Zizindikiro 13 Zowona Kuti Winawake Akukunamizirani Pamameseji

Palibenso chinthu chosangalatsa kuposa kuyang'ana pa nkhope ya munthu wabodza akagwidwa ndi manja. Magazi amatuluka m'masaya awo, amayamba kunjenjemera ndikubwerera m'mbuyo ndikuyamba ndikuyesera kubisa kupusa kwawo. Tsoka ilo, palibe chilichonse mwa zolembera izi chomwe chimawonekera muzochitika zenizeni, chifukwa chake zimatengera maestro kuti agwire bodza m'dziko lathu la digito. Ndiye mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama pameseji?

Kunama pa uthenga n'kosavuta. Ndipotu, kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti anthu amanama nthawi zambiri akamacheza pa intaneti, poyerekeza ndi kulankhulana maso ndi maso. Ngati palibe zizindikiro za thupi ndi njira zolankhulirana, kodi mungadziwe bwanji zoona za zomwe wina akunena? Tikuthetsa vutoli ndi zizindikiro 13 zotsimikizika kuti wina akunama pa uthenga. Kaya ndi bwenzi, mnzanu, kapena wachibale, palibe amene adzapulumuka pokunama pa mauthenga. Konzekerani kalasi yapamwamba mu digito yozindikira mabodza - uthenga wa bodza watha TSOPANO!

Zizindikiro 13 Zowona Kuti Winawake Akukunamizirani Pamameseji

Muli ndi lingaliro, sichoncho? Mnzanu amene akutumizirana mauthenga akukwiya ndipo simungathe kusokoneza malingaliro amenewa. Zikanakhala kuti panali njira yotsimikizira malingaliro anu… Chabwino, alipo. Kunena zoona, pali njira 13 zodziwira ngati wina akukunamizani kudzera pa mauthenga. Timamvetsetsa kuti mukusowa zambiri kuposa kungodzimva kuti ndinu wosakhulupirika muubwenzi . Chifukwa chake, tazindikira nkhani zina zabodza zokhudza mauthenga. Pogwiritsa ntchito mndandanda wathu ngati chithunzi, mutha kunyenga wina kuti anene zoona kudzera pa mauthenga.

Komabe, tikuumirira kuti musayende poneneza anthu kuti akunama chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo komanso zizindikiro izi. Chonde tengani nthawi ndi khama kuti mutsimikizire zonena zanu. Kusanthula mosamala mndandandawu kukuuzani zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa. Popanda ado, tiyeni tilowemo momwemo - tingadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama nthawi yomweyo? 

1. Ndizovuta

Tamandani mawu anzeru a Benedict Cumberbatch mkati ndi Sherlock - "Mabodza okha ali ndi tsatanetsatane." Ngati wina akukunamizani pamameseji, mayankho awo amakhala omveka bwino. Mwachitsanzo, mumawafunsa komwe ali. Yankho lokhazikika lingakhale lalifupi komanso lolunjika. Koma mawu a munthu wabodza angawerenge motere: 

"Ndinali kunyumba cha m'ma 12:15 koma ndinaganiza zokapuma mpweya wabwino ndipo ndinatuluka m'nyumba. Ndinathamangira kwa galu wokongola kwambiri ndipo ndinayenda mpaka kumene Michelle amakhala. Makolo ake ali kunja kwa tauni ku ukwati ndipo anandiumiriza kuti ndikadye chakudya. Sikuti kuyankha uku sikukulumikizana ndi funso lanu losavuta, komanso kufotokozedwa mopweteka.

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama kuti akubera mameseji? Chabwino, abodza akhoza kukhala okamba nkhani. Adzajambula chithunzithunzi chambiri ndikukuphimbani pang'ono, kuti muluke pamodzi nkhani yodalirika. Adzafotokoza zonse mopepuka kotero kuti zimakhala zosamvetsetseka kwa inu kuti atha kunama mwatsatanetsatane. 

Kumbali ina, achiwembu ena samadziŵa bwino lomwe tsatanetsatane poyesa kubisa mabodza awo. Akhoza kuzemba mafunso kapena kusintha nkhaniyo. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati mtsikana akunama pa mameseji? Kudzitchinjiriza kwake pamafunso ngati "Mwakhala kuti?", Kungakhale chimodzi mwazizindikiro.

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2. O-okoma kwambiri

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama chifukwa chobera mauthenga? Mwadzidzidzi, mukuona kuti akunena kuti “Ndimakukondani” kawirikawiri kapena akukutumizirani mauthenga onyoza. Iyi ndi njira imodzi yomwe anthu ambiri amapezera zinthu. Nthawi zina, chifukwa cha kudzimva kuti ndi olakwa, munthu amachita zinthu mwachikondi kuti athetse mabodza ake. Kalembedwe kake ka mauthenga kamasinthasintha kwathunthu.

Mawu omwe tikuyang'ana akuchuluka. Abodza ambiri amaopa kugwidwa ndipo atenga njira zodzitetezera kuti musamafukulenso. Njira imodzi yotere ndikuyamika. “Chithunzi chanu chosonyeza ndi chokongola kwambiri” kapena “Ndinu munthu woseketsa kwambiri amene ndimamudziwa” si zabwino zenizeni; iwo ndi njira kupambana chidaliro chanu ndi kusokoneza inu nthawi yomweyo.

Kuwona kuyamikira mwachisawawa ndi momwe mungadziwire ngati wina akunama pamutu. Kasanu ndi kamodzi mwa khumi, zotsekemera izi zidzaperekedwa pamene mukuyandikira kufunsa mafunso kapena kumayambiriro kwa zokambirana. Osalakwitsa kukopeka - yang'anani chowonadi nthawi zonse, chonde.

3. Repondez s'il vous plaît  

Malinga ndi kafukufuku , pali magawo anayi a chinyengo. Choyamba ndi kuyambitsa. Kuti munthu aname, ayenera kusiya mfundo kapena kupanga chinthu chomwe chingamveke chodalirika. Ndipo chifukwa cha "kuzindikira" kumeneku, sangayankhe zokha. Amatenga mphindi imodzi kapena ziwiri kuti apeze choti anene.

Ngati wina akunama pafoni, mudzayimitsidwa pazifukwa zina pamene akulongosola nkhani yake. Momwemonso ndi mabodza a mauthenga. Simungayembekezere mayankho achangu. Nthawi yoyankha idzakhala yayitali pamene munthuyo akukonzekera yankho lake mosamala. Tiyerekeze kuti uthenga wanu watumizidwa nthawi ya 5:20 pm. Adzayankha pofika 5:24 - nthawi yayitali kwambiri m'dziko la mauthenga awiri ofulumira.

Mwayi, muyenera kuyimba "???" kapena “Muli pamenepo?” kuwafulumizitsa panjira. Nthawi yayitali yoyankhira ndikupereka kwakufa. Yang'anani momwe mungayankhire malemba 3-4 ndipo mumvetsetsa ngati pali nsomba. (Umu ndi momwe mungadziwire ngati wina akunama pa intaneti pakadutsa mphindi 10!)

4. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama pameseji? Kutaya chiwembu

Ngakhale wabodza ayesetse bwanji, padzakhala mabowo ochepa pa chiwembu chawo. Kusagwirizana ndi njira yabwino yodziwira ngati mwamuna akunama pameseji. Kusintha mwatsatanetsatane kapena kusokoneza dongosolo la zochitika ndi zolakwika zofala. Ngati munthu uyu akuvutika kukumbukira, ayenera kugwidwa posakhalitsa. Kunama sikukhazikika chifukwa nyumba ya makadi imagwa nthawi ina.

Mungathenso kudziwa ngati wina akukunamizani kudzera mu uthenga woti 'tense hopping'. Popeza nkhani yawo ndi yopeka, adzasokonezeka ndi nthawi yomwe nkhaniyi ikuchitika. Mudzavutika kutsatira mawu omwe agwiritsidwa ntchito. Nayi chitsanzo cha nkhani yochokera kwa chibwenzi chachinyengo : "Iye ndiye amene anandichitapo kanthu. Ndangokhala pamenepo, sindikuchita chilichonse ndipo wakwera m'chiuno mwanga. Zinandipangitsa kukhala wosasangalala ndipo ndidzamuuza kuti asiye."

5. Gtg, brb

Ngati mukufuna kudziwa ngati munanamizidwa pa mameseji, onani momwe amasiyitsira zokambiranazo mwadzidzidzi. Ngati zolemba zanu zikuyang'ana pamutu wosasangalatsa womwe ungawulule mabodza awo, wolembayo ayesa kudzipatula ASAP. Zitha kukhala chifukwa chadzidzidzi kapena batire la foni likutha. Muzatsanzikana mwachangu, ndipo poof, apita!

Anthu ambiri onama amatsatira njira imeneyi akamaona kuti mukupita patsogolo. Ndipotu, angakupeweni kwa kanthawi mpaka fumbi litatsika pa zomwe mukukayikira. Zizolowezi zothawa nthawi zambiri zimakhala chizindikiro cha mabodza akuluakulu monga kusakhulupirika kapena chizolowezi. Onetsetsani kuti mwayamba kukambirana komwe adakupangitsani - musalole kuti zisokonezeke!

6. Palibe makamaka

Ndi chododometsa chapadera koma kutanthauzira ndi chizindikiro chabodza monga momwe zilili. Ngati mukufuna kupusitsa wina kuti anene zoona polemba meseji, afunseni zinthu zachilendo monga "Munaitanitsa chiyani kumalo odyera?" kapena “Mwabwera bwanji kunyumba?” Yankho lawo mwina lidzakhala losamveka komanso losamveka bwino momwe zingathere. 

Samalani mawu ngati "osati zambiri", "sindingakumbukire kwenikweni" kapena "mukudziwa, mwachizolowezi" chifukwa amawonekera kwambiri. Kupambana kwanu kudzawonjezeka kwambiri ngati mungawadzidzimutsa ndi mafunso anu. Mabodza amawu ndi osavuta kuzindikira mukadziwa zomwe mukuyang'ana.

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7. Kusintha 

Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zoonekeratu zomwe zingakuthandizeni kudziwa ngati wina akunama pafoni; adzasintha mitu mwachangu. Kumbukirani lamulo la chala chachikulu - abodza amadana ndi kukhala pa mabodza awo. Amachita mantha mukamayendayenda mozungulira nkhaniyo ndipo amayesetsa kusokoneza chidwi chanu. Ndipo pali njira zanzeru zochitira izo.

Yang'anani njira zatsopano zoyankhulirana : “OMG ndayiwala kutchula…” “Ndisanaiwale, ndikuuzeni…” “Hei, dikirani kamphindi. Kodi mwamva zomwe zinachitika dzulo?” Chinthu chodabwitsacho nthawi zonse chidzakusokonezani ndi nkhani yomwe ili m'nkhaniyi ndipo wabodza adzapumira. Musatenge nyambo ndikutsatira nkhani yoyambirira – umu ndi momwe mungadziwire ngati wina akunama chifukwa cha uthenga.

8. Momwe ma turntables  

Mukukumbukira nkhani yotchuka iyi yolembedwa ndi Michael Scott mu The Office, sichoncho? Mukayandikira kwambiri chowonadi, wabodza adzatulutsa khadi la UNO. Adzayamba kudzudzula ndikukutsutsani kuti munanama. Kuchita zinthu zopanda pake, inde. Tikudziwa. Yankho lanu lidzakhalanso losokoneza komanso lokwiya. Koma mu chisokonezochi, wabodza adzapambana kusunthanso chidwi chanu.

Mnzanu wabodza amakupangitsani kumva kuti pali vuto ndi inu. Kapena adzakutsutsani kuti ndinu paranoid. Kodi abodza amagwiritsa ntchito mawu otani? Iwo amanena zinthu monga, “N’zosadabwitsa! Adzapanga zonse za 'inu' ndipo ayamba kukayikira misala yanu. Adzakunyengererani mpaka mudzayamba kudzikayikira.

Angayesenso kukunyengererani kuti mumawapangitsa kumva chisoni. Mwachidule, njira zoyatsira gasi ndi zida za abodza. Kukulozerani chala ndi umboni woti alakwitsa. Samalani ndi izi ndipo musakwiye. Ganizirani mozama komanso modekha - iyi ndi njira yodziwira ngati wina akukunamizani mumphindi 10.

9. Ndikhulupirireni, chabwino? 

Mukunamizidwa ndi chibwenzi chanu? Onani mawu oyenerera omwe amagwiritsa ntchito. Pofuna kulimbikitsa bodza, wolembayo adzadalira mawu monga "ndikhulupirireni", "ndikhulupirireni", "Ndikulumbira" ndi zina zotero. Izi zigwira ntchito kumlingo wina pakubwereketsa kukhulupilika kwa mabodza koma padzafika pomwe mudzazindikira kuperewera kwa mawuwa.

Mawu oyenerera ndi chizindikiro champhamvu cha bizinesi yamthunzi chifukwa amachokera kumalo osimidwa / mantha. Wabodzayo mwina ali ndi nkhawa yotumizirana mameseji ndipo akuyesera kuyimitsa mawu olimbikitsa. Winawake akukunamizani pamameseji ngati uthenga wina uliwonse uyamba ndi " trust me ". 

10. Pa chitetezo

Izi ndi zodziwikiratu. Ngati mukufunsa mafunso mobwerera m'mbuyo (pofuna kunyengerera wina kuti anene zoona palemba), adzitchinjiriza. Wabodza si wopusa kapena wosadziwa; iwo akudziwa kuti inu muli pa iwo. Yankho lawo losavuta ndikukhumudwitsa - "Mukuyesera kutanthauza chiyani?" kapena “N’chifukwa chiyani mukundiimba mlandu?”

Mofananamo, wabodza angadzilungamitse pofotokoza mopitirira muyeso. Khalidwe lodziteteza limaphatikizaponso kukana kumvetsera ndikusintha nkhani (monga momwe tidafotokozera kale.) Mfundo yofunika kwambiri iyenera kukhala kuyandikira mabodzawo mochenjera komanso mwanzeru. Udani ndi nkhanza sizingakupatseni chilichonse pamene wina akukunamizani muubwenzi.

11. Foni yatsopano, ndani ameneyo? 

Anthu akamanama pa mapulogalamu, kalembedwe kawo ka mameseji kamasintha ndipo amakhala osadziwika bwino. Mawu achidule adzidzidzi, ma emojis owonjezera, mawu ofotokozera, kapena mawu opangitsidwa ndi mantha amawonekera pamacheza. Mumasokonezeka ndikuyamba kudabwa ngati munthu amene amakutumizirani mameseji ndi amene mumamuganizira.

Chabwino, mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama pameseji? Ganizilani mmene timadziŵila kusintha kwa kalankhulidwe kapena kamvekedwe ka mawu mwa munthu. Amatithandiza kuzindikira bodza chifukwa timazindikira kusintha kwa munthuyo. Zomwezo zimapitanso kwa malemba ndi kusakhulupirika. Ngati meseji mnzanu sali yekha, ndi mbendera yofiira motsimikiza. Ndani anganene, "Hahaha lmao", ngati wodabwitsa?

12. Kusewera pa loop - Momwe mungadziwire ngati wina akunama kwa mphindi khumi

Mudzapeza zonse m'machitidwe. Mawu obwerezabwereza/tsatanetsatane/mawu ndi njira yodziwira ngati wina akunama pa uthenga. Zinthu zina zimachitikanso anthu akamayesa kufotokoza nkhani yawo mozama. Mwachitsanzo, chibwenzi chanu chinanama kuti chinakumana ndi chibwenzi chakale . Anati anali ndi mnzake pa bala.

Kodi abodza amagwiritsa ntchito mawu otani? Zambiri zitha kuwonekeranso m'nkhani yake. "Stacy adaledzera kwambiri usiku watha." "Ndinakuuza kuti Stacy adaledzera bwanji?" "Stacy sangakwanitsedi kumwa mowa." Masewerawa amawu osagwira mawu adzakhala nkhani yomwe mukuyang'ana. Kufuula kobwerezabwereza "NDIKHULUPIRIRE!" pamene wina akunamizani pa mameseji.

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Pali njira ziwiri zotsimikizira zingapitirire. Choyamba, mumatsimikizira nokha bodza ndikuzindikira kuti ndilowona. Ndipo ziwiri, pomwe wabodza akuumirira kutsimikiza chifukwa iwo adachitapo kanthu kale. Ngati adanena kuti ali kunja ndi abwenzi, abwenzi awo amawathandiza mukadutsana.

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Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati wina akunama pa meseji? Yang'anani mawu ngati “Mungathe kufunsa Jason, adzakuuzani” kapena “Mark anganene chimodzimodzi” pokambirana. Chifukwa ndi anzake omwe sakanatsatira nkhaniyi? Monga, duh. Mutha kudziwa ngati munthu akunama mwachangu kudzera pazotsimikizira zabodza.

Kudzimva kuti walakwa komanso kuvutika chifukwa choperekedwa kumabweretsa mavuto ambiri amaganizo. Kuchira ku vutoli ndikupezanso chidaliro kungakhale ntchito yovuta yomwe ingafunike thandizo la akatswiri. Alangizi athu ochokera ku gulu la Bonobology angakuthandizeni pa izi. Khalani omasuka kuwalankhula. Ndipo motero, tafika kumapeto kwa njira zodabwitsa zopezera mabodza a mauthenga. Muli ndi zida zofunika kuti mudziwe ngati wina akukunamizani kudzera pa mauthenga. Onetsetsani kuti mwasangalala ndi nthawiyo mokwanira ndipo tithokozeni chifukwa cha kabuku kathu kakang'ono. Chowonadi chikhalepo nthawi zonse pa mapulogalamu anu ochezera!

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