Masewera achikondi ndi ovuta kwambiri. Machesi abwino - pomwe chilichonse chomwe mukufuna chimachitika momwe mumaganizira - sichichitika kawirikawiri. Nkhani zambiri zachikondi zasokonekera chifukwa mwamuna ndi mkazi amalankhula zinenero ziwiri zosiyana. Chotero kuti mupeŵe kupwetekedwa mtima kulikonse kapena manyazi, m’pofunika kudziŵa ngati wina amakukondani kapena kungokhala waubwenzi.
M'malo mwake, kuvomerezana ndi kukopana ndi gawo loyamba lokhazikitsa mgwirizano. Ndipo kulimba kwa kulumikizanaku kudzasankha ngati zikhala zakuya kapena kukhalabe pamlingo wa 'abwenzi basi'. Zibwenzi zomwe zingatheke nthawi zambiri zimasokonekera chifukwa mkazi sangathe kuwerenga bwino zizindikiro, amalakwitsa maubwenzi achikondi ndipo amakonda kuwerenga mopitirira muyeso zizindikiro zosavuta.
Njira yopewera masoka oterowo ndiyo kuzindikira choyamba kusiyana pakati pa chikondi, kusilira, chidwi, ubwenzi ndi ulemu chabe, ndi kudziŵa ngati mnyamata akukukopani kapena kungokhala waubwenzi. Kodi mumatani? Werengani kuti mudziwe ngati mnyamata yemwe mumamukonda kwambiri ali wokonzeka kubwezera mofanana kwambiri ndipo ngati ali ndi chidwi chenicheni mwa inu kapena kungokhala waubwenzi ndikukuchitirani ngati bwenzi lake lina.
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Cupid ikhoza kugunda aliyense nthawi iliyonse. Nthawi zina, zimachitika mwadzidzidzi. Mukakumana ndi munthu, mumamva kuti mahomoni akugwira ntchito nthawi yowonjezereka ndi bingo, posakhalitsa mumakhala mutu wachikondi. Nthawi zina, chikondi kapena kukopa ukhoza kukula pang’onopang’ono, mwina chifukwa cha chochitika china kapena panthaŵi inayake pamene muwona mbali ina ya munthuyo.
Zikatere, muyenera kutsimikizira ngati amene mumamukonda ali ndi malingaliro aliwonse amalingaliro anu. Kodi amakukondani kapena kungokhala waubwenzi? Ngati akulankhula nanu, ndiye kuti m'pofunikanso kudziwa ngati ndi kukopana mwaubwenzi kapena kukopana kwambiri pofuna kupewa kuika chiyembekezo chanu pa chinthu chomwe sichingakhale ndi tsogolo. Kuti muthetse vuto la 'ndi waubwenzi kapena wokondweretsedwa', samalani ndi zizindikiro izi…
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1. Amakhala pafupi nanu nthawi yayitali kuposa ena kuntchito
Ngati mukudabwa ngati mnyamata ali ndi chidwi ndi inu kapena kungokhala wochezeka kuntchito, khama lake kucheza khalidwe limodzi-m'modzi ndi inu ndi chizindikiro chachikulu kuyang'ana. Zokonda zakuntchito zakhala zofala kwambiri masiku ano popeza anthu ambiri amakhala nthawi yayitali muofesi (chabwino, mwina ndi nthawi yamasiku asanafike mliri koma mumayamba kuyenda).
Zikatere, si zachilendo kuyamba kukonda mnzanuyo. Koma chifukwa chakuti amakuthandizani pa ntchito yanu kapena kukutamandani pamaso pa ena sizikutanthauza kuti akufuna kukhala nanu pachibwenzi. Kuti mudziwe ngati mnzanu wa kuntchito ali ndi chidwi kapena akungocheza naye, onani nthawi imene amakhala nanu kuntchito.
Kodi amakhala nthawi yayitali pa desiki yanu kuposa ena? Kodi amakuthandizani pazovuta zilizonse? Kodi amakutengerani bwana m'malo mwanu? Ngati yankho la mafunso onsewa ndi inde, ndiye kuti mwina pali chinachake chimene chikuyembekezera kupangidwa kumeneko.
2. Amafuna kudziwa zambiri za inu
Mukufuna kudziwa ngati mnyamata akukukopani kapena akungocheza naye? Chabwino, mutha kupeza yankho lanu pongoyesa kuchuluka kwa chidwi chake mwa inu ndi moyo wanu. Nenani kuti mwakumana ndi munthu pa bala kapena pa Tinder ndipo mwagunda. Koma 'kukantha' sikutanthauza kuti amakopeka kwambiri ndi inu kapena amakuganizirani tsikulo likatha. Kuti muwone ngati wachibale wanu amakukondani kapena amakukondani, mvetserani mafunso amene akufunsani.
Mwamuna amene amakopeka ndi inu adzafuna kudziwa zambiri za inu, moyo wanu, zokonda zanu ndi zokhumba zanu. Sadzatengeka ndi misampha yakunja yokha koma adzayesadi kukhala ndi makambitsirano aatali ndi atanthauzo ndi inu, kumene amakumvetserani mwachidwi. Sizingakhale zocheza za iye ndi moyo wake yekha.
3. Amakuyang'anani m'maso osati pa foni
Kodi ndi waubwenzi kapena wokondweretsedwa? Yang'anani momwe iye amakuwonerani. Ngati wannabe hot Beau amayang'ana foni yake nthawi zambiri akakhala ndi inu, ndiye kuti mtsikana wokondedwa, dziwa kuti amakopeka kwambiri ndi chida chake kuposa iwe. Akhoza kumwetulira nthawi zambiri, kukhala aulemu kwambiri, kukugulirani chakumwa ndi kucheza kosangalatsa, koma sangakopeke mokwanira kuti apite patsogolo.
Mwamuna amene amakuona kuti ndiwe woposa mtsikana wapakhomo amakhala ndi maso ako okha. Adzayika foni yake kutali ndikukhala wokhazikika pakucheza ndi inu nthawi yabwino. Mukakhala pamodzi, adzakhala ndi maso anu okha.
Ndipo kuyang’ana m’maso n’kofunika. Mauthenga ambiri amasinthidwa kokha ndi maonekedwe. Ngati nthawi zonse mumadabwa mungadziwe bwanji ngati mwamuna akukopana ndi inu kapena kungokhala waubwenzi, yang'anani iye m'maso. Kupenyerera kwamwano, kuyang'ana molunjika ndi kumwetulira kwachikondi komwe kumatsagana ndi mawu ake kudzatsimikizira kuti ali wozama kukunyengererani.
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4. Amalumikizana ndi mameseji koma…
Mnyamata akamakutumiziranibe mameseji, musamakayikire zolinga zake kapena kuwonjezera tanthauzo la mawu amene amalembawo. Osamangofunsa ngati akukutumizirani mameseji abwino. Yankho nlakuti, inde alidi. Ndi chinthu chabwino kuchita koma kuyankha maimelo ndi zolemba ndi nkhani yaulemu.
Chifukwa chake chifukwa mumalandila mayankho mwachangu pamalemba anu musalowe muzowunikira. Zachidziwikire, ngati ndiye amene akuyambitsa mameseji, ngati amakutumizirani mauthenga popanda nyimbo kapena chifukwa chilichonse, komanso ngati atumiza ma emojis amtima ndi kupsompsona, ndiye kuti mutha kulola ubongo wanu kuyendayenda pang'ono. Koma apo ayi, musawerenge zambiri m'malemba.
Ngati mnyamata akuwoneka kuti akutumiza zizindikiro zosakanikirana ndipo simungadziwe ngati ndi nkhani ya kukopana mwaubwenzi kapena kukopana kwambiri, yang'anani mosamala osati kuchuluka kwa malemba ake komanso zomwe zili. Ngati akukopana kwambiri, malingaliro ake amawonekera bwino. Mudzadziŵa kuti akukukondani osati kubwebweta chifukwa cha kukopana kopanda vuto.
5. Amalemekeza malire
Tsopano uwu ndi khalidwe labwino kwambiri kukhala nalo mwa bwenzi lomwe lingakhalepo. Chifukwa chakuti mwamuna amakukondani musamupangitse kukhala ngati kamwana ka nkhosa ka Mariya kakukutsatirani ponseponse. Kapena kulowa m'ma DM anu ndikukutumizirani mameseji kuti musatope. Kaya mwamuna amakukondani kapena amangokhala ochezeka, kulemekeza malire a ubale ziyenera kubwera mwachibadwa kwa iye.
Ngati munthu akufunadi chibwenzi nanu, ndiye kuti ayenera kusamala kwambiri malire anu. Palibe chogonana kuposa munthu yemwe amamvetsetsa malire ake ndipo samakakamiza kudutsa. Mwamuna wodzidalira adzakupatsani malo anu ndiyeno amakupangitsani kuti mumufune pamalo amenewo.
Mnyamata yemwe amakukondani ndipo akufuna kutengera zinthu pamlingo wina adzayesetsa kuchita izi chifukwa nayenso amafuna kumva kuti akufunidwa komanso kufunidwa.
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6. Amakulumikizani pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti
Makhalidwe ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi njira yofunika kwambiri yodziwira ngati wina ali ndi chidwi ndi inu kapena kungokhala wochezeka. Pamapeto pake, atha kulumikizana nanu pa Facebook kapena Instagram koma sangasungire zolemba zanu zilizonse. Sadzaona kuti n'koyenera kuyamikira chithunzi chilichonse chomwe mumalemba kapena kukambirana.
Koma kwa munthu amene akufuna kukhala woposa bwenzi kwa inu, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi malo otetezeka kwambiri oti mumange pa intaneti yomwe ilipo. Yang'anirani momwe amakondera zolemba zanu, momwe amachitira posachedwa ndi zolemba zanu, amakuyikani chizindikiro akamagawana zomwe zili zofunika kwa iye ndi zina zotero. Manja ang'onoang'ono awa akuwonetsa kuchuluka kwa chidwi chake pa inu.
7. Sadandaula kukugwirani mopepuka
Ili ndi gawo lovuta kufufuza. Amuna amene ali ndi chidwi ndi akazi kuposa monga bwenzi, amakonda kukhala pafupi nawo. Chilankhulo ndiye chinsinsi chomvetsetsa ngati mnyamata akukukopani kapena kungokhala wochezeka. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe akuyang'ana pa kufufuza zotheka ubale ndi pamene akukukhudzani.
N’zoona kuti sitikutanthauza zimenezi mwachipongwe, mwachipongwe, koma mongoseŵera, mopepuka. Kutsamira pa inu pamene mukuyankhula, kukuyang'anani mwachidwi pamene mukukambirana, kusewera mopepuka ndi tsitsi lanu kapena kupaka dzanja lake pang'onopang'ono pa lanu ndi njira zobisika zomwe zimayankha funso lofunika kwambiri - kodi ali ndi chidwi kapena amangokhala aulemu?
8. Amakumbukira chilichonse chokhudza inu
Chifukwa chake mudakumana ndi munthu wabwino, mudakhala ndi nthawi yosangalatsa yokambirana bwino ndipo mudamva zowala mkati. Tsopano, inu mwasokonezeka ngati iye anamva izonso. Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati amakukondani kapena amangocheza nanu? Izi ndi zomwe mumachita - konzani tsiku lina.
Mwina mwachisawawa popanda kupangitsa kuwoneka ngati 'deti' ngati mudakali pachibwenzi. Makamaka, perekani nthawi yokwanira pakati pa tsiku loyamba ndi lachiwiri. Ndiye mukakumana naye, muyeseni mwachisawawa ngati akumbukira zonse zomwe munamuuza. Za ntchito yanu, banja lanu, zomwe mumakonda ndi zomwe simukonda… zambiri. Mumadziwa zomwe anganene ngati agawana nawo zokonda zanu.
9. Salankhula za atsikana ena
Mwamuna amene ali bwenzi sadandaula kulankhula za akazi ena kwa inu. Sangaganize kawiri zoyamika mtsikana pamaso panu kapena mwina kuvomereza kuphwanya kwake kunena mtsikana amene amagwira naye ntchito kapena munthu amene anakumana naye paphwando. Sangaganize zomwe zimakupangitsani kumva makamaka ngati sakudziwa momwe mumamvera.
Izi sizingachitike ngati ndinu mtsikana kwa iye. Ndiye, mwina akulankhula za INU kwa anzake ena. Ngakhale ubalewo sunafike pamlingo wodzipatula, sangalabadire ena ngati ndiwe yekhayo m'malingaliro ake. Choncho njira yabwino yodziwira ngati amakukondani kapena kungokhala waubwenzi ndiyo kufufuza khalidwe lake ndi atsikana ena.
10. Safuna kutsanzika
Tonse tinazimvapo kale. Mukakopeka ndi munthu ndipo simunamuululebe, mumapanga zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zomupangitsa kukhalabe. Inu basi sindikanafuna deti kutha pamene inu kufunafuna mphindi zingapo kukambirana.
M’malo mwake, bwenzi lachimuna silingakhale ndi mphwayi m’kutsanzikana pamene msonkhano watha. Zedi, angasangalale ndi kukhala ndi anzanu kwambiri ndipo mutha kusangalala limodzi koma kulakalaka, kulakalaka ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chotalikitsa kuyanjana kulikonse sikudzakhalapo.
Ngati mukulimbana ndi funso la 'kodi ali waubwenzi kapena wokondweretsedwa', ingowonani ngati akukoka mapazi ake ikafika nthawi yoti atsanzikane nanu ndikuyang'ana zifukwa zobwereranso kwakanthawi kochepa, ndikusangalalira nthawi iliyonse yomwe muli limodzi. Ndipo ngati atero, mungakhale otsimikiza kuti akusungirani malingaliro amphamvu.
11. Amachita zonse zotheka kuti akusangalatseni
Kodi amachita khama kuti akuuzeni zimene wakwanitsa kuchita? Kodi amadzitamandira chifukwa cha ntchito zake? Kodi amakugulirani mphatso zodula ngakhale pamene palibe chochitika? Ndiye inde, iye ndithudi akufuna kukusangalatsani. Kodi akukopana mosazindikira? Inde, alidi.
Mwina sangafune kukufotokozerani zakukhosi kwake mwina chifukwa sakudziwa momwe mukumvera kapena akulimbana ndi katundu wina wakale. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, malingaliro ake amamsonkhezera kuchita chidwi ndi inu. Amafuna kuti muzimuona ngati bwenzi loyenera, n’chifukwa chake amayesetsa kukusangalatsani.
Apanso, mayendedwe awa akhoza kubwereranso kwathunthu ngati samasewera bwino. Koma ngati muli ndi chidwi mofananamo koma simukudziwa mmene akumvera, samalani ndi khalidwe lake mukakhala naye pafupi. Mwamuna yemwe amakukondani adzachitapo kanthu kuti atsimikizire chitonthozo chanu ndikuwonetsa (nthawi zina mochenjera komanso nthawi zina, mopambanitsa) maluso ake ambiri.
12. Mmene amakuikirani mkono ndi zosiyana
Mwamuna akamakuchitirani ngati mnzake wina aliyense, mmene amakukumbatirani zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi mmene amakukumbatirani akakopeka nanu. Pankhani yoyamba, kudzakhala kukumbatira chimbalangondo, mtundu womwe amaupatsa abwenzi ake aamuna ndipo amakusiyani opanda malingaliro.
Komabe, ngati amakukondani, kukukumbatirani kwake kudzadzazidwa ndi chikondi chowonjezereka ndi kumverera kwachikhumbo. Kukumbatirana “kosakhala waubwenzi” kumakupangitsani kumva kuwawa msana wanu, kudzakhala kofatsa komanso kokhutiritsa pang'ono. Zinthu izi sizimakakamizidwa, zimangobwera mwachibadwa kotero kuti 'mumadziwa' zikachitika. Kodi mumadziwa kuti kukumbatirana ndikokwanira kudziwa ngati mwamuna amakukondani kapena kungokhala waubwenzi?
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13. (Iye) adzaponya machenjerero (ndipo Adzazindikira) ndi kukhala Wochenjera kwambiri
Mofanana ndi atsikana, anyamata ambiri nawonso safuna kusonyeza chidwi pa chibwenzi. Mwina ndi gawo la masewera achikondi. Mumaponya malingaliro, mumayang'ana maso, mumachita zonse zomwe tatchulazi kupatula kuyankhula mwachindunji.
Mnyamata yemwe amakuganizirani ngati bwenzi ali wolunjika kwambiri pakufuna kukumana nanu, kucheza nanu kapena kukudziwani. Mwina amakupezani kukhala munthu wosangalatsa ndipo sakuganizira za chibwenzi. Chotero iye ali wachindunji ndipo amaika zinthu mosabisa popanda kusiya mpata uliwonse wa kukaikira.
Monga tafotokozera pamwambapa, masewera achikondi ndi ovuta ndipo pali zizindikiro ndi zizindikiro zomwe ziyenera kufotokozedwa. Ingoyang'anani kwa iwo ndikusewera moyenerera!
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