalale kwambiri ndi momwe adayankhira funso langa lina - "Nanga bwanji ngati ana athu ali ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?" Chinachake chokhudza kamvekedwe kake chinandisangalatsa. Ndinkafuna kuchotsa malingaliro onse olakwika okhudza anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi yomweyo. Koma ndinasankha kunyalanyaza, chifukwa chake, ndi mtsogolo.
Ndikulolani inu mu kachinsinsi pang'ono, ngakhale. Ndidzakhala wokondwa kwambiri ngati ana anga am'tsogolo ali ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Malo okhudzana ndi kugonana akutseguka pang'onopang'ono ndipo mwana wanga sadzakumana ndi zovuta zomwe ndimayenera kukumana nazo. Popeza ndine bisexual ndi wokwatira izi zingamveke kukondera, koma ine ndikungofuna zomwe zili zabwino kwa ana anga.
Adzakula kukhala wolimba mtima komanso wodziimira m’dziko limene silimaweruza munthu potengera zimene amakonda. Ndikukhulupirira kuti loto langa likwaniritsidwa. Tsiku lina.
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Monga zina zambiri kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndizovuta kwambiri pachikhalidwe chathu
Chifukwa, akatswiri odziwika bwino apanga lingaliro loti kugonana kulikonse kuposa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndi chinthu choyenera kuopedwa, makolo aku India kapena maphunziro amapewa kwathunthu kudziwitsa ana awo za matupi awo komanso malingaliro osiyanasiyana ogonana omwe akugwira ntchito. Ichi ndichifukwa chake anthu ochokera m'magulu osiyanasiyana amavutika ngakhale kukumana ndi zomwe amachokera. Koma nazi zimene ndikufuna kukuuzani lero. Kukhala bisexual ndikwabwino. Ndi umunthu monga kukhala wowongoka. Ndipo ndine wonyadira kukuwonani mukukumbatira chiyambi chanu. Ndipo zilizonse zomwe ana anu angakhale nazo pakugonana, ndikutsimikiza, adzakhala aukali ngati inu. 🙂
Kugonana kwa akazi kwakhala kuli apolisi, kukanidwa ndi kugwidwa ndi ziwanda m'njira zina, ndipo kuti mkazi akhale china chilichonse kupatula kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha nthawi zambiri amaonedwa ngati kusokoneza kwenikweni.
M'nkhani yomwe ili pamwambayi, muli ndi mnzanu woyenera, mwayi! Ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti aliyense akuganiza chimodzimodzi osati oweruza. Okondwa kwambiri kuti anthu akuvomereza ndikuyamikira kugonana.