Kuzunzidwa kwa Ana ndi Makolo? Nazi Zomwe Muyenera Kuchita

Kuchitiridwa nkhanza kwa ana ndi makolo si chinthu chimene sitichizoloŵera lerolino. Tikhoza kunyalanyaza nkhani imeneyi tikamawerenga nkhani zochititsa mantha m’nyuzipepala, koma timadziwa kuti limeneli ndi vuto lalikulu lofunika kuliganizira.

Kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi kholo ndi mtundu wa nkhani yomwe imaseseredwa mosavuta pansi pa kapeti chifukwa ozunzidwa nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda chithandizo. Ndizovuta kuyenda ndipo mwana wowoneka bwino nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi bandwidth kuti apeze thandizo lofunikira. Zizindikiro za nkhanza za ana zimakhala zosavuta kuziphonya koma titha kukuthandizani kuzimvetsa bwino.

Momwe Mungathanirane ndi Nkhanza za Ana ndi Makolo

Kuvomereza ndi kuthetsa mavuto aakulu a nkhanza za ana kunyumba kungakhale kovuta kwa iko kokha, makamaka kwa kholo limene likuona nkhanzazo. Zowawa za kugwiriridwa kwa ana ndi yeniyeni ndipo nkhani yowona iyi ikutsimikiziranso zovuta zake:

Nthawi yoyamba inachitika pamene mwana wathu wamkulu anali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zitatu. Mwamuna wanga anavula kabudula wamwana wathu m’chipinda chathu chochezera ndikugwira mbolo. Anachifufuza bwinobwino. Mwana wathu wamwamuna anachita manyazi kwambiri ndipo anathamangira kuchipinda chake. Panthawiyo, sindinkamvetsa kuti ndi nkhani yogwiriridwa ndi bambo.

Sindinayembekezere kuti mwamuna wanga wamanyazi angandichitire molimba mtima chonchi. Ndinamuuza kuti mwana wathu wachita manyazi. Adayankha kuti ngati bambo amayenera kuwunika kukula kwa mwana wawo. Ndinayang'ana zomwe mwamuna wanga akunena modabwa kwambiri. Sizinali za atate amene amayang’ana kukula kwa mwana wake, koma munthu amene anasekedwa ndi mchitidwewo. Nthawi yomweyo ndinadziwa kuti chinachake chalakwika.

Tili ndi ana aamuna awiri, amene anali ndi zaka eyiti ndi zisanu. Ankapita kuchipinda chawo nthaŵi zambiri n’kumaseŵera nawo, koma nthaŵi zonse ndinkayang’ana m’chipinda chawo chifukwa chakuti nthaŵi zonse ankakonda anyamatawo m’njira yosayenera. Ndinamufotokozera za nkhawa zake, koma ankangondinena kuti ndine munthu wopanikiza kwambiri.

Zaka ziwiri zowayang'anira

Ndinakhumudwa pamene anapitiriza kukhudza mwana wathu m’njira yonyansa kwa zaka ziŵiri, nayambanso ndi mwana wamwamuna wachiŵiriyo. Ana athu anagona nafe ndipo ndinaona kuti ankawaseweretsa usiku wonse. Kotero chinthu choyamba chimene ndinachita chinali kuwasamutsira kuchipinda chawo pamodzi.

Ndinali m’mavuto, chifukwa ndinayenera kuwaphunzitsa kuti atate awo akulakwa. Ndinafunika kukhala wamphamvu pamene mwana wanga wachiwiri anayamba kusangalala ndi kutekeseka. Ndine dokotala, ndipo ndikamalankhula ndi ana anga aamuna ndimatha kulankhula mwachiphunzitso, koma zimenezi zinkatanthauzanso kuti bambo awo anali kuwachitira zoipa.

Izi zinali zizindikiro za nkhanza za ana. Ufulu wa ana ku India ndichinthu chomwe ndidayambanso kuyang'ana zambiri kuti ndimvetsetse vutoli mopitilira. Ndinawerenga nkhani zabwino zokhudza kulera ana komanso makhalidwe abwino. Choncho ndawerenga kwambiri za kufunika kophunzitsa anyamata athu zomwe OSATI kuchita.

Komabe, sindimawerenga pang'ono za momwe ndingawalere kukhala okhudzidwa / ozindikira, ozindikira, odzilemekeza okha ndi ena, komanso odziwa bwino kuvomereza kotero kuti nthawi zina ndimadzimva kuti ndasiyidwa mumdima. Ndikudziwa kuti kusangalatsa bambo kuyenera kukhala AYI kuchokera kwa mwana.

Ndine wotsimikiza kulera ana aamuna amene amadzizindikira

Koma vuto langa lenileni linali momwe ndingaphunzitsire mwamuna wanga za malire ake linali vuto langa chifukwa, nthawi zambiri, amakhala wosalankhulana. Sanayang'anenso anyamata kapena amuna kapena kukhala ndi vuto ndi moyo wakugonana ndi ine. Tinali ndi wolima dimba yemwe anali mnyamata wamng’ono. Kuti ndikhale wotetezeka, ndinamuchotsa.

Ndinkadziwanso kuti anyamatawo sankaona chitsanzo chabwino kunyumba. Pamaso pa izi, ndinali wotsimikiza mtima kuchita gawo langa kulera anyamata omwe amanyadira omwe ali, odziwa malire, chidwi komanso kudzifunsa za iwo eni komanso dziko lapansi.

Izi ndi zomwe zidandipeza: Loweruka ndi Lamlungu lina tonse tinali pabedi ndikuwonera mpira. Abambo ndi ana aamuna anali kulimbana ndi magulu awo. Ndiyeno mwamuna wanga “anamwetulira” maliseche a mwana wanga, ndipo iye anali kusangalala nazo. Iye anali ndi erection yomweyo.

Mwana wanga wamkulu anasamuka nthawi yomweyo. Zonse zomwe zinali patsogolo panga zinali zolakwika. Uwu unali mlandu waukulu wogwiriridwa ndi makolo ndipo ndimayenera kuyang'ana ana anga aamuna akukumana nawo. Bambo akugwira mwana wake wamwamuna, mwana akusangalala nazo ndipo mwana wamkulu akuthamangira kumalo otetezeka.

Ndinasweka, chifukwa nyumba yanga inalibe chitetezo. Ndinawauza onse awiri kuti zinali zosayenera. Mwana wanga wamng’ono anakhala wamanyazi ndipo ndinauza mwamuna wanga kukhala chitsanzo. Anangoseka nkupita kuchipinda chake.

Ana aang'ono ali pachiopsezo ndi chidwi

Sindikudziwa ngati ndikuchita zinthu mopanda pake. Mwinamwake erection inali yachisawawa komanso mwangozi, koma bwanji ngati kunali kuyankha? Ana a zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri ali ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa zambiri ndipo amadziwa za malo awo achinsinsi. Ndikudziwa kuti uyu ndi dokotala. Mwamuna wanga ndi wotsatira, motero malingaliro ake sasintha. Savomereza malingaliro a ena

Momwe amachitira zinthuzi ndi zosayenera komanso zachibwana. Zimandipangitsa kukhala wosamasuka komanso wokwiya. Ndakhala ndikulondera kunyumba kwanga zaka ziwiri zapitazi. Ndimafunanso kumutengera uphungu chifukwa ndikuona kuti pali vuto ndi iye.

Pali ubwino wa uphungu izo zikanamuthandiza iye. Koma kwa iye, uphungu ndi wa anthu odwala maganizo. Malinga ndi ine, kuwaseweretsa ana anu aamuna ndi matenda amisala. Kulera kwanga kwa ana kwakhala ndi malire omveka bwino a thupi.

Ngati safuna kupsompsonana, kukumbatirana, kupsopsona kapena kukumbatiridwa, ndimalimbitsa lamulo la m’banja lathu lakuti palibe amene amaumirizidwa kukhala wachikondi kapena wachikondi pamene sakufuna. Izi zinali zoonekeratu kuyambira ali makanda.

Monga dokotala, ndikudziwa motsimikiza kuti ana ndi achiwerewere komanso achiwerewere. Timawona kutukuka kwa anyamata kuyambira ubwana. Koma chimene akuluakulu ayenera kumvetsetsa n’chakuti kugonana kwa ana sikufanana ndi kugonana kwa munthu wamkulu. Sichigololo choyendetsedwa ndi mahomoni.

Chosowa chawo si kugonana, popeza alibe m'thupi galimoto. Chifukwa chake ndidayenera kuyang'ana ngati mwamuna wanga sangakhudze kugonana kwa akulu ndi mwana. Nthawi zonse ndinkalankhula ndi mwamuna wanga kuti asiyanitse chiwerewere chake chachikulu ndi anyamata. Ndinalephera pa zoyesayesa zanga zonse.

Kwa mayi ndi mkazi, ndizovuta

Monga mayi ndi mkazi, zandivuta chifukwa ndikudziwa kuti mwamuna wanga akulakwitsa ndipo ndiyenera kumutsutsa mwamphamvu. Choncho ndayamba kulimbikitsa ana anga kuti azilemba malire. Mwana wanga wamwamuna wamkulu, yemwe tsopano ali ndi zaka khumi zakubadwa, mwachiwonekere amakhala kutali ndi atate wake, pamene wamng’onoyo akadali wosokonezeka.

Kwa ine, zonsezi ndi chiyambi cha kubzala mbewu za chilolezo. Ndi za kuphunzitsa ana anga za matupi awo ndi moonadi matupi aliwonse omwe amakumana nawo. Kuchitiridwa nkhanza ndi makolo si chinthu chomwe ndingawalole kupirira. sindikufuna kuwasiya kuzunzidwa ndi ubwana.

Mwana wamkulu nayenso anasiya kulankhula ndi bambo ake ndipo samakhala pakhomo pamene bambo ake ali okha kunyumba. Akufuna kusamukira ku hostel chaka chamawa, zomwe ndikuganiza kuti ndi chisankho choyenera. Komano, nanga bwanji wachichepereyo? Ndikudziwa kuti, monga mayi, ndimachita zinthu mwanzeru ndikutumiza mwana wanga ku hostel m'malo mowongolera mwamuna wanga.

Ndaganiza zothana ndi mwamuna wanga mwamphamvu mwana wamkulu atapita ku hostel. Ndikudziwa kuti zikhala zovuta paukwati wanga, koma tsopano, monga mayi, ndiyenera kufunafuna chitetezo cha ana anga. Lekani mwamuna wanga asankhe zimene akufuna kuchita.

Chidziwitso kuchokera kwa mlangizi Jaseena Backer: Iyi inali nkhani ya dokotala-kasitomala wochokera ku Patna. Wachitapo kanthu ndipo wayankha mwauchikulire. Anatha kuzindikira nkhanza za ana ake aamuna. Iye anayesetsa kusintha maganizo a mwamuna wake poika malire kwa ana ake. Iye ankadziwa kuti ankafunika chitsanzo chabwino kunyumba. Potsirizira pake waganiza zotumiza mwana m'modzi ku chitetezo ndiyeno agwiritse ntchito mwamphamvu mwamuna wake.

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