Kodi Mkwatibwi Ndi Mkwati Ayenera Kugawana Mtengo Waukwati? Momwe Mungachitire...

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Kodi anagawa ukwati ndalama? Izi ndi funso limene nthawi zambiri amafunsidwa chisanadze ukwati chifukwa India ndi anthu osintha kumene onse mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ali ndi ntchito ndi banki bwino. Koma mwatsoka mu zaka chikwi za kupita patsogolo ndi ufulu tikuwonabe mabanja akukhetsa maakaunti awo aku banki paukwati wonenepa waku India. Mu m'badwo wa Badrinath Ki Dulhania tikuwona kutuluka ngati kamba kuchokera ku chikhalidwe cha dowry.

Ukwati wamwambo umakhala ndi chikalata chotsika mtengo pomwe mbali ya mkwati kapena mbali ya mkwatibwi imawoneka ikutulutsa ndalama. Kodi okwatirana ayenera kulipira ndalama zingati paukwati? Kodi makolo a mkwati amalipira chiyani pa ukwatiwo? Awa ndi mafunso omwe anthu amawaona kukhala ovuta kuyankha chifukwa mtengo waukwati ndi mutu wokhudza kukambirana. Ndikofunikira kuti tiwunikenso miyambo yathu ndikupanga masinthidwe ofunikira kuti agwirizane ndi zomwe timaganiza zopita patsogolo. Chotero tiyeni tifunse funso losalingalira bwino: Kodi mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi ayenera kugawa mtengo waukwati? Inde! Chifukwa chiyani? Werenganibe.

Kodi Kugawanitsa Ukwati Mtengo?

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Mtengo waukwati wachikhalidwe nthawi zambiri sugawidwa. Makolo a mkwatibwi amalipira ukwatiwo ndipo makolo a mkwati amalipira ndalama za phwandolo koma m’chitaganya cha makolo akale monga India, kaŵirikaŵiri makolo a mkwatibwi amayembekezeredwa kutenga mbali ya ndalama za phwandolo. Paukwati wachikristu kunaperekedwa kuti makolo a mkwatibwi azinyamula mtengo waukwati chifukwa mkwati amayembekezeredwa kugula nyumba ndi kuthandiza mkwatibwi. Koma nthawi zasintha komanso Ndalama zaukwati wachikhristu zimagawidwanso.

M'nthawi yomwe udindo wa mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi uli wofanana m'gulu la anthu ndiye chinthu chabwino kwambiri kuchita ndi kukhala ndi mndandanda wa ndalama zaukwati ndikugawa mtengo waukwati pakati pa okondedwa. Izi ndi njira zomwe mungagawire ndalama zaukwati ndipo ndichifukwa chake muyenera kuzigawa.

1. Tengani udindo

Nonse ndinu odziyimira pawokha pazachuma, mumapeza ndalama zambiri komanso mumapeza ndalama. Ndikoyenera kugawa ndalamazo pakati panu. Zilibe kanthu ngati miyambo imafuna kuti ukwati usamaliridwe ndi mkwatibwi ndi phwando la mkwati.

Ndi mgwirizano wa mbali ziwiri zomwe siziyenera kusanduka mkangano pakati pawo. Tengani udindo pachisankho chomwe mwapanga ndikukhala ndi gawo lanu pazowonongeka. Ndipo gawo lokhalo lomveka bwino ndilofanana.

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2. Muzinena mosapita m'mbali zimene mukuyembekezera

Miyambo ndi miyambo yathu nthawi zonse sizigwirizana ndi mfundo zomveka. Pepani, ndimatanthawuza kuti sizokwanira. Pepaninso, sizokwanira! Mbali ya mkwatibwi mu miyambo yakale imayenera kunyamula mtengo waukwati womwe umaphatikizapo miyambo yamtengo wapatali, alendo ochokera kumbali zonse ziwiri ndipo nthawi zambiri ndalama zambiri za dowry kapena 'mphatso'. Bambo ake a mkwatibwi ndi amene amachitiridwa nkhanza za ndalama zambiri chifukwa mbali ya mkwatiyo ndi yoyenerera kulandira chithandizo chachifumu. Chilichonse chomwe chimasokonekera paukwati chimayamba kuchokera pakugawikana kwandalama kokondera. Ndi lingaliro lofala kuti ndalama zimapanga mikangano yosasinthika mu ubale uliwonse; ukwati suli wotetezedwa ndi zimenezo.

Ndiye momwe kugawa ukwati ndalama? Khalani olunjika. Ngakhale litakhala ukwati wokonzedwera banja la mkwatibwi liyenera kukhala lolunjika ndi ziyembekezo zawo. M’chenicheni, mkwati ndi mkwatibwi pokambitsirana ukwati asanakwatirane ayenera kupanga kugaŵana kwa ukwati kukhala chimodzi mwa zokambirana zazikulu. Ayenera kufika pachisankho ndiyeno amangomanga mfundo.

3. Lolani makolo anu apume mwamtendere

Makolo anu mwina anapuma pantchito kapena atsala pang’ono kutha. Ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chimapereka mtolo wa ukwati wodula pamapewa a makolo okalamba, ngati kuti kukwera kwa mitengo sikukwanira kusokoneza moyo wawo wopuma pantchito. Chigamulo cha achinyamata awiri, akuluakulu odalirika komanso opeza ndalama, sichiyenera kulamulidwa ndi miyambo yosiyana.

M’malo mokakamiza makolo anu kuti athyole ndalama zimene anaika kuti azidzaza mbale za alendo, bwanji osagula nokha ndalamazo ndi kuzigawa kuti muchepetse kudodoma? Siziyenera kukhala a chiwonetsero champikisano chachuma kumene makolo onse amakulitsa bajeti yawo mopanda nzeru ndipo amasokoneza tsogolo lawo ndi ngongole. Ndalamazo ziyenera kunyamulidwa makamaka ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi; munthu azidula malaya awo malinga ndi nsaluyo. Ndiyeno makolo kapena anthu amene angokwatirana kumenewo alibe ngongole.

4. Perekani chitsanzo

Tsopano ndinu banja lalikulu ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chingaphatikize mgwirizanowu kuposa kugawa ndalama zaukwati? Mukukumbukira Ross ndi Emily akukwatirana ndipo makolowo amalimbana ndi zolipirira? Ukwati umenewo unali wovuta ngakhale Ross asananene dzina lolakwika pa guwa la nsembe! Inde, koma iyi ndi India! Ndiye? Mudzayang'anizana ndi maso a googly kuchokera kwa achibale ndi mabwenzi. Koma inu mudzapeza izo ziribe kanthu. Nanga bwanji kusamala za chikhalidwe kumanga padziko ukwati wanu? Pitirizani kukhala chitsanzo chokhala banja limodzi.

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5. Chifukwa ndi bwino kusakhala okonda kugonana

Mukufuna zomwe Virat ndi Anoushka anali nazo ku Italy eti? Tangoganizani ndi mbali iti yomwe idalipira? Inde. Kulingalira kolondola, amagawaniza mtengo. Mukufuna glitz, kukongola koma koposa zonse mukufuna kumwetulira iwo anabala. Tsopano chifukwa chake muyenera kukhala m'chikondi ndi chimwemwe. Ngakhale sindingathe kukuthandizani ndi zakale, chisangalalo paukwati wanu chimadza ndi kusamvana pang'ono ndi kuwawa komwe kungabwere chifukwa chaukwati waku India womwe watenga nthawi yayitali.

Njira imodzi yabwino kwambiri yochepetsera kusasangalala ndiyo kulinganiza maakaunti anu ngati anthu achikulire, osati ngati mbali ya mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi. Ndizosangalatsa kusakhala wokonda zachiwerewere panthawi yoyitanitsa kuyenera kwa amuna ndi chikhalidwe cha abambo. Zingakhale zabwino ngati mutataya miyambo yokhudzana ndi kugonana ndikuyang'ana kwambiri chikondwerero chofunika kwambiri cha mgwirizano wadala wa miyoyo iwiri.

6. Ukwati wosafunikira kwenikweni ukhoza kukhala banja losangalala

Pamene mukupita ku ga-ga pa glitz ya Virat-Anushka kapena Deepika- Ranveer, muyenera kukumbukira kuti zomwe celebs angachite ngakhale kugawa ndalama zaukwati mwina simungathe kuchita. Choncho kukhala ndi ukwati wamtengo wapatali umene umachepetsa ndalama, kukhala ndi phwando logwirizana komanso osati ntchito zambiri monga sangeet, mehendi ingatsimikizire kuti mbali ya mkwatibwi kapena mbali ya mkwati sikulemedwa ndi mtundu uliwonse wa ndalama.

Ukwati wochepa kwambiri ukhoza kutanthauza a banja losangalala. Simungalemedwe ndi kulipira ngongole zaukwati kwa mwezi wotsatira. Mutha kungowuluka kupita ku honeymoon popanda chisamaliro padziko lapansi.

7. Pangani bajeti ya ukwati wanu

Ukwati umadziwika ndi kuchulukirachulukira kwa bajeti ndipo abambo a mkwatibwi amawonetsedwa m'makanema achihindi omwe akuthamanga kuchokera ku chipilala kupita ku positi kuti alandire ndalama zowonjezera pamwambowo.

Okwatirana amakono ayenera kukhala pamodzi ndikupanga bajeti yaukwati, kuchotsa zinthu zomwe sakuzifuna ndikuyika zinthu zomwe akufunadi. Uwu ukhoza kukhala mndandanda wandandandandandandandandandandandandandandandandandandandazazazaukwati omwe mungatchuleko nthawi zonse.

Bajeti ikatha kambiranani momwe mungagawire ndalama zaukwati. Izi zipangitsa kuti chochitika chanu chonse chikhale chosavuta. Mukakhala okwatirana tsatirani bajeti ndikugawa zibwenzi pang'ono, zidzakuthandizani kuyendetsa masewerowa.

8. Khalani ndi kaundula wa mphatso zaukwati

Nthaŵi zambiri achibale ndi mabwenzi apamtima amapereka mphatso zodula monga golidi ndi zinthu zina zimene simuzigwiritsa ntchito m’moyo wanu. Koma ngati mupanga kaundula wa mphatso zaukwati ndikuzipereka mbali zonse ndiye kuti athanso kukupatsani zinthu zomwe muyenera kuyambitsa moyo wanu. Ili ndi lingaliro lakumadzulo koma ndi lothandiza kwambiri ndipo litha kukhala lothandiza kwambiri kwa omwe akugawa ndalama zaukwati.

M’malo moti makolo a mkwati kapena makolo ake a mkwatibwi azigula zinthu, ankatha kuika zinthu m’kaundula zimene anthu angasankhe. Sungani zinthu zomwe zili pa registry kuti zikhale zotsika mtengo. Ngati wina akufuna kusankha awiri kapena atatu zili kwa iye.

Ndiye mukafunsa funso momwe mungagawire ndalama zaukwati, ndikuyembekeza kuti takupatsani yankho lolondola. Ingotsatirani upangiri wathu, gawanani zomwe mwawononga ndikukhala ndi chimwemwe cha moyo watsopano wopanda nkhawa.

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