Kwenzeka xa ndandineminyaka eyi-16. Wayena 17. Weza kwam emva kwemini xa wonke umntu elele. Siye satyibilika saya kwiterrace emva kwexesha elide sixakile, yadibana imilebe. Yayingengo kiss onzulu weFrench kodwa yipeki encinci eswiti endaweni yoko. Kodwa loo nkumbulo ndihamba nayo nakwiminyaka engama-30 kamva. Inkumbulo entle yam ukwanga kokuqala. Kwathi kusuku olusemva kokuncamisa okokuqala eyona ngcinga ibihlala ihleli engqondweni yam kukuba bekufanele ukuba sincamisene ixesha elide. Ndisahleka xa ndiyicinga.
Cofa apha ukuze ufunde: He was the perfect arranged umtshato match ndade ndamncamisa.
Inkumbulo yakho yendlela uthando lwakho lokuqala olujonge ngayo lunokuphela ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa ukwanga kokuqala akunakwenzeka ukulibala. Kwakunokuba kuhle okanye kumnandi, kodwa akunjalo imfezeko ukwanga oko kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngamajita phambi kokuba imilebe yethu ichukumise kwaye iphakame ikunike kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo ozikhumbulayo. Kwaye neengcinga esasinazo emva ukuncamisa kuphelile. Ndiqinisekile unganxulumana nabo bonke okanye ubuncinci abambalwa; Ndiyazi ukuba ndiyenzile! I kiss yam yokuqala ihleli engqondweni yam. Loo mvakalelo emva kokumanga ayilibaleki. Ingaba into yokuqala yokuncamisa ivakalelwa njani kwintombazana? Loo mvakalelo emva kokwanga kokuqala inokuba yasezulwini. Kodwa ke uqalisa ukucinga kwaye iingcinga ziyaqhubeka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezizayo.
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Acinga ntoni amantombazana emva kokuncanyiswa kokuqala?
Isiqulatho
Ingaba into yokuqala yokuncamisa ivakalelwa njani kwintombazana? Imvakalelo yokuqala yokuncamisa ayinakuthelekiswa nanto. Ihlala ihleli kwinkumbulo ngonaphakade, phantse rhoqo. Intliziyo impompoza ngamandla xa ikhumbula umzuzu wokuqala wokuncamisa, kwaye amabhabhathane abhabha esiswini ekhumbula isiqendu. Kwenzeka ntoni emva kokwangiwa kokuqala kudla ngokubakho ukugigitheka, uncumo, ukubethelwa phantsi kunye nokonwabela kancinci. Amava okuqala okuncamisa anentloko kodwa iingcinga ezilandelayo ziqhelekile zezi:
- Andiseyontombi encamisayo.
- Ngaba ndandilithuntu?
- Ngaba bekufanele ndisebenzise ulwimi oluninzi?
- Kodwa yayingavakali loo nto inomlingo
- Ndicinga ukuba ndiyamthanda
Okokuqala ukwangiwa kukukhumbula. Nokuba yayingamava amnandi kakhulu ebomini bakho okanye eyona imbi kakhulu, awusoze uyilibale ukwanga kwakho kokuqala. Iemvakalelo emva kokuqala kiss kuhlala ngonaphakade. Ukuqala kwakho ukubeka imilebe yakho emnandi komnye umntu kwaye ungcamle ubumnandi obuphefumlayo bomlomo weqabane lakho, ukubetha kwentliziyo okubalekayo akunakulibaleka. Kanye ngaphambi nje komzuzu, xa nobabini nijonge omnye komnye kwaye inkanuko yesini ikongamela izenzo zenu, nitsiba nizalisekise iminqweno yentliziyo yenu. Kungekudala kuza emva xa amathandabuzo kunye nokwaneliseka zifike zonke ngaxeshanye. Yintoni yonke ethi qatha engqondweni yakho?
The My First Kiss Feeling iza emva kweengcinga
Ziliqela iingcinga ezibaleka engqondweni yentombazana emva kokuncanyiswa okokuqala. Ngelixa iimvakalelo zokuqala zokuncamisa zibambezeleka, kusuku emva kokwanga kokuqala usacinga ngezinto ezithile. Ucinga ntoni ngokuncamisa kwakhe okokuqala? Siyakuxelela.
1. Andiseyo kiss virgin!
Ngoko ekugqibeleni yenzeka! Emva kokubukela zonke ezo zi-rom-coms, zonke ezo ziqhelo phambi kwesipili, uziva ungxamile emhadini wesisu sakho, ekugqibeleni uye wayazi ukuba kuvakala njani ukuncanyiswa okokuqala.
Yimvakalelo emangalisayo ngokwenene. Yinto ekufuneka uyixabise ubomi bakho bonke. Ezokuqala zibaluleke kakhulu. Imvakalelo yokuncamisa yokuqala iya kuhlala ingalibaleki.
Cofa apha ukuze funda indlela umzimba womfazi otshintsha ngayo emva kokuphulukana nobuntombi bakhe.
2. Ngaba ndandilithuntu?
Shit, ngendithathe itshungama phambi kokuncanyiswa! Bekufanele ndivale amehlo am yonke le ndlela? Bekumele ndibambe intloko yakhe ngenye indlela? Ngaba ndimenze waziva engaqhelekanga?
Ukunxulumana kakhulu? Oku kwenzeka emva kokwanga kokuqala. Iingcinga esinazo kwintsebenzo yethu zifika zibaleka engqondweni yethu zivavanya kwaye zihlalutya yonke intshukumo esiyenzileyo emva kokwanga kokuqala. Kodwa ntombazana, ubumtsha kulo mdlalo. Ke nokuba ubudelile, zipholele kwaye uqhubeke uziqhelanisa. Amava am okuqala okuncamisa axela okuninzi malunga nokuba iza kuba njani ukwanga kwixesha elizayo.
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3. Ngaba bekufanele ndisebenzise ulwimi oluninzi okanye ngaphantsi?
Ngaba ndisebenzise ulwimi oluninzi? Waziva ngathi ndizama ukumunca ubuso? Ngaba ndisebenzise ulwimi oluncinci kakhulu? Ngaba iyenze yavakala i kiss? Ndingalazi njani ulwimi endinokulusebenzisa!
Sonke siye sabhideka kumbandela wolwimi, kodwa njengoko siye sibengcono kwisebe lokuncamisasiyaqonda ukuba ukusetyenziswa kolwimi kuhambelana ngqo ne kumanga ungqamaniso phakathi kwezibini. Kodwa inyani ihlala imvakalelo yokuqala yokuncamisa iyoyikeka.
4. Kodwa ayizange ivakalelwe ngolo hlobo
Sancamisana kodwa andizange ndibone amagqabi ekwindla ebhabha ngalamzuzu ndivula amehlo. Ingqondo yam ayizange idlale iokhestra emva kokuncamisa kwam okokuqala. Iinyawo zam azizange ziphume. Umhlaba awuzange ubonakale unemibala emininzi emva koko. Ndandingenamdla wokucula nokudanisa ndijikeleza imithi ngomdla.
Ebomini, ukwanga kukuncamisa nje. Kwakungekho nto ifilimu ngayo kuba yayingabhalwanga! Kwihlabathi lokwenyani, abantu benza ukuncamisa kwindawo eqhelekileyo kwaye babhale iingoma malunga nayo emva koko ukuyenza ikhethekileyo. Kodwa kunjalo, intombazana ayikwazi ukucinga konke oku emva kokumanga kokuqala.
5. Ndicinga ukuba ndiyamthanda
Oko siye sancamisana ngoku kufuneka ndiyamthanda. Nguye owokuqala ukundincamisa kwaye ke kucaca nje ukuba bekukho uthando! Kuba ukuncamisa kuthetha ukuba siphantse saphuma, akunjalo? Kwaye ekubeni siyenzile, kuyavakala ukuba ndithandane naye. Kuhlala kwenzeka njalo.
Okanye uxelelwe! Sakhula kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba siqonde indlela imbono yethu ephosakeleyo ngayo kuthando kunye nokwenza ngaphandle. Kodwa intombazana encinci kuthi yayikholelwa kukwangiwa kunye, uthando olunye kunye nenkwenkwe enye kuye ngolonwabo ngonaphakade. Wayengenangqondo, kodwa inxalenye yethu isaphila kwiingcinga zobudenge awayenazo emva koko “My first kiss”.
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Indlela yokuphuza umntu? Indlela yokuphuza kakuhle? Le yimibuzo eya kuba nawe ngokuncamisa okulandelayo kodwa njengoko ixesha lihamba uya kukwazi ukuphendula amathandabuzo akho ngokwakho. Ngelixa uvakalelo lokuqala lokuncamisa luhlala amathandabuzo akwenza uhleke kamva ebomini.
Uye waziva njani emva kokuncamisa kwakho okokuqala? Umlingo, uyahlekisa okanye ubhidekile? Sixelele ibali lokumanga kwakho kokuqala kwizimvo ezingezantsi.
Umnikelo wakho awuquki isisa umnikelo. Iya kuvumela i-Bonobology ukuba iqhubeke nokukuzisela ulwazi olutsha nolwangoku kwiphulo lethu lokunceda nabani na osehlabathini ukuba afunde ukwenza nantoni na.
I kiss yam yokuqala yayikwi 14 kunye ne grade 8. I had a deep crush on a grade 9 guy. I had finially made my First Holy Communion that Sunday in may with class of 2nd graders. I was wearing my cute, poofy, short sleeve, top of the knees communion dress and veil with my white crushed anklets and shoes my white crushed about my half-party. my a card and figurine!After my party, we were alone,wandixelela indlela endikhangeleka ndimhle ngayo,wandiwola wandincamisa! I was so totally lost in the moment!After the kiss,waye wandiqinisa wanyusa isandla sakhe phantsi komva welokhwe yam yomthendeleko weva idiaper yam yelaphu neblukhwe yeplastic endandiyinxibe phantsi kwayo wabuza ukuba ndizinxibelani,ndamxelela ukuba zizinto ezinxitywa phantsi kweelokhwe ezimela ubunyulu bobhaptizo lwamantombazana xa besengabantwana.
intle kakhulu-
Hahahaha. I kiss yam yokuqala ibinzima. Eli nqaku bekufanele ukuba lifike ngexesha langaphambili LOL. Kodwa amanqaku anomdla kwaye aluncedo kakhulu apho. 🙂