Sindimadziwa kuti chimenecho chinali chikondi. Ndikadakhala bwanji? Kwa mwana wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, inali nkhani zingapo chabe za nthawi yogona zomwe ndidakwanitsa kuzikangana ndi agogo anga. Sanamvekenso ngati nkhani zachikondi zaukwati. Komanso, sindinaganizire zaukwati wokonzekera: nkhani ngati nkhani zachikondi kwa nthawi yayitali.
Kwa zaka zambiri, pamene sandpaper ya mayesero ndi masautso inali kukanda ndi kudyetsa mtima wanga mopweteka, ndinakonzanso lingaliro langa la chikondi. Ndidayambanso kuyang'ananso njira zaubongo wanga, ndikuyang'ana m'makumbukiro akale ngati chimbalangondo chikuyang'ana zakudya zopatsa thanzi mumtsuko wamalingaliro womwe udasonkhanitsa tsankho, tsankho, mantha, komanso kusatetezeka kokhudzana ndi chikondi.
Kupsinjika maganizo kunandikakamiza kuti ndibwererenso mizu yanga. Ndinkaphunzira ku US masiku amenewo. Popeza ndinali m’dziko lachilendo, zimenezi zinatanthauza kukumbukira pang’ono zimene ndinakambirana ndi akulu a m’banja langa. Pamene chibwenzi changa chinali chitasweka, ndinasinkhasinkha za nkhani zaukwati zokonzedwa bwino za ku India.
Nkhani Yathu Yachikondi Yaukwati
Dikirani, ayi, nkhani yachikondi ya nthano m'banja langa? Funso limeneli linafika m’makoma a ubongo wanga ndipo m’kamphindi kakang’ono, linachititsa kuti anthu ambiri azikumbukira zinthu zakale zooneka ngati sepia. Ndipo ndipamene, ndikudutsa mchenga wa nthawi ndi danga, ndinakumbukira mwachidwi nkhani yoyamba yachikondi yomwe idachitika ndikugwedezeka m'maganizo mwanga. Ndipo, chodabwitsa kwambiri, inali nkhani yachikondi yokonzekera.
Ndidamvanso kupuma komwe Kaisara ayenera kuti adamva ataona chikondi chikutuluka pamaso pake pomwe chinsalu cha Perisiya chidavumbuluka m'bwalo lake kuti aulule Cleopatra wosavula. Ndimalola kuti nkhani zachikondi pambuyo paukwati zizinenanso ngati zithunzi zidadzuka m'mutu mwanga. Ndimakumbukira kuti agogo anga aakazi amandiuza nthawi yoyamba yomwe anakumana ndi agogo anga. Anali ndi zaka 15, iye ali ndi zaka 23. Anali wooneka bwino komanso wachilungamo.
Iye, wa khungu lakuda ndipo ndithudi sanali wokongola, anali atatopa kale ndi ulendo wa sitima yomwe anayenera kuyenda ndi abale ake kuti akakomane naye, kuchokera ku West Bengal kupita ku Uttar Pradesh. Anatsala pang’ono kutsika m’sitimayo pamene iye, ataima papulatifomu, anaona kuti analibe nsapato, ngakhale kuti azichimwene ake anali atavala nsapato.
Anamupempha kuti ayime ndipo anathamangira kusitolo ina yomwe inali pa station. Iye anadikira, atasokonezeka. Anabweranso ndikumukweza mapazi ake mofatsa pamene iye amazembera pa nsapato aliyense. Malingaliro anga anagwirizanitsa chochitikacho ndi Cinderella ndi Prince Charming wake. Mwanjira ina, inali itasandulika kukhala imodzi mwa nkhani zaukwati zokonzedwa bwino kwambiri zomwe ndinamvapo.
Komabe apongozi ake anadzudzula kusankha kwa mkwatibwi wakuda, adawalangiza chifukwa cha kukonda kwawo khungu labwino.
Kuyambira pamenepo, amuna a m'banja lathu nthawi zonse amasankha akwatibwi a dusky, chitsanzo chokhazikitsidwa ndi agogo anga omwe anali achilungamo, kwenikweni komanso mophiphiritsira. Ngati iyi si imodzi mwankhani zongopeka pambuyo pa nkhani zaukwati zomwe zidakonzedwa, sindikudziwa kuti ndi chiyani.
Nthawi ina anamuuza kuti ayamba kukondana ndi ziwiya zake zazitali kwambiri zomwe zidagwada m'mawondo ake ataima mopanda nsapato komanso opanda nsapato pakhomo la sitima. Agogo a Rapunzel ndi Knight awo atavala zida zonyezimira. Chiwonetsero cha sitimayi pakati pawo chinandikumbutsanso za Raj ndi Simran ochokera ku DDLJ.
M’malo modula mapiko ake atakwatirana, anam’limbikitsa kuti amalize maphunziro ake. Pamene banja lake linadutsa pansi pa chuma-to-sanza, adayimilira pafupi naye ngati Rhett Butler adayimilira pafupi ndi Scarlett O'Hara. Anamwalira ali ndi zaka 50, kumusiya mkazi wamasiye ali ndi zaka 42 koma anali ndi moyo wathunthu, akuphatikiza nkhani zachikondi zosatha. Inali imodzi mwa nkhani zachikondi zaukwati zimene zinasiya choloŵa cha mkazi wamphamvu, wophunzira amene anakondedwa ndi kukonzekeretsedwa kusamalira ana asanu ndi aŵiri payekha.
Ibibazo
Zilibe kanthu kaya ndi banja lokonzekera kapena lachikondi. Malingana ngati okwatiranawo amalimbikitsana ndi kukondana wina ndi mnzake ndi kumalankhulana bwino, adzakhala ndi banja losangalala kosatha.
Zimatengera mmene mumachitira ndi ukwati wanu. Ukwati wokonzeratu ukhoza kukhala wopambana mofanana ndi ukwati wachikondi ndi mosemphanitsa malinga ngati nonse mumathandizirana wina ndi mzake ndikukhala oona mtima pazofuna zanu ndi zosowa zanu.
Mwaukadaulo, inde. Maukwati a ku India, amene makamaka amalinganizidwa, amakhala ndi chisudzulo chochepa. Koma pamene kuli kwakuti pali nkhani zambiri za chikondi cholinganizidwa bwino chaukwati, anthu ambiri ku India samasudzulana chifukwa cha chitsenderezo cha anthu ndi kaimidwe kokayikitsa pankhani zachuma ka akazi awo. Chomwe chimapangitsa banja kukhala lopambana ndi chikondi, chithandizo, ndi kuwona mtima, ndipo, bola mutakhala nazo, simuyenera kuda nkhawa ndi ziwerengero, banja lokonzekera kapena ayi.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Simuyenera kunena mawu atatuwa, chikondi chimakhudza malingaliro. Mukungodziwa! Nkhani yomwe ili pamwambayi ikunena zonse. Nkhani yokoma komanso yatanthauzo!
Anthu amati zimatenga nthawi kuti muyambe kukondana muukwati wokonzeratu koma sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Ndi anthu omwe samanena pafupipafupi ndipo zimangochitika! Kulondola?