Njira 10 Zomwe Queerphobia Ikuchokera Mkati Mwa Nyumba

Patha zaka 32 kuchokera pamene bungwe la World Health Organization linanena kuti kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi vuto la maganizo. 32 zaka. Ndiwo msinkhu wanga. Zili ngati ndinabadwira kudzuka kwamwano kotero kuti, monga munthu wamantha, sindimaganiziridwanso kuti ndine wodwala maganizo chifukwa cha kugonana kwanga. Ah zikomo, atsogoleri adziko? Koma apa pali zambiri. Zaka zitatu zapitazo, WHO idadzuka ndipo idati sidzayikanso kukhala transgender ngati vuto lamalingaliro. 3 zaka. Chabwino, IDAHOBIT wokondwa (Tsiku Lapadziko Lonse Lolimbana ndi Homophobia, Biphobia, Intersexism ndi Transphobia) kwa ife tonse!

Sitingasiye kunyalanyaza zomwe anthu amadana nazo * 'kuzindikira' komanso kusalidwa kofala kwa chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe komanso zachipatala zomwe zachita potengera malingaliro, ufulu, ndi chitetezo chatsiku ndi tsiku cha dera langa. Ziwerengerozi ndi chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zomwe ine, pamodzi ndi ambiri a gulu la LGBTQIA +, ndimakhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti queerphobia imachokera mkati mwa nyumba.

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TONSE ndife zopangidwa ndi dongosolo lomwe limathandizira ndikukulitsa queerphobia. Kufikira momwe anthu ammudzi amalimbana ndi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kukhala ndi biphobia, komanso transphobia yamkati, asanagwirizane ndi chinthu chosavuta monga kugonana kapena jenda.

Mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amaganiza, kudziwika kwathu sikovuta. Kukhala munthu wotero kuyenera kukhala kophweka monga kukhala munthu wowongoka, ndipo kukhala munthu wodutsa kuyenera kukhala kosavuta monga kukhala munthu wa cis. Koma sichoncho, chifukwa cha momwe zizindikiritso zathu zimasalidwa, zosawoneka, kusalidwa, kugonekedwa, kuwopsezedwa, kusalidwa, komanso kuchitiridwa zigawenga ndi anthu ambiri oganiza bwino.

Mukauza munthu wokonda zinthu zachiwerewere kuti akuvutika chifukwa chakuti ndi wokonda zinthu zachiwerewere, mukuiwala kuti kulimbanako kumachitika chifukwa cha mantha okonda zinthu zachiwerewere - osati chifukwa cha umunthu wathu. Aliyense angakumane ndi mavuto kapena kuvutika ndi mavuto amisala pamene anthu apanga dala kuti asamagwirizane naye. M'derali, anthu okonda zinthu zachiwerewere ali ndi ulendo wautali asanaphunzire kukhala ogwirizana ndi anthu osintha chikhalidwe cha anthu, anthu osakhala achiwerewere (enby), komanso anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake masiku monga International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, Intersexism ndi Transphobia ndi ofunikira kuti tikumbukire mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya queerphobia yomwe ilipo kunja ndi m'deralo.

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Ufulu Wofanana Wokwatirana Ndi Kukonda

Malinga ndi Human Rights Campaign , pali mayiko 31 okha (chiwerengerochi chikhoza kusintha kuyambira nthawi yomwe nkhaniyi inasindikizidwa) komwe ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi wovomerezeka. Kuti tifotokoze bwino, pali mayiko pafupifupi 200 padziko lonse lapansi. Komanso, mayiko 31 awa sali otetezeka ku queerphobia.

Mnzanga wina posachedwapa adadabwa ndi nambala imeneyo ndipo adati, "Kodi mumatani mukalephera kukwatira amene mumamukonda? Iwalani ukwati. Simungathe kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu kwa munthu amene mumamukonda , kapena kulankhula za chikondi chanu kapena chikondi chanu popanda mantha - sindikudziwa momwe zimamvekera. Sindingaganize zokhala woletsedwa chonchi, osati pagulu lokha komanso mwalamulo. Izi, pamodzi ndi kuthana ndi tsankho la anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ziyenera kuti zimakhala zopweteka mtima komanso zovutitsa kwambiri."

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Inde. Pakadali pano, pafupifupi anthu amavutika kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi jenda kunyumba ndi kuntchito. Ndipo amafunikira mabizinesi awo a jenda kulikonse (Amuna ndi akazi! Amuna ndi akazi!) monga amafunikira mpweya. Momwe amafotokozera mophweka zomwe anthu amakumana nazo monga za jenda, amaiwala mosavuta kukhalapo kwakukulu kwa anthu osatsata amuna kapena akazi okhaokha (GNC), enby komanso anthu osiyanasiyana.

Chifukwa chake, pa International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia ndi Biphobia, tiyeni tikambirane za njovu yayikulu ya queerphobic mchipindamo. Nazi, ndikukhulupirira, njira khumi zomwe queerphobia imachokera mkati mwanyumba zathu. (Chenjezo loyambitsa: kutchula za nkhanza zakuthupi ndi zakugonana kwa anthu aukazi, zitsanzo za queerphobia, kutchula za kudzipha)

1. Maukwati oumiriza

Mnzanga wina wachikazi amene ali ndi makhalidwe amenewa nthawi ina anandiuza kuti: “Ndimadziwa kuti ndimakopeka kwambiri ndi akazi ndipo ndimafuna kukhala ndi mkazi, koma ndikudziwa kuti pamapeto pake ndidzakwatiwa ndi mwamuna kuti banja langa lisangalale.” Sindikufuna kuwataya ulemu, choncho sindidzawauza za mmene ndimakhalira ndi mkazi. Mnzake wina yemwe ali ndi makolo odana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha anamenyedwa ndikutumizidwa kundende ndi banja lake lomwe ponamizira kuba kunyumba kwawo atadziwa kuti chifukwa chake sakufuna kukwatira mkazi ndi chakuti ndi gay.

Mnzake wina wamwamuna anathawa panyumba mwezi umodzi ukwati wake usanachitike, atayesetsa kwambiri kukakamiza banja lake kwa zaka zambiri kuti lisamukwatire mkazi. Mkazi yemwe pamapeto pake anavomereza kuti ndi mkazi wachigololo anakwatiwa mwamphamvu ndipo tsopano akugwiriridwa ndi mwamuna wake nthawi zonse, chifukwa munganene kuti 'kugonana' koteroko ndi mgwirizano?

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Achibale ndi ankhanza akafika pakukwaniritsa maloto awo kudzera mwa ana awo. Amatilera, kutikonzekeretsa ukwati ndi amuna 'otsutsana'. Niinzi chikonzya kutugwasya kumvwa makani aakuti tweelede kupegwa mwana-mwanakazi aachiindi chilamfu, nikuba kuti bazyali banji bakali kubelekela antoomwe akaambo kakuti bakali kubelekelaamwi amwanakazi wabo?

Kodi pakhala pali ubwana wotizungulira pomwe makolo amalankhula chilankhulo chosagwirizana ndi jenda akamalankhula za bwenzi lamtsogolo la mwana? Ayi. Kuganizira kwa kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi heteronormativity. Ndi poizoni, ndipo alipo pafupifupi banja lililonse ku mlingo wosiyana. Sitiyenera kukwatirana ndi anthu omwe timawakonda chifukwa maukwati athu samadziwika ndi lamulo, m'malo mwake, timakakamizika kulowa m'mabanja opanda chikondi chifukwa cha mabanja athu ndi 'ulemu' wawo.

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2. Kunyoza, kudzudzula, kukhala chete

Kodi mkazi amene ali pachibwenzi ndi ndani? Mwamunayo ndi ndani? Kodi nonse mumagonana bwanji? Kumeneko sikugonana kwenikweni. Kugonana kwa mbolo kokha ndiko kugonana kwenikweni. Kodi mudzakhala ndi ana bwanji? Mumakopeka naye chifukwa amaoneka ngati mwamuna. Lol, tawonani agwirana manja, gay bwanji. (Inde, ndi gay, pafupifupi amaiwala kuti 'timakonda' kukhala gay). Kodi muli ndi maliseche? Kodi opareshoni yanu idzachitidwa liti?

Ine ndine wokonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndipo ndamvapo anthu akupempha anthu okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuti asankhe mbali, ngati kuti kugonana ndi njira ya mbali ziwiri. Timatchedwa adyera, osokonezeka, osadalirika komanso osakhulupirika. Anthu ena amakana anthu okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kukhala ogwirizana nawo chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti tidzawanyenga. Zikomo, oimira atolankhani osaganizira ena, chifukwa chokakamiza mfundo imeneyi. Zonsezi sizowona ndipo ndiye maziko a biphobia.

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Chitonzo cha Queerphobic nthawi zambiri chimachokera ku mabanja athunso. M'malo mwake, malo oyamba omwe amanyozedwa kwa anthu ambiri opusa ndi mabanja awo komanso makolo awo odana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Iwo amanyoza anthu amakasitomala chifukwa iwo sanadziŵenso tsankho la jenda. Amanyoza chifukwa queerness imawopseza maziko a gulu lawo lapatriarchal. Amatipatsa mchitidwe wachete kusonyeza kukhumudwa kapena kunyansidwa kwawo popanda kuzindikira kuti ndife amene takhumudwitsidwa nawo.

Komanso, zofalitsa zonse ndi mbiri yakale ya mafilimu nthawi zonse zatipanga ife nthabwala zawo zoipa. Onerani zolemba za Disclosure (2020) pa Netflix kuti mutsegule maso anu kuti muwone njira zambirimbiri zomwe anthu a transayimiridwa molakwika ndikunyozedwa pazenera kuyambira pachiyambi cha makanema. Kunyoza uku kumachotsa ulemu kwa anthu osawerengeka ndipo pamapeto pake kumapha.

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3. Nkhanza kwa ana akale

Panthawi yotseka, milandu yankhanza zapakhomo idakwera padziko lonse lapansi. Chiwawa chilichonse panyumba chingachuluke ngati ochita zachiwawawo amakhala kunyumba ndi munthu woponderezedwa. Ndi mmenenso zinalili ndi anthu ankhanza. Panthawi ya mliriwu, ndalankhulapo ndekha ndikupezerapo ndalama zothandizira anthu osawerengeka (ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, osagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha) omwe amazunzidwa m'nyumba zawo tsiku lililonse - chifukwa chokhala omwe ali.

Masiku ambiri panthawi ya lockdown, mtima wanga unkasweka kwambiri nkhani ya munthu wina wosiyana ndi ena amene wachotsedwa ntchito kapena amene akuzunzidwa ndi makolo ake chifukwa cha nkhanza za ana, zinkadutsa m'mapositi ndi nkhani za pa Instagram. “Chonde ndipatseni ndalama kuti ndisamuke m'nyumba yanga yachiwawa”, “Ndikufunika kufunafuna ntchito pamalo otetezeka komwe sindimazunzidwa nthawi zonse, kodi pali amene ali ndi malo otetezeka omwe ndingagwiritse ntchito kwa mwezi umodzi?”, “Ndikufuna ndalama kuti ndipeze chithandizo cha matenda amisala chomwe ndikuchifuna kwambiri, banja langa silikundithandiza kapena kundisamalira, chonde ndithandizeni.”

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Mu 2021, anthu 375 osintha thupi ndi a GNC adaphedwa malinga ndi lipotili . Izi ndi milandu yomwe yanenedwa. "Ziwerengero izi ndi zochepa chabe za zenizeni zomwe zikuchitika," akutero olemba lipotilo. "M'maiko ambiri, deta siisonkhanitsidwa mwadongosolo. Milandu yambiri imapitirirabe kusanenedwa ndipo, ikanenedwa, siilandira chidwi chachikulu."

Komanso, monga tikudziwira, mayiko 15 aku America posachedwapa akhazikitsa malamulo kwa achinyamata omwe akufuna chithandizo chotsimikizira kugonana. Ngati kuti zimenezo sizokwanira, malinga ndi lipotili , malamulo awa alola madokotala kuchita Zidulo za Intersex kwa makanda a intersex. Cholinga chawo ndi kuwapangitsa kukhala ofanana ndi amuna ndi akazi - kale kwambiri asanakule mokwanira kuti afotokoze mtundu uliwonse wa kudziwika kwa kugonana.

Malinga ndi nkhaniyi , opaleshoni ya intersex — yomwe yambiri imachitika ana ali ndi zaka zosakwana ziwiri — ikhoza kubweretsa mavuto kwa moyo wawo wonse ndipo imabweretsa zipsera, kupweteka kosatha, kusadziletsa kosatha, kutayika kwa chilakolako chogonana, kutsekereza, kugawa molakwika amuna kapena akazi, komanso kuvulala kwa maganizo ndi kugonana . Kodi mukuona momwe queerphobia yathu imakhudzira kwambiri thanzi, chitetezo, ndi udindo wa ana, achinyamata ndi akuluakulu?

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4. Cis anthu misgender ngati iwo analipidwa izo

Yesani kusokoneza munthu wa cis. Chitani mobwerezabwereza. Kodi mwaona mmene amachitira? Osati bwino. Koma anthu a cis nthawi zambiri amasokoneza anthu a trans, enby, ndi GNC. Ena amachita dala. Kapena 'zosangalatsa' ngati 'oseketsa' ambiri odziwika bwino. Kapena chifukwa “n’kovuta” kulemekeza mwamuna kapena mkazi. Iwo alibe vuto pa jenda kanthu kalikonse kowazungulira, koma zikafika kwa munthu wamkulu yemwe akuwauza za umunthu wawo wa jenda ndi matchulidwe awo, pamakhala crickets mwadzidzidzi ndikuwoneka chisokonezo.

Ndikumvetsa kuti mukufunika nthawi yoti musiye kuphunzira miyambo ya amuna ndi akazi, chomwe sindikumvetsa ndi kukana kuchita izi chifukwa 'sichikukuthandizani'. Kuphunzira ulemu kuyenera kukhala mbali ya makhalidwe abwino a m'banja , ndithudi? Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa The Trevor Project , achinyamata osintha mtundu wa anthu komanso osakhala amuna ndi akazi omwe adanena kuti mawu otchulidwira amalemekezedwa ndi anthu onse kapena ambiri m'miyoyo yawo anayesa kudzipha pa theka la chiwerengero cha omwe sanalemekezedwe mawu otchulidwira.

Mwina mukuyenera kuthana ndi nkhani yolakwika pa Tsiku la Padziko Lonse Lolimbana ndi Homophobia, Transphobia ndi Biphobia. Konzani iwo omwe amasokoneza achibale awo, anzawo kapena anzawo. Imirirani kusiyana pakati pa jenda ndi anthu osintha ngakhale atakhala kuti sali pafupi nanu.

5. 'Kuyanjana' kwakutali

Nthawi zambiri timapeza achibale ndi anzathu akudzinenera kuti ndi ogwirizana nawo. Ndi, pambuyo pa zonse, chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe amakonda kwambiri pafupifupi pafupifupits. Imawonetsetsa kuti amalandira mphotho zonse pochita 'ntchito yabwino' popanda udindo uliwonse wopitiliza kuphunzira ndi kukonza machitidwe. Zikatero, amatha kunamizira kuti akuthandiza koma osavomereza kukhalapo kwa mnzawo wosadziwika bwino wabanja lawo.

Atha kuyikapo nkhani yokhudza 'trans life matter' koma sangayang'anenso za abale awo omwe siawiri. Sadzafunsa ngati anzawo akulemekeza zomwe ali nazo komanso ngati pali chilichonse chomwe angafune pankhani yothandizidwa. Anthu ambiri opusa, mwachidule, samamva kuwonedwa, kuthandizidwa, komanso kusungidwa ndi mabanja awo. Kunyalanyaza kumeneku kumakhudzanso chikondi chawo pabanjapo ndipo thanzi lawo lamaganizo limasokonezanso.

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6. Kusafuna kudziphunzitsa

Ndakhala ndikudula anzanga pafupifupi pa moyo wanga pomwe pempho langa losavuta loti adziphunzitse zanga komanso anthu ammudzi sanatengedwe mozama kwa zaka zambiri. Anzanga ambiri omwe adakhalapo nawo adakumananso ndi zotayika zomwezi pomwe abwenzi awo adawakana zovuta zawo (zomwe zimachokera ku queerphobia), kapena kusatenga nawo mbali kapena kumvetsetsa chisangalalo chawo chapadera.

Ngakhale kuti tidaphunzira momwe tingathanirane ndi kudana ndi anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, anzathu ndi achibale athu sanavutike kudziwa kuti kuopa anthu ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha n'kotani, komanso mmene kwafala monga chikhalidwe cha anthu. Palibe kuyankha kapena kufuna kuphunzira ndi kukonza.

Choyipa chachikulu ndichakuti ambiri amadalira anthu opusa kuti awaphunzitse. Samvetsetsa kuti mafunso awo amatikumbutsa za tsankho lathu. Mafunso awo nthawi zina amakhala opanda ulemu, monga amatifunsa momwe timagonana kapena za maliseche a munthu. Mafunso awo ndi osalekeza ndipo sitingathe kukhala omwe timakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse kuti tizitilemekeza moyenera.

Mafunso awo amatikumbutsa kuti kwa iwo, ndife zolengedwa zachilendo izi zomwe zimayenera kudulidwa, kukonzedwa, ndi kumvetsetsa, mosiyana ndi ife anthu omwe timangokonda jenda losiyana ndi lanu, kapena timakumana ndi kugonana kwathu mosiyana ndi inu. Zambiri zimasokoneza umunthu wathu wogonana komanso jenda pomwe palibe chifukwa chochitira.

7. Chilichonse ndi chachimuna

Pamene ma cishets ndi maanja okwatirana akutsutsa ife ndi kunena kuti, “Ana akhale ana”, inenso ndimawawuza chimodzimodzi. Inde, kwenikweni, ana akhale ana. Aloleni azisewera ndi zoseweretsa zomwe asankha. Aloleni azikonda mitundu kapena madiresi omwe akufuna kuvala ndipo asiye kuwakakamiza kuti azitsatira malamulo anu okhudza amuna ndi akazi. Siyani kuuza mtsikana wamng'ono kuti tsiku lina adzakhala ndi chibwenzi kapena mwamuna. Siyani kukakamiza ana kuti azigonana kapena kukhala ndi udindo uliwonse pankhani ya kugonana. N'zodabwitsa kuti anthu ambiri m'mabanja athu ophunzira komanso mabwenzi athu akupitiriza kuchita izi.

Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osakondera amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kuyenera kukhala chizolowezi. “Tsiku lina, mukhoza kusankha kukhala ndi bwenzi, ayenera kukhala okoma mtima kwa inu ndi kukukondani mmene mulili.” Zosavuta, chabwino? Amauza mwanayo kuyambira koyambirira kuti ali ndi ufulu wofufuza kuti ndi ndani, komanso kuti ndinu bwenzi komanso malo otetezeka.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa Trevor Project wa 2022 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, 45% ya achinyamata 34,000 a LGBTQ (azaka zapakati pa 13 ndi 24) ku United States konse adaganiza zoyesa kudzipha chaka chathachi. Achinyamata osakwana m'modzi mwa atatu omwe ali ndi transgender komanso omwe si a binary adapeza kuti kwawo kuli ndi umboni wotsimikizira kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kuthana ndi vuto la kusankhana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso kusankhana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumakhala gawo la moyo wa ana ambiri, makamaka pamene nyumba zawo ndi zomwe zili zosatetezeka kwambiri.

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8. Bisani queer

Iwalani kunyada, mabanja ambiri amachita manyazi ndi ana awo achikazi chifukwa cha jenda lawo kapena chilakolako chawo chogonana . Ena amafika mpaka popepesa chifukwa cha kukhalapo kwa mwana wawo pamaso pa anthu ena. Nkhawa yawo ndi chitonthozo cha wina, osati cha mwana wawo. Ngati mwana akufuna kudzionetsa ngati wosatsatira malamulo a jenda, manyazi a m'banja amawonjezeka, komanso kuvutika maganizo komwe mwana uyu amakumana nako kumawonjezeka.

Timaphunzira momwe tingathanirane ndi anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso transphobia kuyambira tili aang'ono ndipo timaphunzira kuti tiyenera kubisala kukongola kwathu kuti tizikondedwa ndi kulemekezedwa. Izi ndi zomwe zimalimbikitsa transphobia yamkati komanso homophobia yokhazikika. Mabanja ayenera kutiphunzitsa mmene tingadzikonde tokha mokwanira; m'malo mwake, timaphunzitsidwa kuwunika zomwe tikudziwa komanso timadzipatula tokha kuti tisangalale.

9. Kutembenuka 'mankhwala'

Thandizo lotembenuza limaphatikizapo machitidwe amtundu uliwonse omwe cholinga chake ndi kupanga munthu wamba pafupifupi. Kwenikweni, 'kutembenuza' mkazi wachiwerewere kukhala mkazi wowongoka, kapena wosasintha kukhala mwamuna wa cis. Mwachidule, amachita zosemphana ndi chilengedwe komanso zankhanza.

Makolo ambiri oopsa ndi mabanja amakakamiza ana awo kupita kwa sing'anga, wansembe, wochotsa ziwanda kapena katswiri wodziwa bwino za makhalidwe abwino amene angathe 'kuchiritsa' maliseche awo. Pazochitika zoyipa kwambiri, mwana amatumizidwa kukagwiriridwa 'kokonza' komwe amagwiriridwa (ndi chilolezo cha banja) ndi munthu yemwe banja lake limamuwona kuti ndi woyenera kwambiri kwa mwana wawo. Mosakayikira, machitidwe amenewa amasiya chizindikiro chachikulu pa thanzi la maganizo a munthu komanso chithunzi chake. India inaletsa chithandizo chosintha anthu kukhala ochimwa miyezi itatu yapitayo mu February 2022. Zinatitengera nthawi yayitali.

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10. "Khalani otsimikiza!" fuko

Ndauzidwa kuti ndisanyalanyaze queerphobia ndikungo "kusangalala ndi moyo" komanso "kukhala otsimikiza". Ndikanakonda kutero, ngati mungangowauza abwana omwe adandikana potengera kupusa kwanga. Kapena auzeni mwininyumba yemwe anakana kumpatsa mnzanga wa trans nyumba chifukwa chodziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi. Kapena kwa banja la mnzanga wa enby omwe amawasokoneza komanso kuwakhumudwitsa nthawi zonse.

Mukuchita queerphobic ngati mukuganiza kuti systemic queerphobia ikhoza kunyalanyazidwa. Ganizirani mwayi wanu. Chitani ntchito yayikulu yokhala wothandizana naye.

Ibibazo

Maganizo Final

Izi ndi zifukwa zomwe 'nyumba' ndi mawu ofunikira kwa anthu ambiri okonda zinthu zachilendo, kotero tikupeza nyumba m'mabanja omwe tasankha. Ndikukhulupirira kuti inu, pa Tsiku Lapadziko Lonse Lolimbana ndi Homophobia , Transphobia, Biphobia ndi Interphobia, muyang'ane malangizo awa ndikuganiza za omwe mwathandizira. Kaya ndi mawu anu, khalidwe lanu, mfundo zanu, malo anu antchito, maubwenzi anu, ndi zikhulupiriro zanu. Tiyeni tipange 'nyumba' kukhala malo otetezeka kwa tonsefe.

*queerphobia: mawuwa adzagwiritsidwa ntchito mubulogu kuphatikiza mitundu yonse ya tsankho zomwe anthu amakumana nazo - homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, interphobia, ndi zina zambiri.

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