"Kodi Ndine Gay Kapena Ayi?" Tengani Mafunso Awa Kuti Mudziwe

"Kodi ndine gay?" ndi funso lomwe ambiri a ife tinadzifunsa tokha, makamaka titaonera pulogalamu yaposachedwa ya Netflix ya Heartstopper . Mitundu yomwe inali mu pulogalamuyo inali yowala ngati mitundu yomwe ili mu mbendera ya LGBTQ. Kodi tsopano mukudabwa komwe muli pa nkhani yokhudza kugonana? Nthawi iliyonse mukamachita chiwonetsero chodzikuza ku koleji yanu, mumayamba kudzifufuza. Musadandaule, takuthandizani ndi mafunso akuti 'Kodi ndine gay?'. Ili ndi buku labwino kwambiri kwa ophunzira aku koleji, omwe asokonezeka ndi nkhani yokhudza kugonana kwawo.

Mnzanga wina posachedwapa anandifunsa kuti “Kodi ndine gay, wowongoka kapena chiyani?” Tikufuna malangizo othandiza kuti tipeze mayankho a funsoli. Funso lakuti ‘Kodi ndine gay?’ lidzakuthandizani kuthetsa kukayikira kwanu. Ili ndi funso lalifupi koma lanzeru, lokhala ndi mafunso 9 okha. Koma, musanachite funsoli, muyenera kukumbukira nthano ndi malingaliro olakwika okhudza anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha :

• Osaweruza zakugonana kwanu potengera kukomoka / kudzutsidwa kogonana. Sikuti aliyense wamaliseche wamtundu womwewo akuyatsa
• Kupeza anthu amtundu wofanana kukhala wokongola ndi chinthu chachilendo. Zingakhale kuti mumawayamikira monga anthu
• Osakana gawo lirilonse la wekha. Khalani womasuka komanso wowona mtima kwa inu nokha. Landirani mwayi woti mutha kukhala gay kwenikweni
• Kugonana ndi madzimadzi. Ndi zachilendo ngati nthawi zambiri mumakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, koma nthawi zina mumakopeka ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
• Ndi bwino kusadziwa. Simungapeze yankho la "Kodi ndine gay?" m’tsiku limodzi. Pitirizani kufufuza za kugonana kwanu mpaka mutadziwa

Pomaliza, munthu yekhayo amene angayankhe funso lakuti, "Kodi ndine gay?", Ndiwe. Ganizirani mafunso ena. Chifukwa chiyani mudafunsa mafunso a 'Am I gay'? Nchiyani chikukupangitsani kukhala wosatsimikiza? Ndi mbali ziti za inu nokha zomwe simukumasuka nazo? Kodi munayamba mwapsompsonapo munthu ngakhale mumadziwa kuti pansi pamtima simukufuna? Kodi ndani amene amapangitsa mtima wanu kugwedezeka osati mwaubale? Pambuyo pofunsa mafunso, chotsatira ndi chiyani?

• Kutuluka m'chipindacho ndizovuta. Tengani nthawi yanu kuti mukhale omasuka
• Pezani anthu omwe angakukondeni mosasamala kanthu. Aliyense atenga nthawi kuti akonze. Choncho, musafulumire
• Ngati zotsatira za mafunso zikuti 'Ayi' ndipo mukukhulupirirabe kuti ndinu gay, funsani dokotala wa LGBTQ+ kuti amveketse bwino.

Kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri kungakuthandizeni kwambiri pofufuza za kugonana kwanu. Katswiri wodziwa bwino ntchito yake adzakufikitsani pafupi ndi yankho lolondola la funso lakuti, “Kodi ndine mwamuna kapena mkazi?” Adzakuthandizani kupeza mbali zanu zomwe zimagwirizana ndi anthu ammudzi ndikutulutsa zomwe ndi inu enieni. Ngati mukufuna thandizo kuti musiye vuto lokhudza kugonana kwanu, alangizi omwe ali pagulu la Bonobology ali pafupi nanu.

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