Momwe Mungapezere Chikondi Poyenda

Tinakumana patchuthi pa gombe lina la nyanja ku Greece. Ngati kokha "Munakumana bwanji?" nkhani inali yabwino ngati imeneyo, sichoncho? 

Kupeza chikondi mukuyenda mwina ndichinthu chokondana kwambiri kunja uko, komanso ndizovuta. Kodi ndi liti pamene munakwanitsa kupeza kulimba mtima kulankhula ndi alendo patchuthi (kupatulapo nthawi imeneyo munaledzera kwambiri moti simungakumbukire chilichonse)? 

Kuti muwonetsetse kuti mwayesapo pamalingaliro ovuta koma okopawa, tiyeni tiwone zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muwonjezere mwayi wanu wopeza Enrique, woyimba wachipwitikizi yemwe adakukondani kwambiri ali ku Jamaica. 

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Ngakhale ubongo wanu wanjala wachikondi ungakupangitseni kuti mudzapeza chikondi cha moyo wanu pabwalo la ndege, msilikali wanu wovala zida zonyezimira mwina sangakumenyeni mutavala pilo pakhosi ndi PJs yanu. Palibe chilichonse chokhudza Crocs chomwe chimafuula kuti "Tiyeni tiyambe moyo limodzi," sichoncho? 

Komanso, muyenera kusamala pang'ono za omwe mumawayang'ana mukakhala patchuthi. Musanadziwe, mungakhale mukukopana ndi munthu wachinyengo woyendayenda yemwe alibe ndalama chifukwa "khadi lawo linasiya kugwira ntchito mwadzidzidzi".

Kuti muwonetsetse kuti nkhani yanu yolota "tinakumana patchuthi" simatha ndi inu wopanda ndalama kudziko lina, tiyeni tiwone malangizo awa okuthandizani kuti mupeze chikondi mukuyenda. 

1. Yankho ku mafunso anu onse: Chibwenzi mapulogalamu

Kodi munadziletsapo kusuntha, mukuda nkhawa kuti ndi anthu angati omwe mumawadziwa omwe adzawona mbiri yanu? Umenewo ndi kukongola kwa kusuntha kudzera mu mapulogalamu ochezera pomwe palibe amene akudziwa dzina lanu, palibe chiweruzo.

Mutha kuyambitsanso chikondi chanu chatchuthi musanakafike komweko. Pitilizani ndikusintha malo mu pulogalamu yanu yazibwenzi yomwe mungasankhe kupita komwe mukufuna kupita, ndikuyamba kusuntha. Ndani akudziwa, mwina mudzatha kukwera nokha kuchokera ku eyapoti. Pamalingaliro achiwiri, mwina mukakumane nawo pamalo opezeka anthu ambiri, kukakhala kokongola komanso kwadzuwa, ndipo pali anthu ambiri. 

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2. Palibe maanja omwe amaloledwa 

Kodi bwenzi lanu Maxim akufuna kudzakhala nanu paulendo wanu womwe ukubwera? Koma mukudziwa kale kuti ngati Maxim akufuna kutsagana naye, chibwenzi chake Shayeen nayenso adzakwera basi. Iwalani zimenezo! Maanja akutsogolereni kumalo osungiramo zinthu zosungiramo zinthu zakale ndi kokayendera alendo, komwe zonse zomwe mungachite ndikukhala wojambula pazithunzi zawo zapa Instagram. 

Pepani, Maxim, koma chifukwa chakuti mukufuna kukhala ndi madzulo abwino omasuka ndi Shayeen pafupi ndi mtsinje sizikutanthauza kuti mulowa pakati pa mapulani anga a clubbing. Pitirizani ndi kuwasiya abwenzi ophatikizidwa awo; anzanu osakwatiwa ati zikhale zosavuta kupeza tsiku. 

3. Khalani “Inde Munthu”

Kukwawa kwa pub? Sanzikanani ndi nkhawa yanu, mwalowa. Konsati ya nyimbo za jazz zomwe simunamvepo? Kulekeranji! Kuyenda ndi gulu? Anthu matuza pa mapazi anu ndithu adzaoneka ofunika kamodzi inu kupeza nokha deti mmenemo. 

Pamene mukuyesera kupeza chikondi paulendo, onetsetsani kuti simukukana zochitika zabwino. Inde, mwina mukufuna kukhala nokha pafupi ndi mathithi pakati pa chilengedwe, koma mudzapeza udzudzu wambiri kumeneko, osati chibwenzi.

4. Mwinanso mungasiye anzanu kwa kanthawi kochepa chabe 

Palibe amene angafune kuthera nthawi yochuluka ndi inu pamene muli otanganidwa kukhala gawo la gulu lomwe mwabwera nalo. Inde, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kuyimirira nokha kufunafuna chikondi, koma mwina yendani pang'ono pozungulira kapena kupita kukamwa khofi pang'ono wabwino nokha. Pamene muli, yesetsani kuphunzira kunena kuti “Moni” m’chinenero chawo. 

Ndani akudziwa, mwina "Munakumana bwanji?" Nkhani ikhoza kungopita motere: "Ndinati "Hola!" ndipo nthawi yomweyo anamwetulira chinthu chimodzi chinatsogolera ku china, ndipo sitinalankhulepo ma adios kwa wina ndi mnzake. 

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5. Khalani kwanuko 

Mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungapezere munthu woti mupite naye kudziko lina? Inde, simungasangalale kuona kalonga wanu akukongola pamene mukupita kukafufuza malo okopa alendo ambiri mumzindawu.

M’malo mwake, yesani kuchita zinthu zimene anthu akumaloko amachita. Pitani kumalo ogulitsira khofi, kupita kumakonsati ang'onoang'ono kapena kuphwando lachikhalidwe, yesetsani kuti musawoneke ngati mlendo wamkulu kwambiri, muli ndi mapu okulirapo amzindawu m'manja mwanu. 

Kupeza chikondi paulendo nthawi zambiri sikutanthauza kuti zinthu ngati zimenezi zimachitika m'mafilimu okha. Munthu wina wanzeru anati, “Mumaphonya zithunzi 100% zomwe simujambula,” kodi kuyesa kupeza kalonga wanu kukhala wokongola si njira yabwino kwambiri mukakhala patchuthi?

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