Ndakhala m'banja zaka zitatu ndipo tinali ndi moyo wabwino wogonana. Koma mwadzidzidzi wasiya kukonda kugonana ndipo amangogona popanda ubwenzi uliwonse wakuthupi. N’chifukwa chiyani mwamuna wanga wasiya kundikonda?
Chifukwa Chiyani Mwamuna Wanga Wasiya Kundikonda Pogonana?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndayesera kumufunsa kambirimbiri kuti chavuta ndi chiyani koma amapewa kukambirana. Tinali ndi moyo wogonana kwambiri kale koma adataya chidwi mwadzidzidzi. Kuyambira katatu mpaka kanayi pa sabata idakhala kamodzi kapena kawiri pamwezi ndiyeno idasiya kwathunthu.
Mumadziwa bwanji ngati mwamuna wanu wasiya kukukondani?
Chomwe chimandidetsa nkhawa ndichakuti mwamuna wanga wasiya kundikonda. Ndimangodzifunsa ngati sakundikondanso. Koma sindikumvetsa ngati ndi ine kapena pali chifukwa china chilichonse chomwe chimapangitsa kuti asafunenso kukhala paubwenzi.
Kodi mungathane bwanji ndi mwamuna wopanda kugonana?
Koma kusowa ubwenzi kumeneku kukundipha. Sindikudziwa momwe ndingalankhulire naye za izi chifukwa amapewa nkhaniyi kwathunthu. Sindikudziwa ngati izi zikuchitika chifukwa cha kupsinjika kulikonse kapena kuti chilakolako chake cha kugonana chatsika pazifukwa zina.
Kodi mungandiuze chifukwa chiyani mwamuna wanga wasiya kundikonda pakugonana? Muzinthu zina iye ndi wabwinobwino komanso wosamala kwa ine koma zikafika pakugonana amangolira.
Kodi nditani?
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Wokondedwa Lady,
Kuti equation mu moyo wanu wakuthupi ndi mwamuna wasintha ndithudi ndi nkhani yodetsa nkhawa. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Tiyeni tione zina mwa zimenezi.
Kodi pali vuto lililonse lazaumoyo?
Kodi thanzi la mwamuna wanu lili bwanji? Kodi ali ndi vuto lililonse la thanzi? Kodi wakhala akuvutika maganizo kuyambira kalekale? Kodi mwaona kusintha kulikonse m'dongosolo lake latsiku ndi tsiku?
Thanzi likakhala kuti silili bwino, sipangakhale kukhudzika kulikonse kwaubwenzi. Lankhulani naye kuti mudziwe.
Kodi ali ndi nkhawa kwambiri?
Kodi ali ndi vuto lililonse kuntchito? Mavuto azachuma ? Kodi pali mavuto ena aliwonse omwe mukudziwa, omwe angakumane nawo kuntchito? Muyenera kukambirana naye mofatsa.
Kodi maganizo anu akhala bwanji kwa iye?
Ndi nthano chabe kuti amuna amangoyang'ana akazi kuti akwiye. Ngati khalidwe lanu lakhala lankhanza kwa iye, ngati mwakhala mukumuvutitsa kapena kumudzudzula pa chilichonse, ubale wanu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ungawonongeke. Chonde dziwani izi ndipo yang'anani mkati.
M’malo mofunsa kuti, “N’chifukwa chiyani mwamuna wanga sakugwirizana ndi ine?” dzifunseni ngati mwachita chilichonse chomwe chapangitsa kuti mukhale ndi khalidweli m'chipinda chogona.
Kodi maubale ena ndi abwino?
Kodi achibale ake ali ndi vuto lililonse ndi inu kapena iye? Kodi maubwenzi pakati pa anthu ali bwino?
Ngati sichoncho, zitha kuyambitsa kupsinjika komwe kumatha kusokoneza zinthu zina m'moyo.
Kodi ubwenzi wapamtima ndi chiyani?
Ubwenzi suli mgwirizano wa matupi aŵiri okha monga momwe zimasonyezedwera. Ndi za malingaliro omwe amawunikidwa nthawi zambiri. Choncho, ndi bwino kukonza ubale wanu kunja kwa chipinda choyamba kuti mubwezeretse moyo wanu wakuthupi ndi iye. Izi sizingachitike ndi mphamvu.
Zosowa zanu ndi zenizeni komanso yang'anani zosowa zake ndikuwona komwe kusagwirizana kuli. Yesetsani kuthana nazo kaye. Ndikudziwa kuti si zophweka ndipo zingakhale zokhumudwitsa koma palibe njira ina iliyonse yochitira izi.
Chifukwa chake, chonde lankhulani naye, bwereraninso kukukhulupirirani, ubwenzi wanu ndi moyo wanu wakuthupi udzakhala bwino.
Zabwino zonse
Ibibazo
Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zingapo kuyambira pazaumoyo, kupsinjika maganizo kapenanso kukhala khalidwe lanu kwa iye.
Yesetsani kumvetsa zimene akukumana nazo kapena ngati mwachita chinachake chimene chachititsa kuti asakhalenso ndi chidwi ndi kugonana.
Ngati zinthu zonse zomwe tatchula poyamba sizili zifukwa zopezera ubwenzi ndiye kuti akanangotaya chidwi ndi inu. Koma chonde musathamangire kuganiza. Yesani kupeza kaye.
Khalani oleza mtima, yesani kumvetsetsa nkhani yeniyeni ndiyeno kambiranani nayo.
Inde, uphungu wa akatswiri ungakuthandizeni pamenepa.
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