Kuyamikira & Kusokoneza Moyo Wanu

Nthawi zambiri, mawu omaliza a 'honeymoon' amawonetsa zomwe zikubwera. Nazi zitsanzo:

Iye akuti: "Ukuwoneka bwino mu Saree!"
Amatanthauza kuti:  Ma jean omwe mwavala pano akuphulika pa misomali yawo

Iye akuti: “Mwakhala mukugwira ntchito ngakhale paukwati wathu.
Amatanthauza kuti: Maonekedwe anu onyamula ndi oyipa kwambiri kotero kuti tidzafunika matumba awiri owonjezera.

Kuwerenga Kofanana:  Kuyamikira Kwa Munthu Kumwetulira Kuti Amwetulire Kwambiri

Phunziro kuchokera kwa Dale Carnegie

Komabe, mfundo ndi yakuti kusankha mkazi kukhala mkazi wako ndiye chachikulu kuyamikira mukhoza kumupatsa iye. Zaka khumi zapitazo, bambo anga adandipatsa mphatso ya buku la Dale Carnegie lotchedwa 'How to Win Friends and Influence People'. Ndi buku lodzithandizira lomwe lakhala pa mndandanda wa Ogulitsa Opambana ku New York kwa zaka khumi ndipo lagulitsa makope 15 miliyoni mpaka pano. Chabwino, tsopano ingakhale 15 miliyoni ndi imodzi ndikugula kwanga ndipo ziwerengero zikukulirakulira.

M'bukuli, Dale Carnegie akufuna kuti owerenga ake aziyamikira anthu zivute zitani. Kuyambira pamenepo, ndidayamba kuchita izi zaka 10 zapitazo ndipo ndakhala ndikuchita bwino kwambiri. M’zaka khumi zapitazi, ndayamikira munthu aliyense amene ndakumana naye kamodzi patsiku. Moti ndasowa nzeru.

Kuyamikira Kopanda Ukonde

Kwa zaka zambiri ndaphunziranso kusayamika poyembekezera risiti. Makamaka chifukwa ndimadziona ngati munthu wotopetsa komanso wowoneka bwino, zimangopangitsa moyo wa munthu woyamikira kukhala wolimba. Ine sindikufuna kumupangitsa iye kunama ndipo pamapeto pake kukhala ndi udindo kwa munthu kupita ku gehena.

Kuwerenga kofananira: Zinthu 5 zomwe akazi amachita zomwe zimasokoneza amuna!

Dzulo, popanda chilichonse chonena, ndidayang'ana mnzanga Himanshu Mishra ndikuti, "Mapewa abwino!". Panthawiyo, adandiyang'ana ndipo panthawi ya nkhomaliro adandilowetsa m'chipinda chochapira. Nditalimbana pang'ono, ndinakwanitsa kudzimasula ndikupulumutsa unamwali wanga. Kuyamikira atsikana kunali kophweka kale. Ndinkayamba ndi chovala chamutu ndikugwira ntchito ku bindis, ndolo, ndi mabangle, kenako kumapazi ndi zidendene zawo zazitali.

M’kupita kwa nthaŵi, ndinafuna kuwongolera khalidwe la mayamikiro anga ndipo motero ndinawapempha kuti andikwatire. Zonsezi chifukwa wina ananena kuti zabwino zoyamikira mukhoza kumupatsa dona akumupempha kuti akukwatireni. Sichoncho?

zinthu zomwe anthu osakwatiwa okha angagwirizane nazo!

Momwe Kukhala Bambo Kunasinthira Moyo Wanga Kukhala Bwino

Njira Zogwirira Mwamuna Wokwatiwa Akumakukopani

Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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