Maanja 7 akuulula momwe adagwidwa pamene akupanga

Nyanga zakufa zimatha kukhala zamanyazi mwachangu mukagwidwa mukuchita.

Palibe chamanyazi kuposa kugwidwa mukuchita zonyansa. Mphindi imodzi mukupsompsona mwamuna wanu ndipo zinthu zayamba kutentha, ndipo yotsatira, mukuyang'anitsitsa nkhope ya amayi anu. O, manyazi ndi enieni.

Nthawi zina zinthu zimapita molakwika tikalola chilakolako cha kugonana kuti chitigonjetse. Nthawi zina timakhala omasuka kwambiri potseka zitseko tisanayambe kuchita izi, ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zotsimikizika. Kugonana kumachepetsedwa ndi munthu amene alibe udindo wochita zimenezo. Pitirizani kuwerenga kuti mudziwe nkhani zodabwitsa za momwe maanjawa adagwirirana pamene akuchita zinthu zosaneneka.

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Ziribe chifukwa chake - kaya ndi makolo, azibale, apolisi, ogona nawo, kapena munthu wina wongochitika mwachisawawa, kusokonezedwa akamalankhula kumakhumudwitsa. Ndipo osanenapo, zochititsa manyazi kwambiri.

Komabe, zimamveka bwino kudziŵa kuti sitili tokha m’zimenezi. Pafupifupi banja lililonse lapezeka likuchita pagulu ndipo limakhalira kunena nthano zovuta.

Kotero, apa pali nkhani zingapo zomwe zimanenedwa ndi maanja omwe adagwidwa akupanga

1. Kugwidwa ndi kholo

"Ndinali kwa chibwenzi changa. Tinali kuchipinda. Makolo ake sankadziwa kuti mwana wawo wamkazi ndi wachiwerewere. Kwa iwo, ine ndinali mnzanga. Tinali titagona pabedi pansi pa nyali zapinki zomwe iye anaika. Makolo ake anali kunja kwa usiku ndipo sakanabwerera. Kotero sitinali oda nkhawa zokhoma zitseko zokhoma tisanatengere zovala zathu mosasamala ndipo mosasamala tinali kupanga kunja.

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Mwadzidzidzi, chitseko chinatsegulidwa ndipo ndinawona amayi a chibwenzi changa ali pakhomo. Msungwana wanga akugwira ntchito pamimba zanga ndiye. Ndinazizira, chibwenzi changa chinazizira, amayi ake anazizira. Atakhala chete kwa mphindi imodzi, amayi ake akuti, "O, chabwino, musadandaule" akutseka chitseko pamene amachoka.

Mwamwayi, iye ndi munthu wokoma yemwe anali womasuka kwambiri za zokonda za mwana wake wamkazi kuposa makolo ena. Ngakhale adadziwa za ife mkati mwa gawo lodzikongoletsa, sanabwerenso. Nthawi zonse ndikakhala kunyumba kwake pambuyo pake, amalengeza "Moni, ndikubwera m'chipindamo mphindi imodzi", asanalowe m'chipindamo.

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2. Kugwidwa ndi msuweni wamphuno

"Unali ukwati wa msuweni wanga . Chibwenzi changa cha nthawi yayitali chinaitanidwa chifukwa kwenikweni ndi cha m'banja. Tinatuluka mozemba n’kupita ku bwalo la phwando lolandirira alendo. Tinkafuna kuba mpsompsono koma zinthu zinavuta, ndipo anayamba kundisangalatsa kumeneko. Bwalo la phwandolo linali lamdima kwambiri kotero kuti palibe amene ankationa."

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Ndili mkati mochita sewerolo, ndimatha kumva ndili pafupi. Pamthunzi, ndinatha kuona mwana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi wa msuweni wanga. Tisanakonze zovala zathu, iye anatifunsa kuti, ‘Kodi mukutani? N'chifukwa chiyani mukupanga phokoso?' Ndinathamangira kwa iye, ndinapempha bwenzi langa kuti akhale mumdima ndipo ndinamuuza kuti mapazi anga akupweteka kotero kuti ndikulira.

Mwamwayi adagula ndipo sanazindikire kuti pali munthu wina. Ndinamutsitsa ndikumupatsira chokoleti kuti asauze aliyense kuti ndikulira. Iye sanatero.”

3. Red-handed mu malo oimikapo magalimoto

“Ine ndi bwenzi langa wakale tinayima m’malo ogulitsira mobisa ndipo tinapangana. Monga zovala, kugwira ntchito pamanja ngati kupanga.

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4. Kugwidwa ndi banja lina lachigawenga

"Mu sukulu yathu, pali malo amdima awa omwe tidapeza pafupi ndi nyumba yoyang'anira. Anali ndi kasupe wamkulu pafupi ndi miyala ikuluikulu. Nthawi ina tinamva kulira kwambiri ndipo tinkafuna malo abwino abata. Tinakwera njinga ndipo ndinali kumpsompsona khosi lake pamene iye anali kuyendetsa galimoto ndipo tinafika pamalo amenewo."

Tinkapsompsonana ndi kumasula zovala zathu pamene tinkakhala pansi pa udzu. Pamene ndinali nditakhala pamwamba pake ndikumukumbatira mouma, ndinamva mawu akuti "Kodi mungandilole kuchita zimenezo osapanga phokoso lalikulu? Anthu odutsa angakumveni ndipo adzaunikira malo ano kuti agwire anthu." Kuwerenga Kofanana: Malo 9 otentha kwambiri a akazi

Zikuoneka kuti munthu uyu nayenso adalipo ndi bwenzi lake kuti akambirane. Atatha kunena izi, adayambiranso kupsompsona mayi ake, koma tidachita zodabwitsa titagwidwa ndi banjali kuti tipeze malo athu. "

5. Wogona ndi chipinda chogona

"Tinali ndi ma dorms ogwirizana. Chifukwa chake kugonana m'zipinda sikunali kololedwa koma kunyozedwa. Mnyamata wanga atabwera ndipo tinali kupanga. Mnzangayo anali kunja koma anabwerera pamene bwenzi langa linali pansi pa zofunda, akundipatsa pakamwa. Inali nyengo yachisanu kotero tinali ndi mabulangete okhuthala kwambiri. Mnzangayo adabweranso kudzandifunsa makiyi a scooter. Ndinkatha kumva bwenzi langa likuima pansi pa malaya ake mwakachetechete.

Mnzanga yemwe ndinkagona naye anatenga makiyi n’kuyamba kuonera filimu imene ankaonerayo ndipo anandifunsa ngati ndikufuna kupita kapena ayi. Asanachoke, pakhomo akutembenuka nati, 'O, ndikupita, miyendo yanu ikuwoneka pansi pa bulangeti, Jobin.' Jobin anali bwenzi langa. "

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6. Kugwidwa ndi mayi wokalamba

"Tinagwidwa tikuchita kukhichini ndi neba wa bwenzi langa yemwe anali mayi wachikulire wokoma. Titaimirira kuseri kwa kauntala yakukhitchini ndipo bwenzi langa linali kundipatsa mphamvu. Pakatikati pake, chitseko chakutsogolo chinatseguka ndipo adalowa mayiyo. Pamenepo ndinali, kuseri kwa kauntala, buluku langa litatsikira ku akakolo anga, bwenzi langa, nayenso kuseri kwa kauntala, atagwada.

Agogo aakazi okoma mtima anabwera kudzabweza buku lophikira lomwe adabwereka. Ndinamuuza kuti aliike patebulo. Bwenzi langa linasiya kundipukusira ndipo linabisala kuseri kwa kauntala. Ndinakambirana ndi mayi wachikulireyo, ndikumutukwana iye ndi ine ndekha. Pomaliza pake atapita, chibwenzi changa chinalumphira ndikuseka kwambiri. ” Kuwerenga Kofanana: Malo abwino kwambiri ogonana panja

7. Kugwidwa ndi mlongo wamkulu

"Ndimakhala m'banja limodzi ndipo panalibe chiyembekezo choti ndizisangalala m'nyumba mwanga, kupatulapo pamene banja lonse linali kunja kukaonera kanema kapena china chake (chomwe chinali chosowa). Pa tsiku limodzi losowa, banja langa lonse linali kunja kukachita Puja kukachisi. Ndinakhalabe ndi chifukwa chopita kusamba. (Atsikana omwe ali pa msambo sayenera kulowa m'makachisi). Chibwenzi changa chinabwera. Tinali ndi nyumba yayikulu yokhala ndi zipinda zambiri. Popeza aliyense anali kunja, ndinatenga chibwenzi changa kupita nacho kuchipinda cha makolo anga.

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Tinalowa pansi pa mabulangete ndikuyamba bizinesiyo mpaka ndidamva mvula mu bafa. Titazindikira kuti pali winawake, tinayesa kuvala movutikira. Zinapezeka kuti anali mlongo wanga wamkulu yemwe sanapite chifukwa anali ndi m'mimba. Anaima n’kutiyang’anitsitsa pamene tinali titavala zovala zamkati.

Anaseka nati 'Pepani' ndipo 'Ndimuuza Maa' ndipo anapita. N’zosachita kufunsa kuti sanauze aliyense ndipo amangoseka mpaka lero.”

Nkhanizi zidatipangitsa kuti tizingodabwa ndi kuseka ndipo mwachiyembekezo zidatiphunzitsa zina.

Ndiye, kodi mungachite chiyani ngati mwapezeka mukugonana? Eya, malinga ndi zomwe tawerenga, mumapereka zifukwa, kuchita zinthu moona mtima, kuthawa kapena kungodutsa zala zanu ndikuyembekeza zabwino. Phunziro lalikulu apa ndilakuti musabwerezenso zolakwa zathu ndikukhala otetezeka kuti musapezeke mukugonana pagulu!

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