Kukakamizika Kuchita, Pamene Ubwenzi Ukhala Ntchito Yantchito

(Monga adanenera Joie Bose)

Ubwenzi uyenera kukhala malo opatulika a chiyanjano ndi chisangalalo, malo ogawana pomwe miyoyo iwiri imalumikizana mu kuvina kwa chiwopsezo ndi chikhumbo. Koma kodi chimachitika n’chiyani pamene chitsenderezo cha kuchita zinthu chikutitsekereza chimwemwe chongokhala pamodzi? Pamene chipinda chogona chimasintha kuchokera kumalo achikondi kukhala siteji yowunikira komanso nkhawa?

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Akazi akufuna chani? Sindingathe kumvetsetsa. Chifukwa cha kumwamba. Zoonadi. Sakhutitsidwa.

Nditayamba kuwona Archana pamalo okwatirana, ndidawombedwa ndi chiuno chake. Anali atavala saree, mtundu womwe umamatirira ku thupi lako ngati makatani ndipo mapindikidwe ake amawonekera mokongola. Nkhope yake siinali yomwe ukanatha kuyang'ana kwa maola ambiri komanso maso ake sanali okopa kwambiri (anali ndi cockeye pang'ono), koma mchombo wake sudzakulolani kukweza maso anu kumaso kwake. Ndipo ngakhale mutakhala ndi mphamvu zopitira pamwamba, mabere ake amalepheretsa maso anu kupita mmwamba. Iye anali ndi thupi lokongola.

Makolo anga ankasankha akazi potengera momwe anakulira, ndipo ngakhale okongola kwambiri anali ndi matupi osakongola. Mukakhala pachikondi, ndikuganiza kuti maonekedwe sali ofunika, koma mukafuna mgwirizano woti mudziwe kuti mkazi amene mukumukwatira, muyenera kudzipereka kukhala wokhulupirika kwa moyo wanu wonse, mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi chidwi ndi zithunzi . Koma masiku ano simungakhulupirire zithunzi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri zimasinthidwa pa Photoshop. Choncho ndinapita kukakumana naye.

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Iye ankaoneka wamanyazi pamene tinakumana

Makolo anga anachita chidwi ndi maphunziro ake - MA mu sayansi ya kunyumba ndi BEd. Anali mphunzitsi wa sayansi yapanyumba komanso maphunziro akuthupi omwe anali ndi madigiri a yoga. Anagwira ntchito pa imodzi mwasukulu zabwino kwambiri mumzindawu, komwe amayi ake anali mphunzitsi wamkulu. Bambo ake anali opuma pantchito kubanki yayikulu. Iye wanena kuti kupatula kuphika, amakonda kuwerenga. Masewerawa anali abwino kwa ine chifukwa nanenso ndikugwira ntchito kubanki. Bambo ndi amayi anga onse ndi akuluakulu aboma.

Chotero, pamene tinapita kukaonana ndi mtsikanayo kwanthaŵi yoyamba, ndipo anapemphedwa kuti andisonyeze khonde la nyumba yake, ndinam’pempha kuti athyole madzi oundana, “Kodi mumakonda kuŵerenga? Ankawoneka wamanyazi. Amangogwedezera mutu ndikuyankha limodzi mwamawu makolo anga atamufunsa chilichonse. Mabuku pokhala chidwi chake, ndimaganiza, atha kumupangitsa. Koma ngakhale zimenezo sizinatulutse mawu aliwonse. Iye anati, “Inde.”

Tsopano ndiloleni ndimufunse china chake chomwe ndimaganiza kuti, ayenera kuyankhula zambiri. Choncho ndinamufunsa kuti, “Kodi ukuwerenga chiyani panopa? Inenso ndimakonda kuwerenga. Anakhala chete kwa kamphindi kenaka n’kunena kuti: “Ndikukonzekera ukwati, ndikuwerenga buku lakale la ku India lotchedwa Kamasutra.”

Anakhala chete kwa kamphindi kenaka n’kunena kuti: “Ndikukonzekera ukwati, ndikuwerenga buku lakale la ku India lotchedwa Kamasutra.”

Tsopano ndinalibe chonena. Oo. Iye anali chinachake. Sindinadikire kuti ndimukwatire tsopano. Sindinadziŵe kuti sanali wanzeru kapena woseketsa, koma zinali zovuta.

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Sanathe kugonana mokwanira

Inde, anali wotsimikiza mtima. Pausiku wa ukwati wathu , iye ndiye amene anandikhudza. Ndinapeza titakwatirana kuti sanali wamanyazi konse. Sanalankhule kwambiri chifukwa analibe chonena, ndipo ankalankhula pokhapokha ngati pali cholinga. Ndipo usiku uliwonse ankandifotokozera za momwe ndiyenera kukhalira ndipo ankandipempha kuti ndichite zimenezo. Poyamba, ndinkakonda kwambiri. Ndinabwera ndisanalowe naye. Kenako ankadziseweretsa maliseche, ndipo ndinaloledwa kuonera.

Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati maloto kapena nkhani zolaula, koma vuto langa linali litayamba. Nthawi ina adachita chakrasan ndikundipempha kuti ndimulowetse. Ndinkakayikira komanso kuchita mantha, ndipo ndinagwa n’kuvulala msana. Kugonana kunalibe funso. Izi zinamukwiyitsa. Anayamba kuzizira ndi ine. Anayamba kumenyana. Kumamanino aacipego, wakandiita kuti ndilijisi nguzu. Kenako ankaseka chiseko choopsachi.

Zikuwoneka kuti sindingamusangalatse

Ndili bwino tsopano. Patha miyezi isanu ndi itatu chikwatire. Archana akadali achigololo, koma m'malo modzutsidwa, ndikuchita mantha. Kuvulala kwanga msana kwachita bwino kwambiri tsopano, koma amandikakamiza kwambiri kuti ndizichita pabedi moti sindikufunanso kugonana. Tsopano sindingathe ngakhale kudzikhuta ndikakhala ndekha. Zikuoneka kuti sindingamusangalatse.

Ndinamugulira chikwama, koma anachiyika. Kenako ndinamugulira saree koma sanasangalale nazo. Kamasutra ndi chinthu chokhacho chomwe chimamusangalatsa. Ndipo ine sindingakhoze konse kumukhutitsa iye. Nthawi zonse amandimvera chisoni ndikuseka. Sindikudziwa momwe moyo wanga wokongola unasinthira kukhala tsoka kuchokera kukhala nthabwala zachikondi. Tsiku lililonse ndimathera nthawi ndikuyesera kulumikizana naye, koma thupi langa limaundana. Ndikuchita mantha kumukhumudwitsa.

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Tsiku lililonse ndimathera nthawi ndikuyesera kulumikizana naye, koma thupi langa limaundana. Ndikuchita mantha kumukhumudwitsa.

Zimandivuta kuti sitigonananso, koma ndingadziwe bwanji kuti zofuna zake ndizoposa zomwe ndingathe? Ndatopa nazo izi. Ndikuyembekeza kudzamusangalatsa tsiku lina. Koma sindikukhutitsidwa mokwanira kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa wina.

N’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina ubwenzi umakhala ngati ntchito yotopetsa?

Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zingayambitse kumverera uku:

• Zosiyanasiyana libidos: Anthu ogonana nawo atha kukhala ndi milingo yosiyanasiyana yokhumbira kugonana, zomwe zimapangitsa wina kukhala wokakamizidwa pomwe winayo amadzimva kuti wanyalanyazidwa.
• Kupsinjika maganizo ndi kutopa: Zofuna m'moyo zingathe mphamvu ndi chikhumbo, kupangitsa ubwenzi kuwoneka ngati ntchito ina pandandanda ya zochita.
• Nkhani za ubale: Mikangano yosathetsedwa, kusamvana bwino, kapena a kusowa kugwirizana maganizo akhoza kuchepetsa chilakolako cha kugonana.
• Nkhawa ya magwiridwe antchito: Kudandaula za "kuchita bwino" kungayambitse nkhawa komanso kusokoneza chisangalalo.
• Zokhudza maonekedwe a thupi: Kudziona ngati wosatetezeka ndi maonekedwe a munthu kungachititse kuti ubwenzi wanu ukhale wovuta.
• Kusintha kwa magawo a moyo: Mimba, postpartum, kusintha kwa thupi, kapena kukalamba kungakhudze chilakolako chogonana ndi kugwira ntchito.

Maganizo Final

N’kwachibadwa kuti chilakolako chofuna kugonana chimatheratu muubwenzi uliwonse. Komabe, pamene ubwenzi wapamtima umakhala ngati ntchito yotopetsa, m’pofunika kuthetsa vutolo. Kulankhulana momasuka, kuika patsogolo kugwirizana kwamalingaliro, ndi kuthetsa kupsinjika maganizo ndi zovuta za ubale ndi njira zofunika kwambiri kuti muyambitsenso moyo wapamtima wokhutiritsa ndi wosangalatsa.

Ubwenzi wapamtima si nkhani yongogonana chabe; koma ndi yokhudza kulumikizana ndi mnzanu mwakuthupi, m'maganizo, komanso mwauzimu. Mwa kukulitsa ubalewu ndikuthana ndi zopinga zilizonse zomwe zingabuke, mutha kukhala ndi ubale wapamtima wabwino komanso wokhutiritsa. Timapereka upangiri waukadaulo wazachipatala kapena wothandiza. Ngati mukukumana ndi nkhawa zokhudzana ndi moyo wanu wapamtima, chonde funsani katswiri wodziwa bwino ntchito.

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